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Zvinorwadza zvakanyanya kunyora kuti vateveri veIslam ndivo, zuva nezuva, kurasika kubva kumararamiro echiIslam; akatanga kutevedzera mararamiro evamwe asingaoni, kunyanya vekumadokero – MaJuda nemaKristu.
Muporofita weIslam Muhammad (SAW) ane makore anopfuura mazana gumi nemana apfuura akati: ”Muchatevera avo vari mberi kwenyu, upofu inch by inch, zvekuti kana vapinda mugomba renyoka, newewo uchapindamo.” mumwe munhu akabvunza: “O Muporofita waAllah, nekutaura vanhu vekare unoreva maJudha nemaKirisitu?” Prophet vakapindura: "Ndiani mumwe?” (Bukhari)
Ichi chinyorwa chakakosha kuvakadzi vechiMuslim vanoshanda munzvimbo inorambidzwa muIslam; uyewo nevarume vanosunda vakadzi vavo, vanaamai, vanasikana kuti vawane mari. Zvinonziwo ivo madzimai pachavo vanoda kuzviriritira kuti vararame zvine rukudzo munharaunda uye kuti havamanikidzwe kuwana mari.. Ichokwadi here? Kana bodo! Nyangwe vakati, simba harishandiswi nenhengo dzemhuri yake – murume nevakuwasha etc. – zvirokwazvo isimba rinopwanya kubva kumagariro emagariro uye nekuona zvinhu zvakabatana.
Tsika dzekumadokero dzanhasi dzakagadzira fungidziro yakadaro iyo isipo zvachose mukuita. Ndosaka vakadzi vachitambura zvisingafungidzirwe zvinorwadza kumadokero. Naizvozvo, kunyange mukadzi anova mutoro kumurume wake uyewo vana kuvabereki vavo.
ChiIslam chinobata zvakanyanya kuhuku nekuchena kwemukadzi, inorambidza kusununguka-kusanganiswa uye kusangana kusina kurambidzwa pakati pevarume nevakadzi. Islam inoona zvakaipa kurega murume nemukadzi vachisanganiswa mundima dzavo dzebasa uye kuvarega vachipinda mumuedzo wakakomba kubva kwazvinonetsa kudzoka.. Islam haingorambidzi kuita hupombwe chete asiwo inorambidza varume nevakadzi kuenda pedyo nayo. Korani inoti: “Kana kuswedera kuupombwe: nekuti zvinonyadzisa (chiito) uye zvakaipa, kuvhura nzira, (kune zvimwe zvakaipa).” (17:32).
Hazvina kunaka kuvakadzi kuti abviswe kubva kumunda wake webasa uye osundirwa mumunda weatypical; hazvimubatsiri, uye panzvimbo pezvo kurasikirwa kukuru. Kurwadziwa kwekuenda kumwedzi, pamuviri uye kusununguka hazvidzivisiki. Murume haakwanisi kumubatsira mumatambudziko ose aya uye matambudziko. Hazvina kunakawo kutamba kana achipihwawo mabasa emurume. Mukadzi ndiye mambokadzi wemba. Anowana rudo rwese uye rudo kubva kuna baba vake, mukoma nemurume uye nhengo dzese dzemhuri yake uye kodzero dzake dzese dzakachengetedzwa mumba. Kana mukadzi akasatakura mutoro wemba haakwanise kana kutora kodzero dzake.
Imwe nguva yekuwana nekurarama, murume anonetseka zvakanyanya, anotakura marudzi ose emarwadzo uye anotarisana nematambudziko asingaverengeki. Zvekuchengeta nekusimudzira mhuri yake, anokunda matambudziko asingakundiki. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, akafanirwa norugare rwendangariro nokugutsikana. Ndiwo musha unogona kumupa runyararo nekuzorora. Kana akasawana rugare kunyangwe kumba kwake, zvinova zvakamuomera zvikuru kuti ararame. Islam inodzidzisa kuti mukadzi anofanira kuita imba yake ‘nzvimbo yekugara ine runyararo’ kuitira kuti munhu akanganwe kunetsa kwake kwose uye matambudziko mushure mokunge asvika kumba kwake uye azvigadzirire kurwa kutsva mushure mekufema mweya wekugutsikana.. Kana vakadzi vakashanda, iyewo, anofanira kunetsa kubasa uye anenge achida runyararo pamba urwo murume asingagoni kumupa.
