Gawani Izi
Mtumiki Muhammad (SAW) wawaongola anthu ake kuti akhale pamodzi ndi akazi awo pa zolankhula ndi zochita zawo, ndipo pali miyambo yambiri ya Mtumiki wathu Muhammad – mtendere ukhale naye pankhaniyi, ndipo ena a iwo ndi awa:
1- Al Bukhary & Muslim adanena kuti Abu Huraira - Allah asangalale naye - adanena kuti Mtumiki Muhammad - mtendere ukhale pa iye - adati.: “Chitirani akazi mwachifundo, adalengedwa kuchokera kunthiti, ndipo nthiti yokhota kwambiri ndiyo m’mwamba mwake; choncho, ukayesa kukonza nthitiyo ithyoka ndipo ngati usiya nthitiyo momwe ilili, idzakhala yokhotakhota, ndipo akazi ali chonchi; Choncho achitireni zabwino”.
Palinso nkhani ina yofotokoza miyambo yomweyi ya Muslim: “Akazi adalengedwa kuchokera kunthiti. Sadzawongoka monga momwe ufunira. Ngati munasangalala ndi ubwezi wake, ndiye chitani ndi chinyengo chimenecho, ngati mutayesa kumukonza adzasweka ndikuphwanya njira yomusudzula.”
Mtumiki - mtendere ukhale pa iye - adalamula amuna kuti asamangowachitira zabwino akazi, koma anasonyezanso zenizeni zake kuti akhutiritse amuna kuvomereza uphungu wake wamtengo wapatali, chifukwa ngati amuna anazindikira kuti akazi ndi okhota mwa chilengedwe, kenako akhale oleza mtima ndi akazi podziwa kuti sangakhale oongoka nthawi zonse, ndi podziwa kuti akuchita mwa chikhalidwe chawo; choncho, kulimbikira za kuwongoka kwa mkazi ku mlingo woyenera kunali kodabwitsa kwa olemba ndakatulo, ndipo ena a iwo adanena:
Mkazi ali ngati nthiti yokhota imene siingathe kukonzedwanso; motero, kuyesera mwanjira ina kuthyola nthiti yoteroyo.
Wolemba ndakatulo wina anatero:
Munthu amene amayesetsa kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zopitirira chilengedwe chake ali ngati munthu amene akufunafuna nyali m’madzi.
2- Mtumiki Muhammad - mtendere ukhale pa iye - adabwereza lamuloli kangapo. Mu ulendo wake womaliza (Hijjat Al Wadda), Mtumiki wathu - mtendere ukhale pa iye - adapereka gawo lofunikira la ulaliki wake waukulu ku lamulo ili ndipo adati: “Chitirani akazi mwachifundo, ali akapolo m’nyumba zanu, inu mulibe njira koma kuwachitira zabwino pokhapokha achita chonyansa choonekera, pamenepo, kuwasiya pakama, ngati sizingatheke, amenyani modekha koma musawapweteke, pambuyo pake, Ngati adakumverani, musawachitire choipa. Muli ndi ufulu pa akazi anu ndipo akazi anu ali ndi ufulu pa inu; Ufulu wanu uli pa iwo ndikusunga ulemu wanu, ndipo musalole aliyense kulowa m’nyumba zanu ngati inu simukufuna kuti alowe., Ndipo ufulu wawo uli pa inu ndikuwachitira zabwino ndi kuwapezera zovala ndi chakudya”. Yofotokozedwa ndi Muslim.
Mtumiki (SAW) adabwereza lamulo lake kwa mkazi chifukwa amadziwa bwino chikhalidwe chawo. Mkhalidwe umenewu sungalekerere ndi amuna ena omwe sadzilamulira okha akakwiya; motero, kusalolera kwawo mphulupulu za akazi kumawapangitsa kuwasudzula; chifukwa chake, amataya akazi awo ndipo amabalalitsa mabanja awo.
Choncho, Mtumiki (SAW) adawaongolera amuna achisilamu pachikhalidwe china kunjira yoyenera yochitira ndi mabanja awo ponena kuti:
3- “Mwamuna wokhulupirika sayenera kudana ndi mkazi wake wokhulupirika, chifukwa ngati amadana ndi chikhalidwe chake, ndiye kuti asaiwale makhalidwe ena abwino a khalidwe lake.”
Yofotokozedwa ndi Muslim.
4- Mtumiki - mtendere ukhale pa iye - adanenanso: “Amene ali okhulupirira kwambiri ndi amene ali ndi makhalidwe abwino ndi okoma mtima kwa mabanja awo.”
Adanenedwa ndi At Termithi ndi ena.
5- Mtumiki - mtendere ukhale pa iye - adanenanso: “Wabwino mwa inu ndi wabwino kwa banja lake, Ndipo ine ndine wabwino mwa inu kwa banja langa”.
6- Mtumiki - mtendere ukhale pa iye - adanenanso: “Chilichonse chopanda kutamanda Mulungu, ndichabe kapena kunyalanyaza kupatula zinthu zinayi: kuchita masewera owombera, kuphunzitsa kavalo, kusewera ndi banja lake komanso kuphunzira kusambira”.
Yofotokozedwa ndi Al Nasa'i.
Pali miyambo yambiri yolimbikitsa Asilamu kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino ndi mabanja awo ndi achibale awo
Mashaalah it z da bst way t lead ur wife. Kotero ife tiyenera kutsanzira ndendende wat da prophet (pbuh)ankakonda kuchita.
Oh mulungu tipatseni akazi abwino
hey brother.. Mulungu ndi wamkulu “G”
nthawi zonse… salaam
Amene!
