Gawani Izi
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Funso :Chisilamu chimati chiyani pankhani yogwa mchikondi? Kodi zimenezo ndizololedwa mu Chisilamu? Ngati inde, tingasonyeze bwanji zimenezo kwa munthu amene timamukonda popanda kuchititsa fitnah?
Yankhani: Chisilamu chimatiphunzitsa kukhala owona ndi owona. Nthawi zambiri, timakonda chifukwa cha Allah ndipo timadana chifukwa cha Allah. Chisilamu chimatiphunzitsa kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi akhoza kumanga ubale wabwino wozikidwa pa banja.
Sitikunena kuti chikondi ndi halal kapena haram chifukwa ndikumverera. Mwinamwake sichili pansi pa ulamuliro. Mutha kuweruza zomwe zili pansi pa ulamuliro. Koma anthu omwe amagwa m'chikondi amakhala muzochitika zambiri kutali ndi mlengalenga woyeretsedwa ndi woyera.
Maukwati amene kaŵirikaŵiri amakhala abwino ndi okhalitsa ndi amene amayambira pachikondi. Chikondi chimenecho chimakula pambuyo pa ukwati ndipo mwina chidzakula mpaka maanjawo apitilize ubwezi wawo ku Jannah.
Ngati muli ndi chikondi kwa munthu, muyenera kudzifunsa nokha: chifukwa chiyani umamukonda munthu ameneyo? Ngati muli ndi Chisilamu chabwino, kulungamitsa koyenera, ndiye kuti simuyenera kumuuza munthuyo mmene mukumvera. Komabe, mukhoza kupanga dongosolo lalikulu kuti apemphe dzanja lanu. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa tanthauzo la fitna, mbali yaikulu ya izo ndi zimene anthu masiku ano amachitcha chikondi kapena chikondi.
M'nkhani ino, tikufuna kutchula fatwa yotsatirayi yomwe ikufotokoza bwino za chigamulo cha Chisilamu pa kugwa mchikondi:
"Ngati tikulankhula za malingaliro omwe timawatcha "chikondi" ndiye kuti tikungolankhula zakumverera. Zimene timamva kwa munthu winawake n’zosafunika kwenikweni, mpaka kumverera kwathu kusonyezedwa m’zochitika zinazake. Tsopano ngati kuchitako kuli kololedwa, basi bwino ndi bwino. Ngati zaletsedwa, Kenako tapeza chinthu chimene Mulungu sadasangalale nacho. Ngati ndi chikondi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, kutengeka kumene sikuli nkhani yofunsidwa pa tsiku lachiweruzo. Ngati mukumva kuti mumakonda munthu, ndiye kuti simungathe kulamulira maganizo anu. Ngati chikondi chimenecho chimakusonkhezerani kuyesa kuonana ndi munthuyo mobisa ndi kusonyeza malingaliro anu m’zochita zololedwa kokha m’chomangira chaukwati ndiye kuti chimene mukuchita ncholetsedwa.”
Kuwunikira zambiri pankhaniyi tikufuna kutchula mawu a Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, mphunzitsi wamkulu komanso katswiri wachisilamu ku Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Iye akuti:
Mu Islam, sikuli tchimo ngati mukumva kuyanjana kwapadera kapena kukondera kwa munthu winawake chifukwa anthu alibe mphamvu pamalingaliro achilengedwe otere.. Ife ndife, komabe, ndithudi odalirika komanso oyankha ngati titengeka ndi malingaliro otere ndikuchita zinthu zinazake zomwe zitha kuwonedwa ngati haram. (zoletsedwa).
Ponena za kuyanjana kwa amuna ndi akazi, Chisilamu chimapereka malamulo okhwima: Imaletsa mitundu yonse ya ‘kuchita zibwenzi’ ndi kudzipatula ndi munthu yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzako, komanso kusakanikirana kosasankha ndi kusakaniza.
Ngati, komabe, m'modzi sachita izi pamwambapa, ndipo chimene iye akufuna ndi kuganizira mozama kukwatira munthu, chinthu choterocho sichimatengedwa kukhala Haramu. Pamenepo, Chisilamu chimatilimbikitsa kukwatirana ndi anthu omwe timawakonda kwambiri. Choncho, Chisilamu chimalimbikitsa kuti anthu okwatirana azionana asanafunsire ukwati. Kufotokoza chifukwa chomwe avomerezera, Mneneri (mtendere ndi madalitso zikhale pa Iye) adatero: "Izi zidzakulitsa / kulimbikitsa mgwirizano."
Chilolezo ichi ngakhale, tikulangizidwa kuti tisatengeke ndi maonekedwe akunja a munthu; izi zitha kukhala zosokeretsa. Ukwati ndi mgwirizano wa moyo wonse ndipo kufunika kwenikweni kwa munthu kumatsimikiziridwa osati ndi maonekedwe ake, koma makamaka ndi umunthu wamkati kapena khalidwe. Chifukwa chake, atanena kuti anthu amangofuna kukongola, chuma ndi banja mwa okwatirana, Mneneri (mtendere ndi madalitso zikhale pa Iye) anatilangiza kuti tiziganizira kwambiri za “chipembedzo kapena chikhalidwe” koposa zonse.
Chisilamu sichilola ubale uliwonse wosaloledwa pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Allah wakhazikitsa ukwati ngati njira yovomerezeka yokhutiritsa chilakolako chogonana, ndipo kudzera m’banja mwamuna ndi mkazi amapanga banja potsatira malamulo a Allaah, ndipo ana awo ngololedwa. Mu Islam, palibe chinthu ngati chibwenzi ndi chibwenzi. Mwina ndinu wokwatiwa kapena simuli. Kukhala ndi chibwenzi kapena chibwenzi, ziribe kanthu mlingo wa kuyanjana ndi kukhudzidwa, ndi haraam kwathunthu!
Kulumikizana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndi amodzi mwa makomo omwe amatsogolera ku Fitnah (mayesero). Sharee’ah ili ndi umboni wosonyeza kuti nkofunika kusamala kuti tisagwere mu misampha ya shaytaan pankhaniyi.. Pamene Mneneri (mtendere ndi madalitso a Allah zikhale pa iye) anangoona mnyamata akungoyang’ana mtsikana, adatembenuza mutu wake kuti ayang'ane kumbali, kenako adati:
“Ndinaona mnyamata ndi mtsikana, ndipo sindidakhulupirire kuti Shaytaan sangawayese." Adanenedwa ndi al-Tirmidhiy (885) ndipo watchulidwa kuti Hasan ndi al-Albaaniy mu Swahiyh al-Tirmidhiy.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndi haraam kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi kukonda munthu wina wake amene iye wasankha kukhala mkazi wake., ndi kumverera chikondi kwa munthuyo ndi kufuna kukwatira ngati n'kotheka. Chikondi chimakhudzana ndi mtima, ndipo zingawonekere mu mtima wa munthu pazifukwa zodziwika kapena zosadziwika. Koma ngati ndi chifukwa chosakaniza kapena kuyang'ana kapena zokambirana za haraam, Kenako ndi haraam. Ngati ndi chifukwa chodziwana kale, kukhala wachibale kapena chifukwa chomva za munthuyo, ndipo munthu sangazikanize, ndiye palibe cholakwika ndi chikondi chimenecho, bola munthu akatsatire ku malire opatulika a Allah.
Sheikh Ibn Uthaymien (Mulungu amuchitire chifundo) adatero:
Munthu angamve kuti mkazi ndi wakhalidwe labwino komanso wakhalidwe labwino komanso wodziwa zinthu, kotero kuti angafune kumkwatira. Kapena mkazi angamve kuti mwamuna ndi wakhalidwe labwino ndi wakhalidwe labwino ndi wodziŵa zambiri ndi wodzipereka mwachipembedzo, kotero kuti angafune kukwatiwa naye. Koma kukumana kwa awiriwa omwe amasilirana m’njira zosavomerezeka mwachisilamu ndilo vuto, zomwe zimabweretsa zotsatirapo zoyipa. Pamenepa nkosaloledwa kuti mwamuna alumikizane ndi mkazi kapena kuti mkazi ayambe kukumana ndi mwamuna., ndi kunena kuti akufuna kumukwatira. M'malo mwake ayenera kumuuza wali wake (woyang'anira) kuti akufuna kumukwatira, kapena amuuze Wali wake kuti akufuna kumukwatira, ndi Umar (chifukwa mwagwa mu machimo akuluakulu angapo) adachita pamene adapereka mwana wake wamkazi Hafsah kuti amukwatire Abu Bakr ndi ‘Uthmaan (Mulungu asangalale nawo onse awiri). Koma ngati mkazi alankhulana ndi mwamuna mwachindunji kapena ngati mwamuna akumana ndi mkazi mwachindunji, Izi zikhoza kutsogolera ku Fitnah (mayesero).
Liqaa’aat al-Baab il-Maftooh
Njira zovomerezeka zopezera amene umamukonda ndizokwanira mwachitsanzo kukhudzana ndi wali kapena mlonda wa munthu amene mukufuna kumukwatira., palibe kufunika kwa njira za haraam, koma timadzivutitsa tokha ndipo shaytaan amapezerapo mwayi pa zimenezo.
Mulungu asangalale nawo
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Ndimakonda positi iyi. Jazakallahu khairan =)
Ndasokonezeka pang'ono ndi nkhaniyi…
momwe munthu ayenera kupeza bwenzi la moyo wake? anzanga ambiri omwe anali pachibwenzi mu moyo wawo wa uni.. adakwatirana ndi bwenzi lake / chibwenzi atangomaliza digiri ya bachelors. Onse ali okondwa kwambiri & komanso amasula mavuto a makolo awo.
