အမျိုးသမီး, ဘာသာရေးအရ 'iddah' ဆိုသည်မှာ အိမ်တစ်အိမ်တွင် အမျိုးသမီးတစ်ဦး စောင့်နေသည့် ကာလကို ဆိုလိုသည်။, ဘာသာရေးအရ 'iddah' ဆိုသည်မှာ အိမ်တစ်အိမ်တွင် အမျိုးသမီးတစ်ဦး စောင့်နေသည့် ကာလကို ဆိုလိုသည်။?

ဘာသာရေးအရ 'iddah' ဆိုသည်မှာ အိမ်တစ်အိမ်တွင် အမျိုးသမီးတစ်ဦး စောင့်နေသည့် ကာလကို ဆိုလိုသည်။ : ဘာသာရေးအရ 'iddah' ဆိုသည်မှာ အိမ်တစ်အိမ်တွင် အမျိုးသမီးတစ်ဦး စောင့်နေသည့် ကာလကို ဆိုလိုသည်။ :’ ဘာသာရေးအရ 'iddah' ဆိုသည်မှာ အိမ်တစ်အိမ်တွင် အမျိုးသမီးတစ်ဦး စောင့်နေသည့် ကာလကို ဆိုလိုသည်။? ‘

• ဘာသာရေးအရ 'iddah' ဆိုသည်မှာ အိမ်တစ်အိမ်တွင် အမျိုးသမီးတစ်ဦး စောင့်နေသည့် ကာလကို ဆိုလိုသည်။?

အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်အား ချီးမွမ်းပါ။.

It was narrated from the Prophet (အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ငြိမ်သက်ခြင်းနှင့် ကောင်းချီးမင်္ဂလာများ သက်ရောက်ပါစေ။) that women will form the majority of the people of Hell. It was narrated from ‘Imraan ibn Husayn that the Prophet (အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ငြိမ်သက်ခြင်းနှင့် ကောင်းချီးမင်္ဂလာများ သက်ရောက်ပါစေ။) ဟုဆိုသည်။: “I looked into Paradise and I saw that the majority of its people were the poor. And I looked into Hell and I saw that the majority of its people are women.”
(al-Bukhaari က ဇာတ်ကြောင်းပြောပြထားသည်, 3241; မွတ်ဆလင်, 2737)

With regard to the reason for that, တမန်တော်မြတ် (အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ငြိမ်သက်ခြင်းနှင့် ကောင်းချီးမင်္ဂလာများ သက်ရောက်ပါစေ။) was asked about it and he explained the reason.

It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Abbaas said:

အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ရစူလ်တမန်တော် (အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ငြိမ်သက်ခြင်းနှင့် ကောင်းချီးမင်္ဂလာများ သက်ရောက်ပါစေ။) ဟုဆိုသည်။: “I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, အို အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ရစူလ်တမန်တော်?” လို့ပြောပါတယ်။, “Because of their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allaah?” လို့ပြောပါတယ်။, “They are ungrateful to their companions (ခင်ပွန်းများ) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, ငရဲမီးကို ငါပြသခဲ့ပြီး ၎င်း၏နေထိုင်သူအများစုမှာ ကျေးဇူးကန်းသော အမျိုးသမီးများဖြစ်သည်။, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (al-Bukhaari က ဇာတ်ကြောင်းပြောပြထားသည်, 1052)

It was narrated that Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri said:
“အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ရစူလ်တမန်တော် (အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ငြိမ်သက်ခြင်းနှင့် ကောင်းချီးမင်္ဂလာများ သက်ရောက်ပါစေ။) went out to the Musalla on the day of Eid al-Adha or Eid al-Fitr. He passed by the women and said, ‘O women! Give charity, for I have seen that you form the majority of the people of Hell.’ They asked, ‘Why is that, အို အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ရစူလ်တမန်တော်?’ He replied, ‘You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religious commitment than you.A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you.’ The women asked, ဆာဟီး ဟဒီးသ်, what is deficient in our intelligence and religious commitment?ဆာဟီး ဟဒီးသ်, ‘Is not the testimony of two women equal to the testimony of one man?’ They said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Is it not true that a woman can neither pray nor fast during her menses?’ The women said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is the deficiency in her religious commitment.’”(al-Bukhaari က ဇာတ်ကြောင်းပြောပြထားသည်, 304)

It was narrated that Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah said:

“I attended Eid prayers with the Messenger of Allaah (အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ငြိမ်သက်ခြင်းနှင့် ကောင်းချီးမင်္ဂလာများ သက်ရောက်ပါစေ။). He started with the prayer before the khutbah, with no adhaan or iqaamah. Then he stood up, leaning on Bilaal, speaking of fear of Allaah (taqwa) and urging us to obey Him. He preached to the people and reminded them. Then he went over to the women and preached to them and reminded them. ပြီးတော့ သူက ပြောတယ်။, ‘Give in charity, for you are the majority of the fuel of Hell. A woman with dark cheeks stood up in the midst of the women and said, ‘Why is that, အို အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ရစူလ်တမန်တော်?ဆာဟီး ဟဒီးသ်, ‘Because you complain too much and are ungrateful to your husbands.’ Then they started to give their jewellery in charity, throwing their earrings and rings into Bilaal’s cloak.”
(Muslim မှ ဇာတ်ကြောင်းပြောပြသည်။, 885)

• A PIECE OF ADVICE :

Our believing sisters who learn of this hadeeth should behave like those Sahaabiyaat who, when they learned of this, did good deeds which would be the means, by Allaah’s leave, of keeping them far away from being included in that majority of the inhabitants of Hell.

