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Tau qhov twg los : aaila.org
Yog Misbah Akhtar
Qhov no ib zaug xwb Muslim niam yog ceev qhov ib prevalent ib; Nrog txoj kev sib nrauj rau tus sawv no mas, tsuas zajlus tias tej txheeb cais yuav tau thov muslim tsev neeg. Vim li cas ces lawv yuav tsis revered li lawv tsim nyog yuav thiab xwb ntsia li thiab scorned los ntawm ntau cov zej zog?
Yog nws yeej pom li kis tau tias cov ntxhais ntawm 'respectable' tsev neeg yuav tsum nyob deb ntawm cov poj niam nyob rau hauv rooj plaub lawv ib yam nkaus thiab, ntes nws? Vim li cas cov poj niam ua los xav humiliated thiab raug rho tawm ntawm lawv lub zej zog li yog hais tias lawv xaiv txoj kev no rau lawv tus kheej? Nyob uas tsis muaj kev xaiv tab sis mus taug kev tsis yog tib yam li rhuav tau ib lub neej zoo siab rau selfish vim li cas; Tsuas Allah paub qhov tseeb tseem tseeb thiab dab tsi yog nyob rau hauv ib tug neeg lub plawv ces vim li cas thiaj ua neeg xav tias?
Tsis muaj leej twg nug kom tau ib leej niam xwb, Nws yog ib txoj hauj lwm relentless; ua haujlwm 24 ib hnub, 365 ib xyoos; tsis them; thiab tsis muaj kev kawm yog muab. Koj tsis tau tawm thiab yuav tsum ua si lub luag hauj lwm ntawm leej niam thiab leej txiv. Lub siab uas koj fim los ntawm haiv neeg yog loj heev, Koj hnov tias sawv daws tos koj ua ib tug tsis ncaj ncees lawm uas, yog koj ua, Yuav ua rau lawv pouncing rau koj hais tias koj tus me nyuam twb muab tawm faulty vim tsis muaj leej niam txawj uas koj possesses – Nws yog vim li cas koj yog ib tug tsis hais lus xwb. Nws yog them rau qhov no vim li cas muaj coob leej niam xav tias raug rho tawm ntawm lawv lub zej zog; Lawv yuav tsis thov nej tsam ces hais txog lawv struggles nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev los console lwm cov poj niam, Theej lawv yuav ceeb toom kom ntsiag to thiab raug kev txom nyem ib leeg li tsis coj txaj muag rau lawv tsev neeg. Yog tsis muaj organisation nyob rau hauv qhov chaw uas lawv yuav mus pab los yog cia li mus ntsib lwm cov Muslim niam. Muaj cov organisations rau revert vivncaus, Cov neeg xav paub txog Islam, dawah muab charities rau Muslims, Txawm organisations rau cov neeg nyob ntawm kev tsim txom tshuaj tab sis ironically tsis muaj dab tsi rau vivncaus yug rau hauv ib tsev neeg Muslim uas yog ib leej niam xwb. Haiv neeg cia li assumes tias yog hais tias koj yog ib tug muslim niam uas koj tsev neeg yeej xav tias lawv lub luag hauj lwm thiab pab tawm; Uas koj muaj ib tug me nyuam-sitter rau thaum koj raug puab yuam ua hauj lwm thiab tias koj nyob hauv tsev nrog koj niam thiab txiv thiab tias koj txiv assumes koj nyiaj txiag tab kaum raws li nws meant rau Islam. Qhov no tsis yog ib txwm hais, Ib txhia poj niam tsis pub nyob rov qab mus tsev nrog lawv niam thiab txiv, Lawv yuav hais kom pw hauv lub txaj lawv ua vim lawv yuav tau nyob nrog lawv tus txiv txawm tias nws meant tolerating kev nruj kev tsiv thiab coj lawv kev puas siab puas ntsws. Cov poj niam no tsis yog txhais los ntawm lawv lub luag hauj lwm raws li leej niam; Lawv yog tib neeg beings ib yam nkaus thiab neeg yuav tsis nco qab txog qhov no.
Yog ib leej niam Muslim yog li txawv rau ib tug tsis-Muslim ib leej niam, Lub tom kawg yuav ua dab tsi kom paub tseeb tias lawv tus me nyuam fits thaum lawv tsis xav kom lawv tus me nyuam yuav singled tawm tej ntxiv; Ib muslim niam yuav tsum nyob tsis pub dhau nws ciam teb teev los ntawm Allah txhua lub sij hawm. Yog tsis muaj united pem lub taub hau ib tug txiv thiab thiaj li tsis 'zoo cop, phem'; Tsuas muaj nws tsuas muaj nws. Tej zaum cov me nyuam yuav ntxeev siab rau qhov no thiab ces leej niam yuav tsum tau ob leeg ruaj xws li ib leej txiv tab sis muag zoo li ib leej niam; Nws yuav tsum tsis meej pem rau ib tug me nyuam, Lawv yuav xav vim li cas lawv niam yog tag nrho ib tug cia li behaving xws li 'daddy' ib yam nkaus thiab. Nws yog ib leej txiv lub luag hauj lwm los tiv thaiv nws tsev neeg tab sis tam sim no ib leej niam yuav tsum tau txais ntawd lub luag hauj lwm thiab sim thiab muab lub cev kev ruaj ntseg thiab kev ruaj ntseg; Nws tsis tau qhia ntshai pem lub taub hau nws cov me nyuam. Nyob Islam ib tug poj niam yuav tsum tsis tau tawm tom qab tsaus nti rau lub sake ntawm nws tus kheej kev ruaj ntseg, Tab sis tam sim no, Yuav pab tsis tau yog hais tias cov me nyuam yuav tsum tau tos los ntawm madrasah los yog lwm yam kev ua ub no. Ib tug poj niam Muslim tsis pub kom tau ib leeg nrog ib tug txiv neej uas tsis yog-mahram txiv neej li yog kom meej meej teev nyob rau hauv lub hadeeth narrated los al-Bukhaari (1729) thiab Cov Muslim (2391) Ntawm Ibn 'Abbaas (Tej zaum Allah yuav txaus siab rau nws) leej twg hais tias: Tug yawm saub (Kev sib haum xeeb thiab blessings ntawm Allah