Wedding Da'wah Ideas

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Ndi Aysha Sezer

M’dzina la Allah, Wachisomo kwambiri, Wachifundo Chambiri

Ndinali ndi mwambo waukwati wanga mu June 2008. Chikumbukiro changa cha tsiku laukwati lenilenilo, monga akwatibwi ambiri ndingaganize, ndikuti zidatha mwachangu. Moni kwa alendo, kumvera khutbah, kufinya mu spoonfuls ochepa chakudya, ndipo ndizovuta kwambiri! Kumangirira ku 'tsiku lalikulu' komabe, zinakhazikika mu kukumbukira kwanga, zinali zokonzekera, kukonzekera, ndi kupanga zambiri, pamodzi ndi nkhawa, kupsinjika ndi kukakamizidwa kuti asangalatse aliyense. Pamene aliyense amayembekezera, ndikukonzekera ukwati wosachepera umodzi m'miyoyo yawo, ndi angati a ife amene timafunadi kukondweretsa Mlengi wathu, Mulungu, ndipo gwiritsani ntchito mwayi umenewu kuitanira ku njira yogonjera ndi kudzipereka kwa Mbuye wathu?

Mtumiki Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wassallam anatero : “Omwe alipo ayenera kufotokoza (uthenga wanga) kwa iwo amene sali”. [Al-Bukhaariy]

Kumbukirani! Da’wah ili ndi malipiro aakulu. Mtumiki sallallahu alaihi wassallam anati: “Amene waongolera wina ku zabwino, adzalandira malipiro kwa amene adauchita.” [Muslim]

Mwina sizinabwere m’maganizo mwathu, koma ukwati ndi mwai wabwino kwambiri wa da’wah. Sikuti mndandanda wa alendo uli m'ma mazana, koma nthawi zambiri imapangidwa ndi anthu osiyanasiyana kuphatikiza magulu a omwe si Asilamu komanso Asilamu osazindikira.. Pomwe tikukonzekera kukhazikitsa mchitidwe wofunikira kwambiri wa Mtumiki Muhammadi (mtendere ukhale pa iye) za kukwatira, tikhoza kumenya mbalame ziwiri ndi mwala umodzi ndikufalitsa ziphunzitso za Chisilamu kudzera mu chitsanzo chathu ndi mawu athu, ndipo potero onjezerani chiyanjo ndi malipiro a Mulungu (swt). Chotsatira ndi kusonkhanitsa malingaliro angapo a momwe cholinga chabwinochi chingakwaniritsidwire; ngati mwakwatiwa kale, Ndikupangira kuwerenga ndikugawana malingaliro awa ndi aliyense amene adzakhale mkwatibwi kapena mkwatibwi yemwe mumamudziwa, kapena kusankha ndi kusakaniza malingaliro ofunikira kuti agwiritse ntchito pafupifupi chochitika chilichonse!

1. Konzekerani molingana ndi Qur’an ndi Sunnah

Izi mwina ndiye chinthu chimodzi chofunikira kwambiri pakuzindikira, osati madalitso a banja lokha, koma kuthekera kwake da'wah. M'pamenenso ziphunzitso za Chisilamu zimatsatiridwa paphwando laukwati, kupewa zokonda zowononga ndalama, kutumikira mowa, ndi kusakaniza kwaulere kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, M’menemo chisangalalo cha Allah chidzapezeka mwa Allah, ndipo odala kwambiri adzayamba mgwirizano wa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Komanso, chifukwa chakuwoneka ngati kuchepa kwa maukwati okonzekera kwathunthu malinga ndi sharee'ah ndi ziphunzitso za Mtumiki Muhammad (anaona), m'pamenenso phwando lanu lidzakhala lachilendo, chidwi kwambiri ndi chiwembu kwaiye mbali ya alendo, ndi mafunso ochulukirapo. Kuphweka ndi kukongola kwa Chisilamu nthawi zonse kumakokera anthu kuchipembedzo; zimandimvetsa chisoni kuti ambiri aife, ndekha kuphatikizapo, tasiya kukhudzidwa ndi chiyambi cha chipembedzo chathu.