Zvave pachena kuti hakuna chinovaka muviri chiri nani kumwana kupfuura mukaka waamai vake. Kana amai vakasagara pamba voita basa rekunze nekuita mabasa, haakwanisi kuzvigadzirira kuyamwisa, uye ipapo kudya kwakafanira kwomwana kunoshaikwa! Hazvina kukwana kungomupa zvokudya zvakafanira asi mwana anodawo rudo nechidakadaka, tsitsi uye kuzvipira kwechokwadi kwaamai vake. Hapana mumwe munhu anogona kutora nzvimbo yaamai pakuita basa rinokosha. Kana amai vakaramba vasipo, mwana anoshuva kudiwa namai vake oshaya.
Nechinangwa cheDzidzo yemwana , zvakakosha kuti mudzidzisi wake ave nerudo rwakanyanya uye akazvipira kwaari.
Zvedzidzo yekutanga uye kudzidziswa kwemwana, amai ndivo vakakodzera. Nechinangwa chedzidzo yemwana, zvakakosha kuti mudzidzisi wake ave nerudo rwakanyanya uye akazvipira kwaari. Vana vanogara vachikopa kana kutevedzera Vadzidzisi vavo. VaMuslim vanonyanya kukoshesa dzidzo yechitendero. Kana amai vachikwanisa kupa dzidzo yeIslam kuvana vavo, havazove vasingazivi chitendero chavo, kunyange pashure pokunge awana dzidzo kuchikoro.
Kunyange pakudzidzisa mwana, basa raamai rinonyanya kukosha uye rinokosha. Ndiamai vanomira seakanakira mwana. Mwana anocherechedza tsika netsika dzaamai vake siku nesikati, uye anoumba maitiro ake achiona maitiro aamai vake. Hapana anogona kudzidzisa tsika dziri nani uye ruremekedzo kumwana kunze kwewake chaiye, Amai! Iyo ine mukurumbira quote munhu wese anoziva "Kuseri kwemurume wese akabudirira pane mukadzi", uye pese pavanenge vari Amai. Kuda amai kwakakosha zvikuru kuti mwana awane dzidzo yakanaka, tsika, uye kunyanya kuremekedzwa kune vanhukadzi.
Chokwadi ndechokuti kuvakwa kwenzanga kunotsamira pakuvakwa kweimba. Ichi ndicho chikonzero chekuti Islam yakanyatsovimba nevakadzi kuti vavake imba yake. Muporofita Muhammad (s) akati “Kana ukadzidzisa murume mumwe chete wadzidzisa munhu mumwe chete, uye kana wadzidzisa mukadzi mumwe chete wadzidzisa mhuri yese”. Amai vanoita basa rinokosha zvikuru mukudzidzisa vana vavo. Islam haidi kuisa pamimwe mitoro yayo pamwe chete nebasa iri. Muchiedza cheIslam, kuvakwa kweimba hakuna kukosha kudarika jihad. Hazrat Anas (r) – shamwari yaMuporofita – yakataura kuti pane imwe nguva boka revakadzi rakabvunza Muporofita Muhammad (pbuh) murume iyeye anoita chimwe chiito uye anowana mubairo wejihad, zvatinofanira kuita kuti tiwane mubairo wakadaro uyo munhu anopinda nemujihad munzira yaAllah? Muporofita Muhammad (pbuh) akapindura kuti mukadzi anogara kumba anogashira mubairo wejihad munzira yaAllah. (Ref: Tafseer Ibn katheer)
Vazhinji vevakadzi vanoita basa vanowanzo gumbuka kubasa uye vanotsamwira murume nevana kumba.. Kunyange vakadzi vanoshatirwa panguva yekuenda kumwedzi uye havagoni kugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu panguva iyi. Kunyanya kunetsana pakati pemurume nemukadzi kuchave panguva ino uye vakadzi vakatoputika nehasha dzehofisi nenzvimbo yebasa.. Havagoni kuita zvakarurama kubasa pamwe chete nokurera vana panguva imwe chete. Uye Mwari Wemasimbaose akaisa basa guru romukadzi rokuvaka imba nokurera vana nokuti “pwere dzanhasi vatungamiriri vamangwana”.