Salaam
Kodi chingachitike n’chiyani ngati mwamuna sachita zinthu moona mtima kwa mkazi wake? Ndipo chimachitika ndi chiyani ngati mkazi ndi amene ali wosawona mtima?.. Zikomo poyankha..
Tiyeni titsatire ziphunzitso za mneneri wathu wokondedwa Muhammad(S.A.W) Ameen ndi Jazak-Allah Khairan 4 chidutswa.
Ife Asilamu tiyenera kumvera Allah(Subhana wa Teala) ndi Mtumiki Muhammad(Swalallahu wa sallam). Sitingalakwitse m’mikhalidwe ya mmene tiyenera kuchitira ndi akazi athu kapena pankhani zina.
Ndine Msilamu ndasokonezeka kwambiri.Ndamugwira nthawi zambiri akundinyenga.tsiku lina ndinamugwiranso.Ndili ndi umboni.koma sakuvomereza kulakwa kwake.anasiya kundilankhula.ndili ndi chisoni ndipo osokonezeka.sindikudziwa kuti nditani.tsiku ndi tsiku ndimapemphera kwa Allah kuti andionetse njira.amachita izi nthawi zonse.je amalakwitsa ndipo amasiya kundilankhula.pls ndithandizeni.
Mayi uyenera kudziwa kuti amuna ambiri akuchita zomwe zikuchitika pamoyo wathu (m'nthawi ya intaneti iyi), akadachita ndipo simukadazindikira….adzalowa m’manda ake ndi kuyankha kwa ALLAH pazimene adachita. Langizo langa kwa inu ndikuti sungani chikhulupiriro mwa ALLAH ndipo pitilizani kupemphera ndikuwerenga BISMILLAH katatu pa kapu yamadzi mukampatsa.. Ndinamva izi kwa winawake
sister ndamva kuti ngati simuli pa ubale wabwino ndi mwamuna wanu, muyenera kuyesa izi…
pamene mukuchita wadu…..sonkhanitsani madzi ogwiritsidwa ntchito m'chidebe mutasamba kumaso ndi manja…onjezerani madzi pang’ono m’chakudya chake kapena tiyi kapena chodyedwa chilichonse…inshaALLAH zitheka…
Izo sizikumveka bwino!
@ ameema injila…. kuti mudziwe zambiri ” madzi omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pambuyo pochita wadu ndi HARAAM… zodetsedwa zake.. choncho madzi ogwiritsidwa ntchito a wadu asagwiritsidwenso ntchito… choncho kuyambira pomwe mudamvapo mchitidwe wa satanawu ndi chifukwa cha umbuli chabe & chikhulupiriro chakhungu… choncho mlongo wanga wokondedwa uyenera kuphunzira zoyambira zachisilamu kaye… popereka malangizo otere pomwe simukutsimikiza ngati mukulondola kapena ayi, n'chimodzimodzinso kuti mukuongolera anthu kumachimo mosadziwa … infact mudzakhala olakwa kwambiri … kotero b4 kupereka upangiri wamtundu uliwonse muyenera kudzitsimikizira nokha ndi Hadith zolondola kapena mayankho…
@sk… mukukhala Msilamu muyenera kudziwa kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi udindo pa zochita zake… mu Chisilamu ufulu, maudindo, ntchito, ufulu etc… mbali zonse zimafotokozedwa bwino..ndi chipembedzo cha zifukwa, umboni, umboni….. ndiye mlongo ngati mwamunayo ali ndi maufulu ake inunso… muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chilichonse chomwe mwamuna wanu akuchita adzayankha pa zochita zake.. koma kukhala mkazi iwenso uli ndi udindo wina wake ndipo pakati pawo ndi woti umuongole mwamuna wako kunjira yoongoka, muyenera kuyesa kumupangitsa kuti amvetsetse chomwe chiri chabwino ndi cholakwika… yesetsani kumuzindikira kuti zimene akuchitazo n’zolakwika .. n ayenera kuyesa kulenga mantha a ALLAH mwa iye, yesani kumupangitsa kuti amvetsetse udindo wake , ntchito ndi zomwe akuchita.. ndi zina… sister pa zonsezi ukuyenera kudekha, zidzatenga nthawi ,, koma uyenera kuyesa ndi kuwona mtima konse… ndipo ngati pambuyo pa zonse ur try ngati sasintha ma hyabbits ake oyipa, zochita ndiye malinga ndi malamulo achisilamu mukhoza kumusiya… ndipo panthawiyi muyenera kusankha talak-e-hasna… Ndipo Chisilamu chikukupatsani ufulu wonse .. mukhoza kukhala ndi moyo wina… ndi chinthu china chomwe muyenera kukumbukira kuti mwatsatanetsatane muyenera kufunsana ndi oyenerera bwino “MUFTI” m'malo motengera malangizo apa n uko, mukhoza kusocheretsedwa… mtendere, chifundo cha Allah chikhale pa inu…
@ ameema injila.... kwa chidziwitso chanu chokoma mungagwiritse ntchito madzi otsala osagwiritsidwa ntchito, komabe madzi ogwiritsidwa ntchito pambuyo pochita wadu ndi odetsedwa.. choncho madzi ogwiritsidwa ntchito a wadu asagwiritsidwenso ntchito
yesetsani kupeza chifukwa chake zikuchitika, akukhala chizolowezi kwa izi, kapena pali china chake chosowa chomwe amapeza kuchokera kunja, yesetsani kugwirizana naye lankhulani naye za ntchito yake lankhulani za ntchito yanu, ngati muli ndi ana yesetsani kumupangitsa kuti azicheza nawo, khalani naye nthawi yochuluka momwe mungathere ndipo chifukwa chake muyenera kuleza mtima. Afunseni chifukwa chake akuchitira zimenezi, Ngati ali Msilamu komanso wabwino, Muuzeni zomwe akulowera m’dzenje lopanda mapeto ngati safuna kudziletsa kuti asagweremo.. ALLAH AKUTHANDIZENI PA IZI NDI KUKULOKANITSA INU NDI MWAMUNA WANU PA NJIRA YOONA.
