Ubwino Wake ndi Akazi Ake ( Conjugal Life )

Gwero :Kuchokera m'buku la 'Njira za Mtumiki woyela Mohammad (mtendere ukhale pa iye ) Wolemba Dr. Abdul Hai Arafi
Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) anali wosamala posunga chilungamo ndi chilungamo kwa akazi ake popanda kupanga tsankho pakati pawo.. Koma ponena za chikondi, ankakonda kunena: "O, Allah! Zinthu zonse zimene ndili nazo ulamuliro, Ine ndawagawa mofanana pakati pawo. Koma iwe usandidzudzule chifukwa cha zomwe sindingathe kuchita.” (M'mayambiriro anali kutanthauza udindo wapagulu komanso chikondi ndi chiyanjano).

Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) adachitanso chisudzulo koma adachichotsa. Iye anachitanso El’a (Lumbirirani kupatukana ndi mkazi kwa nyengo inayake) mpaka akazi ake anali nawo.

Khalidwe lake ndi akazi ake linali chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri cha makhalidwe abwino. Ankapumira pa bondo la Hadrat Aisha ndipo ankawerenganso QURAAN yopatulika pamalo amenewa. Nthawi zina zinkachitika kuti pamene iye anali msambo, akamayanjanabe naye ngakhale pamene anali kusala kudya. Zonsezi zinali zotsatira za kukoma mtima kwake ndi makhalidwe abwino kwa akazi ake. Pamene adaganiza zoyamba ulendo, adzachita mayere pakati pa akazi ake ndi amene adawatchula dzina lawo apite naye. Motero palibe amene angakhale ndi chifukwa chong'ung'udza.

Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) ankati: Wabwino mwa inu ndi amene amachitira mkazi wake zabwino. Khalidwe langa ndi abale anga ndi labwino koposa nonse.

Tsiku lililonse pambuyo pa Swalaah ya Asr, ankayendera akazi ake. Iye ankakhala nawo, funsani za thanzi lawo ndi zina. Usiku kugwa amapita kwa mkazi amene nthawi yake inali ndi kukagona kumeneko.

Hazrat Aishah (Radi Allaahu Ta’ala Anha) adafotokoza kuti anali wosamala kwambiri poyang'ana kutembenuka kotero kuti sanakondeko wina kuposa mnzake. Sizinkachitika kawirikawiri kuti amalephera kuyendera akazi ake tsiku lililonse. Hadrat Safya (Radi Allaahu Ta’ala Anha) nthawi ina adanena kwa Hadrat Aisha (Radi Allaahu Ta’ala Anha). Ngati mungapindule ndi Mneneri (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) za ine, Ndidzapereka nthawi yanga kwa inu mokondwa'. Adavomera ndipo adapita kwa iye pa tsiku la nthawi ya Hadrat Safiya. Anafunsa, Aisha! Mwabwera bwanji lero? Bwererani ndi nthawi ya Safiya. Adayankha choncho, Umenewo ndi ubwino wa ALLAH. Amaupereka kwa amene wamfuna: nafotokoza nkhani yonse. Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) choncho adayanjanitsidwa ndi Hadrat Safiya.

Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) ankayendera akazi ake nthawi iliyonse usiku, m’maola oyambirira komanso m’maola otsiriza, Nthawi zina amagona akamaliza kusamba ndipo nthawi zina akamaliza wudhu basi.
Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) Ankakonda kuitanira atsikana a Answar kuti azisewera ndi Hadrat Aisha ndipo iyenso adalowa nawo muzinthu zololedwa. Monga ndi pamene Aishah amamwa madzi, + Anatenganso chikho chimene anamweramo. Momwemonso akamatafuna nyama ya fupa, ankatenga fupalo n’kumatafuna gawo lotsalalo kuyambira pomwe amadya..

Zikunenedwa kuti nthawi ina adapikisana ndi Hadrat 'Aishah (Radi Allaahu Ta’ala Anha) mu mpikisano ndipo anathamanga onse awiri pamodzi. Hadrat 'Aishah adapambana mpikisanowu. Patapita zaka zingapo, anathamanganso pamodzi. Nthawi iyi Mneneri anapambana. Chifukwa chake chinali chimenecho pa nthawi yoyamba, Hadrat Aishah ali ndi thupi labwinobwino, koma chachiwiri anali atakula. Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) adatero, ‘Popambana lero, Ndakufananiza kupambana kwanu kale. [Madarij-un-Nabuwah]
Pa nthawi imene akazi a Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) anafotokozera nthano kapena kufotokoza zochitika zakale, anamvetsera mwatcheru komanso nthawi zina, anatchula zochitika za moyo wake. Hazrat Aishah (Radi Allaahu Ta’ala Anha) adafotokoza: “Ankakonda kukhala pakati pathu n’kumalankhula ndi kuseka m’njira yoti tisamaone ngati anali mneneri wotsimikiza mtima.. Koma ngati nkhani ina yachipembedzo itakula kapena inali nthawi ya Swalaah, kenako anaonekera kukhala munthu wina.

Panalibe chiletso pa akazi pa nkhani ya kudya ndi kuvala. Iwo ankadya ndi kuvala chilichonse chimene ankakonda, ngakhale chifukwa cha zovuta chakudya chopatsa thanzi chinalibe. Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) sanakonde zokometsera za golidi kapena siliva za anthu a m’banja lake. M’masiku amenewo, za minyanga ya njovu zinali zotchuka. Analangiza kuvala zodzikongoletsera zoterezi. Iye ankafuna kuti akazi ake azikhala aukhondo ndiponso aukhondo. Sanawadzudzule kapena kuwalankhula mwaukali kapena motsutsa, ngati pali china chake chimene sangakonde.

Hazrat Aishah (Radi Allaahu Ta’ala Anha) wafotokoza kuti Mtumiki woyela (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) akalowa m’nyumbamo ali ndi kakhalidwe kokondweretsa ndi kumwetulira pamilomo yake. [Uswa-e-Hasana]

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Gwero :Kuchokera m'buku la 'Njira za Mtumiki woyela Mohammad (mtendere ukhale pa iye ) Wolemba Dr. Abdul Hai Arafi