Malingaliro Anga Okhala Mayi ...

Pamene ndinali kamtsikana kakang'ono, Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe ndidalemba pamndandanda wanga wa "zinthu zomwe ndikufuna kuchita ndisanamwalire" chinali kukhala amayi a winawake.. Kenako zaka zanga zaunyamata (ndi Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS)) zinanditulukira, ndipo lingalirolo pang'onopang'ono linakhala likungolemba papepala. Nditangotsala pang’ono kukwatiwa, kukaonana ndi dokotala kunatsimikizira mantha anga aakulu: "Mwayi wanu wokhala ndi pakati ndi wochepa kwambiri". Ndimakumbukira kuti ndinalira mpaka kugona usiku umenewo koma nditaganizira kwambiri ndinazindikira kuti kaya ndikhale ndi ana kapena ayi, zinali m’manja mwa Mlengi Wamphamvuyonse yekha..

Mlungu uliwonse pa mimba yanga yonse, Mwachipembedzo ndakhala ndikukonza zakukula kwa mwana wanga wosabadwa ndipo ndikukhudzidwa ndi funso ili: maganizo a munthu angathe ngakhale kuzindikira zozizwitsa ndi ukulu wa zolengedwa za Allah? Ndikuganiza kuti ndi chifukwa chake, zimene amalenga m’mimba n’zobisika kwa anthu chifukwa tikadakhala misala tikadatha kuona mmene mwana amakulira.. Chomwe chikundidabwitsanso ndichoti Qur’aan yafotokoza, kuposa 1400 zaka zapitazo, mwatsatanetsatane mmene moyo wa munthu umapangidwira ndi kuumbidwa m’mimba mwa mayi:

“…Ife ndife adakulengani (i.e. Adamu) kuchokera ku fumbi, kenako kuchokera ku Nutfah (madontho osakanikirana a kumaliseche kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi i.e. mbadwa za Adamu), kenako kuchokera ku kuundana (chidutswa cha magazi wandiweyani coagulated) kenako kuchokera pa mtanda waung'ono wa mnofu, zina zidapangidwa ndi zina zosasinthika (kupita padera), kuti Tipange (izo) zomveka kwa inu (i.e. kuti ndikusonyezeni Mphamvu Zathu ndi Kukhoza Kwathu kuchita zimene Tikufuna). Ndipo amene tam'funa timamukhalitsa m'mimba Kwa nthawi yoikidwiratu, Kenako tikutulutsani muli makanda, ndiye (kukupatsani kukula) kuti mufikire msinkhu wanu wa mphamvu zonse ..." [Surat al-Hajj, ndime 5]

Apa m’pamene mawu a mayi anga anamveka m’mutu mwanga: “Simumaona kuti mayi anu ndi ofunika kwambiri mpaka mutakhala mmodzi”. Ndipo kotero ine ndaima tsopano - pa nsonga ya umayi, kumva chisangalalo chosaneneka, nkhawa ndi kuchulukira kwa zotengera zina zimandipeza. Ndimalota kapena ndanyamuladi kamunthu kakang'ono mkati mwanga? Nthawi zonse ndikamva kukwapulidwa ndi mwana wanga wamng'ono, Ndimakhumudwa kwambiri moti nthawi zambiri ndimagwetsa misozi. My miracle baby! Zimakhala ngati zonse zomwe ndimachita kapena kunena, ndi lingaliro lirilonse lomwe ndili nalo, kuzungulira mwana wanga. Palibe Duaa imodzi yomwe imapangidwa, kuti sindikupempha Allah (SWT) kuti andipatse thanzi, mwana wabwinobwino Insha'Allah. Ngakhale maulendo pafupipafupi ku bafa, tulo tosokonekera ndi zosasangalatsa zonse ndizoyenera!

Chikondi chosaneneka chimene ndili nacho kale pa mwana wanga wosabadwa chimaposa chimene mawu anga akanatha kufotokoza. Ndikuthokoza Mulungu tsiku lililonse chifukwa cha dalitso laling'ono ili lomwe likukula mkati mwanga, ndipo ndili ndi chikhulupiriro kuti chosangalatsa kwambiri m'moyo wanga chidzakhala nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndidzakhala ndi mwana wanga m'manja mwanga. Kanthu kakang'ono aka kadzadalira ine pazosowa zake zonse, ndi zovuta monga izo zikuwoneka, Ndikuyembekezera kukhala woyang'anira wamkulu pamtengo wanga wamtengo wapatali. Sindinakumanepo ndi mwana wanga pano koma ndikukhulupirira kuti izi ndi zomwe chikondi chopanda malire chimatanthauza.

Ndikudziwa kuti mwana wanga akangolowa m'dziko langa, moyo wanga monga ndikudziwira sudzakhalanso chimodzimodzi. Ine ndikhala mayi ndi maganizo anga, uwu ndi ulemu waukulu kwambiri komanso udindo waukulu kwambiri womwe ndingakhale nawo.

Ukwati Wangwiro

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