Kuita zvepabonde muChiedza cheIslam

Islam inotidzidzisa zvinhu zvose uye yakaunza dzidziso dzose dzakanaka kuvanhu maererano nemararamiro avo, chitendero, kurarama uye kufa, nokuti chitendero chaAllah (SWT), ngaakudzwe uye akudzwe.

Kusangana pabonde ndezvimwe zvezvinhu zvakakosha zvehupenyu izvo Islam yakauya kuzotsanangura uye kuraira maitiro akakodzera uye mitongo inoisimudza kubva padanho rekungonakidzwa nemhuka uye chido chenyama..

Islam inoibatanidza nevavariro yakarurama, mikumbiro (adhkaar) uye kuzvibata kwakafanira kunoisimudza kusvika padanho rekunamata iro muMuslim achapihwa mubairo. Sunnah yeMuporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) inotsanangura izvi. Imam Ibn al-Qayyim (dai Allah vamuitire tsitsi) anodaro mubhuku rake rinonzi Zaad al-Ma’aad:

“Nezvekusangana pabonde, Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) yakaunza nhungamiro yakakwana, apo utano hunogona kuchengetedzwa uye vanhu kuwana mufaro nokunakidzwa, uye inogona kuzadzisa chinangwa chayakasikirwa, nekuti bonde rakasikirwa zvinangwa zvitatu zvakakosha:

Kuchengetedzwa nekuparadzirwa kwerudzi rwevanhu, kusvikira vasvika pauwandu hwemweya iyo Allah (SWT) zvakatemwa zvinofanira kusikwa munyika ino.

Kudzingwa kwemvura (urume) iyo inogona kukuvadza muviri kana ikachengetwa.

Kuzadzikisa zvishuvo zvenyama uye kunakidzwa nokunakidzwa nenyama. Ichi chete ndicho chikamu chichavapo muParadhiso, nokuti hakuzovi nokubereka vana ikoko, uye hapana kuchengetwa kunoda kurerutswa nekubuda urume.

Vanachiremba vakanakisisa vanotaura kuti kuita zvepabonde ndeimwe yenzira dzekuchengetedza hutano hwakanaka.”
(al-Tibb al-Nabawi, p. 249)

Uye iye (dai Allah vamuitire tsitsi) akadaro:

Pakati pezvibatsiro zvaro ndezvekuti inobatsira kuderedza kutarisa, kunounza kuzvidzora, inoita kuti munhu arambe ari kure nezvinhu zve haraam, uye anoita zvinhu zvose izvi kumukadzi zvakare. Zvinounza pundutso kumunhu pamusoro penyika ino neKurarama kweKuzotevera, uye zvinobatsira mukadziwo. Saka Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) aimbogara achishamwaridzana nevadzimai vake, akati, “Munyika yenyu, vakadzi nezvinonhuhwirira zvakave zvakadikanwa kwandiri.” (Zvakataurwa naAhmad, 3/128; al-Nasaa'i, 7/61; yakanyorwa saheeh naal-Haakim)

Uye Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Imi majaya, ani naani pakati penyu angazvikwanisa, ngaaroorwe, nokuti zvinomubatsira kuderedza kutarira kwake uye kudzivirira kuchena kwake. Uye ani nani asingagoni kuita izvozvo, ngaatsanye, nokuti ichava chitaviridzo kwaari.” (Zvakataurwa naAl-Bukhaariy, 9/92; Muslim, 1400) (al-Tibb al-Nabawi, 251)

Pakati pezvinhu zvakakosha izvo zvinofanirwa kutariswa pazviri pakuita hukama hwepedyo:

Kuva nechinangwa chechokwadi chekuita chinhu ichi chete nekuda kwaAllah (SWT). Munhu anofanira kufunga kuita izvi kuti azvidzivirire iye nemudzimai wake kubva mukuita zvinhu zve haraam, kuwedzera huwandu hweMuslim ummah kuitira kusimudza chimiro chayo, nekuti kukudzwa nokuzvikudza kune zvakawanda. Zvinofanira kuzivikanwa kuti munhu achapiwa mubayiro nokuda kwechiito ichi, kunyange kana akawana mufaro nokukurumidza uye kunakidzwa mairi. Zvakataurwa kubva kuna Abu Dharr kuti Mutumwa waAllah (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Pakusangana kwomumwe wenyu pane mubayiro.” (zvinoreva, paanovata nomukadzi wake) Vakati, “Iwe Mutumwa waAllah, kana mumwe wedu achizadzisa chido chake, achawana mubayiro wakadaro?” Iye (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Hauone here kuti dai aizviita nenzira ye haraam, aizorangwa nokuda kwaizvozvo? Saka kana akazviita nenzira ye halaal, achapiwa mubayiro.” (Yakataurwa naMuslim, 720)

Aya ndiwo makomborero makuru aAllah (SWT) kuUmmah iyi; kurumbidzwa ngakuve kuna Allah (SWT) Ndiani akatiita pakati pavo.

Kusangana kunofanira kutanga nemashoko emutsa, kutamba uye kutsvoda. Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) aimbotamba nevakadzi vake achivatsvoda.

Kana murume akavata nomukadzi wake, anofanira kuti: “Bismillaah, Allaahumma jannibnaa al-shaytaan wa jannib al-shaytaan maa razqtanaa (Muzita raAllah, O Allah Tichengetei kure naShaytaan uye tichengetei Satani kubva pane zvaMunotipa (vana vedu)).” Mutumwa waAllah (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Kana Allah vakaraira kuti vave nemwana, Satani haazombomukuvadzi.” (Zvakataurwa naAl-Bukhaariy, 9/187)

Zvinotenderwa kuti murume avate nomukadzi wake munhengo yake yesikarudzi nenzira yaanoda, kubva kumashure kana kubva mberi, pamamiriro ezvinhu ekuti iri mubeche rake, inova nzvimbo inoberekerwa mwana. Mwari (SWT) anodaro (dudziro yezvinoreva): “Vakadzi venyu murimi wenyu, saka enda kumunda wako (rara nevakadzi vako chero zvipi zvazvo zviri mubeche kwete muharare), uchazviita rinhi kana sei.” [al-Baqarah 2:223]. Jaabir ibn 'Abd-Allaah (dai Allah vafadzwa naye) akadaro: MaJuda aiti kana murume akarara nomukadzi wake mukati memukadzi wake nechekumashure, mwana aibva angoti tuzu. Ipapo aayah iyi yakazarurwa: “Vakadzi venyu murimi wenyu, saka enda kumunda wako (rara nevakadzi vako chero zvipi zvazvo zviri mubeche kwete muharare), uchazviita rinhi kana sei.” [al-Baqarah 2:223] Mutumwa waAllah (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Kubva kumberi kana kumashure, chero iri mubeche.” (Zvakataurwa naAl-Bukhaariy, 8/154; Muslim, 4/156)

Hazvibvumirwi kuti murume arare nomudzimai wake mumamiriro ezvinhu chero api zvawo. Mwari (SWT) anodaro (dudziro yezvinoreva): “Vakadzi venyu murimi wenyu, saka enda kumunda wako (rara nevakadzi vako chero zvipi zvazvo zviri mubeche kwete muharare), uchazviita rinhi kana sei.” [al-Baqarah 2:223]. Zvinozivikanwa kuti nzvimbo yekurima inhengo yesikarudzi, inova nzvimbo iyo munhu anokarira mwana. Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Ngaatukwe uyo anorara nevakadzi mumashure mavo.” (Yakarondedzerwa naIbn ‘Udayy, 1/211; yakanyorwa seSwahiyh naAl-Albaani muAdaab al-Zafaaf, p. 105). Izvi zvinodaro nekuti [kusangana nekumashure] inopikisana nefitra [zvimiro zvemunhu] uye chiito chinogumbura avo vane hunhu hwakanaka hwemunhu; zvinoitawo kuti mukadzi atadze kuwanawo mafaro; uye nzira yekumashure inzvimbo ine tsvina netsvina - uye pane zvimwe zvikonzero zvinosimbisa chokwadi chekuti chiito ichi haramu..