Koma akadatsatira ulamuliro wa Chisilamu…moyo sukanakhala wophweka chotero. Nthawi zambiri mu ukwati wokonzedweratu, okondedwa amasankhidwa malinga ndi chisankho cha makolo/chibale; amene akukwatiwa alibe zonena za izo. Komanso.. n’chifukwa chiyani makolo ayenera kuvutika maganizo chonchi ? Ndikhala wokondwa kwambiri mukakambirana mokoma mtima momwe tingatsatire Chisilamu m'magulu amasiku ano…
Ndikuganiza kuti simuyenera kutenga zikhalidwe za anthu ngati chitsogozo chanu. Palibe chifukwa choti maanja omwe mumawatchulawo asasangalale: ngati zikugwirizana, ndipo akhoza kupirira ndi zosagwirizana, akhoza kukhala osangalala. Komabe, zimenezo sizikutanthauza kuti njira yawo yoyambira unansi wawo inali yolondola. Anzanu ambiri anakwatirana ndi munthu amene anali naye paubwenzi m’moyo wawo wa ku yunivesite—ndizo zabwino, Ndine wokondwa kwa iwo popeza sanakumane ndi zowawa zakusweka. Komabe, anzanga ambiri adasiyana ndi abwenzi awo omwe anali nawo m'moyo wawo waku yunivesite. Kuchuluka kwake sikuloza kalikonse, ndiponso sichifotokoza chilichonse. Anthu atha kupeza zinthu zabwino popanda kuganizira malamulo a Allah, Izi sizikutsimikizira kuti malamulo a Mulungu ndi olakwika (Hasha). Zomwe muyenera kuziganizira ngati maziko anu ndi malamulo aumulungu. Njira yopita ku zoipa siingatengeke ngati njira yowongoka, ngakhale nthawi zina timawona kuti sizinali choncho. Ndipo komabe, sitingakhale otsimikiza ngati sichinatsogolere ku zoipa: okwatirana pambuyo pa chibwenzi’ Ukwati ukadakhala wabwino ngati akadatsatira malamulo a Allah moyenera. Ngakhale ukwatiwo ukanakhala kuti ulibe chizindikiro cha chisoni/chisoni kapena kulandira chilango chilichonse padziko lapansi, tikukhulupirira kuti cholakwa chilichonse chitenga gawo lake pa tsiku lachiweruzo, si ife?
Chisilamu chimapangitsa moyo wathu kukhala wamtendere, koma siziyenera kukhala zosavuta, amachita izo? Sitinganene kuti moyo wa Hazrat Yasir ndi Hazrat Sumayya unali wosavuta, ayi, koma sanafune kuti zikhale zosavuta. Zomwe ankafuna zinali “zosavuta”: Chilolezo cha Allah… Sindikuganiza kuti kuyenera kuonedwa ngati kukakamizidwa kwamalingaliro kuti kholo lipeze bwenzi labwino: makolo athu amayesa choncho, zovuta kutipatsa zabwino koposa zonse, kuyambira tsiku lomwe tinabadwa. Ngati angayesetse kutilowetsa m'mayunivesite abwino kwambiri kuti athe kutiwona osangalala, chimene chingawathandize kukhala osangalala kuposa kuona ana awo ali ndi moyo wosangalala m’banja, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala zofunika kwambiri kuposa yunivesite yomwe mumapita?
Komanso, http://www.zawaj.com/dating-in-islam-qa/ Izi zingathandize funso lanu lokhudza ukwati wokonzeratu.
Gulu lamasiku ano… Ndi chinthu chimodzi chovuta kusintha ngati mukufuna kukhala Msilamu(ndipo ndikukhala m'malo ovomerezeka 90% Dziko lachi Muslim), koma ngati pali chilichonse chomwe chingagwirizane ndi Chisilamu, kulibwino mwasiya, ngakhale zitanthauza kukhala wonyozeka pankhani imeneyi… Zosavuta kunena, zovuta kuchita? Inde, koma mphotho yomwe mudzalandira idzakhala molingana ndi izo. O!, ndi, Sindine wogwirizira patsamba lino, zomwe ndiyenera kuzizindikira.
Zomwe zili pamwambazi ndi zoona, zachokera kwa Mulungu, ndipo zotsalazo zichokera kwa Ine.
Assalamualaikum.
Umenewu unali uphungu wabwino, Inenso ndikufuna ndifunse funso
Chibwenzi changa ndi amene adzakhala mwamuna wanga posachedwa ndipo zili bwino mu Chisilamu ngati timagonana mophweka tisanakwatirane??
Assalamu Alaikum sister,
Chisilamu chimaletsa kugwirizana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Ndiye kukhala ndi mgwirizano, osasiya kugonana, ukwati usanaloledwe. Mlongo, ndikuchita chigololo ndipo ndi chilango.Ndipo ngati mukutsimikiza kukwatira m’bale uyu, nkwabwino kwa inu nonse, musachedwetsa ukwati wanu, koma tsopano, kuti musagwere mu zina.
Ndikukupemphani kuti chonde tulukani muubalewu ndipo nonsenu mulape kwa Allah.
Mulungu akufewetseni ndi kukuongolerani. Amene!
zabwino madam
salaam,
Ndikuwopa kuti simungachite zimenezo. Nonse simudzakhala halal kwa wina ndi mzake mpaka nikah itachitidwa.
Ikhoza kuonedwa ngati zina…
Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zidathandiza!
ayi ..simungachite zimenezo
palibe mlongo amene ali haram kugonana asanalowe m’banja
Subhanallah.
Ndine 26 Ndine wachisilamu ndipo ndikudziwa kuti BF/GF ndi haraam. Sindinatengerepo moyo woterowo. Allah amadalitsa ukwati umene njira zake zidali zololedwa. Simungachite china chake Harram kuti mupeze hallal. Ndinawina lottery yopita ku Haji? Uh nuh. sizikugwira ntchito mwanjira imeneyo. Muyenera kupeza ndalama mwachisangalalo kuti mupite ku Hajj. Zomwezo ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi muyenera kutsatira malamulo ndi malamulo a T kuti mukhale ndi banja losangalala lopambana..
Ndinakumana ndi mwamuna wanga kuntchito. Sindinayambe kucheza ndi chit, ndipo adamufotokozera momveka ngati mukufuna ukwati lankhulani ndi Wali wanga. Ngati mumangofuna kukopana ndiye kuti sindine ameneyo. WL, nayenso anali molunjika kuyankhula ndipo anandipempha dzanja kudzera wali. Ndinadziwa za iye kudzera mwa anthu… osati kudzera mwa iye poyamba. Ndinafunsa anthu amene ankagwira naye ntchito, mzikiti wake etc. Ndinafunsa mozungulira, ndipo analola wali wanga kucheza naye. Iyi ndi njira yoyenera. Pambuyo wali wanga anasangalala tinaloledwa kukumana ndi kukhala ndi kulankhula NDI wali wanga. ndipo tinali ndi misonkhano yambiri monga iyi. Tinkachitira misonkhano m’nyumba , kunja zitseko m'madera osiyanasiyana ndi zochitika. Chaka chotsatira ife tonse tinali okondwa ndi pelased wina ndi mzake mu deen, khalidwe. Choncho tinakwatirana mu njira ya halal nikkah ndipo pambuyo pa mwezi walima.
Choncho mukhoza kukwatira njira yovomerezeka ndipo Allah akudalitseni. Kapena tsatirani njira ya harram ndikukhala m’banja lodzaza ndi fitna osati lodalitsika.
ps ndimakhala ku UK m'tawuni yopanda Asilamu. Ndinaganiza kuti palibe chiyembekezo kwa ine. Koma Mulungu Ngopambana mwa okonza;. Ingodalirani mwa iye ndikuchita zinthu mwanjira ya halal.
Ndine a 24 msungwana wazaka zakubadwa ndipo ndimakonda mnyamata , ndikufuna kuchita zinthu mwanjira ya halal chifukwa ndine mtsikana wachisilamu ndipo ndiye iyeyo , vuto ndi iye anasudzulidwa ndipo ali 6 ana ochokera m'banja lakale ndipo ali 37, Ndaziwona zonsezi ndipo ndayang'ana mopitirira ndikuwona kuti ndikusangalala naye ndikumaliza theka la deen wanga. Komabe ndidagula izi kwa makolo anga ndipo sakuvomera kukumana naye kapena kumupatsa mpata , akundiuza …popanda kudalitsidwa kwa amayi anga zidzathetsedwa ndipo sadzalandira mwamuna ndi 6 ana ndi 37 zaka zakubadwa . Ana ake amakhala ndi amayi ndi okalamba 3 onse akulu angathe kudzisamalira okha ndipo pali mayi angawathandize . Ndinayesa kufotokoza izi kwa makolo anga . Akunena zondikana ngati ndikufuna kukwatiwa ndi mnyamata ameneyu . Ndaona zonse ndipo ndine wokondwa kukwatiwa ndi mnyamatayu ndikukhala moyo wanga molingana ndi Chisilamu koma makolo anga savomereza ndipo sindikufuna kuwakhumudwitsa. . Malangizo aliwonse ??? Zikomo .
Mlongo, Ndikupemphani kuti mufunse Imam kuti alankhule ndi banja lanu ndipo mwina muyesetse kuti banja lanu likumane naye kaye. Ngati komabe banja lanu liyika phazi lawo pansi ndipo silikukuthandizani, palibe zambiri zimene mungachite monga muyenera chilolezo cha Wali wanu kukwatira.
Ngati munthu wokondweretsedwayo anangolankhula ndi wali ndiye kuti angamudziwe bwanji munthuyo asanasankhe ukwati ? Adziwa bwanji kuti amagwirizana naye pankhani ya zikhulupiriro, zizolowezi, zokonda etc kapena ngati pali chokopa pakati pa awiriwa ?
Assalamu Alaikum brother,
Mukhoza kuyankhula ndi mtsikanayo malingana ndi pamaso pa wali wake. Simungalankhule naye nokha kuyambira Mneneri (SAW) adatero, “Mwamuna akakhala yekha ndi mkazi, Mdyerekezi amapanga lachitatu” (Sahih Bukhari).
Allah Ngodziwa kwambiri.
Zochita zina zomwe timachita zimapereka zitsanzo zabwino zomwe zimatsogolera ena. Mlongo tamvani mwangopanga zomwe Msilamu aliyense akuyenera kuchita. Allah akudalitseni.
Mayson – kotero inu ndi mwamuna wanu munali ‘chibwenzi cha halal’ ndi chilolezo cha Walii wanu?.
Sister boy friend/girlfriend maubale sadalitsika ngakhale atalowa m'banja.Zimatsogolera ku zina
positi wokongola… ndimakonda momveka bwino! zikomo!
ku PM,
moni!
chonde ndithandizeni kuunikira malingaliro anga..
ndili ndi vuto ndipo ndimafuna chitsogozo.. komwe ndingathe kukutumizirani makalata anga?
Assalamu'alaykum
Ndikukupemphani kuti mukhale ndi thanzi labwino komanso labwino, Amene..
