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Kodi ‘Ubwenzi’ kuunikira kapena kuunikira kamodzi moyo? Ubwenzi wa anthu ambiri umaphatikizapo chikondi, kukhulupirika, chikondi, ulemu, ndi kudalira. … Ubwenzi weniweni ndi pamene wina amakudziwani bwino kuposa momwe mumadzikondera ndipo amatenga malo omwe angakuthandizireni pamavuto. Ubwenzi umaposa kugawana nthawi pamodzi, ndipo nzokhalitsa. Ngati mukufunadi kuchita bwino m'moyo wanu, mudzayitana ndi abwenzi apamtima.
Mumatenga munthu modzidzimutsa ndiye ngati mukuwona kuti ndi wolondola komanso bwenzi langwiro komwe mungakwaniritse cholinga chanu mudzamutsatira.. Tonse ndife ochenjera, kudzikonda pa moyo wathu. Zimatengera inu kutenga bwenzi lomwe mwasankha mwina poyang'ana chuma chawo, khalidwe, kusankhana mitundu, chauvinism.
Kodi maubwenzi onse amaphunzitsa “phunzirani movutikira”?
Ndi zongopeka, mukhoza kuyesa kuchita bwino ndi kulephera chifukwa cha ubwenzi wanu. Bwenzi lenileni ndi munthu amene ‘amathandizira’di, 'amalemekeza', ‘kuthawa’ ndi 'tweedles’ inu kuchokera ku njira yolakwika. Mabwenzi enieni achoka m’mavuto, wolimba, wanzeru. Ndi ochepa omwe angakhale otopa, wamantha, bata, zosungidwa etc.
Ubwenzi Woipa umawononga moyo wanu.
- Chidaliro chanu chidzalandidwa,
- maonekedwe ako adzawonongeka,
- kumathera nthawi yanu ndi achibale anu,
- zenizeni ndi maloto anu sizikugwirizana…..ndi zina.
Anzanuwa amapatsirana m'malo mosintha zizolowezi zanu ndi machitidwe anu mudzatsata njira yawoyawo. Mudzamaliza ndi chisankho cha anzanu ngakhale chilibe ntchito, zinthu zomwe mnzako amazikonda zidzakhala zomwe mumakonda, Malo kapena malo omwe mnzako amakonda kukakhala amakhala malo anu osangalatsa kapena opumula, zovala zawo, maonekedwe a thupi, mudzatsatiranso njira ya bwenzi lanu.
- Ngati mnzanu akudziwa chidendene chanu cha Achilles, akhoza kutola mabowo kukugwetsa. Anzanu ena ndi Tittle-Tattle, sangaulule za kusatetezeka kwawo ndikukhalabe m'chigamulo chawo chachitsulo. Adzakukopani pokuvumbulutsirani momasuka, kutentha kwabwino.
- Mutha kuwoneka bwino, wokongola, wokongola, aluntha m'malo mwake mzako sangakhale ndi makhalidwe onsewa. Iwo adzamva nsanje ndi kuganizira zolakwa, kunyoza maonekedwe anu pamene mudzakhumudwitsidwa.
- Anzanu akhoza kudziwa za banja lanu, mwina adzathira mafuta pamoto, kapena adzakuzunzani mwachinyengo. Adzakukopani ndikulowetsa malingaliro anu motsutsana ndi makolo anu ndi abale anu kuti ali ndi tsankho.
Bwenzi lanu lisintha maganizo anu mwina pokulimbikitsani ku njira yolakwika kapena potsimikizira kuti mukuchita bwino.
- Kuzindikira momwe ndingakhalire wofunika kwa anthu ena
- Kukulimbikitsani kumwa, kusuta ndi kukopana,
- Kukhudza nkhani zanu zaumwini,
- Kukugwetsani pansi/kukubwezani mmbuyo,
- Sungani malingaliro anu ndi zoyesayesa zanu,
- Kukutsimikizirani kuti zonse zomwe mumachita ndi zolakwika,
- Sonkhanitsani ena kuti akutsutsani,
- Kuweruza inu chifukwa chosiyana.
Kodi bwenzi lenileni ndi ndani?
A bwenzi lenileni ndi Yemwe akuongolera kunjira yoongoka, kulimbikitsani inu, kukuthandizani mukasauka, ndikulangizani, kukuthandizani, kukuphunzitsani makhalidwe abwino, ndi zina. A Muslim ndi kalilole wa Asilamu ena. Iwo ndi ambiri Hadith pa ubwenzi.
- “Khalani ndi gulu la okhulupirira basi ndipo chakudya chanu chidyedwa ndi olungama.”TIRMIDHI
- “Ngati mukufuna kutchula za cholakwika za mnzako, tchulani zanu zolakwa choyamba.” BUKHARI
- “Mnzako wapamtima ndi amene: Kumuona akukukumbutsani za Mulungu, kulankhula naye kumawonjezera chidziwitso chanu, ndipo zochita zake zimakukumbutsani za akufar.” AL-MUHASIBI.
Nthawi zonse dzikumbutseni nokha ndi mnzanu za ubwenzi za Mtumiki Muhammad sallahu Alayhi wa Sallam ndi Abu Bakar Rathi Allahu anha. Iwo anali ndi chiyanjano chachikulu. Pamene Aquarishi ankatsutsana ndi Mneneri wathu, Abu Bakar Rathi Allahu Anha adamukhulupirira, pankhondo ankamuthandiza, + Iye anaima pambali pake pamene ankamenyana ndi adani ake, anayenda naye mailosi. Anapereka mwana wake wamkazi Aisha kukhala Mneneri wathu wokondedwa ngakhale anali wokalamba kwambiri kwa iye, ndipo anapsompsonanso mneneri wathu wokondedwa pachipumi.
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