Kana murume akavata nomukadzi wake uye achida kudzokera kwaari kechipiri, anofanira kuita wudoo', nokuti muprofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Kana mumwe wenyu akavata nomukadzi wake oda kuzvidzokorora, ngaaite wudoo’ pakati pezviviri izvi (zviito), nokuti rinowedzera simba kechipiri.” (Yakataurwa naMuslim, 1/171). Uyu mustahab (yakakurudzirwa), kwete zvinosungirwa (zvinosungirwa); kana achikwanisa kuita ghusl pakati pezviito zviviri, izvi zviri nani, nekuda kweHadeeth yaAbu Raafi’ uyo akati Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akatenderera nevakadzi vake rimwe zuva ndokuita ghusl mumba meuyu uye mumba meuyu. Iye (Abu Raafi') akadaro: “Ndakati kwaari, Iwe Mutumwa waAllah, sei usingaite ghusl imwe chete?” Akati, “Izvi zvakachena uye zviri nani uye zvakachena.” (Yakarondedzerwa naAbu Dawood uye al-Nasaa'i, 1/79)

Mumwe kana vaviri vevakaroorana vanofanira kuita ghusl mumamiriro anotevera:

Apo iyo “mitezo miviri yakadzingiswa” kusangana, nokuti muprofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Kana akadzingiswa asangana neakachecheudzwa (maererano nomumwe mushumo: kana wakachekwa uchibata wakachekwa), ghusl inova inosungirwa (zvinosungirwa).” (Yakarondedzerwa naAhmad naMuslim, Aihwa. 526). Iyi ghusl inosungirwa kunyangwe kubuda urume kana kuti kwete. Kubatwa kwenhengo dzakachecheudzwa zvinoreva kuti glans kana kuti bepi remboro rinopinda mubeche.; hazvirevi kungobata bata.

Kubuda kwembeu, kunyange mitezo miviri yakadzingiswa ikasabata, nokuti muprofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro, “Mvura ndeyemvura [i.e., mvura yeghusl inodiwa kana iyo “mvura” yeurume inobuditswa].” (Yakataurwa naMuslim, Aihwa. 1/269)

Al-Baghawi akadaro muSharh al-Sunnah (2/9): “Ghusl ye janaabah [kusachena kunotevera kubuda pabonde] iri waajib mune imwe yenyaya mbiri: kana mboro yemurume ichipinda mubeche, kana kuti panobuda mvura inoyerera nemurume kana mukadzi.” Kuti uwane rumwe ruzivo nezve ghusl sezvakatemwa mu sharee'ah. Zvinotenderwa kuti murume nemukadzi vaite ghusl vari panzvimbo imwechete, kunyange akamuona uye iye akamuona, nokuda kweHadeeth ya‘Aaishah (dai Allah vafadzwa naye) uyo akati: “Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) uye ndaiita ghusl pamwechete kubva mumudziyo mumwe pakati pangu naye; taichinjana kunyudza maoko mumudziyo iye otora akawanda kundidarika kusvika ndati, ‘Ndisiirewo zvimwe, ndisiyei zvimwe.'” Akati, uye vose vari vaviri vakanga vari vana vaduku (munzvimbo yejanaabah). Yakarondedzerwa naAl-Bukhaariy naMuslim.

Zvinotenderwa kumunhu anofanirwa kuita ghusl kurara uye kunonoka ghusl kusvika nguva yemunamato isati yasvika., asi zvakafanira kuti aite wudoo’ vasati varara, nokuda kweHadeeth ya ‘Umar, uyo akati akabvunza Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake), Pane mumwe wedu angarara kana ari junub? Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Ehe, asi ngaaite wudoo’ kana achida.” (Zvakataurwa naIbn Hibbaan, 232).

Zvinorambidzwa kusangana nemukadzi kana ari kumwedzi (ari kutevera), nokuti Allah vanoti (dudziro yezvinoreva): “Vanokubvunza maererano nekuenda kumwedzi. Say: ndiyo adhaa (chinhu chakaipa kuti murume arare nomukadzi wake panguva yokuva kwake kumwedzi), naizvozvo dzivisai vakadzi vari kumwedzi, uye musaenda kwavari kusvikira vacheneswa (kubva kumwedzi uye kugeza). Uye kana vazvichenura, mopinda mavari sezvamakarairwa naAllah (pinda kwavari chero ipi zvayo nguva ichiri kumukadzi wavo). Chokwadi, Allah vanoda avo vanotendeukira kwavari mukutendeuka uye vanoda avo vanozvichenesa (nekugeza uye kuchenesa uye kunyatsogeza nhengo dzavo dzakavandika, miviri, nokuda kweminyengetero yavo, etc.).” [al-Baqarah 2:222].