Akufunika mbama, ndipo ngati salankhula naye (pamene sanalakwe kanthu) amuphikire bwanji!
Ndinamva chisoni powerenga vuto lomwe mukukumana nalo ndi mwamuna wanu, chonsecho ubale uli bwanji ndi mwamuna wako panthawiyi iwalani zachinyengo. Ndi wachikondi, wosamalira, kumvetsa ndipo amakumverani amasangalala ndi kampani yanu kodi mumapita limodzi amati amakukondani. Ndiye zonsezi ngati inde ndiye mukudziwa kuti munayima, ali serious ndi maubale ake ena ?
Akasiya kuyankhula nanu mwachiwonekere mukukumana ndi zambiri panthawiyo amasamala amayesa kukhala wabwino ? ngati akusonyeza kukuganizirani amakukondanibe. Akhoza kusiya kukhala ndi maubwenzi amenewa ndi akazi ena, koma sindikuganiza kuti muyenera kuvutika. Kodi muli ndi ana ? muyenera kuganiziranso za iwo. Muyenera kulankhula naye momveka bwino ndikumufunsa chomwe akufuna. tangowerengani mapemphero anu asanu atsiku ndi tsiku osachepera allah akupatseni mtendere mumaganizo ndi mu mtima, inshallah zinthu zikhoza kusinthanso malingana ndi mmene mwamuna wako alili komanso kumuopa kwa allah. Mulungu akuthandizeni.
Mlongo, muyenera kuchitapo kanthu pang'ono kuposa kumupatsa madzi amitundu yosiyanasiyana. Ndikuganiza kuti mwamuna wako sakulankhula nawe chifukwa amachita manyazi ndi zomwe amachita kapena kuchita. Njira yokhayo yodziwira zomwe zikuchitika, ndiko kulankhula naye ngati bwenzi, osati ngati mkazi amene wangoberedwa kumene. Palibe njira yotere mu Chisilamu, akuti kubera kuli bwino (osati amuna ngakhale). Iye anachimwa pamene iye anachita izo, Ndipo sindikhulupirira kuti Mulungu amalekerera chinyengo, za amuna, monga akazi. Ndizomvetsa chisoni kuti magulu athu achisilamu ndi ovomerezeka , kwa munthu wonyenga. Ife tonse tsopano, chomwe chimachitika akazi akabera, m’mabungwe achisilamu, amalangidwa m’njira zopanda umunthu. Izi sizingakhale Chisilamu, koma ndi chowonadi chochokera kumagulu awa. Koma pamaso pa Mulungu, ndife anthu okha, osati amuna kapena akazi, wakuda kapena woyera, wonyansa kapena wokongola. Chifukwa chake ndikuganiza kuti muyenera kumupangitsa kuganiza, angatani ngati munamunyengerera. Ndipo m’pempheni kuti adziike yekha pamalo anu. Zimene anachita, adzakuuzani ngati muyenera kukhala naye, kapena kumusiya. Ngati akukhulupirira kuti akanakulangani , ngati mudamunyengerera, ndiye akuyenera kuchita chimodzimodzi ndi zochita zake,. Apo ayi, ngati amvetsetsa cholakwika chachikulu chomwe adachita komanso momwe adakuchitirani zopanda chilungamo, kuposa momwe muyenera kuyembekezera kusintha. Osachita chilichonse, zomwe mukufuna kuti zikuchitikireni ndiye mawu ofunikira . Iye anatenga udindo wanu, pamene anakukwatira. Kumbukirani ngati munthu alibe ,ulemu uliwonse kapena chikondi kwa inu, iye alibe kanthu komenyera nkhondo,kaya mu Islam.
Mtendere ukhale pa inu, ndi zabwino zonse sister !!
Darling ngati amakuchitirani chonchi, simuyenera kupirira naye. Ndinu munthu wamamvedwe ndipo amakunyalanyazani. Ngati angakunyengeninso kachiwiri, alibe ufulu wokhala ndi inu ndipo mukuyenera kukhala wabwino kwambiri kuposa iye.
Samuopa Allah mokwanira kuti apewe zina. + Iye sakulemekezani moti sangakupatseni ulemu. Funsani chisudzulo.
i know this is really hard for you to see doing this to u.mwamuna wanga anachita zomwezo tinathetsa banja .ndili ndi ana aamuna awiri moyo ndi wovuta kwambiri .Ndinamupempherera mwamuna wanga kuti asiye zoipazo koma sanatero. .Sanali wa ine.anali wa wina.Anakwatiranso tsopano .Sindikudziwa kuti amuna angapeze bwanji koma akazi amatha.,t.
