A faaite i tenei
Kaituhi: Nzingha Shabaaz
Puna: Whakarongo
Ko nga wahine a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) he maha nga wa e mohiotia ana hei tauira mo nga wahine Muslim hei whai. I te wa e whakawhiwhia ana nga wahine Muslim ki nga mahi e huri ana i enei wahine ki te whakaatu karakia, ta pūmau, Te pono me te ngohengohe. Heoi, ko te mea e kitea ana kua warewarehia i roto i te nuinga o te mea ko te nuinga o nga whaea o nga whakapono e tautuhia ana ko te ahua o tenei ra. Ko etahi o nga wahine nei e rua e whakarōpūtia ana hei kaupapa tuarua tuarua, e rua nga tamariki i mua i to raatau marena Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia). Ko nga mea katoa e kore e puta i nga tamariki katoa. Kia tirohia e tatou enei wahine.
Remedaa ': I marenatia ia ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) Kaore i roa i muri i te matenga o Khadiah, e toru tau i mua o te hijrah (heke). He wahine pouaru ia i marena i mua i a ia. He ripoata tautohetohe mo tana whai tamariki. Ko te hunga e kii ana kei a ia tetahi tamaiti e tohu ana i tetahi tama ki a ia. Kaore ia i whanau tamariki i a ia e marena ana ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia).
'AAIAHH: I marenatia ia ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) I taua tau ano ko Shoddaa ', Ahakoa kaore i marenatia tana marena tae noa ki muri i te heke ki Madinah. Ko ia te wahine taiohi a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) ko te wahine anake. Kaore ia i whanau tamariki i tana marena.
Hafsah: I marenatia ia ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) Ka mutu te whana i te wa i te wa o te pakanga o te Badr. E kiia ana ko ia i te tau tekau ma iwa i te waa. Kaore he tamariki i a ia i tana marena tuatahi ki Khumays B. Hudhafah a kaore ia i whanau tamariki i tana marena ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia).
"Masjid-ul-Aqsa": I moe ia i a muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) I te tau 4 Ah. I moe ia i mua ki te 'Abdullah ibn Abdul Asad me a raua tamariki tokowha nga tamariki, Zainab, Ora, Umr me Durra. I moe ia i a Muhammad i muri i te wa e whanau ana he pouaru, a ko Zaynab tonu. I whanau a ia kaore he tamariki ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia).
Zaynab bint jahsh: He whanaunga ia mo te muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) i mua i te mārena i tana tama i whāngai ake a Zayd Bin Thabit. I muri i te wehenga o Zayd i wehe ia ia i te 5ah i marenatia ia ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) na te ture o Allah. I whanau ia kaore he tamariki i tetahi marena.
Juwayriyyah: I marenatia ia ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) I muri i te pakanga o te awa i roto 5 A.h. I hopukina ia ka tukuna e Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia); Ka hurihia e ia ki Islaam me te tango i te poropiti (Te rangimarie me nga manaakitanga a Allah, Te Kaha, kia ki runga ia ia). I marenatia ia i mua i te wa o te Muslim ki a Malima’ Ibn Sacewan. I whanau ia kaore he tamariki i tetahi marena.
Umm Habibah: I moe ia i a muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) I te tau 7 A.h. I moe ia i mua ki te 'Ubaydullah Ibn Jahsh i huri i te whakapae i muri i te heke ki a Abyssinia. Whanau kotahi tana tamahine, Habibah i muri i tana hekenga ki abyssinia. Kaore ia i whanau tamariki i tana marena ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia).
Hapa: He Hurai ia, ka hopukia i te whakaekenga o Khaybar i 7 A.h. I tukuna ia me te huri ki te Islaam ka marena a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia). I marenatia ia i te rua o ana hurihanga i whanau ai ia kaore he tamariki i roto i tetahi marena.
Maymoonah: I moe ia i a muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) I roto i te 7ah. Ko ia te whakamutunga ki te marena e Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia). I marenatia ia i mua ki a Ma'sood Ibn 'amr Ath-thaqari me Abu Ruhm ibn' Abdul Uzza. I whanau tana tamariki i tetahi marena.