Sister Zahira, ngati mukufuna kulumikizana ndi PM, mukhoza kuwatumiza kuno: customerservice@purematrimony.com
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Ndikusokoneza pang'ono kuti mukutanthauza chiyani pokambirana za haram zomwe zatchulidwa mundime yachiwiri mpaka yomaliza ya nkhaniyi.
Kulankhula zakukhosi, kunena kuti ndimakukondani, ndakusowa, ndikufuna kukhala ndi inu etc etc etc etc. Mivi ya Shiytan.
Siyani mawu amenewo mpaka mukhala halal kwa wina ndi mzake pambuyo pa nikkah chitani ndi kunena momwe mukufunira. Koma nkosaloledwa kuyankhula “mwasilira”. Musanalowe m'banja muyenera kukhala wotsutsa pamachitidwe anu, mutu womveka, inde mumakulitsa kumverera ndipo inde mutha kumuphonya munthu ameneyo. Koma munthuyo akadali Mlendo. Chifukwa chake simuyenera kumauza mlendo zakukhosi kwanu ngati zinthu sizikuyenda mungadzinyozetse., Wadzifooketsa, ndipo Shiytan angakugwetseni mu uchimo. Khalani amphamvu, mutu womveka, yankhula motsutsa, zokambirana zolimbikitsa. Osakhala ndi mafoni okha. Konzani kukhala ndi wali m'chipindamo, kapena foni yolankhula imodzi, ngati mukulankhula pa skype kapena msn onetsetsani Wali alipo, wina kuwerenga malemba ndi maimelo. Ndipo fotokozerani zimenezo kwa iye wofuna dzanja lanu.
Ndinangodabwa. Kodi zingakhale zololedwa kupita kwa munthu amene mukufuna kukwatira ndi kupempha kukhudzana wali wake? Ndikutanthauza ngati sitikudziwa wali wake, timawasiya bwanji zolinga zathu poyamba?
Ngati nkotheka, mukhoza kufunsa mnzake wamba kumufunsa zambiri za wali a. Ngati sizingatheke, mutha kukhala nokha. Koma ziyenera kusiya ndi zimenezo popeza nthawi zonse pali mwayi wa fitnah. Mutha kupeza ulalo uwu kuchokera ku islamqa kukhala wothandiza inshallah- http://islamqa.info/en/ref/13791/talking%20before%20marriage.
Mulungu Ngodziwa bwino.
Ndikufuna kukwatiwa kudzera mwa makolo anga, koma sitinathe kupeza machesi oyenera. Mumasewera odikirira awa, ndine wokalamba. Panopa ndikuyesera kuyanjana ndi amuna paphwando lomwe pali amuna ndi akazi. atleast izi zindilola kudziwa kuti pali osakwatiwa kunja uko. ndayesa kupyola mu nzikiti, ndi njira zina za halal, koma pepani, palibe amene amathandiza. ndiye tikuyenera kuchita chiyani. ndangokumana ndi mnyamata pachisangalalo, ndi aliyense pamenepo, adapereka salat chifukwa inali nthawi. sindimachita chidwi ndi mawonekedwe ake akunja, koma poti adapezeka wodzichepetsa ndikupeleka salat, Ndimakonda kudziŵa zambiri za iye ndi kuyandikira kwa iye ukwati. kodi uku kulakwa kuchita? Sindingauze makolo anga kuti apite naye popeza sanakumanepo, ndipo ndizochititsa manyazi kuti maphwando onse afikire munthu mwachisawawa ndikunena, mwana wanga adakumana nanu kwinakwake ndipo akuganiza kuti mutha kukhala wofanana bwino, mungamuganizirenso mwana wathu wamkazi……Ndikuganiza kuti ndibwino kudziyandikira, bola ndisayambe naye zachikondi tisanalowe mbanja.
Assalamu Alaikum sister,
Ndi bwino kupempha makolo anu kuti alankhule ndi munthuyo, chifukwa chotere mumakhala m’malire a Chisilamu. Mneneri (SAW) adatero, “Pamene mwamuna ali yekha ndi mkazi Mdyerekezi amapanga wachitatu” (Sahih Bukhari). Cholinga chanu chingakhale chowona mtima, koma shaytan amakhalapo nthawi zonse kuchititsa fitnah. Ndipo kubwereza nkhaniyo “Ponena za kuyanjana kwa amuna ndi akazi, Chisilamu chimapereka malamulo okhwima: Imaletsa mitundu yonse ya ‘kuchita zibwenzi’ ndi kudzipatula ndi munthu yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzako, komanso kusakanikirana kosasankha ndi kusakaniza”.
Chonde onaninso ulalowu http://islamqa.info/en/ref/93450/talking%20before%20marriage
Allah Ngodziwa kwambiri.
M’nkhaniyo akuti kusanganikirana pakati pa amuna kapena akazi anzawo n’koletsedwa….
koma vuto ndilokuti masiku ano, izi sizingalephereke. M'mayunivesite, sukulu, malo antchito…. payenera kukhala kugwirizana pakati pa awiriwa..
Zoyenera kuchita pankhaniyi?
Assalamu Alaikum,
Tikukhulupirira kuti muli ndi thanzi labwino komanso Iman.
Nkhaniyo ikunena kuti ‘kusasankha’ kusakaniza ndi kusakaniza komanso ‘kudzipatula’ wekha ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wina ndi haraam.
Muzochitika zomwe wina ali kucheza ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo, monga kuntchito kapena ku yunivesite, kuyanjana kuyenera kukhala kochepa komwe kumafunika kukambidwa zofunikira zokha ndipo palibenso china. Munthu ayeneranso kutsatira malangizo achisilamu potsitsa maso osagwirana chanza ndi mam kapena mkazi yemwe si Mahram..
Mulungu Ngodziwa bwino.
Ndikuvomereza kwathunthu , izo’ zonse zokhudza kukondweretsa Allah ndi kukhala wokondwa
Ndi kumvera Mulungu. Ndili pa chibwenzi ndi mwamuna wodabwitsa . WHO
Ndi Asilamu ndipo ndikhala ndikusintha. Chisilamu tisanakwatirane.
Ndikufuna chiphunzitso cha Chisilamu ndi zikhulupiriro zake. Zanga . Chifukwa ndimakonda
Kukhala mmodzi ndi Allah ndi mwamuna wanga kukhala .
ndine khristu…ndinali pa chibwenzi ndi mnyamata wachisilamu. adays atatha ndinaganiza zokhala muslim coz ndikufuna hv new life…ndikuvomereza kuti ndizovuta kusintha zinthu….bt ndikuyesera kupewa zinthu za haram. ndiye..ndinawawawa bf wanga anandiuza kuti achoka…bt tsopano ndidazindikira zomwe adandiuza….ndikuwerenga nkhanizi ndikusangalala kwambiri ngakhale kuti wina wandisiya…bt m'njira yoyenera…
Chisilamu sichikulolani kuti mukhale m'gulu laulere…….Komabe, ngati mwagwa m’chikondi ndipo palibe chimene chimakulamulirani, njira yabwino yopewera fitna ndikumukwatira osataya nthawi.
Munati njira yabwino yopewera fit a ndiyo kukwatira nthawi yomweyo osataya nthawi, koma ngati mutero, ukwati udalitsidwe ndi Allah ?
Masha Allah, JazakallAh Khair. Izi ndi zoona insha Allah. Tiyenera kudalira Allah ndi kumuthawa Satana. Achinyamata ena amaganiza kuti ngati palibe chikondi (chibwenzi) asanalowe m’banja okwatirana adzakhala ngati alendo kwa wina ndi mnzake pambuyo pa ukwati wawo m’nyumba. Nanga bwanji kukwatirana motsatira malamulo achisilamu kenako nkuyamba kukondana? Mulungu atipulumutse ku zoipa zomwe zafalikira ku Hollywood, bollywood, nollywood ndi kaniwood, Amene.
Amene
Sindikudziwa choti ndichite mwamuna adandiuza kuti amandikonda ndipo amandidikirira nthawi zonse komabe sindimamumvera chisoni ndikufuna kukwatira munthu yemwe makolo anga adzandisankhire ndipo ndizomwe ndidamuuza mnyamatayo tsopano aliyense akumuuza. ine kuti ndikwatire mwamuna ameneyu chifukwa amandikonda kwambiri ndipo akudwala tsopano wasiya kudya ndi kucheza ndi aliyense komabe sindikudziwa kuti amandikondadi kapena ayi ngati kuti amandikondadi sakadafunsa. makolo anga choyamba?
Moni,
Ndine mtsikana wachisilamu, 15 wazaka..ndipo ndikufuna upangiri ndi thandizo chonde..
Mmodzi mwa anzanga (mtsikana) anandiuza kuti mnyamata wake yemwe ndi mnzanga wakusukulu amandikonda..
(powona kuti sindimalankhula ndi anyamata… abale anga okha)
choncho.. Ndinakana poyamba ngati ndimamukonda kapena ayi..(Ndinkaganiza kuti ndi munthu wabwino koma sindinauze aliyense) koma mnzangayo adalimbikira kuyankha kuti ndimugwere. ndiye ndavomereza kuti ndimamukonda… koma ndinanena kuti palibe ntchito yomudziwitsa.. chifukwa sindilankhula naye kapena kukumana naye.. Apanso mnzangayo ananditsimikizira kuti palibe cholakwika kucheza naye kuti tidziwane… zachisoni ndidavomera..(Ndikudandaula kuti aloooooot)
nditadziimba mlandu ndinawauza amayi za iye ndipo anandipempha kuti ndisiye kucheza nawo.. ndipo ndinatero
Koma ndikuwopa … Ndikuopa kuti Allah sangandikhululukire.. kapena kuti wina adziwe… kapena kuti ndidzakhala wofooka ndi kulankhula naye kachiwiri…
chonde ndikufuna malangizo
Zikomo
Assalamu Alaikum sister,
Mtumiki Muhammad (mtendere ukhale pa iye) adatero: “Ndikulumbirira Amene m’manja mwake muli moyo wanga, mukadakhala anthu osachimwa, Mulungu akakuchotsani ndikulowetsani m’malo mwa anthu ochimwa, kenako nkupempha chikhululuko kwa Allah kuti awakhululukire.” [Sahh Muslim (2687)]
Mfundo yakuti munazindikira zomwe munachita zinali zolakwika ndikutulukamo ndi sitepe yaikulu yokha. Anthu ambiri alibe mphamvu zochitira zimenezo. kotero kuddos kwa inu 🙂
Usaope kupempha chikhululuko kwa Allah, chifukwa akuikonda monga momwe zalembedwera m’Qur’an monga iyi:
Ndipo ndithu, Ndithu, ine Ngokhululuka kwa amene walapa, amakhulupirira (mu Umodzi Wanga, ndipo sandiphatikiza m’chipembedzo chilichonse) ndipo amachita zabwino zabwino, ndiyeno pitirizani kuchita zimenezo, (mpaka imfa yake). [Ta-Ha 20:82]
Tayandikira masiku khumi omaliza a Ramadan, ndipo imodzi mwa ma dua omwe Mtumiki adalimbikitsa ndi :
O, Allah! Inu ndinu okhululuka ndipo mumakonda chikhululuko, choncho ndikhululukireni
O Allah, Inu ndinu wokhululuka ndipo mumakonda kukhululukira, choncho ndikhululukireni.(Ahmad, Ibn Majah |, ndi Tirmidhi)
Funsani istighfar zambiri ndipo musaope kulapa.