Assalamu alaikum, Ndine wokondwa kwambiri ndi mawu awa. Mtumiki muhd (anaona) ndiye wabwino kwambiri pamaphunziro onse,Ndikungopempha Allah kuti atipatse (amuna) mtima wotsatira mosamalitsa ziphunzitso zake chifukwa zidzatipindulitsa pano padziko lapansi n’ m’dziko lomaliza kuposa china chilichonse. Jazaakallahu kair for the note
ASSALAAM ALAIKUM WA RAHMATULLAAHI WA BARKAATUH…
Will you plz write DAROODE PAAK AFTER NAME OF MUHAMMAD SALLALLAAHU ALAIHI WASSALLAM
kapena gwiritsani ntchito monga pamwambapa m'malo molemba(S.A.W) kapena mu Chingerezi…
Coz lero ndamva ku MASJID..dat WOLEMBA DAROODE PAAK PA NABI-E-PAAK MUHAMMAD SALLALLAAHU ALAIHI WASALLAM…adzapeza phindu lake mpaka DAROODE PAAK ilembedwe pamenepo
.munditsogolere ngati ndikunena zolakwika…plzz.
iyi ndi njira yoyenera kupanga gulu lathu kukhala dera loyenera.
Chisilamu & Bizinesi
Ine kwenikweni aprc d suprt@opinion kupatsidwa mlongo mnzathu, Mulungu atiwonjezere kudziwa.Allah atipatse mphamvu,Ibadah yokwanira ndi ndalama zosamalira akazi athu molingana ndi lamulo lachisilamu.
assalamulykum….w ku…Ndine wachisoni kwambiri powerenga vuto lanu lonse mwanjira yomwe ndingagwirizane nazo coz bambo anga analibenso chidwi ndi amayi anga komanso kwa ana awo aakazi ndi ana awo aamuna onse ndili wachisoni zaka zambiri ndimavutika ndikuyembekeza ndikupemphera kwa ALLAH dat bambo anga. adzazindikira kuti ALI ndi mkazi ndi ana omwe amafunikira chikondi chake koma amachita zinthu zambiri kunjako ngati alibe udindo..komabe ndimapemphera 4 kuti ALLAH amuonetse ku njira yolondola ndi machimo ake.…nshaALLAH ol we nid ndiko kukhala ndi SABAR…..nsha allah im hoping and pray dat kuti ndipeze mwamuna wabwino ndikukhala ndi TAQWA mwa ALLAHU ‘SUBHAwatA’ALLAH komanso monga mphunzitsi MUHAMMAD sallallahu alyhi wassalam kuphunzitsa ndi sunnah zake.….amene
inde
inde ndikuvomereza
abale anga nonse & alongo plz mundikumbukire mu mapemphero a ur coz mwamuna wanga amandimenya zovulaza popanda chifukwa!!patha zaka zisanu ndikuvutika!!nditatha zaka zinayi ndili mbanja ALLAH adandidalitse mwana wamwamuna yemwe ndikuvutika ndi mikwingwirima yowawa chifukwa cha mwana wanga okondedwa muhammad hassan so plz ndipempherereni mwamuna wanga kuti achire posachedwa
Zikomo!!!;(
Choncho,
Ndinali wachisoni chifukwa mwamuna wanga yemwe ndi wokoma mtima kwambiri komanso wosamala komanso woganiza kuti anali wokhulupirika adandinyenga chaka chapitacho komanso pazomwe ndikudziwa posachedwa.. Koma mu 19 zaka sakanayika manja ake pa ine. Anandipweteka mtima. Ndipo izo zikhoza kukhala zoipa kwambiri !! Inu muli m’mapemphero anga….. Mchemwali wanga.
Assalamu Alaikum,
inde abale alongo samamvetsa ululu wamaganizo umene amatibweretsera. Nthawi zina zimakhala zoipa kwambiri kuposa ululu wakuthupi. Allah akupatseni chifewetso.
asalamwailkum kwa abale ndi alongo onse achisilamu, ndili ndi funso ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti ndipeza yankho apa. KODI KUKWETA KUTANTHAUZA BWANJI ? KODI ZIKUTANTHAUZA KUTI AKAZI NDI ABWINO MCHILENGEDWE . MAWU OKHOTA AMAKHALA ABWINO KWAMBIRI . ALLAH NDIKHULULUKIRE NGATI NDALANKHULA CHINTHU . ANZANGA NDIKHALA NDIKUDIKIRA YANKHO. KHUDHAFIZ
Kukhala wasatana kukhala wakuthwa kwambiri pakunyenga, Kutenga masitepe moganizira kwambiri, palibe chochita manyazi kapena kulakwitsa pazomwe mwanena koma ndizabwino kufunsa za chikhululukiro. Ingoyesani kukhala molunjika ndi mkazi ndikulankhula nawo mokhazikika.
Asalam alaikum kwa nonse.I am also goin thru frm of this kind of problems.actually my hubby akuchita machimo omwe Allah wa mphamvu zonse sanawakondepo n even iye samandilankhula bwino n I am always mantha of him.pls my brother n sisters ndipempherereni ndiuzeni china chomwe ndingachite kuti ndimuletse kuchita machimo otere.jazakallah khair!
Chabwino muyenera kuwerenga mavuto omwe ali pamwambapa ndi mayankho awo, musaganize kuti ndi mathero ake, pamene pali chifuniro pali njira
Allah tithandizeni……ali kuti amuna abwino mu deen iyi? Ndinachoka ku Chikhristu 3 zaka zapitazo ndipo tsopano sindikudziwa ngati ukwati mu Islam ndi wabwino konse? Ndikumva nkhani zoopsa zotere ndipo ndachitiridwa nkhanza kwambiri ndi mwamuna yemwe ndinakwatira ngakhale amati amandikonda kwambiri pamaso pa Allah.. Ndikumva ngati sindimukhulupirira zitatha izi, mwina zolinga zake ndi zoti andigwiritse ntchito osati chifukwa amandikondadi? Ndine wachisoni kwambiri ndikulakalaka nditakwatiwa ndi mwamuna wachikristu kuti ndizikhala modalirana, mu chikhristu ndikoletsedwa kuvulaza mkazi wanu, koma mchisilamu ndayesera kulankhula ndi anthu koma sakuwoneka kuti akusamala zomwe zandichitikira. Tsiku lililonse ndimakumbukira zomwe adandichitira, ngakhale zimandivuta chifukwa ndimamukondadi.
