Zarao ity
Betsaka ny zo sy andraikitry ny vehivavy amin'ny maha-vady ao amin'ny finoana silamo, ary raha arahina tsara Insha'Allah, manampy amin'ny fisorohana ny fifandirana ao an-tokantrano izy ireo. Manana zo maro ny vadiny, ny sasany voalaza etsy ambany:
1) Ho entina am-pitiavana:
Hoy i Allah Tsitoha, "... ary miaraha aminy amin'ny hatsaram-panahy." (An-Nisa': 19)
2) Hojerena, omena sy tazonina am-boninahitra sy haja:
Ny Mpaminany (ny fiadanana sy ny fitahian'i Allah anie ho azy) hoy izy tao amin'ny khutbah nandritra ny fivahiniana fanaovam-beloma: “Ny azy ireo (Am-behivavy) ny zo aminareo dia ny hanome izay ilain’izy ireo sy hampitafinareo azy araka ny antonony”.
Ny lehilahy dia tokony hihazona ny vehivavy araka ny fananany ary hanome ny vehivavy azy:
- Sakafo
- Fialofana
- FITAFIANA
- Fikarakarana ankapobeny
Allah Tsitoha dia tsy tia ny tafahoatra sy ny fahaketrahana, koa ny vehivavy dia tokony handinika ny fananan’ny vadiny fa tsy hangataka zavatra mihoatra noho izay ilainy, ary tsy tokony holavina noho ny fahantrany.
Mitazona vady amin'ny voninahitra sy ny fahamendrehana:
- Atao amin-katsaram-panahy sy ara-drariny
- Manaja azy ary tsy manambany na manala baraka azy amin'ny fangatahana ny zony
- Aza manimba azy ara-batana mihitsy, ara-tsaina sy ara-pihetseham-po
- Manome ny zo hisara-panambadiana ny vehivavy raha tsy tia azy ny lahy
3) Anisan'izany ny andraikitry ny vady:
- Tsy mamela ny olona hiditra ao an-trano izay tsy ankasitrahan'ny lehilahy
- Mikarakara ny entan’ny vadiny sy ny tokantranony
- Tsy fitazonana ny zo hanan-janaka aminy
- To beautify herself for her husband and to give him her full attention when he asks of it
- Being respectful to her husband at all times and not challenging him or being disobedient
Women are also known as the heart of the home, and should be treated as such. A good wife will ensure that she meets her husband’s expectations and looks after him so that he may Insha’Allah return the love and have mercy upon her. Toy izany koa, a good husband will ensure that he fulfils the rights of his wife without causing her any kind of injustice or emotional harm.
In the end, remember that Allah Almighty has made your husband the Ameer of the home, so honor this and be true to your responsibilities with patience and sincerity and Insha’Allah you will be rewarded many times over by Allah.
Source: www.PureMatrimony.com - Ny tranokalam-panambadiana lehibe indrindra eran-tany ho an'ny mpino silamo
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Subhanallah simple actions. Sometimes you do this and it gets you no where. Especially when you have an evil mother in law intent on making you both separate.
You can be the best wife but it amounts to nothing…. and your only reward is from Allah.
Andriamanitra anie hahatonga antsika ho isan'izay afaka mampiasa d advicê!