Kana tikapeta mapeji enhoroondo, tinosvika pakuziva nezvevakadzi vakuru vakadzidzisa vanakomana vavo nenzira yekuti vakave nyanzvi, musayendisiti, vanachiremba, varwi uye chii kwete! Imhaka yekudzidziswa kwaamai kwaibatsira mwana kuti ave nechido nebasa rake uye kubudirira. Amai vanogadzirawo vamwe amai izvo zvinogadzira mumwe musiki wenhoroondo. Vakadzi-shamwari huru dzomuporofita vakabvumikisa kuva vanamai vakanaka kupfurikidza nokuronga imba nenzira inobudirira.
Islam inobvumira (varume uye) vakadzi kuti vashande mukati mekuona kweIslam shariah. Vakadzi vanogona kushanda muminda iyo mune vakadzi chete uye hijab inogona kucherechedzwa zvakanyanya. Chiremerera chevakadzi chakanyanya kukosha muIslam uye chinopa rusununguko rwakanyanya uye kururamisira. Tinoda vanachiremba vechikadzi, vadzidzisi, vasona, etc. iyo inobatsira muslima kuona chaiyo hijab. Asi basa guru revakadzi nderokuchengetedza humambo hwake (i.e. kumba) uye kurera vana nekuti Allah vakapa hunhu hwakakosha kubata basa remumba kuvakadzi kwete varume. Saka ndiye tenzi wemunda wake uye hapana angamutsiva panzvimbo yake.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinodaro, nyanzvi inodiwa kubata nekudzidzisa vana. Fungidzira kana amai vakadzidza zvakanaka uye vachipedza nguva nevana saka pasina nguva nzanga yedu ichaita zvakare chimurenga semashamwari aProphet. (pbuh).
Injiniya haina kunetseka zvinoitika muMedical field, kana chiremba haanetse nezvendima yeinjiniya. Saizvozvowo, vakadzi vanofanira kuva tenzi wemunda wake uye havafaniri kunetseka pamusoro pevarume. Allah vakapa simba rakakwana kuvarume nevakadzi kuti vashande muminda yavo. Kana ani zvake – murume kana mukadzi – vanosiya munda wavo ipapo pachava nekusagadzikana kwechisikigo munharaunda, izvo zvinounza nyonganyonga isingakoshi.
Dai Allah varopafadza kuedza uku nenyasha Dzavo uye voita kuti ive mudziyo wekunzwisisa kwatiri.
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Ko Prophet (SAW)mudzimai wake, Khadijah aive chirikadzi yakapfuma? Akapindirana nevarume nokuda kwebhizimisi rake, zvakadaro aizivikanwa saAl Tahira. Sei muchida kuvharira vakadzi mumba? Ichokwadi kuti basa ravo guru nderemhuri yavo, asi chinyorwa ichi hachina musoro. Iwe unotora ayah kubva muKorani uye woaisa kwaasingatomboshandisi! Zvichashanda sei zvakafanana nekuswedera pedyo nehupombwe?? Buda pabhiza rako rine tsika uye urarame zvine mwero, nzira iyo phrophet (akaona) akatikurudzira kuti.