yuav raws li nws) Hais: "Tsis muaj poj niam yuav tsum mus txawv tebchaws tsuas yog nrog ib mahram, Thiab tsis muaj txiv neej yuav tsum nkag mus raws li nws tsuas yog ib mahram ntawm nws yog tam sim no." Yog hais tias nws tus tswv-tsev yog ib tug txiv neej thiab xav tuaj hloov, los yog ib tug kws muaj tsev loj los yog plumber etc. Nws yuav tsum qhia rau nws nyob rau hauv; Yog hais tias nws twb tsis muaj kev them nyiaj yug nws yuav tsis muaj ib tug tij laug yuav muaj nrog nws. Cov poj niam yuav tsis pub mus ncig teb chaws ib leeg uas txhais tau tias tsis muaj hnub caiv rau tsev neeg, Cov kuffar tsis tau txais txoj cai no. Hauv tsev kawm ntawv, Ib leeg Muslim niam twb tsis muaj tus txiv cug nws rau lub taub hau xib fwb thaum nws ce nws txoj cai kom muaj nws tus me nyuam coj tawm hauv tej kev cai dab qhuas xws li Christmas assemblies thiab ob tog etc. sab hnub poob. Muslims raug kev txom nyem heev nyob rau sab hnub poob thiab tib Muslim leej niam uas paub tias muaj tsis muaj kev them nyiaj yug yuav pom raws li lub hom phaj yooj yim. Lawv yuav tsis muaj phab ntsa los pab lawv nrhiav tau ib tug txiv tshiab thiab sadly tsis yog txhua masjid tus nplooj siab pab nrhiav cov txij nkawm rau cov poj niam; dhau, Ib zaug Xwb Muslim niam pom ntau heev li 'puas ntsoog khoom'. Ib tug poj niam lam tau lam ua kom paub nws tus txiv vim li no tej zaum yuav tau preyed li los ntawm cov txiv neej siab phem los yog tej zaum yuav tsis tau saum lub whisperings ntawm shaytaan. Whilst muaj ntau cov kwv tij zoo muaj kam txais lub luag hauj lwm ntawm ib tsev neeg npaj-made tsev neeg, Ntau lawv honestly lees tias lawv niam yuav tsis zoo siab nrog qhov no vim hais tias ib tug kwv tij muab nws "leej niam yuav xav kom nws tus tub yuav sib nrauj thaum nws yuav ib tug nkauj xwb thiab muaj nws cov me nyuam nrog nws?"
Peb muaj cwj pwm ntawm Islamic keeb kwm ntawm ib leej niam (los yog leej niam uas tsa ceg lawv cov me nyuam ib leeg kheej) Cov me nyuam mus ua txiv neej zoo kawg thiab thiab cov cev Vajtswv lus; hajar, Niam uas yog tug yawm saub Ismail (pbuh), Maryam, Niam Uas Yog Ib Tug Cev Vajtswv Lus (pbuh), thiab Amina, Leej niam uas tug yawm saub Muhammad (pbuh), Tag nrho cov tsa ceg lawv cov tub ib leeg kheej. Kuj, Leej niam imam al-Shafi', Imam Ahmed thiab Imam Bukhari tsa ceg lawv tus tub ib leeg kheej, Tag nrho cov neeg uas tom qab los ua renowned nuj nqis uas tshuav ib feem loj rau lub ntiaj teb. Muaj coob leej niam yog kho siab thiab xav tau kev them nyiaj yug; Nws yog lub Ummah lub luag hauj lwm los pab lawv, Lawv tseem peb vivncaus nyob Islam, Tiam sis yog sawv daws shirks kom deb ntawm lub luag hauj lwm no ces uas yog tshuav pab cov poj niam? Lawv tau tshuav ib leeg ua hauj lwm ntawm ob tug neeg thiab tsim nyog coj tus qhuas. Organisations thiab privies charities yuav tsum tau nkag tau qhov twg pab yuav tau administered los yog tej zaum ib tug neeg ua hauj lwm tseem ceeb yuav tuaj hloov thiab zaum nrog leej niam thiab muab tswv yim. Cov pab pawg neeg no yog ib lub caij pib zoo; ib pab pawg neeg no Ib zaug Xwb Muslim mums – ib pawg muab kev txhawb rau leej niam ntiaj teb no uas hnov depressed thiab raug rho tawm thiab ib leeg kheej. Peb xav tau koj pab txhawb awareness rau cov struggles uas muaj ntau tib Muslim niam fim tas, Wb ua hloov thiab tau hloov peb xav pom.
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Tau qhov twg los : aaila.org
Hais txog tus sau phau ntawv : Kuv yog ib tug 31 ib leej niam uas muaj ib leej niam 2 cheeky liab uas ua rau kuv quaj quaj thiab luag tib lub sijhawm! Niam txiv tsis yog ib yam dab tsi uas kuv muab ib yam nkaus thiab yooj yim; Kuv yuav tsum tau nrhiav kuv txhais taw tab sis alhamdulillah kuv yuav tau muaj tam sim no. Kuv tam sim no rau ib lub hom phiaj los txhawb awareness rau tib Muslim leej niam uas muaj tsis muaj kev them nyiaj yug, Ib qho teeb meem kuv paub tag nrho ib yam nkaus thiab zoo. Kuv nyiam sau ntawv: dab neeg, paj huam, npau taws; Dab tsi! Kuv kuj hlub kawm txog tej yam tshiab, Txawm hais tias koj yuav zaum ntes kuv ua si Super Mario Galaxy ntau tshaj txhua yam! Kuv yuav hlub ntxiv kuv paub txog Islam insha'Allah ib hnub, Thiab rau kuv cov me nyuam yuav tsum mas cov tswv cuab ntawm lub zej zog Islamic. Ib yam kuv tau learnt ntau tshaj lwm yam los muaj ib lub neej nyuaj yog yuav tua thiab sawv ntsug rau dab tsi kuv ntseeg tias nyob rau hauv; Peb yuav tsum tau hloov peb xav pom. Yeej tsis muaj txoj kev ntseeg nyob rau hauv Allah swt, Koj yeej tsis paub thaum koj tig los ntsaws yog. Yog koj xav nyeem ntawv ntxiv ntawm kuv qhov chaw ua hauj lwm ces thov ua raws li kuv nyob rau ntawm http://://singlemuslimmums.wordpress.com/. Jazakhallahkul khair rau koj lub sij hawm thiab thov ua dua rau kuv thiab kuv cov me nyuam!
