NIKAAH – Husband's obligations

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Have you ever pondered over the Khutbah which the Imaam recited to you before you enthusiastically uttered “Nakahtuhaa Wa Qabiltuhaa Wa Tazawwajtuhaa?”

Let us shed some light over this contract which you have made yourself party to, ara “The Nikah Contract.” The Imaam recited to you three verses from the Noble Qurãn:

– Surah Nissa (4) irava 1

“O Mankind Fear your guardian Lord who created you from a single soul, and He created from it its mate and from them He scattered many men and women.”

– Surah Aale Imraan (3) irava 102

O Ye who believe! Fear Allah as He should be feared and die not except in a state of Islam.

– Surah Ahahapa (33) irava 70

O Ye who believe. Fear Allah and make your utterances straight.

TAQWA:Ko te mea noa i roto i ia irava ko te kupu Arapi “Taqwa” (Te Atua Maharahara). I roto i enei irava ka whakamaharatia koe ki te wehi ki a Allah Taãla i runga i to mahi ki te wahine e tangohia ana e koe hei wahine mau.. Karekau he tangata hei kite i to ahua whakahaere i roto i to kainga. Ma te pono me te whakapono kei te titiro a Allah hei arahi i a koe i roto i to mahi mo te wahine i hanga e koe hei wahine ma te hoatu ki a ia te whakaute me te honore e tika ana mo ia..

Kua mauria mai e koe te tamahine a tetahi ki to kainga ake. I whakarerea e ia tona whanau, ona hoa, hoa tata me te maha o nga keehi tae noa ki te taone nui i tipu ai ia, a ka tae mai ia ki tetahi taiao rerekee noa ki te whakapuaki i te toenga o tona oranga ki a koe. I tukuna atu ia ki a koe hei whainga mo to tukino-a-tinana, a-waha?

Ko te Poropiti (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) e ai ki nga korero mo te maimoatanga o nga kararehe:

“Me wehi ki a Allah i roto i to maimoatanga o enei kararehe e kore nei e korero.” Mena koinei tana awangawanga mo nga kararehe, me pehea te nui o tana awangawanga mo te tangata; no reira, Ka taea e koe te whakaaro he aha tana urupare ki te wahine e patu ana i enei ra?

He aha nga mea tino nui o te marena harikoa? Ka kii a Allah Taãla i roto i te Surah Roum (30) irava 21.

“I roto i ana tohu kua hanga e ia he hoa mo koutou i roto i a koutou, kia noho marie ai koutou ki a ratou, a kua hanga e ia te aroha me te mahi tohu i waenganui i a korua. He pono kei roto nga tohu mo te hunga e whakaaro ana.”

Na teie here e te aroha e haapuai i te taamuraa o te faaipoiporaa. Te kaha ki te wareware tetahi ki tetahi”s he nui te haere ki te whakau i te whanaungatanga. I tetahi wa ka tae mai tetahi tangata ki a Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) ka mea,

“E Allah”s karere, kia hia nga wa e murua ai e ahau nga he o aku pononga.” Ko te Poropiti (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) Ko nga Taane Nga Kai-tiaki Wahine, “Kia whitu tekau nga wa i te ra e murua ai.” Mena ka nui te aroha o te kaimahi me pehea to hoa noho?

KAUPAPA O KOE:I tenei ra, he tino atawhai matou ki o taatau kiritaki, maioha ki o tatou hoa mahi me te harikoa ki o tatou hoa. Kia aroha mai, kare e tukuna atu tenei whakamahana ki te wahine rawakore e tino tika ana mo tenei manaakitanga me te ataahua. Ko te Poropiti (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) kua kii te korero, “Ko te hunga tino whakapono i roto i te whakapono ko te hunga tino pai. Ko te tangata pai o koutou ko te hunga e pai ana ki a ratou wahine.” (Mishkat)

He ngoikoretanga o ia tangata. Na reira he mea maori kia kitea tenei i roto i to hoa. Ko te Poropiti (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) kua tohutohu mai kia harikoa tatou ki te pai me te wareware ki te kino. Kua kore koe i whakaaro he maha nga tikanga kei a koe hei whakapouri i to wahine? Ua faaoromai paha oia ma te ore e hinaaro e haamauiui i to oe mana‘o.

Me hoki tatou ki te whakatutuki i nga hiahia o tenei kirimana.

A PAHIA I TAU WAHINE kia rite ki tau e pai ai ki to hunaonga ki te atawhai i to tamahine..
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