2. Itanani alendo omwe si Asilamu ndikukonzekeratu malo okhala

Kaya ndi ogwira nawo ntchito, oyandikana nawo kapena wina wodziwana naye, yesani kuphatikiza anthu osakhala Asilamu pamndandanda wanu wa alendo. Itha kukhalanso lingaliro labwino kupangiratu malo okhala pamwambo wanu, kotero kuti anthu osakhala Asilamu asakhale paokha komanso kuti azimva kuti ndi gawo la chikondwererocho. Ngati akhala pafupi ndi Asilamu odziwa, ndiye izi zingawapatse mwayi wowonjezera wofunsa mafunso ndikuchita nawo zomwe sizinali zachilendo. Komanso, ngati Asilamuwa adauzidwa zisanachitike kuti akhala pafupi ndi omwe si Asilamu ndipo pempho lidapangidwa kuti akambirane mwachangu ndi alendo., ndiye izi zitha kukhala zogwira mtima kwambiri. Kwenikweni choncho, kutengera kuzama kwanu kwakukonzekera, osakhala Asilamu atha kupangidwa kuti azimva osati olandiridwa, koma akhoza kusiya phwando laukwati ndi chidziwitso chatsopano cha chikhulupiriro ndi machitidwe achisilamu.

3. Zokongoletsa tebulo lachisilamu

Pomwe kukongoletsa kwa tebulo laukwati kumakhala ndi cholinga chokongoletsa malowo, titha kusinthanso zidutswa zina kapena kuphatikiza zomwe zimapindulitsa kwambiri alendo. Mwachitsanzo, kuphwando la ukwati wanga womwe, Ndinakonza makhadi ang'onoang'ono a tebulo, olembedwa pamanja ndi mizere yosankhidwa ya hadith ndi, ngati chikumbukiro changa chinditumikira, ngakhale ndime zina za m’Qur’an yopatulika. Ochepa adayikidwa patebulo lililonse ndipo alendo sanangokhala ndi mwayi wowerenga izi paukwati wokha, koma anali kuwachotsa. Iyi ndi njira yosavuta kukhazikitsa, zotsika mtengo ndipo mwachiyembekezo zimasiya chithunzi chokhalitsa – kumene alendo atenga ndi kukawonetsa makadi kunyumba.

Kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anu, Ndikukhulupirira kuti mutha kubwera ndi njira zina zambiri zogwiritsira ntchito zokongoletsera patebulo ngati chida cha da'wah!

4. Ulaliki wa Chisilamu

Mwachidule, koma chikumbutso chokonzedwa bwino ndi kuperekedwa kwachisilamu chimagwiranso ntchito ngati njira yachindunji ya da'wah. Ndikuwona kuti ndikofunikira kusankha wokamba bwino ndikukonzekeratu mitu yoti tikambirane, chifukwa izi zidzalola kulunjika kwachindunji kwa uthenga ndikugwira omvera. Tsoka ilo, nthawi zambiri ndakhumudwitsidwa ndi khalidwe la kulankhula ndi wokamba nkhani, motero ndikutsindika kwanga pa mfundo iyi.

Nkhani zokambitsirana zingakhale zochokera pazifuno zenizeni za ukwati, ku zifukwa zachipembedzo kumbuyo kwa kamangidwe ka phwando laukwati i.e. kulekana kwa amuna kapena akazi, kusowa mowa etc. poyesa kuyankha ena mwa mafunso omwe mosakayikira adadzutsa m'maganizo mwa alendowo. Moyenera uthenga wobwerezabwereza womangirira kulankhula pamodzi udzakhala chikhulupiriro chathu mwa Mmodzi, Mulungu wodziwa zonse ndi wanzeru zonse, kwa Yemwe tasonkhanitsa chisangalalo chake kuchita mwambo waukwati, ndipo mu Kumvera Kwake tikupewa zosaloledwa j. kugonana kwa kunja kwa ukwati, kusakaniza kwaulere kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kumwa mowa etc. Kusiyana koonekeratu kuyenera kupangidwa pakati pa miyambo ndi miyambo yachipembedzo, kuti akwaniritse bwino cholinga cha da’wah.

5. Pemphero

Pemphero ndi lofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa Msilamu, ndi monga masiku athu onse, tiyenera kuyesetsa kukonzekera phwando laukwati wathu mozungulira nthawi ya mapemphero, kusamala kuti musakhale osasamala pankhaniyi. InsAllah kufunikira komwe timapereka ku pemphero pa tsiku laukwati lomwelo lidzalipidwa ndi madalitso owonjezera pa moyo wathu waukwati..