Jazak Allah Khair habebti, koj yog amazing niam…Peb ob leeg yog thiab ua hauj lwm nyuaj rau peb cov me nyuam ib leeg kheej ib leeg kheej thiab hwm. Yog muslim koj yog li ntawd, peb nyob rau hauv cov ciam teb thiab tsis tau muaj ib kauj ruam me ntsis tawm hauv lawv yuav zoo li ib tug txiv neej thiab tiv thaiv thiab tej zaum ua hauj lwm thiab deal nrog cov neeg pw ua ke. Ya rabbi qhov no yog ib qho nyuaj…Tiam sis alhamdulillah kuv muaj zog thiab yuav muaj tag nrho burden thiab qhia thiab nurture kuv cov me nyuam tsib yuav tsum amazing thiab muab thiab hlub. salaam alaykum sis.
Jazakallahukhair tus muam sib koom no nrog peb. Kuv yog ib tug ntev yuav tau ib leeg niam, Txawm tias kuv twb tau kuj nyob ntawd peev xwm ze li ntawm 2 yrs tam sim no. Koj tsab xov xwm muaj inspired kuv mus strive rau. Kuj, Paub txog tias muaj lwm tus uas muaj nyob rau hauv ib tug zoo xws li kuv xav tias tsawg li qhov khib ib tawm. Kuv thov Vaj tswv rau Allah tias peb yog tag nrho blessed nrog eeman, taqwa, muaj zog, siab ntev, perserverence thiab tag nrho lwm tus yuav tsum tau kom peb muaj peev xwm ua zoo Muslims peb tus kheej thiab peb yuav tau sau peb cov me nyuam ua zoo Muslims ntawm no rau ntiaj teb & hauv noafter. Ameen.
Ib leeg muslim poj niam
Im yog Muslim thiab kuv xav yuav nrog ib tug hluas nkauj kev cai dab qhuas,Tab sis nws yuav tsum nes mas hais Ius urdu rau kuv tsev neeg.
Kuv yog ib leej niam ib leeg yog Muslim 27 Xyoo thiab Am Pakistani yuav hais lus fluent Urdu xav yuav pab kuv tawm
Assalamu Alaikum muam,
Kuv yuav tswv yim koj qhib ib tug account hauv Pure Matrimony- http://purematrimony.com/ thiab ncej koj profile.
Ntuj Allah foom koob hmoov rau koj nrog ib tug txij nkawm ncaj ncees uas yuav ua rau koj jannah.Ameen.
Yog koj ua li ntawd, nyuaj heev rau peb nyob ua ib tug niam txiv tsis tau ua li ntawd.,tsis muaj tsev neeg,phooj ywg, Strangers ua hurtful lus, hais lus phem, txiav txim plaub neeg, luag rau koj, noj kom zoo dua koj thiab koj qhov teeb meem no. Txawm tias cov me nyuam yuav tsis tshuav ib leeg lawv hais, taunted, Yuav ua li cas ntxiv yog thaum tus niam txiv tsis tuaj nyob ua phem rau koj, siv tau rau cov me nyuam ua ib bait los ua rau koj txhob tsiv mus nyob u, tsis pab nyiaj txiag ntawm qhov tseem ceeb rau cov me nyuam. Ib txhia congratulate txiv neej uas txawm yog ob peb zaug sib nrauj, Leej txiv txawv cov me nyuam los ntawm ntau mariages thiab kev sib raug zoo mus sia mus thoob ntiajteb yuav cov ntxhais uas muaj hnub nyoog li nws cov me nyuam.
Rau ib leej niam nws yog ib tug hluas nyob ua ib tug niam txiv los yog laus laus los remarry nrog cov me nyuam. Alhamdulilaah thaum tsis muaj leej twg muaj rau kuv thiab kuv cov me nyuam Allah yog nws muab kuv tus txiv zoo uas twb tsis tsim nyog rau lwm tus vim nws twb tsis wealthy tab sis rau peb nws muaj nqis ntxiv ces kub.
Uas kawg paragraph yeej muaj ib tug nyhuv rau kuv! Ntuj Allah ua nws yooj yim rau peb tib muslimahs muaj sia.
Dearest muam nyob Islam
Kuv tau nyeem koj xav provoking tsab xov xwm. Kuv admire dab tsi koj tau hais raws li nws muab qhov tseeb li cas cov poj niam uas yog ib zaug xwb, scorned thiab frowned li. Kuv empathise nrog koj raws li kuv tau nyob rau hauv ib lub caijnyoog twg li koj qhov twg koj yuav tsum juggle ntawm ib leej niam thiab leej txiv. Nws tsis yooj yim. Ntuj Allah grant peb sabr ntxeem cov struggles thiab nqi zog peb nyob hauv lub hererafter. Ameen Do koj kab tias paub txog tej pab pawg neeg
Jazakallah sau ntawv thiab aharing no tus muam kuv yuav tam sim no tab sis rau 6 Xyoo kuv yog ib tug muslim niam. Txhua yam uas koj tau sau tau rings thiaj li muaj tseeb. Yeej pom zoo ntxiv xim yuav tsum tau teem rau kev pab es ostrasizing ib zaug xwb Muslim niam. Thankyou dua x
assalamaleikum kuv dear vivncaus,Ib tug poj niam muslim,Thiab kuv ntseeg tias nyob rau hauv Allah,Qhov no tsis yog ib cuav xwm nws txoj hauj lwm tawv tab sis nrog Allah Subhanna uttallah peb tsis muab nws cov reponsibilities,Chav rau kuv fulliest saib kuv cov me nyuam yog lawv xav tshuaj,Txawm tias kuv twb tau snatched kuv cov me nyuam los ntawm kuv tab sis Allah yog nrog kuv ib txwm. Tsaug ansd Jazallahukhair tus muam sib koom nrog peb.pls kom muab peb kev them nyiaj yug thiab tswv yim. ua kom tau
Salam vivncaus. Yog tsis yog ib zaug xwb mums uas fim prejudice. Kuv yuav ib tug txiv neej zoo hamdulillah uas yog sib nrauj thiab muaj ib tug hluas nkauj zoo nkauj los ntawm nws lub neej yav dhau los. tu siab, Nws ex muaj twisted cov fabric ntawm peb kev cai dab qhuas thiab tsis pub ntau hu nrog nws tus ntxhais. Nws poob txhua yam rau nws cia li hais rau nws tus me nyuam ib zaug ib lub lis piam pom nws ib zaug txhua ob lub lis piam. Nws tseem mob heev tshaj thaum nws tau mob. Nws xav tau nyiaj. Tau txais ib lub tsev, Tsheb tshiab thaum peb nriaj rau txhua lub hlis. Kuv tau nug hais rau nws ces ntau zaus, Cia li hais Salam. Tab sis nws rejects txhua txoj kev friendship. Li ntawd, nws tseem tsis tau mums uas raug kev txom nyem. Muaj cov vivncaus muaj sia uas nqa txaj muag rau Muslim vivncaus.
