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'Sindinakhalepo wokondwa kwambiri!’ Pamene Miyoyo Iwiri Iyenera Kugwirizana Wina ndi Wina…
Mu gawo ili, Tikhala tikulankhula ndi Mbale Hasif ndi Mlongo Anisa yemwe adakumana ndikukwatiwa kudzera pa ukwati woyenera.
Ili ndi kuyankhula kopatsa chidwi kwa tawakkul ndi zolinga zochokera pansi pamtima.
Timalankhula za Mulungu wakhungulitsani chilichonse mukadzidalira!
*Kusewera – Pure Matrimony Jingles *
Assalamu Alaikum, Monga Msilamu wochita, Ndikumvetsa nkhawa zanu poyesa kupeza mwamuna kapena mkazi wopembedza pa intaneti ndipo moona mtima sindikudabwa, chifukwa kuyesa kupeza Msilamu wosakwatiwa pamasamba ena a halal Matrimonial, zili ngati kuyesa kupeza singano mwachidwi. Ena ena ochita zikuluzikulu sasangalala ndi malingaliro ofunafuna wokwatirana naye pa intaneti, pomwe ena amakhumudwa ndi zomwe akumana nazo komanso chifukwa chake, chifukwa amaona kuti anthu ena Muslim matrimonial Websites ali ngati chibwenzi malo ndi mbiri wodzaza anthu amene……
Arfa: WL! Assalamu Alaikum (wrb) ndi kulandiridwa ku nkhani za m'banja amasonyeza. Ndine CIS. Arfa saira iqbal ndipo ndi ine lero ndi B. Hasif ndi sis. Anisa ndi ISA, Banja lodabwitsa lomwe linakwatirana papulatifomu yoyera ndipo lero ndikufuna kuwafunsa mafunso, ndipo amawapempha kuti adziwe zomwe akumana nazo pa ma ukwati oyenerera, Momwe adazipeza ndipo makamaka kungodziwa zambiri za iwo. Chifukwa chake ndimakondwera kwambiri ndi kuyankhulana kumeneku komanso kulemekezedwa komanso mwayi woti abweretse nkhani yawo, osachitanso, Assalamu Alaikum!
Br. 'Haff: Wa Alaikkum Salaam(Whb)
Sis. Anisa: Wa Alaikkum Salaam
Arfa: Muli bwanji nonse? Kodi muli bwino?
Br. 'Haff: WL, Tonse tili abwino.
Arfa: Chabwino. Alhamdulillah ndili wokondwa kwambiri kuti inu anyamata mwasankha kubwera ndikugawana nkhani yanu chifukwa ndikumva kuti, mukudziwa, Ndikuganiza kuti mu zaka zamasiku ano anthu monga amataya pafupifupi ndikuyembekeza kuti mupeza wokwatirana naye ndipo ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti ndikhale ndi mphamvu, mukudziwa, Abale ndi alongo achisilamu omwe ali osakwatiwa ndi omwe akufunafuna wina, Ndi nkhani zomwe angakuthandizeni kuti awapatse iwo makamaka kuwapatsa iwo zodzoza komanso chiyembekezo chopatsa Mulungu. Chifukwa chake ndili wokondwa kwambiri kuti inu anyamata muli pano. Koma ndikadakonda kuyamba, poyamba, pa chiyambi, zomwe zili, mukudziwa, ndiuzeni zambiri za inu nokha ndipo mudachokera kuti, poyamba.
Br. 'Haff: Ndiyenera kupita ndekha. Dzina langa ndi lasitere. Ine ndinali 23 Panthawi yomwe ndidayesa ma ukwati oyenerera. ndi 24. Ndine injiniya wa amospace. Ndimakhala ku UK. (Kupuma) Ndipo inde, kwenikweni ndi ine ndipo sindikutsimikiza.
Arfa: O!! Oo! Maasha Allah! Ndiwe wamng'ono kwambiri. Choncho, ndizabwino. Mukudziwa, Ndikuganiza kuti ndinu odabwitsa kwambiri abale ndi alongo akwatirana, ndipo ndikuganiza kuti Alhamdilah wokongola kwambiri. Nanga bwanji mlongo?
Sis. Anisa: Dzina langa ndi Anisa. Komanso ndinali 23 Pomwe ndidayamba; Kuyang'ana kukwatiwa ndi mkwati wanga woyamba kuyang'ana kunali pa ukwati wabwino. Ndipo ndili 24 tsopano Komanso. Ndipo ndili pabanja.
Arfa: Ah… Zabwino kwambiri! WL! Choncho, Kodi nonse mwakhala mukusaka bwenzi, opembedza ndikuyenda ukwati woyenerera?
Br. 'Haff: Choncho, Nditayamba ntchito yanga ndi pomwe ndimaganizira kuti zili bwino, gawo langa lotsatira tsopano ndikukwatiwa. (Sis. Arfa a ndemanga eya kumbuyo) Koma malinga ndi cholinga, Ndikuganiza kuti ndapanga, (kupuma) chaka chatha, nthawiyi, chaka chatha.
Arfa: Chabwino! Chabwino! Choncho,
Sis. Anisa: Ndekha, Mwina makolo anga anayamba kuyang'ana zaka zapitazo, koma… Ndinayamba kuyang'ana mwina chaka chatha, panopa.
Arfa: Zabwino kwambiri! Zabwino kwambiri! Zosangalatsa… Munati makolo anu adayamba kufunafuna zaka zapitazo. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi monga, Ndikuganiza kuti atsikana makamaka ndi mtundu wa bog muyezo, sichoncho?
Sis. Anisa: Inde…
Arfa: Ndendende! Ndikapita ku Mayunivesite, ngati… zeni zeni, Sindine womaliza maphunziro, koma.. muyenera kupeza, Muyenera kupeza wina. Choncho, eya ndimalandira kwathunthu. Koma eya, Ndikufuna kuphunzira zambiri za, momwe mumafunira, Kodi anyamata mudayesa chiyani kale, mukudziwa zomwe zidagwira ndipo zomwe sizinachite zomwe mudakumana nazo pakusaka konseku.
Br. 'Haff: Pankhani ya ena, malinga ndi mndandanda wazochitika, kunalibe kwenikweni kumbali yanga, chifukwa, Ndidapanga cholinga changa chaka chatha koma adalowa ukwati wopanda kanthu ndipo kuchokera pamenepo zonse zidayenda bwino…(Sis.Arfa kumbuyo: Alhumdulillah), kuti ndikukumbukira malingaliro anga anali otseguka kwa njira zonse, (Sis.Arfa kumbuyo: Inde). Choncho, Makolo anga amandiyang'ana, Ndimayang'ana pa zanga, Ndimadziyembekezera ndekha, Ndinkauza anthu ku Masjid, Ngati chilichonse mu ntchito, Ndipo monga choncho ndipo cholinga changa chinali choti apanga mawonekedwe onse otseguka
Arfa: Ndikuganiza kuti ndizofunikiradi zomwe munanena chifukwa chakuti zomwe ndimamva kuti ndimamva kwambiri, maasha Allah you are quite young and I always find in my experience when I talk to people who are younger than myself, who were looking to get married is they tend to just stick with one method and then after a bit of time they just kind of like give up, it like over, that’s not working. Then they will move on to something else. Mukudziwa, I think the wisest thing of all and I always say this to everybody, when you are looking to get married, when you are sincere with your intention about getting married, you really do need to ……
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