Allah Ngodziwa kwambiri.
salamualaikum. wow izi ndi zodabwitsa. m'malo mwake ndizomwe ndidakumana nazo pano. m'bale wachisilamu akugwira ntchito kwathu ndipo ndimamusirira kwambiri chifukwa cha chipembedzo chake ndipo ndimamukonda kwambiri. ndimaganiza kuti ndi uchimo kukonda munthu. chochititsa chidwi tonsefe tikufuna ukwati wa halal. koma ndingamufikire bwanji mnyamatayu popeza sindingathe kumuyankhula choncho ndipo samamuyang'ana nkhope yake. Ndimakhala womasuka nthawi iliyonse ali pafupi chifukwa ndimamukonda pansi pamtima wanga. munthu uyu ndi wosavuta komanso 80percent wa zomwe ndikuyang'ana mwa okwatirana. ndithana naye bwanji kapena ndimudziwitse kuti ndikufuna andikwatire? walis anga ndi akhristu ndipo ndine Msilamu ndekha m'banja langa. makolo anga anali Asilamu komanso mlezi wanga. koma onse afa tsopano. alongo anga onse ndi Akhristu komanso makolo anga ondilera. kunena zoona ndimakhala ndekha ndipo ndikufunadi kukwatiwa. ndinamva mnyamatayu akunena kuti akufunadi kukwatira pofika chaka chamawa. nditani pamenepa? pano ndikupemphera pankhaniyi ndikupempha Allah kuti andiwone. chonde thandizani!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ndimafunikira malangizo chifukwa ndizovuta kwambiri kukhala kudera lino popanda makolo.
Assalam o Alaikum
Sister Ayesha,
Mutha kufunafuna thandizo kwa imam wakumzikiti kapena banja lawo kuti akhale ali kumbali yanu.
Sindikudziwa kuti ndimamukonda kapena ayi koma ndimayesetsa kumuwona ndikudziwa kuti ndizolakwika ndikunong'oneza bondo … Sindimakondwera ndi zochita zake kapena chikhalidwe chake cha Chisilamu koma penapake ndidachita chidwi ndi kuyamika kwake komanso zolankhula zake zomwe amachita zomwe ndikuvomerezanso kuti ndizolakwika.
Sindimaulula momwe ndimamverera ndimamupewa nthawi iliyonse yomwe ali komweko ndimayesetsa kuchita mwano koma kusukulu tikakhala pamodzi ndimamuyang'ana kwambiri coंz anali kuchita zinthu zoseketsa tsopano pls ndithandizeni kuti ndilape komanso momwe ndingapewere munthu ameneyu.
Zabwino kwambiri………..Chisilamu chimachotsa zinthu zonse mosavuta,timangofunika chikhulupiriro & tsatirani iwo , ngati Msilamu aliyense atsatira malamulo achisilamu mokhulupirika palibe mwayi wochimwa.mashallah nice post.
Assalamo alaikum….
Ndimakonda mutuwo…zikomo pokweza mutuwu.. Komabe, gf/bf ndiyofala masiku ano… zachisoni kunena kuti ubale wina wa gf/bf adalephera kusunga ubale chifukwa cha zovuta zina (banja,moyo) ndipo zinatha kusweka.nkhani zakubanja monga banja la atsikana sakonda mtsikana/mnyamata chifukwa ndi wosauka kapena amabwezanso chisilamu kapena china chilichonse.…ena amatha kusweka chifukwa mwamuna sangakwanitse kupereka mahari omwe banja la atsikana lidapempha..ena ndi chifukwa cha kunyada…tsopano m'nkhaniyi zomwe mnyamata/msungwana amachita kuti apeze chilolezo cha mtsikana wali? Mwamuna ndi wobwerera ndipo mkazi ndi woyera…aali ndi nkhani yoti munthuyo wabwerera ndipo sakonda…
Ndawerenga ma comment ake onse and inshalla God wapereka ma brains kuganiza ad kumvetsa zinthu
assalamalicum…ndinakumana ndi my boyfrnd 1 chaka chapitacho ndipo tonse timakondana ndipo tikufuna kukwatirana posachedwa….koma ndikuwopa kuwauza makolo anga za iye bwanji ngati avulazidwa….abale ake ali okonzeka kuyankhula ndi makolo anga koma ndikuwopa kuwawuza makolo anga…mungandiuzeko momwe ndingayandikire amayi anga kuwauza abt m'njira yomwe amandimvetsetsa chifukwa chovulala….plz yankho
Wa Alaikum Salam sister,
Ndizosangalatsa kumva kuti simukufuna kukhumudwitsa kholo lanu. Alamdulillah pa zimenezo!
Tsopano yankho,choyamba, kusakanikirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kukhala pachibwenzi sikuloledwa mu Chisilamu ndipo ndi chilango.
Mwina munamvapo kuti m’baleyo ndi wakhalidwe labwino komanso wakhalidwe labwino ndipo mwina anagwa m’njira imeneyi ndipo amafuna kukwatira.. Izo ziri bwino.
Koma chimene sichiloledwa n’chakuti tizikumana ndi m’baleyo, kucheza, kutumiza maimelo etc. ndimopanda kudziwa kwa makolo.
Ndikupemphani kuti mudule makalata onse ndi m’baleyo komanso kuti muteteze nonse inu ku ubale wa haraam. Lolani m'bale ndi makolo ake kukhudzana Wali wanu (Pano, makolo anu) ndipo pemphani dzanja lanu la ukwati mwachindunji. Zimenezo zikhala zabwino kwa inu nonse inshallah.
Ndipo Mulungu Ngodziwa kwambiri
Moni
ndili pa chibwenzi ndi mnyamata wachisilamu…ndipo ichi chidzakhala ubale woyamba kukhala nawo,ankakonda kukankhira kwanga ndi kunena kuti timakonda tokha.
Nthawi ina anandiuza kuti akufuna kugonana ndi ine…koma ndimakana chabe bcos i knw is a Tchimo…xo posachedwapa ndikuona kuti sindikumukondanso chifukwa amandisokoneza chifukwa akufuna kundiwona ine ndikukana kumuona basi bcose am gettin to undastand dat wat av been doin all this well is Haram..vuto ndilakuti ndiyenda bwanji Muuzeni kuti sindingalowenso ndipo sindikufunanso kuchita nawo chibwenzi mpaka wen am ready.. ndikuopa Hurtin him…takhala togeda kwa 3yrs nw….pls ndikupempha malangizo anu plsss
Assalamu Alaikum sister,
Alhamdulillah kuti mwazindikira kuti zomwe mukuchitazo ndi zolakwika. Ambiri sadafune koma Mulungu wakutsogolerani.
Mukhale omasuka ndi moona mtima kwa mbaleyo ndipo mukamalankhulana onetsetsani kuti mukuyang'ana kwambiri momwe ubalewo ulili Haraam m'malo momupangitsa kumva kuti ndi vuto lake.. Ndipo mukangopereka zomwe muyenera kunena, chonde khazikikani m'chigamulo chanu ndipo musagwedezeke ndi kubwerera kwa iye. Mukuchita izi chifukwa cha Allah choncho muyenera kumuopa kwambiri kuposa kuvulaza mbale.
Satana akhoza kuyesera kuti mubwerere kwa iye, koma chonde pangani ma tauba ambiri ndipo muyandikire kwa Allah kudzera mu pemphero ndi powerenga Quran.
Allah akufewetseni ndikukulipirani chifukwa cha khama lanu. Ndipo akupatseni mkazi wabwino. Amene!
Assalamu Alaikum, Ndili ndi funso. Ndimakonda mnyamata uyu ndipo amandikonda. Timalankhula limodzi pa Facebook kwambiri. Ndife azisuweni ndipo mwina tikukwatirana. Makolo anga nthawi zina amachita nthabwala zoti tikwatirana. Tikulankhula limodzi pa Facebook haram? Amati amandikonda kwambiri koma sindinanenepo? Kodi nditani? Ndili ndi nkhawa kuti ndi haram kwambiri. Chonde thandizani.
Zikomo
Wa alaikum salam sister,
Ubale uliwonse kunja kwa kupatulika kwa ukwati ndi mwamuna yemwe si Mahram ndi Haraam, ngakhale munthuyo ndi bwenzi lako. zilibe kanthu kaya mukulankhulana kapena mukungocheza. Ndikukulangizani kuti chonde siyani kucheza ndi m'baleyu ndikupempha kulapa kwa Allah. Ndi bwino kusiya panopa kusiyana ndi kupitiriza n’kumanong’oneza bondo, chifukwa pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi ali okha, wachitatu ndi Satana.
Allah akufewetseni. Amene.
Moni,
Ndatsala pang'ono kupanga chibwenzi ndi mnyamatayu. Tikungodikira chifukwa tonse ndife achichepere. Makolo athu onse amadziwa ndipo timangodikirira kuti titolere tikadzakula. Kodi ndi haram tikamalankhula ndikulemberana mameseji, ndi zina.
Jazak Al Khair
Ndikufuna malangizo ndakhala pachibwenzi kwa chaka chopitilira.
Ine ndi mnzanga tili paulendowu wokhala anthu olungama. Tonse tikuwerenga Quran ndipo titha kukhala Asilamu. Inshallah .