Kuv vam tias kuv tsis offended tej ib tug. Kuv thov zam txim yog hais tias kuv muaj. Salam
Kom, Muaj cov vivncaus muaj sia uas muaj behavin heev. Tiamsis, Qhov uas peb lub ntiaj teb thiab cov zej zog yog teeb, Txiv neej tsis fim tib prejudices uas cov poj niam ua. Lawv yuav tsis tsim txom los ntawm cov neeg uas pom lawv li ob hoob kawm pej xeem. Nws muaj nws ib qhov txawv loj loj. Ib tug txiv neej yuav tsis tsim qhov no nyob rau hauv peb lub neej. Thaum qhov teeb meem no yog ib qho nyuaj rau koj, Nws tsis yog tib yam.
Jazakallah sau tsab xov xwm no. Ib zaug xwb tsis hais lus 3 cov me nyuam hnub nyoog 16 Thiab 14 Thiab 7. Rau tag nrho cov mums muaj sia kuv coj kuv lub kaus mom rau koj ladies. Peb zoo siab rau cov niam txiv. Nws txoj hauj lwm nyuaj ua si tsis hais lus thiab dad. Ntuj Allah ua yooj yim rau peb sawv daws.
Asalmu Alkum Vivncaus & Koj txog haujlwm Muslim kwv tij,
xub thawj, Kuv xav ua tsaug rau koj qhib kuv ob lub qhov muag!
Zoo li u hais nyob rau hauv koj tsab xov xwm kuv ib txwm assumed tias tib mulim mums yuav tig rau lawv tsev neeg tab sis kuv realise tias MAS NWS YEEJ TSIS NCO NTSOOV ROOJ PLAUB! Kuv yuav nco ntsoov thov vaj tswv rau lawv thiab tej zaum Allah grant lawv paradise inshallah! Kuv ib txwm hais rau cov neeg uas koj tsis yws txog koj txoj hauj lwm raws li txoj hauj lwm hardest nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no yog ib tug tsis hais lus heev tshaj dua thaum koj nyob nraum ib leej niam ua si ob cwj pwm. Kuv Congratulate thiab applaud tag nrho ib leeg niam nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb! Kuv yuav sau ib tug 1000 lo lus essay rau li cas koj tau pab kuv nkag siab & emphatise dab tsi nws nyiam ua ib zaug Xwb Muslim niam! Kuv tsuas pab los raising cov awareness ntxiv nyob rau hauv kuv lub zos mosque thiab kis tau cov lus mus rau lwm Muslims.Kuv xav tias lub npe no yog ib lub npe taboo nyob rau hauv tej zej zog. Kuv thov vaj tswv thiab inshallah yuav hopefully yuav hopefully yog ib qhov chaw pab los yog ib co sib sau ua ke uas yuav muab qhov chaw nyob mosque los yog txheej xwm uas tib Muslim mums tuaj ua ke muab lawv txhawj xeeb,teeb meem thiab sib tham sib. Kuv vam tias thiab thov vaj tswv ib hnub uas koj nrhiav tau ib tug ncaj ncees,hwm,TLC muslim tus txiv uas yuav tu rau koj tus kheej thiab koj cov me nyuam! kawg, Kuv tsis tau thankyou txaus qhib kuv ob lub qhov muag!
AslamAlekhum
Kuv yog ib tug tsis hais lus thiab dad rau 4 zoo nraug, tiam sis cheeky tub, zawv plab. Kuv paub xyov zoo li cas nws pom tau tias zoo li muaj tsis muaj tsev neeg ntawm kuv tus kheej pab thiab yuav muab khaws cia rau kuv tus kheej. Peb tau rau peb tus kheej rau ib lub sij hawm ntev, Tab sis tam sim no nrog kuv eldest tau 17, MashAllah, tej yam yooj yim. Peb muaj peb thawj nyiaj so koobtsheej tsaib no thiab InshAllah yog npaj ua Umrah sai heev yog Allah xav nws.
Tej yam zoo li nyuab dua thaum koj nyob ntawm koj tus kheej thiab peb yuav tsum tau sib pab sib npaug li ntau tau.
Kuv thov vaj tswv tias Allah ua rau peb tag nrho cov muslim niam, inshallah
Assalaamu'Alaykum,
Qhov no yog ib tug ncej zoo, alhamdulillah. Kuv yog innocently sib nrauj ntawm 22 Xyoo thiab tshuav sau peb tus tub ib leeg uas cia li muab 1 taus thaum lub sij hawm. Kuv qhia rau koj yog ib lub sij hawm nyuab heev, Thiab nrog txwv txhais tau tias kev them nyiaj yug nws twb tau nyuaj heev. Tiam sis, Allah yeej ib txwm muab, alhamdulillah. Qhov no yog zoo saib ib pab pawg neeg ua. Alhamdulillah, Kuv muaj remarried, thiab kuv muaj kev them nyiaj yug tam sim no, Tab sis kuv xav tias muaj ib yam dab tsi li no rov qab rau lub sij hawm ntawd. Nws tau raug 7 xyoo tam sim no, thiab ib lub sij hawm tawv. Alhamdulillah, Allah lawm gracious unto peb. Ntuj Allah qhov chaw comfort rau cov vivncaus uas yuav tsum ntxeem lub sij hawm no.
insha'Allah, Allah yuav pab peb ua muaj zog thiab zoo dua. Ameen!
feeimanAllah.