Munhu akarara nemukadzi wake paanenge ari kumwedzi anofanira kupa dhinari kana hafu yedhinari murudo., sezvazvakarehwa kuti Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akasungirwa kuita mumwe murume paakauya akamubvunza pamusoro pazvo. Izvi zvakataurwa nevanyori ve al-Sunan uye zvakanzi saheeh naAl-Albaani muAdaab al-Zafaaf., p. 122. Asi zvinotenderwa kuti murume afarire mukadzi wake ari kumwedzi pasina kusangana, nokuda kweHadeeth ya‘Aaishah (dai Allah vafadzwa naye) uyo akati: “Mutumwa waAllah (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) aizoudza mumwe wedu, paakanga ari kumwedzi, kupfeka chiuno-jira, ipapo murume wake ovata naye.” (Tabvumirana).

Zvinotenderwa kuti murume abvise (‘Azl) kana asingadi kuita mwana; nenzira imwe cheteyo zvinotenderwa kuti ashandise makondomu – kana mudzimai wake akamupa mvumo, nokuti ane kodzero yokufara uye kuva nevana. Humbowo hweizvi iHadeeth yaJaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (dai Allah vafadzwa naye) uyo akati, “Taiita ‘azl panguva yeMutumwa waAllah (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake). Mutumwa waAllah (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akanzwa nezvazvo, uye haana kutirambidza.” (Zvakataurwa naAl-Bukhaariy, 9/250; Muslim, 4/160).

Asi zviri nani kusaita chimwe cheizvozvo, nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda, kusanganisira kuti inonyima mukadzi mufaro kana kuderedza kunakirwa kwaari; uye kuti kunodzima chimwe chezvinangwa zveroorano, ndiko kuwedzera kuwanda kwevana, sezvataurwa pamusoro apa.

Zvinorambidzwa kuti vaviri vakaroorana vaparadzire zvakavanzika zvezvinoitika pakati pavo muupenyu hwavo hwemuchato; zvirokwazvo, ichi ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvakaipa zvikuru. Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro: “Pakati pevakaipa zvikuru muvanhu pamberi paAllah pazuva rekumutswa pachava nemurume anouya kumukadzi wake osangana naye., ipapo anoparadzira zvakavanzika zvake.” (Yakataurwa naMuslim, 4/157).

Zvakataurwa kubva kuAsmaa’ bint Yazeed kuti vaive naProphet (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) uye varume navakadzi vakanga vagere naye, uye Muporofita (rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaruve pamusoro pake) akadaro, “Pane murume angati akaita sei nemukadzi wake? Chero mukadzi angaudza vamwe zvaaita nemurume wake?” Vanhu vakaramba vakanyarara havana chavakapindura. I [Asmaa'] akadaro: “Ehe, naAllah, Iwe Mutumwa waAllah, ivo (vakadzi) ita izvozvo, uye ivo (varume) ita izvozvo.” Akati, “Usadaro. Zvakafanana nadhiabhorosi wechirume asangana nadhiabhorosi wechikadzi mumugwagwa ndokurara naye vanhu vakatarisa.” (Yakarondedzerwa naAbu Dawood, Aihwa. 1/339; yakanyorwa seSwahiyh naAl-Albaani muAdaab al-Zafaaf, p. 143).

Izvi ndizvo zvatakakwanisa kutaura pamusoro petsika dzepabonde.

Rumbidzo ngaive kuna Allah Vaititungamirira kuchitendero chikuru ichi netsika dzacho dzepamusoro. Rumbidzo ngaive kuna Allah Avo vakatiratidza zvakanakisa zvepasi rino nerinotevera. Dai Allah varopafadza Muporofita wedu Muhammad (SAAW).

Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid

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