Kulemekeza Makolo: Ukoma Woyiwalika

Wamphamvuyonse Mulungu walamula: "Mbuye wako walamula kuti uzipembedza koma Mulungu, Ndi kuti mukhale okoma mtima kwa makolo. " [Qur'an Al-Isra ':23]

Osalemekeza

Wachifundo, kukonda, kukhululuka, wosamalira, Kodi zonse ndi zachisilamu ziyenera kukhala nazo. Komabe, M'masiku ano, Makhalidwe amtengo wapatali awa ndi otayika. Ndizofala kuwona makolo omwe amachititsidwana ndi ana awo. M'malo ogulitsira, mapaki, Kuyendetsa, Padzakhala gawo la wachinyamata wachinyamata komanso kholo lopangidwa. Mwina, kwambiri mopitilira muyeso, Kodi munthu akaona achinyamata a muslimal amachiritsa makolo awo achisilamu m'njira zoyipa.

Wamphamvuyonse Mulungu walamula: "Mbuye wako walamula kuti uzipembedza koma Mulungu, Ndi kuti mukhale okoma mtima kwa makolo. "[Qur'an Al-Isra ':23]

Mbuye wathu wanena momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino, 'Ndi kuti ukhale wokoma mtima kwa makolo anu.' Ngati, ngati Asilamu, Timvera Ambuye wathu, Dziwani kuti ngati nonse simunalape kuuchimo, Tiyenera kukwaniritsa zoyambira za malamulo ake? Poyambira ndi makolo athu. Chifukwa ndi omwe adatigulira kudziko lino lapansi. Adatiphunzitsa kuyenda, Lankhulani ndi Kukhala. Kukomera mtima makolo anu kuli pafupi, Monga momwe zimasonyezera ulemu womwe amayenera.

Ufulu

Amayi abu (Mulungu akondwere naye) malipoti: “Munthu adafunsira kwa mthenga wa Mulungu (Mtendere ndi Madalitsidwe Allah kudzakhala pa iye): "O Mthenga wa Allah (Mtendere ndi Madalitsidwe Allah kudzakhala pa iye)! Ufulu wa makolo oposa ana awo??"Mtumiki wa Allah (Mtendere ndi Madalitsidwe Allah kudzakhala pa iye) adatero: "Makolo anu ndi paradaiso wako ndipo ndi gehena." (Ibn Majah |)

Chisloam chimayang'ana kutsimikizira kuchitira makolo anu; komabe, timayiwala msanga mwachangu, Ufulu Wathu Watipindulitsa. Pomaliza, Maganizo Athu pa Makolo Athu Kutithandizanso Kuti Tipambane Patsiku Lapansi.

Chikondi cha Amayi

Korani yoyera imatero: "Tagwirizana ndi kukoma mtima kwa anthu kwa makolo ake: Mu zowawa, amayi ake adampeza, ndipo adabala zowawa. Kenako kunyamula (mwana) Kuluma kwake kuli (nthawi ya) Miyezi makumi atatu. " [Quran al-ahqqaf:15]

Munthu sangazindikire chikondi cha kholo, mpaka atakhala kholo lawokha. Ndikukumbukira nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndidasunga mwana wanga; Ndinagonjetsedwa ndi chikondi ndi malingaliro. Ulemerero ukhale kwa Allah. Panali nthawi imeneyo, Ndinazindikira, kuti monga mayi, Cholinga changa ndikuteteza mwana wanga kuvulaza ndikumupatsa chilichonse chomwe ndingathe. Ndidawona dziko langa kudzera m'maso mwa amayi anga. Ndikumva kuwawa nthawi iliyonse mwana wanga wamwamuna akupunthwa akamaphunzira momwe angayendere. Mtima wanga umamira pomwe amapita kumeta tsitsi chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti amadana nawo ndipo alira. Ndimathamangira ku kakhoka kwake kuti ndimugwire mwamphamvu ngati asokonezedwa usiku. Ndimamwetulira ndikumwetulira ndikupweteka akakhumudwitsidwa. Ndipo ngati ndiyenera kumenyera nkhondo padziko lonse lapansi kuteteza mwana wanga, Kenako ndidzatero. Kalanga!, Chikondi cha mayi ndi chikondi cha mayi.

Abu Hurairah ( Mulungu akondwere naye) malipoti: “Munthu adachezera mthenga wa Allah (Mtendere ndi Madalitsidwe Allah kudzakhala pa iye) ndi kutumizidwa: "O Mthenga wa Allah (Mtendere ndi Madalitsidwe Allah kudzakhala pa iye)! Omwe amayenera kulandira chithandizo chabwino kwambiri kuchokera kwa ine - bambo anga kapena amayi anga?"Mtumiki wa Allah (Mtendere ndi Madalitsidwe Allah kudzakhala pa iye) ndi: "Amayi anu." Adaperekanso: "Kenako?"Mtumiki wa Allah (Mtendere ndi Madalitsidwe Allah kudzakhala pa iye) ndi: " Amayi anu." Nthawi yachitatu ndipo adalandira yankho lomweli. Pamene mwamunayo adabwereza funso lake nthawi yachinayi, Mtumiki wa Allah (Mtendere ndi Madalitsidwe Allah kudzakhala pa iye) ndi: "Abambo anu." (Nsomba- Adabul Mufrad)

Dalitso

Ndikofunikira kuthokoza makolo anu nthawi zonse, chifukwa alidi dalitso. Ayenera kuonedwa ngati gwero lalikulu la chitonthozo ndi chakudya. Amatisamalira pamene tinali ofooka komanso osathandiza. Nthawi zambiri makolo amakumana ndi mavuto komanso mavuto akamalera ana awo. Kuzindikira zodzipereka izi, Allah Wamphamvuyonse kuukitsa maudindo mpaka akhazikitse antchito ake kuti ayamikire poyamika makolo awo.

Korani yoyera imatero: "Ndipo tachitapo kanthu kwa munthu (kukhala wabwino) kwa makolo ake. " [Quran luqman:14]

Wina ayenera, choncho, Sungani zabwino kwambiri pa malingaliro ndi zokhumba za makolo ake. Chisamaliro chokwanira sichiyenera kuthandizidwa kuti chisamawapweteke kapena m'njira ina iliyonse. Malangizo kuti mukhalebe ndi ubale wautali, Ngati ali okalamba, Tiyenera kusamala kuti tikwaniritse zofuna zawo ndikupitiliza kuwachitira zabwino komanso mwaulemu. Monga Mulungu Wamphamvuyonse anena m'Qur'an, “Ngati aliyense wa iwo kapena onse okalamba pamaso panu, osanena “Uff” kwa iwo ndipo musawadzudzule, Ndipo lankhulani nawo molemekeza kwambiri. Ndi kutsitsa mapiko anu modzichepetsa, ndi chifundo, pemphera, “Mbuye wanga! Achitireni chifundo onse awiri, momwe adayamwitsira ndili mwana.” [Qur'an Al-Isra ': 23-24]

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