Nthiti Yopindika Ndi Yokhota

Mkazi anapangidwa kuchokera ku nthiti ya mwamuna. Iye sanalengedwe kuchokera pamutu pake mpaka pamwamba pake, kapena kuchokera ku mapazi ake kupondedwa. Anapangidwa kuchokera kumbali yake kuti akhale pafupi ndi iye, kuchokera pansi pa dzanja lake kuti atetezedwe ndi iye, ndi pafupi ndi mtima wake kuti azikondedwa ndi iye.

Nthitiyo idapangidwa mwapadera ndi Allah SWT kuti atseke ndi kutsekereza mtima, ndi zomangira zake zozungulira. Nthiti yopindika ndi yokhota, imapangidwa mwangwiro kuti igwire ntchito yake yophimba. Ndipo monga nthiti zimatetezera mtima, akazi analengedwa kuti ateteze ndi kuteteza mwamuna.

Mneneri (macheka) adatero, “Amene akhulupirire mwa Mulungu ndi tsiku lomaliza asapweteke (vuto) mnansi wake. Ndipo ndikulangizani kuti muzisamalira akazi, pakuti adalengedwa kuchokera kunthiti ndipo gawo lokhota kwambiri la nthiti ndilo kumtunda kwake; ngati muyesa kuwongola, chidzasweka, ndipo ngati musiya, idzakhala yokhotakhota, choncho ndikukupemphani kuti muzisamalira akazi.”

Kufananiza pakati pa mkazi ndi nthiti, ndi chikumbutso chokongola kuti akazi, analengedwa opanda ungwiro. Tili ndi masiku athu opuma, maganizo athu ndi achangu ndipo nthawi zina, zitsenderezo za moyo watsiku ndi tsiku zikhoza kukhala pamwamba pathu. Koma zonsezi ndi mbali ya chikhalidwe chathu, ndipo tinalengedwa mwangwiro kuti tikwaniritse udindo wathu woyamba monga osamalira. Maganizo athu amatithandiza kukhala akazi abwino, amayi abwino komanso kukhala achifundo pamene kulolera kukuchepa.

Monga mwamuna, m’pofunika kukumbukira kuti mkazi wanu sadzakhala ndendende mmene mukufunira. Ali ndi njira yakeyake yochitira zinthu, ukadaulo wake komanso zovuta zake, ndipo izi sizingafanane nthawi zonse ndi njira zomwe mumakonda. Koma khalani otsimikiza, ali woyenerera mwangwiro ntchito yake, ndi kwa inu, bwenzi lake losankhidwa.

Wokondedwa Mtumiki SAW, amalangiza kuti musayese ndi kukonza izi ‘zolakwa‘ mwa mkazi wanu, kapena kusintha maganizo ake, koma kumusiya momwe alili ndikuvomereza kuti chikhalidwe chachikazi chimapangidwa ndi mikhalidwe yambiri, zambiri zomwe zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi chibadwa cha munthu. Izi sizikutanthauza, kuti wina ali wam’mwambamwamba;, koma kuti, monga nthiti, amuna ndi akazi adalengedwa motsatira kwambiri cholinga chawo. Mwamuna kapena mkazi sakhala angwiro popanda wina, onse awiri ali nacho chosowa wina ndi mzake, ngati mbali ziwiri za ndalama yangwiro. Pakuti pamene wina ali wofooka wina ali wamphamvu.

Mtumiki SAW adafotokoza za akazi mokongola, ngati zotengera zagalasi zosalimba, kugwiridwa ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro. M'manja mwanu, dziwani kuti muli ndi limodzi la madalitso ochuluka a Allah SWT, mnzako kuti mukhale naye mu bata. Ndipo ngati amathandizidwa bwino, mkazi wanu adzakhala magwero a chimwemwe ndi chitonthozo kwa inu, mawonekedwe a chitetezo ndi chiyero, ndi malo otetezeka m’dziko lopanda ungwiroli.

Choncho, usakakamize mkazi wako. Landirani kusiyana kwake ndikudziwa kuti ndi chikhalidwe chake chamadzimadzi chomwe chimamupangitsa kukhala wangwiro pantchito yake. Osa kakamiza chifuniro chanu pa iye, akazi amalabadira kukoma mtima ndi chikondi, mopepuka kuposa mawu aukali ndi malangizo. Chitani zonse zomwe mungathe kuti musanyalanyaze zolakwa zake, ndipo ganizirani ndi kupindula ndi makhalidwe ake abwino, mudzapeza kuti alipo ochuluka. Koposa zonse, chitirani chifundo iye, pakuti ngati muyesa ndi kumuwongola, zedi mokwanira, monga nthiti… mudzamuthyola.

‘Akazi ali ngati nthiti zopindika chifukwa cha maganizo awo, ndi m’banja lililonse, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa momwe mungasamalire malingaliro anu kuti mukhale ndi nyumba yosangalatsa.

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