Ndinobvumirana nezvakataurwa pamusoro apa. Kuita fungidziro idzi kufunga kuti hapana kana mamiriro ezvinhu ekuti murume ari pamba nevana uye mukadzi ari kushanda.. Izvi zvinoitika uye kune mhuri dzakakwana nazvo. Khadija anga asiri mukadzi wemba uye muporofita haana kungomunamata chete, akamuyemura. Ndingada zvikuru imba yakagadzikana umo mumwe kana kuti vabereki vose vanokwanisa kushanda (kana vose vakatenderana kuzviita) kupfuura imba ine nhamo murume, anouya kumba, uye haaitiri mudzimai wake zvakadai “mambokadzi” asi semusikana webasa. Pane mabasa, Ehe. Asi chokwadi chekuti munhu wese anofanira kubatwa sei uye kuti zvinhu zvakaita sei chaizvo zvinofanira kufungwa nezvazvo. Pfungwa dzako dzekuti mukadzi wemba uye vakadzi vane nzvimbo chete pamba hazvina musoro.
Ini ndinobvumirana zvachose nezvakataurwa pamusoro apa. Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda nei vakadzi vechiMuslim vachishanda kana kuti KUFANIRA kushanda kunze kwemba yavo: Tora semuenzaniso chirikadzi kana vakadzi vakarambwa vane vana vanofanirwa kuwana mari yekuchengeta mhuri yavo nekuti hapana mumwe angazviita.. Kunyanya kana vachigara munyika dzekumavirira mazuvano havawanzo kuwana rubatsiro rwemari kubva kumhuri dzavo sezvazvingave zvakadaro “chiIslam” nyika. Kana kuti mari yomurume haikwani kumhuri ine vana vanoverengeka munzanga yokumadokero. Uyezve vakadzi vazhinji vechiMuslim vakadzidza, vakadzidza kana kudzidza rimwe basa uye vanogona kubatsira nzanga yose, kunyanya kune mamwe maMuslim, kana kuti unofunga kuti vakadzi vechiMuslim vanofanira kuenda kupi ivo vachida chiremba, kunyanya kana yakananga “mukadzi” zvinodiwa? Kana kuti ungada kuti varapwe nachiremba wechirume? Uye kutaura pamusoro pevarume vechiMuslim munharaunda dzekumadokero, naivowo vanosangana nedambudziko rimwe chete rekuita varume NEvakadzi vaunoshanda navo pakuenda kubasa uye maererano nedzidziso yako, varume ivavo vanoswedera pedyo nengozi yeupombwe mazuva ose – zvakadaro vanosungirwa kuenda kubasa uye kuwana mari yemhuri yavo sezvo ivo vane basa nazvo maererano nemitemo yeIslam.. Mararamiro aunotsanangura kuvakadzi vechiMuslim anogona kuitika munyika yakanaka yechiIslam, asi kunyanya muno munharaunda dzekumadokero hazvisi. Ndinofunga kuti muslima wese anenge asarudza kana kumanikidzwa kushanda nemamwe mamiriro ezvinhu ane zvikonzero zvake zvakanaka zvekudaro, uye zvakadaro anoedza kutevera mitemo yeIslam uye kugara mukati memiganhu yezviri “halal” kwaari nepaanogona napo munyika isina kukwana 😉
Ichi chinyorwa hachina musoro. Chikonzero chinoita kuti vakadzi ava vaende uko kunoshanda imhaka yekuti varume vavo havasi kuvapa izvo zvavanofanira kuita..
Kana waenda kunoisa Hadith wobva waisa chinhu chose, Ndine chokwadi chekuti iyi haisi iyo Hadith yese uye haishande kuchinyorwa ichi. Islam haimborambidzi madzimai kusashanda asi kuti inovapa sarudzo chero bedzi vachitevera mutemo wechiIslam chaiwo. Allah vanotitonga nezvinangwa zvedu. Nyanzvi dzepamusoro muIslam uko vakadzi vanoshandisa kudzidzisa varume. Saka chii chachinja zvakanyanya kusvika patisiri kutevera chitendero uye tichigara tichidzvinyirira vakadzi? Sei tiri kushandura chitendero kuti chienderane nesu pane kuti tochitevera sekuda kwazvakaita Allah.