Mlongo kuchitira mkazi wako zoipa ndikoletsedwanso mu Chisilamu… ndipo izi zikanathekanso ndi mkhristu aliyense… Khalani ndi chikhulupiriro mwa ALLAH ! … Adzakonza zinthu INSHALLAH !! khalani ndi chipiriro… ^_^ … NDIDZAKUPEMBERERA ! INSHALLAH !
@lynn. mlongo wokondedwa… Ndine wachisoni kwambiri kumva vuto lanu… kumva chisoni kwambiri ndi Asilamu oterowo mwa mayina osati kwenikweni kuti coz of illacts awo , zoipa zawo , Chisilamu chili chandamale…. okondedwa mlongo ndidziwitseni kuti munandiuza kuti mudavomera chisilamu ku chikhrisitu ( sutikesi)… koma ndidziwitseni kuti nchifukwa chiani mudavomereza chisilamu ??? Chidali chifukwa cha Choonadi chomaliza, chikondi cha Allah ndi RASOOL wake, kapena chifukwa cha chikondi ndi chikondi kwa munthu amene tsopano ndi mwamuna wako… ???
kuchokera m'mawu anu okha zomwe zikuwoneka kuti simumamvetsetsa kuti chisilamu ndi chiyani???? simudziwa zoyambira, n ma hadith ofunika???? sudziwa chilichonse chokhudza mizati ya CHISIlamu…??? simunayesepo kuphunzira izo… zomwe ndikuganiza… chifukwa ukadavomereza chisilamu chifukwa chokwatiwa ndi munthu amene umamukonda ndiye kuti sunali Msilamu.… mulibe chikhulupiriro… IMAAN singavomerezedwe posunga phindu lamtundu uliwonse kapena chidwi m'malingaliro athu… Muyenera kudziwa kuti IMAAN ndiye chowonadi chopambana… chikondi chake , ulemu kwa ALLAH n Aneneri Ake… Chisilamu ndi chipembedzo chanzeru, logics n zitsimikizo…. ndi CHOONADI Chokhacho… choncho ngati mukufuna kudziwa kuti chisilamu nchiyani muyenera kuphunzira QURAAN ndi HADEETH… kuyambira pamenepo mutha kuzindikira chomwe chili chabwino ndi cholakwika… musamalize ndi khalidwe ndi zochita za aliyense…
Islam imakupatsirani maufulu… muyenera kulumikizana ndi anthu oyenera .. monga QAJI kapena MUFTI mdera lanu… uyenera kulandira malangizo kwa munthu amene ali ndi chidziwitso chozama za HADEETH n QURAAN… mutha kupeza yankho motsimikiza…
koma chinthu chimodzi muyenera kudziwa kuti munthu sangakhale Msilamu ndi dzina , kapena ndi mtundu, ndi dera, kapena ndi birthj etc… komatu munthu akhoza kukhala Msilamu kokha pamaziko a chikhulupiriro chake- ndi IMAAN…Chisilamu ndi gulu lokhalo la Wamphamvu zonse… Mulungu alibe chipembedzo china.. kwenikweni kuchokera kwa mneneri ADAM kupita ku ISHA (yesu) Aneneri onse adangophunzitsa Chisilamu.. kunalibe chipembedzo china chirichonse.. ndipo zomwe tikuwona zipembedzo zina ndiye kuti waononga zomwe sizili zoyenera zomwe isha., moses, nuah, Abrahamu, josef,Emanuel adam anali ataphunzitsa…
ndikuuzeni inu zimenezo “”Chisilamu ndi chipembedzo chopanda cholakwika kapena cholakwika…
musaweruze chipembedzo ndi zochita za munthu payekha…. muyenera kupita ku malembo kuti mupeze mayankho anu…
zomwe mwamuna wanu akuchita ndi zolakwika ???
koma chifukwa cha zolakwa za mwamuna wanu simungatchule Islam ??????
tiyeni ufufuze kuti mwamuna wako ndi chisilamu polemekeza mfundo, malangizo ndi bwino kupeza magawo, shariya…. ndiye muyenera kudzifunsa ,n kuyesa kuti ndinu wotsatira chikhulupiriro.. Mayankho onse pa izi atha kuyesedwa molondola ngati mungafanizire zochita za amuna anu ndi amuna anu ndi zomwe zalongosoledwa zachisilamu ndikunena za QURAAN ndi HADEETH.… ..
my dear sister u just judge urself ndi mwamuna wako kaye ndiye utha kuwona yankho la vuto lako likhalapo…??????
Chisilamu ndi Choonadi chenicheni… ndiye chipembedzo cha zifukwa, logics, umboni etc….
Chisilamu ndi chipembedzo chachilungamo….
mbali zonse za moyo, zomwe dos n dont zimafotokozedwa bwino kwambiri.. transparent mu Islam…..