KUV PAUB TIAS YOG IB QHO NYUAJ RAU IB ZAUG XWB MUSLIM NIAM TAB SIS INSHALLAH LOS NTAWM NWS GRACE ALMIGHTY
ALLAH YUAV UA RAU NWS YOOJ YIM RAU U.S. JAZAKHALLAH KUL KHAIR MUAM RAU DIS ZOO NKAUJ TSAB XOV XWM NTUJ ALLAH SWT ENRICH U PAUB THIAB TXOJ KEV NTSEEG. AMEEN.
Asalaamualikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakhatahu,
Jazakhallahkul khair tag nrho rau nyeem kuv tsab xov xwm thiab rau koj cov lus zoo nkauj mashallah. Thov kom kis tau lo lus thiab sib tham txog qhov no kom ib hnub insha'Allah peb yuav hloov qhov uas neeg pom ib zaug Xwb Muslim mums. Rau tag nrho kuv tus muam ua rau koj tus kheej, Koj muaj kuv hlub thiab kev them nyiaj yug thiab yog hais tias koj xav tau ib qho chaw mus tham los yog cia nws tag nrho ces thov koom kuv pawg: http://www.facebook.com/groups/singlemuslimmums/. Saum toj noj tag nrho, Yeej tsis believing hauv Allah swt txawm tias thaum koj dawm hla lub sij hawm nyuab vim tsis muaj dab tsi kawg ib si!!
Al Salam Alykoom ..
Kuv nyeem ib co ntawm koj tsab xov xwm los ntawm kuv lub xov tooj me me quav, Ob peb hnub dhau los, Tab sis hais tau nyob rau hauv kuv lub siab puas puas uas kuv thaum kawg tau mus rau kuv laptop nyeem qhov tseem tshaj plaws… Ib yam li ib tug ntawm cov vivncaus hais “Ua tsaug rau qhib kuv ob lub qhov muag!” Kuv yeej ua tsaug!! Kuv yeej tsis paub tag nrho ib zaug xwb Muslim niam yuav mus txog rau thaum kuv nyeem koj tsab xov xwm… Yog kuv xav tias nws yuav nyuaj, Tab sis yeej tsis imagined nws yuav ua li ntawd.. Kuv yog ib tug poj niam alhamdolilah, Tab sis puas tau acquainted nyuam qhuav nrog ib tug phooj ywg muslim.. Kuv tus phooj ywg nyob zoo feem ntau qhia kuv txog nws struggles uas nws mus txog.. Nws yog ib tug tshiab convert los ntawm txoj kev… Thiab tag nrho kuv yuav ua tau muab nws cov tshooj lus me ntsis txog islam, Teb ib txhia nws cov lus nug thiab cia li admire li cas brave thiab muaj zog nws yog rau txojkev tag nrho cov khoom vwm nws mus txog! Kuv thov vaj tswv tias Allah ua rau nws yooj yim rau tag nrho koj muaj sia… thiab kuv thiaj li mus rau hauv cov kawm no thiab txhawb cov pab pawg neeg no… nrog txhua yam kuv tau!! lwm yam uas kis tau awareness, Kuv yuav ua li cas tiag tiag?? Kuv thov txim tias kuv yuav muab tua me ntsis… Raws li kuv tsis yog ib qho xwb..
Asalaamualikum vivncaus,
Kuv yeej txaus siab rau koj cov lus jazakhallahkul khair.
Kuv cia li xav caw cov vivncaus uas xav tau kev pab los yog xav pab lwm tus hu rau kuv misbah.akhtar66@gmail.com. Muaj ntau txoj kev uas peb yuav pab vivncaus insha'Allah thiab yog hais tias koj xav ces kab tias peb yuav tham txog qhov no ntawm email. Tej suggestions yog tiv thaiv txais tos thiab thov nej tsam ces.
Jazakhallahkul khair rau koj lub sij hawm, Thov xyuas ob leeg aaila.org thiab kuv blog singlemuslimmums.wordpress.com rau cov txheej txheem tshiab thiab posts.
Asalaamualaikum.
salam alaikum, Ua tsaug rau tsab xov xwm no raws li kuv twb nyeem qhov no nws coj kua muag rau kuv ob lub qhov muag ua ib 22year qub Muslim niam uas muaj txoj kev ntseeg me ntsis thiab paub nyob islam kuv muaj li tsis muaj leej twg to taub kuv. Kuv twb sim nrhiav kev npliag los ntawm kuv tus muam, Tsis tau tus comfort kuv xav tau ces kuv los ua depressed thaum lub sij hawm kuv nrhiav tau kuv tus kheej txawm xav txog yus tua yus ua ib txoj kev tawm. Kuv thankful rau tsab xov xwm no dua xav tias koj. Salam alaikum.
Vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau kev kho mob zoo heev & wealth. Thov cia muaj kev vam meej rau koj tsev neeg nrog Vajtswv tej koob hmoov uas Vajtswv pub rau koj. Koj tsab xov xwm muab qhov tseem ceeb rau cov poj niam tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ib leej niam nyob ib ncig ntawm lub ntiaj teb. Kuv ntaub ntawv nyiam koj cov lus uas muaj kev paab tus nqi. Zoo siab tau ib zaug xwb tsis hais lus uas yuav pom rau lub ntiaj teb uas peb muaj qhov tseem ceeb nyob rau hauv peb & Yuav ntsaws ib hnub nrog cov blessings ntawm Allah. Cia peb kawm ntxiv txog koj tsab xov xwm uas yuav ua rau cov poj niam zoo dua. Ua tsaug. Saib xyuas koj tus kheej.