Tonse timamvetsetsa kuti ndi haram kukhala pachibwenzi mu Islam koma tonse timasokonezeka ndipo ndimakhala ndi nkhawa kuti tipita ku gehena.. Tili ndi malingaliro amphamvu kwambiri kwa wina ndi mnzake. Ndikumvetsetsa kuti sitinalowe muubwenzi uwu koyera mwachitsanzo, sitinali anthu olungama nthawi imeneyo, lonse palibe kugonana musanakwatirane etc.
Ubale wathu ndi wopindulitsa, timakamba za moyo, Chisilamu etc …… palibe nzeru .
Kodi timachita chiyani ? THANDIZENI.
Ndinayiwalanso kutchula ndimaona kuti tikuyesedwa kwambiri ndi Allah kuyambira pomwe tidayamba kuwerenga Quran. Kodi tiyenera kukwatira ngakhale kuti sitiri achisilamu ? Kodi banja/ubale wathu ukhala ngati haram??
Assalamulykum. Ndili ndi funso. Posachedwapa ndakumana ndi munthuyu pa intaneti komanso maso ndi maso kawiri. Tonse timakondana wina ndi mzake ndipo tapita ku mabanja athu kuti titenge sitepe yotsatira. Asananene kuti atha kupanga ukwati waung'ono mu Epulo koma akufuna kuti apiteko(monga akuganiza kuti akadzakwatirana ndi ine sadzakhala ndi mwayi - chifukwa idzakhala nthawi yoyambitsa banja.) ndipo tsopano akufuna kukwatira chaka chamawa August-chimene chiri nthawi ya zaka. Sindidandaula kumudikirira chaka ngati titha kupanga chinkhoswe chisanachitike. Funso langa ndilakuti: Kodi ndizololedwa kukhala ndi chibwenzi kunena chaka chino, kenako August 2015 khalani ndi mwambo waukwati. ? Amafuna kukhala ndi ndalama zokwanira zopezera banja. Ndimamukonda kwambiri popeza pali zomverera pamenepo ndipo sindikufuna kuyambanso kusaka mkwati ndipo sindikudziwa ngati malingaliro anga atha ndikapeza wina watsopano.. Ndikudziwa kuti achinyamata masiku ano akhala ndi chibwenzi kwanthawi yayitali amadabwa kuti zili bwino. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite. Nkhawa yanga ndi:nanga bwanji ngati banja langa silikufuna kudikira nthawi yayitali kuti ndikwatire. ? Iwo amangofuna kuti mpirawo ukugwedezeke.
Salaam !
Ndinkafuna kufunsa kuti ndimakondadi munthu nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga . Ndikudziwa kuti iyi ndi haram koma zidachitika kuti ndi wamkulu kuposa ine 7 kapena zaka zisanu ndi zitatu koma zimenezo zilibe kanthu becoz anali intern pa institution ina ndimakonzekera premedical test yanga ndipo tsopano zatha sindikupitanso ndipo nayeso kulibeko. .
Poyamba ndimaganiza kuti ndi kuphwanya basi ndiiwala koma ndimamukondabe kumamuganizira nthawi zambiri monga momwe ndimapangira dua chifukwa cha chisangalalo chake pantchito yake. . Ndiye funso langa lenileni ndiloti “KODI IYI NDI HARAM KUMUGANIZA MUNTHU KAPENA KUMPEMPHERA AMENE SI MAHRAM? ?
Assalamu Alaikum sister,
Mutha kupeza yankho la funso lanu mu ulalowu http://islamqa.info/en/82010 🙂
Mtendere ukhale pa inu, ndine wokondwa, chifukwa anzanga adandiuza kuti chikondi ndi haram mu chisilamu.koma ndidawerenga tsamba lanu .likuti chikondi sichimatsutsana ndi chisilamu .so.ndikusangalala ndi nkhani imeneyo
mtendere ukhale nanu.Ndine mtsikana wazaka 18yrs, ndinatsimikiza mtima kupita ku maphunziro apamwamba koma mame ku vuto lazachuma sindinathe. ndiye tsopano ndinaganiza zokwatira koma sindikudziwa kuti ndiwafotokozere bwanji makolo anga, kale mnyamata watumiza mlonda wake koma bambo anga akuoneka kuti sakuvomera pempho lawo. Ndingatani? chonde ndikufuna malangizo.
Assalamualaikum,
Ndi 20 zaka zakubadwa . Ndili pa chibwenzi ndi mtsikana kuyambira pamenepo 4 zaka. Koma tsopano atatha kumva nkhani zambiri ndi khutbah, ndikuopa kukhala pachibwenzi. Mulungu andikhululukire, tinagona kawiri usiku koma osagonana.
Ndiye funso langa ndi, ndisiye kuyanjana naye pambuyo pa siteji yonseyi ? Sindingamulole kulira chifukwa angaganize kuti ndine wachinyengo kapena wachinyengo yemwe ankamukonda.
Koma kunena zoona ndimamukondabe. Koma ndasokonezeka kuti ndipitilize kuyanjana kapena kuyimitsa kuyambira pano.. My frndz knw abt my relation ndipo adandipempha kuti ndisiye chifukwa zitha kuyambitsa mavuto. Koma sindikuganiza kuti zingachitike. Ndipo banja langa silidziwa ubale wanga .
Ndinayesa kuyimitsa mwezi wapitawo, koma tsiku lotsatira sindinathenso kuligwira … Koma tsopano ndikufunika njira yeniyeni kapena kudziwa kuti ndiyenera kuchita chiyani pamoyo wanga..
Ndipo izi zinandipangitsa ine uthenga kwa inu.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukumvetsa mkhalidwe wanga.
Ngati muli ndi mafunso omwe mungafune kufunsa chonde ndithandizeni.
Ndiyenera kumukonda m'njira yowongoka ngati inde,
Mnyamata wachisilamu
Assalamu walaikum
Wa alaikum salam wa rahmathullahi wa barkathuhu,
Poyamba, Kuyamikidwa konse nkwa Mulungu Yemwe adakudziwitsani kuti zimene mukuchitazo nzolakwa. Ndibwino kumva kuti mukuyesera kukonza zolakwika zanu. Akhi, Ndikupangira kuti mufotokozere mlongoyu chifukwa chake kuli kulakwa kupitiriza ubalewu pamaso pa Allah ndiyeno kukathera pamenepo.
Pangani istighfar ndi dua zambiri kwa Allah kuti asunge Iman yanu ndi chifuniro chanu.
Mutha kuchita izi mwanjira ya halal pofika kwa makolo ake ndikumupempha kuti amukwatire. Pempherani Istikhara ndipo ngati zili zabwino kwa inu padziko lapansi ndi lotsatira inshallah zidzachitika.
Allah akufewetseni, Amene
Kulemba uku kunandithandiza kwambiri. Ndine Mkhristu ndipo sindinachite kafukufuku wanga pa malamulo achisilamu mokwanira. Ndinatsimikiza kuti a “ukwati wosakhalitsa” zinali bwino, koma ndinalakwitsa. Sindikumvetsa chifukwa chake munthu wachisilamuyu amaloledwa 35+ ogonana nawo m’maukwati osakhalitsa, koma ndinachita mantha ndimati ndimamukonda patatha miyezi ndi miyezi tili pachibwenzi. Ubale wa zikhulupiriro uyenera kupeŵedwa mwanjira iliyonse. Ndipo inde, Ndalapa ndipo sindidzachitanso tchimo ili. Sindidzamvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe chimayambitsa kugawanika kwakukulu koteroko momwe chikhulupiriro cha Chisilamu chimatsatiridwa. Makolo ake angafanane bwanji ndi namwali yemwe watsatira malamulo a Allah pomwe iye sadatero?
Ndine a 24 wazaka woyembekezera kukwatiwa. Sindinakhalepo ndi chidwi ndi anyamata ndi maubwenzi ndipo nthawi zonse ndimayang'ana maphunziro anga. Tsopano ndikugwira ntchito momasuka, banja langa likufuna woti agwirizane nawo. Koma vuto ndilakuti kukhala ndi digiri ya masters, chiyembekezero cha maganizo a banja langa pa zimene mnyamata oyenerera kwa ine chawonjezeka. Ndipo pali kusagwirizana ndi zomwe ndikuyang'ana pamasewera poyerekeza ndi zomwe banja langa likuyang'ana. Sindinayanjanepo kwenikweni ndi anyamata kotero ndimakhala wosokonezeka panjira yabwino kwambiri yachisilamu yopezera munthu woyenera. Kodi ndikupitiriza kuona mtundu wa mnyamata banja langa kusankha, kapena ndipeze munthu?
Koma bwanji ngati mnyamatayo sadziwa amene wali wake, achite chiyani?
Assalam Alaikum sister,
M’baleyo angafunse mlongoyo nambala ya wali wake popeza ndiyo njira yokhayo yodziwira. Koma adzilekerere ku zimenezo ndi kukhala ndi macheza ena onse ndi wali wake.
Ndili ndi zaka zokonzekera ukwati. Ndili ndi bf mzungu yemwe si muslim yemwe sakhulupirira mulungu, koma akufuna moyo ndi ine. Anawerenga mabuku atatu a Koran, anavomera kulera anawo monga Msilamu, anavomera kusiya mowa ndi nkhumba, koma akukana kulowa m’Chisilamu! Ndayesera kumupangitsa kuti awerenge ndikumvetsetsa kuti atembenuke. Chinanso chochita? Iye ali ndi umunthu wofanana, ntchito yabwino yolipidwa, kuchokera kubanja labwino komanso amalemekeza moyo wabanja.
Chondidetsa nkhawa changa ndichakuti ndikufuna mwamuna wachisilamu/wotembenuka mtima, ndi kulowa m’banja molondola. Sindimamasuka ndikuchita bwino, ndipo zimatilepheretsa kupita patsogolo. Ndiyenera kunena kuti munthu uyu ndi wabwino kwambiri kuposa anyamata ena achisilamu. Ndikudziwa kuti akufuna, koma funso ili ndi lomwe likufunika. Ndathetsa chibwenzi katatu chifukwa cha nkhaniyi, ndipo tinakumananso koma mtima wanga umakhala wopanda chifundo popanda iye seriously its depressing. Chonde thandizani!