Alongo a Selam. Ndinawerenga izi ndikukumbukira zanga 14 zaka za mdima muukwati wanga. Ngakhale tinasudzulana kamodzi. Mwamuna wanga adachitapo kanthu kuti akonze zomwe zidasokonekera, alhamdulila poti ndinali nditagonjatu nkufuna kutuluka. Tinaganiza zosinthiratu moyo wathu, ndipo potsiriza kutsatira Islam monga zenizeni mphindi. Tinadzipereka kwathunthu ku salat ndi dua'as, Ndinayamba kuvala hegab, anasiya nyimbo ngakhale TV! Alhamdulila ulendo wathu udali wofunika popeza tili pafupi kwambiri ndi momwe timakhalira. ALLAH adasintha moyo wathu, ndife odala kwambiri alhamdulila. Palibenso chinyengo, zabodza, kapena kumenya, alhamdulila. Mwamuna ndiye mtsogoleri m'nyumba, choncho chonde abale limbikitsanani kupanga sitepe yoyamba kukhala chifupi ndi ALLAH…mwamuna akhoza kusintha mkhalidwe wa nyumba motere. Kumene, mkaziyo akuyenera kutsatira chitsogozo chake ndipo onse awona momwe moyo uno ungakhalire wokongola pokonzekera moyo wapambuyo pake. Khalani ndi chiyembekezo, PEMBANI, Yesani kutsatira sunnah, ndipo makomo adzakutsegukira inshaAllah (ngati si m’moyo uno, kenako tsiku lomaliza inshaALLAH!)
Asalam mu caley kum abale anga nonse.Ndili ndi vuto ndikufuna thandizo mwachangu.ndine 24 year male ndimafuna nditapeza mkazi koma sindikupeza.ndingakonde ngati mchimwene angandithandize kupeza mlongo wabwino wachisilamu yemwe amapemphera ndikudzilemekeza komanso akufuna banja.thnx abale ndi alongo.
Kwa alongo onse ndikudziwa kuti ndizovuta kwambiri kukhala oleza mtima pamene mwamuna wathu akumenya,kunyenga,not talking to u but sisters tingaiwale bwanji izi ndi mphamvu zathu Allah wapereka kwa akazi okha. alongo tingaiwale bwanji Asia (R,A ) anachoka ndi Farao & amayi omwe ali ndi zovuta mu dunniya iyi yawo Recitaion adzakhala ndi Bibi Asia an't we mwayi chonde alongo werengani za zitsanzo zathu mwachitsanzo Asia, Khadija,Aisha, Fatema,ukwati (R A) & tawonani fananizani nawo kuvutika kwathu kuli chabe…Oh Allah titsogolereni kunjira yoongoka Ameen..
Assalamu Alaikum.
sitiyenera kumangokhalira kunjenjemera matako athu. Muyenera kulankhula ndi Imam ndipo ndi udindo wa Ummah kupita kwa mbale uyu. Simuli thumba lokhomerera. Sindisamala zomwe alongo athu akale ankapirira, simuyenera kumenyedwa. Sikuli mu sunna iliyonse kuti mkazi apirire koma kukwapulidwa. Tili pa ngongole kwa amuna athu ndipo ayenera kutichitira motero. Funsani thandizo kwa mlongo wanu wa mdera lanu. Simuli nokha.
Salam Alikom kwa abale anga nonse achisilamu chathu chodabwitsa,, Ndakumana ndi mayesero ambiri chaka chathachi monga Muslimah watsopano,ndipo ndikuvomereza kuti m’nthawi ya Mneneri wathu (pbuh) zinali zolimba kwambiri kuposa momwe tingaganizire tsopano,.. Ndikudziwa kuti Allah ndiye mphamvu yanga yokha, komabe ndikumva ngati kuti ndasiyidwa m’njira ya moyo imeneyi mu Chisilamu, ukwati ndi wofunika kwa ine, koma ndine 43 zaka ndikuwona ngati amuna achisilamu ngakhale akulu onse akufunafuna “achinyamata” akazi,,,( pali malo aliwonse kwa ife achikulire a muslimah atsopano) ? (kapena) kodi tangoyiwalika? monga ogwiritsidwa ntchito komanso osathandizanso? koma kungofuna kudzitumikira? Pepani ngati ndikuwoneka kuti ndine wopanda pake komanso wogonja koma pakadali pano zikuwoneka ngati….. koma chonde mundipangire dua amin …. Samalani ndi mlongo wanu wachisilamu Iman….
Assalamu Alaikum.
Ndikudziwa chomwe mukutanthauza sister, koma Mulungu (swt) adzakutumizirani mwamuna wabwino in-sha-Allah. Abale amangoyenera kukumbukira akamakwatira akazi angapo omwe Asilamu amafunikiranso amuna. Mwamuna wanga akufunafuna mkazi wina ndipo iye si Msilamu, ndipo ngakhale sindine wokonda kwambiri ploygamy, Ndikuganiza kuti ndikanamvetsetsa ngati anali Msilamu. Ayamba bwanji kuyamba ubale ndi omwe si Asilamu kuti awaganizire za ukwati?. Mulungu Ngodziwa bwino!!
Abu Huraira [ kunja ] Adafotokoza kuti Mtumiki [ anaona ] adatero: “Mkaziyo analengedwa kuchokera kunthiti. Sadzakhala wowongoka monga mwa njira yako. Ngati mukufuna kusangalala naye, muyenera kumukonda ndi kupotoza kwake [chinyengo ]ndipo ngati muyesera kumuwongola, mungamuthyole: ndipo kumuswa ndi kumusudzula
Muslim [ 1468 ]. Kumasulira kwa Chingerezi kunatengedwa m'buku: "Ziwiya Zosalimba" wolemba Shayk Muhammad al-Jibaly [ Al-Kitaab & as-Sunnah Publishing 2005 ] , p. 44
~~Taonani bwino lomwe Mneneri (pbuh) anati “……sadzakhala wowongoka monga mwa njira yako…..”.