Qhov no yog ib txoj kev muaj tiag uas tsis zoo xwb cov Muslim, Tab sis ntiaj teb haiv neeg yuav tsum muab ib lub ntsiab txhais. Ntawm tej kevcai lij choj, cov poj niam tab kaum countless lub luag hauj lwm, thiab npaum li cas txiv neej tsis raug kev txom nyem nyob rau hauv ib lub cais, kog hnov cov neeg mob nyob rau hauv ib tug poj niam abandoned nws tus txiv, Tab sis yog kuv hnov lwm txoj kev nyob ib ncig ntawm , Li ntawd, lub txim thiab nyob, Feem ntau lawv nyob nrog cov poj niam nyob hauv ib lub cais.
Nyob zoo,
Ua tsaug rau koj tsab xov xwm. Kuv kuj tsis yog ib cov Muslim, Tiam sis yog nrhiav cov lus qhia txog yuav pab kuv Muslim tom ntej no neighbour. Nws yog ib leej niam uas muaj ib leej 3 menyuam zoo nkauj. Kuv tau pab nws los ntawm tsav nws thaum twg nws yuav tsum tau mus los yog babysitting nws cov me nyuam rau nws. Nws muaj thanked kuv rau qhov kev muaj tab sis muaj yeej tsis noj kuv rau nws.
Kuv tsis paub tseeb txog dab tsi tshwm sim nyob rau hauv nws lub neej los yog yog hais tias nws tsev neeg yuav pab nws, Uas yog tsis muaj kuv lub lag luam. Kuv cia li xav kom nws hnub rau lub neej me ntsis yooj yim. Kuv muaj ob tug me nyuam ntawm kuv tus kheej thiab xav thov ua tsaug rau cov kev them nyiaj yug uas kuv tus txiv muab kuv raising peb cov me nyuam.
Zaj no tau ua kuv pom tias muaj cuab kev cai dab qhuas kev cai dab qhuas rau nws tsis tau txais kuv pab. Kuv nyuam qhuav muaj ob peb lo lus nug. Kuv tus txiv nrog nws tus txiv yog hais tias nws yuav tsum tau tawm mus? Los yog nws tsuas lwm Muslim txiv neej? Kuv muab kev pab nws nyob hauv lub vaj zaub los yog qhov no pom raws li ib tug insult los yog ib txoj hauj lwm rau ib tug txiv neej?
Kuv xav pab. Kuv vam tias kuv tsis tau offended tus twg los tau uas kuv ignorance ntawm cov Muslim txoj kev ntseeg. Kuv yuav nyiam paub ntau thiab ua hauj lwm nyob rau hauv cov boundries pab kuv zoo nkauj neighbour. Kuv yog los ntawm Australia yog qhov no ua rau muaj qhov txawv.
thankyou.
Hi TM,
Kuv xav pib ntawm commending koj nyob ib hom thiab hlub humanitarian, Tej yam uas yog sadly tag nrho ib yam nkaus thiab tsis tshua muaj nyob rau hnub no lub neej. Yog tsis muaj kev cai dab qhuas vim li cas tus muam no tsis txais koj kev pab, Kab tias nws cia li pom tau tias txaj muag los yog tsis xav kos xim rau nws tus kheej, Los yog tej zaum nws tsis xav tias nyob rau hauv tej kev pab xav tau kev pab. Yog, txawm li ntawd los, Koj xav tias nws yog chav ces koj yuav ua tau ntau yam: Cia nws paub tias koj muaj rau koj yog hais tias nws xav tau nws (Tej zaum cia li paub ib tug neeg zov me nyuam, pab heev), Nco ntsoov qhia nws maj mam muaj siab ntev thiab tias Allah tsis tab kaum tej plig ntau tshaj li lawv yuav kov; Thiab tej zaum kuj pav cov Muslim mums pab pawg neeg: http://www.facebook.com
/pawg/singlemuslimmums/ qhov twg peb muaj zoo nkauj vivncaus uas muaj ob yam kev them nyiaj yug thiab tswv yim.
Tej nuj nqis koj tus txiv los yog tej muslim txiv neej yuav nrog nws tawm tsuas yog nws yog nws: Tus Txiv, Tus tub, foster/adoptive tub/ step-son, Txiv, Yawg, txiv ntxawm, Tus tij laug, kwv tub, yawm txiv los yog tus tub tais. Cov txiv neej no hu ua mahrams thiab yog txiv neej koj yuav tsis tau sib yuav (nyob rau hauv rooj plaub ntawm ib tug txiv koj twb sib yuav) Yog li ntawd, tej zaum lawv yuav nrog ib tug pojniam sib raug zoo.
Ib qho kev pab nyob rau hauv tej hom ntawv no yeej tsis muaj insult li koj intentions yog ntshiab thiab yog pab nrog garening yog zoo thiab nws tsis pom raws li ib txoj hauj lwm rau ib tug txiv neej.
Tus taw tes uas paub yog kis tau rau ces tsis xav tias phem yog hais tias koj tau ignorant rau tej yam vim hais tias yog li cas peb yeej kawm thiab tsawg kawg yog koj twb tsis ignorant rau lub Disease fact tias tej zaum yuav muaj ib tug poj niam uas xav tau koj pab!
Tos lub Qur'an thiab nyeem nws kuj yog ib txoj kev zoo to taub qhov twg tus muam no yog los ntawm thiab yog hais tias koj xav xa ib daim qauv ces cia li qhia rau kuv paub.
Thaum kawg, Thov hu rau kuv yog hais tias koj muaj ntau queries los yog tua rau tswv yim txog kev pab! x
Qhov tseeb txog yog ib leeg Muslim niam yog tias feem ntau lawv tsis txais polygamy, thiab li no nrhiav tau lawv tus kheej nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem no.
Thaum lub sunnah txais nkaus thiab muab tso rau hauv xyaum tej yam uas yuav txhim kho insha Allah, Mus txog rau thaum ntawd los kom dreaming rau ib tug tub huabtais rau ib tug nees dawb tab sis nws tsis los. Qhov tseeb nws poob ntawm tus nees thiab tuag.