Ngati pali mwayi wopemphera pagulu lalikulu, izi zingakhalenso zopindulitsa kwambiri, komanso da'wah yabwino kwambiri. Ngati mwambo waukwati ukuchitikira pa nzikiti, kapena pali nzikiti pafupi, ndiye kuti mapemphero a pampingo atha kuchitidwa bwino lomwe, ndi mphotho yayikulu (kwa amuna). Pamenepa, osakhala Asilamu athanso kuchitiridwa umboni pampingo, poitanidwa kuti akaonere mapemphero.

Azimayi angathenso kukhala ndi mpingo pakati pawo, kuti apeze ubwino ndi malipiro Opemphera pamodzi. Kuchulukirachulukira kwa ziwerengero ndi kufunikira kwa pemphero, mwachitsanzo. powapatsa malo opempherera omwe adanenedwa (poona alendo onse achikazi), Kuchuluka kwa da’wah kumakhudza kwa Allah; tikhulupilira kuti izi zikhalanso chilimbikitso kwa Asilamu omwe sali tcheru kuti akwaniritse udindo wawo.

Monga ndi machitidwe onse, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti pemphero lathu ndi lachisangalalo cha Allah basi (swt), ndipo tiyenera kumveketsa bwino kusiyanitsa mu cholinga chathu ubwino uliwonse wopezeka pa da’wah kapena china chilichonse osati chifukwa chopempherera., Koma tikuyembekezera mwachifundo cha Mulungu (swt) kuti zochita zathu zidzakhalanso chikumbutso ndi chitsanzo chabwino kwa anthu onse.

6. Chepetsani kuwononga chakudya

Tanthauzo la kuwonongeka kwa chakudya mu Chisilamu ndi lodziwika bwino. Ine ndinali, komabe ndinadabwa kwambiri posachedwapa pamene mayi wachisilamu anali nawo pa ukwati wa abale anga, adayankha mokulira: "Uwu ndi ukwati woyamba wachisilamu womwe ndapitako komwe chakudya sichinawonongeke". Ndemangayi idanenedwa kuti chakudya chosadyedwa chikusonkhanitsidwa patebulo limodzi, pamene tinali kuyesa kusankha chochita ndi zonsezi. Izo zinali zisanachitike kwa ine nthawi ino, kuti ngakhale mbali yooneka ngati yaing’ono imeneyi ya phwando laukwati ikhoza kukhala njira ya da’wah, pamene tikuyesetsa kufalitsa malangizo abwino ndi zochita zathu.

Choncho, zingakhale zothandiza ngati oyembekezera mkwati ndi mkwatibwi apanga zokonzekeratu za kubweretsa chakudya chotsalira kumalo oyenerera mwachitsanzo,. abwenzi/banja, malo ogona opanda pokhala kapena ena ku nyumba za ziweto (zakudya zochepa zodyedwa ndi anthu).

7. Mphatso/zokonda zachisilamu

Ndi mwambo m’maukwati ambiri, monga chizindikiro cha kuyamikira, kupatsa alendo mwayi wochepa kapena mphatso kumapeto kwa chikondwererocho. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zodyedwa, atakulungidwa m'matumba okongola okhala ndi uthenga wokumbutsa. Sindinawone izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri komabe, kudzera mwa mauthenga achisilamu kapena mphatso zachisilamu. Mwachitsanzo, bwanji osaphatikiza ayat omasuliridwa kuchokera mu Qur’an kapena ma Hadith (pang'ono ngati tebulo malo makadi?) zomwe alendo angatenge? Kapena ngati mungakwanitse, Ma Qur'an omasuliridwa m'thumba kapena timabuku ta Chisilamu tofotokoza za ukwati wa Chisilamu kapena mitu ina yoyenera. Zina mwa izi zitha kupezeka motchipa kwambiri, kapena popanda mtengo, kuchokera kumabungwe a da'wah kapena mutha kuyesa malo ogulitsira mabuku achisilamu.

Pomaliza, ndi pang'ono kukonzekera kowonjezera, ndizotheka kupanga zomwe mwakumana nazo paukwati wanu kukhala zabwino komanso zophunzitsa kwa alendo anu, komanso kuonjezera phindu laumwini ndi malipiro opezeka poitanira kwa Allah (swt). Ngakhale mmodzi yekha, kapena malingaliro angapo am'mbuyomu akukwaniritsidwa, zotsatira zake, monga momwe tafotokozera, akhoza kukhala wamkulu. Ndikuyembekezera ndemanga zanu, ndi malingaliro ena aliwonse omwe mungaganizire!

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