So our advice to the sisters is to strive to adhere to the rituals and obligatory duties of Islam, especially prayer, and to keep away from that which Allaah has forbidden, especially shirk in its many forms which are widespread among women, such as seeking one’s needs from someone other than Allaah, going to practitioners of witchcraft and fortune-tellers, စသည်တို့.

We ask Allaah to keep us and all our brothers and sisters far away from the Fire and the words and deeds that bring one close to it.

• MAJORITY IN PARADISE:

Men and women engaged in this dispute when the Sahaabah were still alive. Muslim reports from Ibn Sireen:
“Men and women disputed as to which of them would form the majority in Paradise. According to another report, either they were competing, or they were discussing, whether there would be more men or women in Paradise.

They consulted Abu Hurayrah, who said that women would form the majority, on the basis of the words of the Prophet (လွှ):

“The first group to enter Paradise will be as beautiful as the full moon, and the group that follows them will be like the brightest shining stars in the sky: each man of them will have two wives, the marrow of whose leg-bones will be visible through the flesh because of their extreme beauty. There will be no one who is unmarried in Paradise””[Sahih မွတ်စလင်, Kitaab al-Jannah, Baab awwal zumrah tadhkul al-Jannah, 4/2179, hadith no. 2834]

This hadith clearly indicates that there will be more women than men in Paradise. Some others thought that there would be more men, because of the hadith, “I saw that they [အမျိုးသမီးများ] formed the majority of the people of Hell”. The response to this is the fact that women will form the majority of the inhabitants of Hell does not necessarily mean that they will be a minority in Paradise, as Ibn Hajar al-‘Asqalaani said [Fath al-Baari 6/325]

The two hadiths may be reconciled by stating that women will be in the majority in both Paradise and Hell, just as there are more women than men in this world. We could say that the hadith narrated by Abu Hurayrah indicates that the total number of women in paradise, including women of this world and al-Hoor al-‘Eeyn will outnumber men. The question then is, who will be greater in number in Paradise: the men of this world or the women? al-Qurtubee reconciled between these two hadiths by suggesting that women will form the majority of the inhabitants of Hell before the Shafaa’ah [intercession], when the sinners from amongst the muwwahideen will be brought out of Hell. Thereafter women will form the majority of the people of Paradise. [at-Tadhkirah, al-Qurtubee, p. 475]

The small number of women in Paradise is indicated in a report narrated by Ahmad and Abu Ya’laa from ‘Amr ibn al-‘Aas who said, “Whilst we were with the Messenger of Allah (လွှ) on this mountain path, သူကပြောပါတယ်။, “Look, can you see anything?” We said, “We see crows, and one of them stands out because its beak and feet are red”. အလ္လာဟ်အရှင်မြတ်၏ ရစူလ်တမန်တော် (လွှ) ဟုဆိုသည်။, “No women will enter Paradise except those who are as rare among them as this crow is among the others”” [Silsilat al-Hadith as-Saheehah, 4/466, မဟုတ်ဘူး. 1851]

Hafiz ibn Hajar al-Asqalani [ထွက်] ဟုဆိုသည်။, ‘Sayyiduna Abu Hurayra [Radhiallaahu anhu] used the Hadith “The first group to enter Paradise will be as beautiful as the full moon, and the group that follows them will be like the brightest shining stars in the sky: each man of them will have two wives, the marrow of whose leg-bones will be visible through the flesh because of their extreme beauty. There will be no one who is unmarried in Paradise””[Sahih မွတ်စလင်, Kitaab al-Jannah, Baab awwal zumrah tadhkul al-Jannah, 4/2179, hadith no. 2834] as a proof to maintain that there would be more women in Jannah than men… and this is clearly understood.’ (Fath al-Baari vol.6 pg.400; Hadith3246)

The Muhadditheen (experts in Hadith) have resolved this apparent contradiction through the following explanations:

1. These Ahaadith are clear that females in Jannah and Jahannum will outnumber males by a great margin. (Sharh al-Nawawiy vol.9 pg.170)

2. The women could be more in Jahannam and less in Jannah at the beginning. ထို့နောက်, when they are cleansed of their sins or when intercession on their behalf is accepted, they would be entered into Jannah and they would outnumber the men there too. (Fath al-Baari vol.6 pg.401; Hadith3246 – Sifatul Jannah of Hafiz ibn Katheer pg.130)

3. The Ahaadith that indicate the women as the major inhabitants of Jahannam refer to that time when Rasulullah [Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam] had physically seen Jannah and Jahannam. They do not mention that it will always remain like that. (Faydhul Baari and Malfoozaat-e-Kashmiri vol.4 pg.244)

and Allah Ta’ala Knows Best

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ဘာသာရေးအရ 'iddah' ဆိုသည်မှာ အိမ်တစ်အိမ်တွင် အမျိုးသမီးတစ်ဦး စောင့်နေသည့် ကာလကို ဆိုလိုသည်။ : ဘာသာရေးအရ 'iddah' ဆိုသည်မှာ အိမ်တစ်အိမ်တွင် အမျိုးသမီးတစ်ဦး စောင့်နေသည့် ကာလကို ဆိုလိုသည်။ :’ ဘာသာရေးအရ 'iddah' ဆိုသည်မှာ အိမ်တစ်အိမ်တွင် အမျိုးသမီးတစ်ဦး စောင့်နေသည့် ကာလကို ဆိုလိုသည်။? ‘
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