Zvizhinji zvechinyorwa ichi hazvina maturo. Zvinofadza kuti munyori haatomboda kutaura zita ravo–zvinoita kuti ushamise kana vachitya kubatanidzwa nepfungwa idzi.
Bvumiranai…! Ndini ndinosarudza kugara pamba, asi imwe nguva ndine basa rangu remahara. Asi, imwe nguva munyika, mamiriro ezvinhu haana kunaka kumukadzi. Semuyenzaniso : mugari wenhaka haazadzi zvizere, kana kuti vanoitirwa zvakaipa nemurume wavo. Saka zvinoita kuti mukadzi atambure uye kumusundidzira kushanda kunze.. Ndedzipi kodzero dzevakadzi mukudzingana uku?
Ko vakadzi vane varume vasingariritire mukadzi nevana vavo? Anosarudza kunonoka kudzoka kumba sezvo achida kushanyira vabereki vake nevanin'ina vake MAZUVA ose pane kuuya kumba kuzotandara nemukadzi wake nevana.? Mudzimai haana chimwe chaangaita kunze kwekushanda kuti ariritire vana vake. Mudzimai angazviwane sei mumwoyo make kuremekedza murume akadai?
Bcoz yeiyi nhete yekufunga kufunga maMuslim vachiri kutambura & kumashure handizivi kuti ndiani anonyora chinyorwa ichi asi chinyorwa chekwas zvachose.Anofanirwa kufamba dzimwe nyika dzeMuslim asati anyora chimwe chinyorwa..
Chinyorwa chakanaka kwazvo, MashAllah
Ndinofunga kuti ichi ichokwadi uye ndinoziva izvi kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri
Amai vangu vanoshanda kubva masikati uye vanodzoka manheru 11 pm. Paanodzoka anenge aneta, hapana chaanokwanisa kuita uye dzimwe nguva anogumbuka. Weekend tinongopedza naye saka ndinoona kwaunoenda nevana kuda mai vavo. Ini ndinoda kuita mukadzi wemba nekuti handidi kuti mamiriro ezvinhu ekuti murume nemukadzi vanodzoka kubva kubasa vaneta uye ndinodawo kuvapo kune vana vangu..
Uye zvine musoro, chinyorwa hachirevi kuti vakadzi HAVAFANIRI kushanda, kutaura kwayo kune sarudzo (asi inongotaura zvakanakira kuva mugadziri wemba) asi kana ukasarudza kushanda, ita shuwa kuti iri munzvimbo ye halal. Sekuona kwangu kana wafunga kuita mai vemba, unofanira kuramba uchibatanidzwa nenharaunda yako uye kuita zvinhu zvakadai sekuzvipira. Ndinoronga kuzviita, InshAllah 🙂
Ndinobvumirana newe! Vakadzi ngavagare pamba vana THIER vanovada zvakanyanya uye kana usingade kuva pamba nevana vako uchichengeta murume wako chii chanetsa pauri? Uri kutsvagei kunze kwemba yako. Nei iyi dhuna ichinyanya kukosha kwauri ipapo mhuri yako naJennah? Ini ndiri mugadziri wemba uye ndinodzidzisa vana vangu kumba uye ndinodada! Hapana kwandingada kuva panguva iyoyo kuti ndive nemhuri yangu!
Pure nonesense, nhema zvachose, Ini ndinobvumirana nemamwe macomments uye ndaneta nekunzwa kuti vakadzi ngavahwande vagare pamba vachirera vana blablabla. Khadidja, rugare ngaruve pamusoro paro, aive bhizinesi mukadzi uye ari muenzaniso wevakadzi. Pane kuedza kudzidzisa Islam kune vamwe, iwe unofanirwa kutora mamwe makosi iwe pachako ! MADZIMAI ECHIMUSLM POSE, Korani yakakwana kuziva izvo Allah vanoda kubva kwatiri, hatidi mumwe munhu kuti atiudze zvekuita !