Tus muam hlob, Yog tsis yooj yim yog nws? Tsis yog txhua yam kuv yeej muab tau rau 2 los yog ntau yim neeg, Kuv niam txais nws thaum kuv dad remarried, tshwm sim? Kuv ib nrab hnub thiab muam/viv ncaus ib txwm muaj nyiaj ntau dua los ntawm kuv dad, Nws yog nicer rau lawv thiab kuv twb pom lawv yuav hu nws anytime thiab thov nws lub sij hawm, xim thiab nyiaj, Peb tsis tau ua ntawd! Peb ib txwm sawv ntsug ntawm ceremony nrog nws ces thaum kawg kuv yuav ntshai yuav neglected yog kuv tus txiv mam li nco dheev txiav txim siab ti tau sib yuav dua, li no ua ib tug ntawm peb nyob ntawm lub xeev, tiag? yog tias nyiaj txiag lub luag hauj lwm?
Subhan Allah
Qhov no yog ib qhov muag-qhib tsab xov xwm maasha'Allah
May As-Salaam muab koj thiab koj cov me nyuam kev sib haum xeeb thiab zoo siab, Tej zaum Al-Wahaab muab rau koj thiab kuv Al-Waliyy tiv thaiv koj thiab koj cov me nyuam thiab tej zaum Al-Wakeel ua tag nrho koj affairs yooj yim.. Tej zaum koj cov menyuam yuav loj hlob tuaj pab tau ummah
Inaha'Allah koj yuav muaj nqi zog heev nyob rau hauv cov Hereafter rau tag nrho koj struggles
Beautifully hais tias. Ntuj Allah muaj mercy rau peb vivncaus, Lawv yeej lub backbone ntawm peb haiv neeg, tuav nws ua ke los ntawm ib tug thread, Tab sis yeej tsis cia mus. Ntuj Allah tiv thaiv koj thiab ua rau nws yooj yim rau koj. Rau tus sau phau ntawv: Ib txhiab ua tsaug koj sau ntawv no. Nws qhib kuv ob lub qhov muag.
Asalam alaykum, Kuv tau ib leej niam rau plaub xyoos thiab muaj tsis regrets. Kuv xav tias xyoo kuv tau muaj zog thiab kawm lub ntiaj teb peb nyob tsis zoo! Kuv tsis tau hnov tag nrho cov uas koj tau hais nyob rau hauv tsab xov xwm no, Raws li alhamdullah kuv muaj ib tsev neeg txhawb tsev neeg thiab kuv kuj tsis yog neeg Esxias. No mas, kuv cov vivncaus Esxias muaj nws mob heev ntxiv . Kuj nco ntsoov rov qab yog kuv tus phooj ywg Esxias zoo tshaj plaws uas yog tiv thaiv kuv txoj kev sib nrauj thiab peb friendship twb rau ntawd nco ntsoov. Nyuas nkawd ua si ib lub luag hauj lwm nyob li cas koj yuav kho tau, Nws lub sij hawm rau cov neeg tsiv mus nyob nrog lub sij hawm!
Asalam alaykum , Kuv yog ib tug revert thiab kuv xav tias kuv muaj tej yam nyuaj thaum kuv reverted , tsev neeg tej qhov nqaij. Tab sis nyeem ntawm no kuv pom tias vivncaus uas yog ib leej niam muaj ib lub sij hawm nyuab dua , Nws lub txaj muag muaj tsis pab rau cov vivncaus uas yog leej niam nrhiav tau cov kwv tij zoo kom cov txiv zoo ,
Insha 'Alla koj yuav tau rewarded.
AslamAlekhum, ua tsaug rau tsab xov xwm inspiring. Raws li tus tswv ntawm ib triving tib Muslim yos thiab matrimonial qhov chaw kuv xav noj caij nyoog los xav SingleMuslimism.com ntawm http://www.singlemuslimism.com.
hi vivncaus assalamualaikum. Tom qab muaj lus ntau kuv muaj ib yam dabtsi ntxiv qhia . Kuv pom zoo nrog nej sawv daws. Ntau hlub rau tag nrho ib zaug xwb Muslim niam.. Kuv kuj nyob rau hauv ib lub caijnyoog twg tawv. Kuv tus txiv tsis coj tej hauj lwm ntawm kuv thiab kuv tus me nyuam thiab nws muaj ntau yam phem. Peb tsis nyob ua ke. Kuv tsis ruaj nrog nws. Kuv xav nyob kuv lub neej nrog tus me nyuam. Kuv yuav delete ib feem ntawm kuv tus txiv lub npe ntawm kuv tus tub lub npe? Thiab li cas yuav tsum kuv khaws kuv tus tub lub npe nyob rau hauv ib cov Muslim
Ke? Kuv yuav tso dab tsi ntawm kuv tus txiv. Kuv nyob nrog kuv niam thiab kuv tus tub thiab kuv tus tub. Nws yog nws 4 laus. Pls hais kuv.
Jazakallah rau tsab xov xwm no. Tshiab khiv niam (Txawm tias nws tau tus niam, dad, Txiv neej, ua noj, tiam sis etc rau tag nrho cov txij nkawm) Thiab tsab xov xwm no yeej muab kuv lub dag lub zog.
Kuv yog ib tug uas tab tom sib nrauj ,Kuv ex yog serial liar thiab kuv muaj loj loj tsis ntseeg nws khib rau kuv,Thaum nws tshuav peb tus me nyuam yog 1 Hli,Kuv yog ltrying txhua hnub kom tau qhov zoo tshaj plaws kuv yuav tab sis nws nyuaj rau ib leeg nyob hauv lub teb chaws Muslim,Tseem nyob rau hauv kuv lub plawv kuv paub kuv ua qhov kev txiav txim raws li kuv ex tom qab ob peb lub hlis yog nyob nrog ib tug hluas nkauj muslim hauv haram??!!
Zaj no pab tau peb li cas. Kuv kuj tsis yog ib leej niam tab sis kuv yuav empathise nrog lub outcast mentality uas mus nrog nws. Thov coj comfort tias tus cwj pwm koj piav yog maj mam qhov outdated nrog cov tiam tom ntej no tiam tom ntej no thiab neeg muaj qhib minded. Kuv vam tias lub neej tau zoo rau koj kuv'A. Kev sib haum xeeb x
Kuv tau raug muab cais los ntawm kuv cov me nyuam txiv rau 1 Xyoo, Nws yog molesting cov me nyuam li no xav tau kev sib cais, Kuv yuav txheeb rau ntau dab tsi lawm hais ntawm no, tsev neeg yog cov uas tsis yog muaj tshwm sim.