Mneneri (pbuh) adangowonetsa kuti kuchokera kumalingaliro amunthu, mkazi ndi “BENT” kapena ayi "STRAIGHTt" . Mofananamo, pamalingaliro a mkazi, mwamuna nayenso si "WOlunjika".
Mfundo ndi yakuti, mkazi amaganiza ndi kuchita mosiyana ndi mwamuna – ndi chikhalidwe chake. Choncho Mtumiki akuwauza amuna kuti asayese kusintha chibadwa chake, koma kumvetsetsa kusiyana kwake ndikusangalala naye momwe alili. Mwamuna ayenera kulemekeza chikhalidwe chake chachikazi chapadera ndikumuvomereza momwe Allah anamupangira, wokwanira ndi “chokhotakhota” kutanthauza kuti sadzakhala monga momwe iye akufunira m’mbali zina. Ngati aumirira kumuwongola ndikumuumba ku zofuna "zake"., kudzakhala ngati kuyesa kuwongola nthiti yopindika: chidzasweka m’manja mwake, ndipo kuswa kwa mkazi ndiko kulekana.
Momwemonso tiyenera kuwerenga ndi kutanthauzira mawu owonjezera omwe adaperekedwa ndi Mtumiki woyela : “…ndi mbali yokhotakhota kwambiri ya nthiti [ mkazi ] ndi gawo lake lapamwamba [ mutu ]…”. Mwambiwu umanena za kumtunda [ mutu ] za mkazi samamvetsetsa kwambiri ndi amuna [ kapena kwambiri mosiyana ndi chikhalidwe chawo chachimuna ] . Mwa kuyankhula kwina, mkazi samamvetsedwa bwino ndi mwamuna wake kwambiri pankhani ya momwe amaganizira, amazindikira zinthu komanso amakhudzidwa ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Sali monga "IYE" amafunira kuti azichita zinthu izi [ popeza “IYE” samamvetsetsa momwe amaganizira ].
Mwamuna ayenera kuzindikira kuti ngakhale kuti mkazi amawoneka “wokhota” m’kawonedwe kake, adapangidwa kukhala wangwiro ndipo pamalingaliro a Allah mulibe “chokhota” mu chikhalidwe chake
Pachifukwachi amuna ayenera kulemekeza chikhalidwe chawo chaukazi chapadera ndi “kuchitira akazi zabwino ndi mwachifundo”. Shayk Faraz Rabbani mu fatwa yake yokhudzana ndi Hadith yomwe ikufunsidwa ikunena:
“……Hadith ikunena zakufunika kwa akazi kwa amuna ndi kufunika kwa akazi kwa amuna. Nthitiyo ndi yochokera kwa munthuyo; limapereka thupi, mtima, ndi chitetezo cha moyo; imatiuza kuti palibe amuna kapena akazi omwe amakwaniritsa popanda wina ndi kufunana wina ndi mzake; zimaloza ku kukopa kwachilengedwe pakati pa chilichonse. Zimakumbutsa mwamuna za udindo wosamalira mkazi wake ndi kuchita bwino kwambiri : ndi wochokera kwa iye…….”
E inu amene mwakhulupirira!! Inu mwaletsedwa kutenga cholowa cha akazi popanda kufuna kwawo. Ndipo musawachitire nkhanza, kuti mutenge gawo lachiwongo chomwe mudawapatsa, – Kupatula pamene adachita chiwerewere choonekera; M’malo mwake, khalani nawo limodzi Pamapazi a ubwino ndi chilungamo. Ngati muwatengera kuipidwa nawo, Mwina mungada chinthu, Ndipo Mulungu abweretsa ndi M’menemo zabwino zambiri. [Surat 4:19]
Ab Huraira (Mulungu akondwere naye) Adauza Mtumiki wa Allah (mtendere ukhale pa iye) monga kunena: Mwamuna wokhulupirira sayenera kudana ndi mkazi wokhulupirira; ngati sakonda chimodzi mwa makhalidwe ake, adzakondwera ndi wina.
Saheeh Muslim - Buku 008, Hadith Number 3469.Chapter : Malangizo okhudza mkazi.
~~*Zindikirani: ~~* Yankho ili latengedwa m'nkhani ya M'bale Kevin Abdullah Karim ndi M'bale Bassam Zawad.
Kodi zili pamwambazi zanena
chitirani akazi mwachifundo…
-ndiyeno pitirirani kunena-
…amenya mofatsa?
Kodi ine ndinawerenga izo molondola?
Izi ndi zomwe Mulungu angafune? Mulungu akufuna kuti mukanthe mkazi? Kodi sikuli kutsutsana kotheratu? Mulungu anapanga mkazi kuti mwamuna athe “amenya mofatsa”? Kodi mumamenya bwanji chinthu modekha? Ndani angafune kufotokoza izi?
Wokondedwa maurice
Kuchokera ku chidziwitso chochepa ndili ndi hw do u train mwana wosokoneza zomwe pambuyo pomuwongolera 4 kangapo.. Pitani ku dikishonale yanu ndikuwona zomwe zikutanthauza mofatsa… Muyenera kuwakwapula m'njira yosavulaza…
Wokondedwa Leeman,
Ngati munthu aliyense (mwamuna kapena ayi) Ndinayeserapo kutero “ndimenyeni mwaulemu” chifukwa cha zomwe ndidachita ndipo sanazikonde, kulibwino akhale ndi plan yothawa chifukwa ndewu ikhala ON. Ndine mkazi wamkulu, osati mwana, ndipo ndine wokhoza kudziteteza kwa mwamuna. Ngati njira yokhayo yomwe angathe kuchita ndi munthu wina wamkulu ndi kuwamenya, kuposa momwe ayenera kukhala wokonzeka kulandira chithandizo chomwecho. Amuna nthawi zonse amagwiritsa ntchito Hadith iyi kulungamitsa chifukwa chomwe amamenya akazi awo. Malingaliro anga Hadith iyi, komanso, Hadith yokhudzana ndi iwo “kulondola” kukhala mpaka 4 akazi ndi m'gulu la ma Hadith onse osamvetsetseka. Amuna akuyenera kudziphunzitsa bwino kapena ndikuwopa kuti chilekano pakati pa Asilamu chipitirire kukwera.