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Sister , Ndikupemphera kuti muli ndi thanzi labwino komanso eemaan aameen . Zomwe muli nazo zikufunika thandizo kuchokera kwa Shaykh kapena Imam kapena Phungu wachisilamu kotero funsani iwo mokoma mtima .
Choyamba, tikufuna kukuuzani kuti mukafuna mwamuna kapena mkazi , Chilungamo ndi Iemaan za munthuyo zikhale zoyamba zomwe zikuyenera kukusangalatsani . Izi zikutanthauza kudzipereka kwawo ku chipembedzo chathu cha Chisilamu . Zina monga ntchito yolipidwa bwino , Banja ndi zina zimabwera pambuyo pake . Kudula kwanu kwa munthuyu kukhala wabwino kuposa abale achisilamu kungakhale kolakwika . Mongadi pali abale ambiri ochita bwino omwe ali ndi makhalidwe abwino .
Kachiwiri komanso chofunika kwambiri ndi tchimo lalikulu kuyankhula ndi munthu amene si Mahram . Muyenera kuyimitsa nthawi yomweyo. Mudzafunikadi kulapa moona mtima ndipo musadzachitenso tchimo ili ndikukhudza Wali wanu ndi banja akufunafuna mkazi wabwino Muslim kwa inu..
Chachitatu , Munthu amene mwamutchula apa wawerenga Quran mawu a Allah ‘KATATU’ ndipo adakanidwa kuvomereza Chisilamu . Ndithu, Mulungu amamuongola amene wamfuna , Koma mitima ikadindidwa palibe amene angamtsegulire koma Allah . Ndithu, pali nzeru za Allah powalola amuna achisilamu okhawo kuvomera anthu a m’mabuku kuti akhale akazi awo, koma akazi achisilamu alibe mwayi umenewu. , komabe nkofunika kukhulupilira mwa Allah kuti ndi Mulungu Yekhayo komanso kuti Muhammad sallAllahu alaihi wassalam ndi Mtumiki Wake. . Komabe muyenera kulumikizana ndi masjid kuti mumupatse dawah osati kuchita nokha . Ngati sabwereranso ku Chisilamu waletsedwa kwa inu kukhala mkazi wake .
Pomaliza , Lapani kwa Allah moona mtima, ndipo alowetseni Banja lanu pakukufunirani mkazi kapena mwamuna .
Assalmo alaikum…..
Ndimakonda wina. ndi 24 zaka.. Ndikufuna kumukwatira.. Mayi ake ndi bambo ake onse anagwirizana ..ndinawauzanso amayi anga. nayenso anavomera..koma kuphunzira kwanga sikunathe. Ichi ndichifukwa chake sindingathe kulowa muukwati..ndinakumana naye nthawi zingapo. Koma tsopano ndinaima kuti ndikumane naye, monga asanalowe m'banja sikuloledwa mu chisilamu..Nthawi zonse mupatseni mankhwala opita ku sunnah ndi quran..amandikondadi ine ndi inenso., Amatsatira mawu anga…timalankhula pafoni basi..Ndipo ndikadadziwa, asanagwe m'chikondi, chikondi chisanalowe m'banja sichiloledwa, ndiye sindinalowe nawo muubwenzi umenewu..ndikuopa kwambiri, pamene tikuchita tchimo lalikulu..chonde ndithandizeni, ndingathe kulankhula naye pafoni??
ndipo ngati inde, ndiye ndiyenera bwanji?? ” Ndimakukondani sona” mawu awa , amakonda kwambiri kumva kuchokera kwa ine..Kodi sindingamuuze, mawu awa???
Wa Alaikum salam brother,
Popeza mukudziwa kale kuti maubwenzi asanakwatirane ndi oletsedwa mu Islam, siziyenera kukhala zovuta kuti mumvetse kuti ngakhale kulankhula sikuloledwa.. Mwamuna ndi mkazi akakhala okha wachitatu ndi satana. Ngakhale awiri mwa inu mukuyankhula kudzera pa foni shaitan adzakhalapo nthawi zonse kuti akusocheretseni nonse. Kunenanso mawu osonyeza chikondi musanalowe m’banja nakonso n’koletsedwa.
Alhamdulillah makolo ako nonse avomereza ukwatiwo. M'bale ngati mukuona kuti simungathe kusunga malingaliro anu ndi bwino kuti mukwatire kuposa kugwera mu Haram. Ndipo ponena za ‘kuphunzitsa’ iye za Chisilamu ndingamuuze kuti azikaphunzira nawo makalasi a azilongo m'malo moti inu muwaphunzitse. Zinthu zambiri zachitika m'moyo wa anthu kuti kwathunthu kutsutsana Islam basi mwamuna ndi mkazi kucheza yekha 'kuphunzira’ za Chisilamu.
Pomaliza, Lapani kwa Mulungu moona mtima.
Assalamu alaikum. Pls ndingafunsire msungwana wamsinkhu wofanana ndi wanga ali wakhanda osapangana naye zamtundu uliwonse asanamukwatire..
Assalmo alaikum
Ndine wa m'banja lachisilamu pakistani. Chaka chapitacho ndinakumana ndi Mkristu Mzungu yemwe adandithandiza pamavuto omwe ndimakumana nawo panthawiyo.. Nkhani yayitali tidakondana. Ndine 24 ndipo iye ali 26. Ndidamuuza kuti sindingakwatire naye chifukwa ndine Msilamu komanso ndi mkhristu ndiye tilibe tsogolo poyankha zomwe adalonjeza kuti andibwerera.. Koma ndinamuuza kuti sindikufuna kuti abwerere kwa ine ndikungofuna kuti avomereze chisilamu ndi malamulo ake ngati akufuna kuchokera mu mtima mwake.. Ndiye adayamba kuyang'ana mmwamba ndikuyamba kuwerenga za Chisilamu ndipo kenaka adayamba kuwerenga Quran momasulira popeza ili ndi mayankho amafunso athu onse.. Pamenepa makolo anga anazindikira ndipo anandiuza kuti ngati ndikufuna kukhala naye ndiye ndisiye banja langa. Patha chaka tsopano ndipo mnyamatayo akubwerera mwezi uno ndipo akuchita izi chifukwa akufuna kuchokera pansi pamtima.. Mayi anga ndawawuza ndipo ndawauza kuti mnyamatayu akufuna kubwera kunyumba kwanga ndi makolo ake kuti adzafunsidwe bwino ndipo akufuna kundikwatira koma makolo anga sakuvomerezabe chifukwa akudandaula kuti ena anganene chiyani.. akuganizanso kuti ndi chisankho cholakwika ndipo ndimalephera kumvetsetsa momwe izi zilili chisankho cholakwika chifukwa sali wadera lathu? Koma Chisilamu chimati tisasiyanitse potengera mtundu. Allah akudziwa kuti akhoza kukhala Msilamu wabwino kuposa aliyense wa ife ndipo ndikupemphera kuti atero. Panopa ndili pa nthawi yomwe ndikufuna kukwatiwa ndi mnyamatayu ndipo makolo anga sakufuna kuti nditero ndipo sindikufunanso kuwamvera.. Mayi anga amati ndikhalire ena koma sindikumvetsa enawa akufuna kuti ndikhale nawo chifukwa Chisilamu moyo wathu udzipereke kwa Allah basi.. Sindikudziwanso choti ndichite ndichifukwa chake ndikufuna thandizo pano ndikukhulupirira kuti mutha kundilangiza bwino. Allah akudziwa zomwe zili mu mtima mwanga ndipo pambuyo pa zonsezi ndikawamvera makolo anga ndipo mtsogolomo adzandipempha kuti ndikwatire munthu wina yemwe amamuganizira kuti ndi woyenera kwa ine ndikudziwa kuti sindingathe kumukonda ndi mtima wanga zomwe ndikuganiza kuti zidzatero. musachite chilungamo pa munthu winayo.
Salaam Alaikum Ndalowa Chisilamu chifukwa cha Allah nditadziwananso ndi chibwenzi chomwe chili mndende.. Anatiuza kuti tizicheza kudzera pa foni ndi imelo. Ukunena zowona kuti satana akhale munthu wachitatu pomwe anthu awiri osakwatirana ali okha moona mtima tidayamba macheza osayenera pafoni kwa miyezi ingapo koma siyani mwachangu tonse tidamva ngati ndi zoletsedwa.. Timakondana koma nthawi zina ndimaona ngati anthu ali ndi matanthauzo awoawo pa Qur’an yopatulika. Amalungamitsa zinthu ngati kuti ndife okwatirana panopa koma sitiri! Patatha chaka chathunthu takhala tikukondana kwambiri koma posachedwapa takhala tikugunda mitu pazinthu zosavuta. Sindikufuna kumupweteka ngakhale cholinga chachikulu ndikusangalatsa Allah osati munthu. Funso langa ndilakuti ndingamuwuze bwanji kuti msewu womwe tidadutsawu suli wabwino kwa Emann wathu. Anali Msilamu ndisanakhalepo koma chachikulu changa ndikuti tiyenera kukhala achipembedzo kuzungulira gululo osati m'malo omwe amawona kuti ndi oyenera.. Inshallah chilichose chichita ubwino wa Allah… Khalani Wodalitsidwa
Ndikufuna kukwatira mtsikana wachisilamu yemwe sapemphera kwa Yesu , samamuona ngati mwana wa Mulungu, amakhulupirira mwa mulungu mmodzi,
koma makolo anga akunditsutsa kuti ndikwatire nditani
ine ndi iye tapanga mapulani ambiri ndipo mwanjira iliyonse amalandila moyo wachisilamu akufunanso kukulitsa ana ngati asilamu.
ndingawatsimikizire bwanji makolo anga pomwe sakufuna kumvera
asalamu alaika brother mukungofuna 2 pirira ndikuchita istikara pempha kwa ALLAH
chitsogozo chifukwa iye ndi wodziwa zonse
salamualaekum..chonde ndili kale paubwezi ndi Muslim devoted guy..tinakhala pa chibwenzi kwa zaka ziwiri zapitazi osagonana koma zachikondi.. Kunena za ukwati si chinthu chotsatira kwa ife chifukwa ndidakali pasukulu ndipo nayenso anamaliza sukulu. Ndikuganiza kuti ndachita tchimo lalikulu. Sindikudziwa choti ndichite.
asalamuallikum
Ndine a 18 mtsikana wazaka…ndipo ndakhala paubwenzi ndi mnyamata wakale 3 zaka …Sindikudziwa kuti ndinayamba bwanji kumukonda…koma serious tsopano ndimamukonda kwambiri…pakadali pano ine ndi boyfried sitili malo amodzi ..ndinafika patali kutali ndi kwathu kuti ndiphunzire ndipo ndimaliza ndikamaliza. 2 zaka…
ine ndi chibwezi changa tikufuna tikwatirane ndipo sitikufunanso kukhala pachibwenzi cha haram koma ndife ocheperapo ndipo bambo anga sangalole kuti ndikwatire naye chifukwa sanakhazikike komanso inenso . amangokana ndipo mwina sangandilole kuti ndimukwatire…ndiye chonde ndithandizeni…. Ndikufuna yankho …chonde thandizani!!!!!!!!!!!!