Ka taea e taatau te kii ko te raru momona kaore i takoto ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia). He tamariki tana wahine tuatahi ko Khadiah, tokowha nga kotiro me etahi tama tokorua. Kotahi ano tana tamaiti, Ibrahēheem, Ki a Maryam te pononga Copt i hoatu ki a ia hei taonga i muri mai 7 A.h.
Ka tango tatou i enei wahine hei tauira mo nga wahine e rereke ana i te take e tino aro nui ana etahi ki te kaha o te wahine ki te whaiwhai i a ia mehemea kua kore ia!! Tenei kei a matou te ora o Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) Ko wai te mea pai rawa atu o nga tauira, Heoi ano kei a tatou te hiahia ki te ine i te utu o nga wahine Muslim na tona kaha ki te whakaputa tamariki. Ehara i te mea karekau noa enei huanga engari ko te kimi i enei karekau e taea, Ko enei tauira o nga wahine Muslim kaore i hua i nga tamariki ki a Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia). ratou (Kia pai a Allah ki a raatau) Ka taea te tautuhi ko te koretake o te whakamarama o te ra noa o te ngoikore. Heoi ano, Muhammad (Kia tau te rangimarie me nga manaakitanga a Allah ki a ia) kihai i whakarerea, kihai ano ia i kata ki a raatau mo te kore tamariki. Ko to raatau mana hei wahine Muslim kaore i te whakatau i o raatau kaha me o raatau ngoikoretanga ki te whai tamariki. Kaore o maatau korero mo tenei he take i roto i enei wahine, Heoi ka waiho e matou he take i waenga i nga tokorua katoa mena ka tino mohio tatou ki a raatau.
Ko taku tumanako kia kitea e au katoa oku hoa rangatira i roto i te mahara o enei wahine. Ahakoa kaore i whanau he tamariki ma Muhammad (ma te Atua ia e manaaki, e homai te rangimarie ki a ia) Aroha ana ia ki a raatau ka whakawhiwhia ki a raatau kaore i rite ki etahi atu wahine i roto i a Ummah (Iwi Muslim).
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I wonder why having children is seen as a do-or-die matter. What if the children die before you? Would you kill urself? In my country, Nigeria, lots of women, even muslims, would do anything to have kids. From visiting spirituals and churches to commiting zina. Some things are beyond our control and the sooner we accept and rise above them, the better.
Kia tau te rangimarie ki a koe,
Thank you for such a beautiful article. Its very much informative. And that we should trust Allah and do not take to wrong path to fulfill our mere desires. I just want to make one point that, in this article you mentioned Zayd bin Thabit was the adopted son of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (Kia tau te rangimarie ki runga ki a ia). It needs to be corrected because our Prophet did considered Zayd as like his son, but he never ‘adopted’ him. Both have a vast difference.
D story on Infertility among d mothers of d believers is indeed an edifying n eye-opening experience 4 ahau. Im truly glad n grateful 2 u 4 disseminating dis hitherto unknown info. I believe a lot of people would benefit 4rm it. Tanx n God bless.
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu
I had always thought about this alhamdulillah first time actually find an article on it.
I just want to add that Aasiyah, the wife of pharoah, who is mentioned as one of the
three great women in a hadith, was also childless. Her husband was a ruthless king
yet she found in her to placate her husband, defy him even and bring up & nuture
an abandoned infant. She chose to adopt Musa (a.s).
As a sonologist (Scan Dr) i found myself confronted by many helpless couples making
scan visits month after month in vain. I would always encourage them to do lots of duas,
and not to give up, deciding their destiny for themselves, hei, was not Prophet Ibrahim (a.s)
dua not answered in his old age when his wife thought she was barren? So dont give up
hope and make plently of duas dear sisters.
But even as you wait for Allah to bestow you a child of your own, please do consider adopting.
I know its easy for me to say but extremely difficult for anyone to think of it in our society.
The prothet praised the virtues of looking after an orphan. Mothering is such an innate desire
a fitra insilled by Allah in every female. If not by giving birth, by nuturing a child somewhere
a musa can be fostered.
I apologise if i hurt somebody here. its my earnest wish that Allah bless every couple.
Dr.Mubashira.H