Ndipo kodi mukukhala m'dera losayeruzika komwe mumapewa zolakwika zomwe mwachita???
Chabwino ngati” ayi” ndiye ndizomwe zikutanthauza kuti chisilamu chimaphunzitsa malamulo onse oti azitsatiridwa pothana ndi vuto lililonse lomwe muli nalo…Ndikhulupilira kuti funso lanu layankhidwa… Allah subhanahu wata’la ationgolere ku njira yoongoka…
assalamu alaikum..ufulu wa mwamuna ndiwothandiza kwambiri.zidzamvetsetsa ngati ali ndi deen…ngati wina aopa Mulungu…Sangachite tchimo lililonse.Allah achulukitse Dina mu zonse….
asc,mnzanga wafunsiridwa ndipo banja lake ndi anyamata amavomereza koma mwamuna wake wokwatira,ndipo ali ndi deen sayz amayenera kumuuza mkazi asanakwatirane ndipo adatero,koma adakana ndikumuyimbira mtsikanayo ndikumunyoza kuti sizingachitike,kuti nambala yawo ndi yolakwika pamapeto pake adatenga foni ya mans ndipo amamukakamiza kuti asiye kulankhulana naye..,choncho gal wasokonezeka komanso nkhawa samadziwa choti achite,chifukwa panopa 2days sanamvepo za mwamunayo..¨chonde ndipatseni malangizo….
Asalaamu alaikum abale ndi alongo, alhamdulilaah, Ndikuthokoza Allah chifukwa cha zabwino zake zomwe sindikutsutsa. Alongo anga sitikumenya nkhonya zikwama, komanso sitiyenera kulekerera amuna athu kutinyenga. Allah adalenga chilekaniro ndipo chimadedwanso ndi Iye, koma Iye watikonzera ife tonse njira. Sindikutanthauza kubwera pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi koma ndisintha zinthu ndi manja anga. Pali matenda ambiri opatsirana pogonana kunja kuno moti aliyense sangalole kuti azibera! Sister chonde tengerani udindo wanu simukuyenera kukhazikika pazachabechabe. Allah ndi Wovumbulutsa Chilichonse ndipo chinthu chikavumbulutsidwa kwa iwe chotere
musakhale mozungulira ndikudikirira kuti zifike poyipa, timayambitsa zoipa zathu. Allahu Alim! Allahu musta'an
@Lynn, chonde kumbukirani kuti amuna ndi anthu, zilibe kanthu kuti amatsatira chipembedzo chotani…amuna ambiri achikhristu amazunzanso akazi ndi ana awo. Kuyamikidwa nkwa Mulungu(swt) kuti mudadza ku Chisilamu!!! Monga bwenzi kubwerera, zimandisangalatsa kukuwonani pano. Ndikumverani inu mumkhalidwe wanu, ziyenera kukhala zovuta kuyesa ndikumvetsetsa kuti munthu amene mumamukonda uyu, akhoza kukupwetekani kwambiri. Osalola wa syaitan kuika maganizo m'maganizo mwanu!! Si chipembedzo chimene chili ndi vuto…ndiye mwamunayo mwamuna wanu!! ndizomvetsa chisoni kumva kuti mwayesa kupeza thandizo ndipo mwakhumudwa. WL, Tsambali likuwoneka kuti lili ndi anthu ena abwino omwe zolinga zawo ndi zabwino komanso upangiri wabwino. Inshallah zinthu zakuyenderani kuyambira pomwe mudalemba apa. Khalani ndi gulu la amayi kapena masjiid omwe angakhale ndi chithandizo chomwe chingakuthandizeni? sindikukudziwani, koma mtima wanga ukusweka!! Yarub, Ya Allah(swt) chonde patseni alongo anga mphamvu ndi kudekha kuti apirire tsiku lililonse….chonde atetezeni ku zowawa zomwe zili mozungulira…chonde awonetseni momwe angathanirane ndi zovuta zawo….Amiin. Ndipo Allah(swt) amadziwa bwino.
asalaamu alaykum abale ndi alongo,
Pepani komabe, Sindikumvetsa tanthauzo la izi:
“khalani oleza mtima ndi akazi podziwa kuti sangakhale olunjika nthawi zonse, ndi podziwa kuti akuchita mwa chikhalidwe chawo; choncho, kulimbikira pa kuwongoka kwa mkazi ku mlingo woyenera”.
Kutanthauza chiyani “sizingakhale zowongoka nthawi zonse”, ndikutanthauza kuti akazi sali oona mtima, okhulupirika, kapena oona monga anthu? Kapena izi zikutanthauza kuti akazi alibe maganizo kapena anzeru ngati amuna? Chonde fotokozani izi chifukwa monga wophunzira waku koleji wokhala ndi madigiri angapo, amayi, ndi wapolisi, Ndikuvutika ndi mawu a m'nkhaniyi.
JazakAllah khair