Walaikum salaam. Choyambirira kukumbukira ndikuti palibe ubale womwe ndi haram ungakhale ndi phindu lililonse kapena ubwino uliwonse mmenemo. Nonse muyenera kupempha chikhululuko chenicheni kwa Allah ndi kukonza zolinga zanu ndi kukumbukira kuti palibe dalitso pa chilichonse chimene chili haram.. Maziko a banja labwino amayamba ndi kumvera Allah choyamba, ndipo ngati nonse mukufuna kukwatira ndipo atate wanu akuletsani, Zidzakulimbikitsani kuti mubwererenso mu haram. Pembedzani moona mtima kwa Allah kuti akuthandizeni kukonza zinthuzo kenako chita istikhara ndikupita kukalankhula ndi imaam kapena Sheikh yemwe angalangize bambo ako ndikuwona zomwe zikuchitika.. Ngati abambo anu sakumverani, adzamvera Sheikh. Pambuyo pake, muyenera kupirira ndi kudalira Mulungu. Ngati kukhala pabanja ndikwabwino kwa inu, Kenako Mulungu Akufewetsetsani. Ngati ayi, mudzapeza zovuta zambiri – Ndipo ichi ndi chisonyezo chakuti sikuli bwino kwa inu. Kaya zotsatira zake zingakhale zotani, muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuvomereza, chifukwa mukamachita istikhara, Mukufunsira kwa Allah SWT ndikumufunsa amene adakulengani zomwe zili zabwino kwa inu. Allah akufewetseni inu Ameen
As-salaamu alaykum warahmatullah, chonde kodi ndi zololedwa kwa mnyamata/mtsikana amene akhala pa chibwenzi kwa zaka 4 koma ngati atalapa n’kuzindikira kuti zimene akuchitazo nzolakwika., kuti, yeretsani zolinga zawo, akhoza kukonza zinthu n’kukwatiranabe?
Chonde ndithandizeni ndikofunikira kwambiri m'moyo wanga!!!!!
Chisilamu sichilola mwamuna kuyandikira mtsikana. Ngati mneneri Muhammad anatembenuza mutu wa mnyamata chifukwa anali m'chikondi ndi mtsikana. ndani akudziwa ngati anyamata amenewo chikondi chinali choyera? ndipo zikanawatsogolera onse aŵiri ku chisangalalo chachikulu ndi chipambano. ngati zimenezo zikanati zichitike ndiye mundiuze inu Asilamu onse muli ndi yankho pa zimenezo?
Ndinali ndi vuto ndili msungwana woyandikira m'gulu lachisilamu. tsiku lina ndikanamenyedwa mpaka kufa chifukwa chofuna kuyandikira mtsikana wina yemwe adandiyang'ana m'maso mwanga ndipo ndidawona kuti nayenso amandikonda.. anyamata ankafuna kundipha koma ndinalandira chenjezo. koma kumayiko akumadzulo atsikana ali ndi ufulu ndi ufulu wawo. amandifunsa nthawi zambiri pagulu.onani kusiyana kwa Asilamu ndi anthu akumadzulo. Chisilamu chikundimvetsa chisoni. kwenikweni.
@Cake Islam samakhumudwitsa aliyense. Chisilamu ndi chipembedzo cha mtendere. Chitani Istekhara ndikuyitana Allah mukakhala m'mavuto kapena m'malo osokonezeka kudzera m'mapemphero. Ndithu, Mulungu akudziwa zomwe zili zabwino kwa zolengedwa Zake. Muyenera kukhala ndi Sabr zambiri. Chisilamu chili ndi lamulo limodzi padziko lonse lapansi mwina kummawa kapena kumadzulo. Simukuyenera kukhumudwa ndi Chisilamu, zikhoza kukhala chinachake chomwe chingakhale njira yanu yofikira sinali yolondola, mutha kuyesa njira ina yomwe ingatsimikizire kuti mutha kukwatira mtsikanayo pamaso pa abale ake.
Assalamu alaikum. Ndasokonezeka kwambiri nazo. Bwanji ngati munthuyo akufuna kukutengerani kumalo otseguka kuti mwina kulankhula nanu za cholinga chake ndipo palibe Wali padziko? Kodi zikadali zolakwika?
Asalam Alaykum,
Nkhani yanga ndi yovuta koma ndiifupikitsa. Kanthawi kumbuyo, Sindinali Msilamu. Ndinakumana ndi mtsikanayu ndipo tinalemberana mameseji. Titadziwana wina ndi mzake tinayamba kukondana. Sizinakhazikike pamawonekedwe monga sitinakumanepo pamasom'pamaso, koma mosamalitsa opanda khalidwe. Posachedwapa, Ndinakhala Msilamu. Tonse timakhulupirira kuti kulemberana makalata kunali haram. Komabe tonse tikufuna ukwati. Nkhani ndife tonse ochokera m'mayiko osiyanasiyana ndipo sindingathe kumufunsa Wali wake panobe. Tapangana zoti ndipite 5 zaka pambuyo pa yunivesite yake, ndipo ine ndikumufunsa wali wake ndiye. Koma ndikuopa kuti angandikane chifukwa cha Haramu yathu yoyambira. Nditani? Chonde thandizani!
Assslmoilkum
ndi 24 mwana wazaka zakubadwa ndine Msilamu ndimakondana naye 40 chaka mkazi chifukwa iye si Muslim koma akufuna kuvomereza Islam. Ndipo amandiuza kuti ndikwatire….ndingathe?
Walaikum salaam warahmatullah, chonde wonetsetsani kuti mlongo amene mukumufunsayo alowa m'Chisilamu moyenera ndikumvetsetsa zomwe zimafunikira kwa deen wathu musanapange chisankho chokwatira.. Chonde muthandizeni kumulondolera kwa imam wakumeneko yemwe azitha kumulangiza mlongoyu pa nkhani zonse za deen. Chonde onetsetsani kuti mwachita istkihara musanapange chisankho chokwatiranso. jzk
Assalamu Alaikum
Ndikayika pano. Akazi amayenera kuphimba nkhope zawo ndi kusaulula pamaso pa amuna ena. Ndiye mnyamata angakwatire bwanji mtsikana aliyense ? Adzagwa bwanji ndi munthu yemwe sanamuonepo ? Osachepera m'dziko lamakono, palibe amene amafuna kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene sanamuonepo kapena sakumudziwa. Komanso, amafuna kuti akhale wokongola. Ndi deal yanji apa ? Chonde yankhani
Niqab SI kavalo – Qur'an imatchula chilichonse kupatula manja ndi nkhope zophimbidwa. Ngakhale ngati wina akufuna kuvala niqaab, pamene wina abwera kudzakufunsani, Chisilamu chimapereka chilolezo kwa mwamuna kuona nkhope ya mkazi.
Ndikufuna kudziwa kuti ngati ndili pachibwenzi kuyambira chaka chatha ndiye kuti ndiyenera kuthetsa chibwenzicho . .ndi Chisilamu chikunena zimenezo?
Chisilamu sichilola kukhala ndi ubale wapamtima / wapamtima ndi aliyense yemwe si mnzathu. Kukonda munthu si vuto – ndikuchita zinthu zina osati ukwati umene uli haram
Mulungu! Mukumva mawu anga, Mukuwona mkhalidwe wanga, Inu mukudziwa zimene zili zoonekera ndi zobisika mwa ine; palibe chobisika kwa Inu. Ndi ine ndekha amene ndikusowa, wodzichepetsa wofunafuna chikhululuko Chanu. Ndikukupemphani ndi kudzichepetsa mu mtima wanga, ndi kunthunthumira ndi mantha, Kugwada ndi kusowa chochita.
O Allah! Ndipatseni chikhulupiriro cholimba, ubwino wa khalidwe, kukhululukidwa kwa machimo anga, ndi chisangalalo Chanu chamuyaya pa tsiku lomaliza.
Madalitso a Allah akhale pa Muhammad ( S.A.W) ndi banja lake ndi Maswahaaba ake.
Ndine mtsikana wa zaka 22. Ndinkakonda mnyamata wa ku University koma sindinalowe naye muubwenzi wa haraam. Koma anandinamiza kuti amandikonda. Wapanga zinthu ngati kukopana ndi mlongo wanga koma kenako anati anazindikira kulakwa kwake ndipo akufunanso kundikwatira.. Koma sindinamupatse mpata chifukwa nthawi zonse ndimaganiza kuti amandinyenga. Tsopano, Ndili pachibwenzi ndi munthu wina yemwe sindikudziwa ngati ndimamukonda. Sindingathe kudalira Amuna chifukwa cha zomwe zidandichitikira m'mbuyomu. Ndi dongosolo laukwati lomwe ndidati YES chifukwa ndi wopembedza, wosamala kwambiri, amasamalira banja lake, wooneka bwino ndipo ndidakhulupirira kuti Allah adzandisankha bwino. Komanso, makolo anga ankamukonda kwambiri. Timalankhula pa mameseji, koma sindimakonda kucheza naye pa mameseji ndikumuululira za moyo wanga pakadali pano tili pachibwenzi koma osakwatirana. & ndili ndi vuto la trust. Komanso, Sindine wokonda kutsegulira munthu yemwe ndingakwatirane naye pa mameseji ndipo bwenzi langa limakonda kunditumizira mameseji ndikumalankhula nane chifukwa ndi ubale wautali.. Sitingakwatire pompano chifukwa ndiyenera kumaliza maphunziro anga. Nthawi ya chibwenzi kwa chaka & kenako tidzakwatirana InshaAllah. Chonde nditsogolereni pankhaniyi. Mutu wanga uli pamavuto.