“Raws li ntau tsev neeg, Cov poj niam yuav tsum ua xijpeem nws yuav siv sij hawm ua ntawd lub neej ua hauj lwm. Li ntawd, yog ib feem ntawm nws yog muab nrog kev tsim txom, Nws yuav tsum vim hais tias tsev neeg qauv yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws thiab ces thaum ib tug poj niam yoojyim txhua leej txhua tus pom tau tias nws cov plaub ntug kom nws xav tias nws tsis tau ua nws.
Koj yuav pom raws li ib tug poj niam phem rau tawm hauv koj tus txiv tsim txom, Neeg yeej tuaj rau koj lub tsev, cov me nyuam yuav mus ob tog, Koj yuav tsis muaj ntawd kev network ntawm cov neeg los nyob ib ncig ntawm, Koj poob ntawd muaj feem rau lub zej zog.”
“Ob tug pertinent kev thiab kev cai contructs Izzat (honour) thiab Sharam (txaj muag) Tej yam yuav muaj feem xyuam rau tsev neeg behaviour, Cov duab pej xeem cov duab ntawm tsev neeg tseem ceeb tshaj ib tug neeg kev ruaj ntseg”
“Qhov uas los tsoo no notion ntawm 'honour’ thiab 'txaj muag’ Yog hais tias ib tug neeg yog nqa lub txaj muag rau tsev neeg. Nws hais txog sim hloov lub txaj muag rau tej yam ntawm tus perpetrator”.
“Kuaj cov Quran… Tawm hauv koj tus txiv koj tseem yog ib cov Muslim zoo…Nws hais txog transferring lub txaj muag rau nws. Nws yog ib tug uas tau ua raws cov ideologies ntawm txoj kev ntseeg thiab phau ntawv”.
Peb tsuas nqa txog kev hloov nyob ib ncig ntawm peb tus kheej.
Jazakallahukhair tus muam
Salam alaykum kuv cov muslim vivncaus thiab cov kwv tij,
Kuv txaus siab heev saib koj kev siv zog hauv raising khiav ntawm qhov no raws li kuv xav tias nws yog ntev dua vim. Kuv nrhiav tau, Hnub no thiab hnub nyoog uas muaj cov neeg ignorant txaus uas yuav attribute tej atrocities rau tib mums(Hais rau kuv ntaub ntawv, uas kuv tsis rov ua dua) Vim lawv yog ib leeg xwb thiab nyob rau lawv tus kheej tsis muaj ib tug txiv neej. Kuv kuj disgusted nrog cov notion uas vim kuv tau sib nrauj kuv tau mus txog kuv “hnub tim” Thiab kuv yuav tsum khom rau txhua yam uas los txog kuv txoj kev “Yog dab tsi los kuv txoj kev”, Whilst tus txiv neej tseem pom raws li ib yam dab tsi tshwj xeeb txawm tias feem ntau nws twb them rau nws negligence lub neej tsis tau tejyam, Tab sis cuaj kaum nws yuav tsum tsis tau tias txoj kev txawm tias lawv ncaim mus lawm mutually.. Lawm kuv muaj ranted txaus, Txawm hais tias nws tawm los ntawm siab kuv tsis txhais hais tias nws yuav tsum muaj kev disrespect los yog malice ntawm kuv cov muslim zej zog raws li kuv hlub lawv dearly. Kuv xav ua tsaug Allah rau muab peb lub zog thiab Eaman kom paub daws cov hauj lwm nyuaj heev uas nqa peb cov me nyuam mus rau peb tus kheej hauv ib kufar av, Thiab kuv xav ua tsaug rau koj lub luag hauj lwm nyob raising khiav vim paub eradicates ignorance thiab tsuas nyob rau hauv txoj kev uas yuav ib lub zej zog txav mus rau pem hauv ntej, uas yuav ua rau ib lub teb chaws tom qab ce. Ntuj Allah nqi zog rau koj kev siv zog thiab thov qhia peb lub luag hauj lwm peb yuav ua si contribute thiab inshallah.
Wa Salaamu Alaykum
Ib tug niam txiv ib leeg rau ib leeg 3 Cov me nyuam rau ntau lub hlis kuv paub ntau qhov teeb meem peb ib zaug xwb Muslim niam ntsej muag. Yog tsis muaj tsev neeg txhawb tab sis yog hais tias kev them nyiaj yug yuav tsum tau ces koj yog thawj tug mus approached li koj tsis muaj ib tug husbund cug koj.
Thaum kuv cov me nyuam yau kuv twb hais rau koj tsis tau yuav raws li koj cov me nyuam yaus thiab tam sim no kuv yog ib yam nkaus thiab 40 Nws yog lig dhau lawm! Li ntawd, lawv hais… Xyoo no kuv tus ntxhais eldest tau sib yuav thiab tsis txawm muab lub slightest xav tias tus mob nws yuav ua rau. Kuv lub ntiaj teb no yog thiab kuv twv vey centred kuv tsis paub li cas lwm tus nyob. Tab sis kuv yuav tsum tau hloov vim kuv immensely lonely thiab kuv yeej xav tsiv mus nyob rau. Kuv tau sim matrimonial chaw tab sis lawv zoo li daim ntawv qhia txog preditors los yog hais mav uas xav tias lawv yuav tau ua koj ib favour vast favour.
Txhua dua kuv nug Allah swt rau ib husbund… Tag nrho cov txiv neej nyob rau hauv kuv lub neej muaj tejyam uas kuv dad, Tus tij laug, Ex tus txiv thiab kuv cia tsis rua ntawm kuv tus tub kuv tsuas muaj mus ntsib nws yooj yim.. Nws qhia kom nws yuav muab tua rau nws dads thaum nws tseem 16!
Kuv tsis muaj vam cia:((((
Kuv zoo mentsis lawm 28 niam thiab leej txiv 3 Tub thiab ib tug ntxhais kuv paub tias nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau ib tug niam nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no kuv tus txiv yog ib tug zoo thiab zoo kawg thiab kuv xav kom kuv cov me nyuam ua raws li nws ko taw prints thiab ua zoo deeds xws li lawv txiv ua hnub rau kuv cov me nyuam npeeg koj niam