Mlongo, tikumvetsa kuti izi ndizovuta kwa inu, ndipo insha’Allah akulangizani momwe tingathere. Choyamba, ngati m'bale amene mukufuna kumukwatira ali wopembedza ndi wosamalira, ndiye ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino kuti adzakuchitirani zabwino. Chachiwiri, yesetsani kupewa kulankhula ndi m’baleyo popanda wali – ngati mbaleyo ali wopembedza monga mukunena, ndiye sadzasamala. Chachitatu, chonde chitani istikhara yanu. Chachinayi, kumbukirani kuti chokumana nacho chimodzi choyipa sichitanthauza kuti wina aliyense ndi woyipa. Munapanga chisankho choipa ndi mnyamata amene munali kumukonda ndipo anasonyeza kuti ndi wosadalirika. Chachisanu, OSATI kugawana zakale ndi wokondedwa wanu wam'tsogolo chifukwa zitha kusokoneza ubale wanu ndi iye mtsogolo… M'malo mwake, yang'anani kwambiri pa TSOGOLO lanu ndipo bwenzi lanu alibe ufulu wofunsa za m'mbuyomu POKHALA ngati zingamukhudze m'banja mwanu.. Ngati munali ndi chibwenzi ndi mwamuna woyamba (sitikunena kuti munatero), pemphani Mulungu kuti akutsogolereni kuchita zabwino. Pomaliza sister, Mukuchita zabwino poika chidaliro chanu kwa Allah ndi podziwa kuti akuchitirani zabwino. Pitirizani kuchita zimenezo ndipo Allah SWT akufewetsani zinthu zanu ameen.
..tsiku labwino..
Ndine single mama..
Ndi zovomelezeka kwa mamuna wachisilamu kuti ali ndi gf ndi mwana wamkazi..kapena sizili bwino..,chonde ndithandizeni….
Sizololedwa kwa Msilamu kukhala paubwenzi ndi wina aliyense kupatula mkazi wake.
Salamu Alaykum. Ndikufuna kuthokoza mochokera pansi pamtima onse amene adathera nthawi yawo yayikulu polemba nkhani yosangalatsa komanso yophunzitsa yofotokoza bwino iyi yomwe ili ndi zambiri zomwe zimapereka chidziwitso chofunikira pabanja.. Ena, ku izo, zingakhale zoyamikiridwa kwambiri ngati wina atha kufotokozera momveka bwino kumapeto kwa nkhaniyi yomwe imati mu kutanthauzira kwanga motere ” İ Ngati wina wagwa m'chikondi ndi munthu payekha ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuti munthu akambirane kaye ndi vali ya mtsikanayo” funso langa nali, kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati tagwa m'chikondi ndi munthu amene tikufuna kumanga naye banja tiyambe kukumana ndi makolo ake osawadziwitsa?? Ndikufuna kumva kuchokera kwa onse omwe angathe kuchotsa kukaikira m'maganizo mwanga. Zikomo
Njira yabwino patsogolo kwenikweni ndi kutumiza maganizo kudzera wali wake – imeneyo ndiyo njira yolunjika yolunjika. Mungafune kumudziwitsa mlongoyo kudzera mwa bwenzi lanu chifukwa mukufuna kuyesa kupewa fitnah yokumana naye kale.. Ndipo Mulungu Ngodziwa bwino.
.Iam muslim nayenso ndi Muslim ndipo banja langa ndi Muslim ndipo banja lake nawonso Muslim. Ndinali bwenzi lake 2 zaka kusukulu kenako pambuyo 2 chaka anayamba kudana nane.kenako ndinasiya sukulu.chifukwa ndinapeza ntchito. Kodi ndingakumane naye kapena kuyesa kumupeza popanda kumukakamiza popanga mapulani ngati amadana nane sindinamufunse mu chisilamu.
Sitikuvomereza pokhapokha ngati mukukumana ndi cholinga chaukwati ndipo ngakhale banja lanu likufunika kutengapo gawo jzk
Asalamo Alaikum , Ndinayamba kukondana ndi umunthu wa mnyamata , Ndinawona pic yake koma sindinakumanepo naye kwenikweni ndikungomuwona pa intaneti , nayenso ndi wachipembedzo koma vuto sindikufuna kuti adziwe kuti ndimamusirira , Ine ndikufuna Allah amuongole kwa ine, Ndikuchita dua tsiku ndi tsiku chifukwa cha chiongoko chake kwa Allah ndi chiongoko changa , njira yokhayo yomwe ndingalumikizane naye ndi kudzera pa intaneti koma sindikufuna kuchita nawo macheza, chiyani sanayankhe, nanga atabwezanso koma kuyankha kwake kunandipangitsa kuti ndigwe mu uchimo kuti ndicheze naye kwambiri ndikumutsata satana ? Ndikuopa kuti machimo anga andipanga kukhala wolakwa pamaso pa Allah, ndiye ndimamupangira dua tsiku lililonse ndipo sindinamutumizireko meseji za izi, kodi chikhulupiriro changa chingalembedwe ndi iye kapena ndimupeza ndi DuasDuas yanga chonde yankhani posachedwa.
Assalamu Alaikum, dzina langa ndine hana , ine 19 zaka zaka. Ndili paubwenzi ndi mnyamata pafupifupi zaka zinayi. Poyamba timacheza ndikulankhula tsiku ndi tsiku koma tsopano tinasiya zonse chifukwa tili ndi zambiri zoti tikwaniritse m'maphunziro athu ndi moyo wathu.. Ngakhale tilibe ma contacts komabe timakondana ndipo tili ndi chiyembekezo chodzakwatirana mtsogolomo insha allah . Chomwe ndikufuna kudziwa ndichakuti , chikondi chathu chotere ndi haram o halal ? Kodi zimaloledwa kukhala ndi chikondi ndi munthu motere ? Sitingalandire madalitso a Allah. ?
Assalamualaikum,
MashaAllah… izi ndi zophweka, zabwino kwambiri.
Nanga bwanji izi? Kale pali munthu wabwino ngati ine. Timakondana wina ndi mzake. Koma, ndikawauza makolo anga za iye… qadarullah makolo anga amamukana munthu ameneyu. Kenako anakwatira mtsikana wina. Ndinadabwa kwambiri komanso ndili ndi chisoni. Ndayesetsa kuti ndimuiwale. Patapita miyezi ingapo mkazi wake anabwera kwa ine. Ndipo adapereka mwamuna wake kwa ine (Ndikudziwa kuti mwamuna wake anamuuza kuti achite). Inde ndimamukonda kwambiri, koma ndikudziwa kuti makolo anga sangandilole kukhala mkazi wake wachiwiri. Ndiye ndikuzikana ndekha. Ndipo ndikumva chisoni kwambiri mpaka pano. Ndingatani? Ndikufuna malangizo.
salaam, dzina langa ndine faaizah ndine Msilamu waku Africa. ndine basi 18 zaka ndipo ndikufuna kukwatiwa ndi zaka zakubadwa 20. ndimamukonda munthu uyu, zake 28. ndimamukonda chifukwa cha Allah, chipembedzo chake ndi kutsatira malamulo achisilamu. palibe haram ikuchitika pakati pathu. sindinamuuzebe momwe ndikumvera. ndikufuna kuti ayambe kundifunsa abambo anga ngati angandikwatire. Kodi nditani?
Ayi! Ndikufuna kugawana nawo vuto langa. Kwenikweni ndimakonda munthu ndipo ndikufuna kukwatirana naye, adachokera ku India ndikugwira ntchito ngati wosewera. Tonse timacheza bwino komanso timalumikizana. Ndimakonda kwambiri kugwa naye. Ndibwino kuti ndimupempherere kwa Allah?? Popeza ndine mtsikana zimandivuta kumufunsira, mungandiuzeko ma dua kapena akulufa kuti akhazikitse chikondi kwa ine mu mtima mwake ndikundikakamiza kuti andikwatire. Chonde thandizani… JazakAllah
asalamu alaikum,
DZINA LANGA NDI SUDHANSHU …..NDINE MHINDU…MONGA ALIYENSE AKUKONDA ASABWERA POKKHODZA CHIKHOMO CHAKO…..ZIKUKHALA NGATI Kudzakhala kukwera kapeti wamatsenga..NDIPO ZIKACHITIKA SIMAMAONA CHIpembedzo CHA MUNTHU WONSE WO. (ZIMENE NDIKUKONDA KAPENA ZIMENE NDIKUKONDA)……ZIMENEZI ZINACHITIKA NDI INE ….. NDINAKONDA NDI MTsikana wachisilamu…NDIMAMKONDA KWAMBIRI (ATATHA MAYI ANGA)…..NAYE AMANDIKONDA…
POKHALA MUKULU NDI IYE ….NDINAPHUNZIRA ZAMBIRI ZA CHIKHALIDWE CHA CHIISLAMU…NDIPO TSOPANO NDIKUKONDA CHIKHALIDWE CHA CHIISLAMU….VUTO LILIKULU NDI INE NDISINDINGASINTHE CHIPEMBEDZO CHANGU CHIFUKWA CHA BANJA LANGA. (KWAMBIRI AMAYI ANGA)..NDIMAKONDA KWAMBIRI TSIKANA YUYO ……NDIKUFUNA NDIKWATIRE NAYE…..NDIZOTHEKA KODI ……NDIKANAKWATIRANA NDIYE …… SINDIDZAKWATIDWA PA MOYO WANGA WONSE ….CHONDE NDITHANDIZENI
assalamualaikum
Mulungu ationgole tonse…ndine wachinyamata,ndipo ndinali ndi chibwenzi..tinkakondana kwambiri…koma makolo anga adandiletsa izi .mapeto pake ndidaphunzira mozama za izi..ndipo ndikulapa kwa allah ,koma sindingathe kudziletsa kumukonda..koma nditha kutulutsa chinthu chimodzi kuti ndisalumikizana nayenso. m'tsogolo mwanga ndikufuna kukhala naye ndipo ndikumupempherera iye ndi chitsogozo changa …izi ndi halaal kapena haraam …Ndinkawerenga Swalah yanga ndikuchita zabwino .. kodi ndilangidwa pambuyo pake chifukwa cha FUNSO ili ? ndi HALAAl kapena HARAAM..ndikufuna malangizo abwino chonde…