Ndatenda nemhinduro yako. Ndakanzwa kushamisika ndokudzadzarika kuti ndiverengewo mitsetse yakadaro…
Al Sallamu Alaikum,
Ndakaverenga zvimwe zvechinyorwa ichi, Ndinofanira kutaura kuti handibvumirani nezvakawanda zvawataura. ndiri a 24 gore mukadzi wechiMuslim, mubasa renguva yakazara.
Semunhu ane hunyanzvi ndinofanirwa kutaurirana nevatengi, varume nevakadzi. Hazvina kundishandura kuva mhombwe yemhando (sekuda kwechimwe chikonzero wakatora Qur'an nezvehupombwe), kana kunditsausa, infact zvakabatsira kushandura hupenyu hwangu.
Kushanda mubasa rakakodzera uye munzvimbo yakarurama yekushanda haifaniri kuchinja chero chinhu pamusoro pekuva muMuslim. Kutaura chokwadi ndinoda rusununguko rwandinowana sezvo handidi murume muhupenyu hwangu anonditsigira. Ndinonzwa ndasunungurwa. Ndine basa rakanaka rakagadzikana, shefu mukuru ari mudzimai wechiKristu anoshamisa. Anonzwisisa uye anoremekedza kutenda kwangu uye chishongo changu.
Kwandiri kunzi gara pamba ndisashande zvaizoreva hudzvanyiriri. Mumazuva ano mukadzi anofanira kuratidza chimiro chake uye naizvozvo handireve kuti pfuma asi kuva nechinangwa muupenyu. Ndinokoshesa amai vangu semudzimai wemba asi izvi hazvisi zvandiri kuda, uye kune vakadzi vakawanda kunze uko vanonzwa saizvozvo. Ndakamboita kanguva rovha uye zvakaita kuti ndirase pfungwa uye ndikanzwa ndarasika uye ndisina chinangwa.
Basa muzuva ranhasi ndiro rinokuita. Chokwadi handingafungi kuita chinhu chakadai..ini handizive kuita muchengeti, nokuti ndinoziva zvandinogona uye zvandisina simba. Vachitaura kuti kune mamwe mabasa akawanda kunze uko zvekuti vakadzi vanogona kuita zvakanaka sevarume kana zvisiri nani.
Islam ndeyekufambira mberi, kuwana zivo, kuva chikamu chechimurenga. Kugara uchida kushingirira mberi. Izvi zvinoshanda kune vese varume nevakadzi. Isu tinofanirwa kuzvivandudza isu uye kusimba uye kuvanda kumba hakusi kuzoita izvozvo.
Anyway idzi ndidzo pfungwa dzangu.
Sallam.
Khadijah (Rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake) haana kuzoshanda after aroorwa naProphet (S.A.W). Panzvimbo pezvo akamuchengeta iye nevana vavo uye akapira upfumi hwake hwose muchinangwa cheIslam. Imi varume munofanira kuita tsvakiridzo musati mataura chokwadi.
http://sahabiya.wordpress.com/2011/06/16/the-greatest-of-all-love-stories-prophet-muhammad-saw-khadijah-ra/
Vanhu havana chavanoziva! Uye ivo vari murudo neiyi dyuna uye havana hanya chaizvo naJennah. Muporofita (SAW) akati maMuslim aizopatsanurwa 70 secs uye chete 1 ari kuenda kuJennah. Basa revakadzi ndere kuchengeta mhuri yake uye ndizvozvo.
kusaziva kunenge kuri kukonzera njodzi munzanga , iro zita chairo rinotaura nezvechisarudzo chako pachako kana kushanda kana kugara pamba , zvisinei chinyorwa chinotaura zvakajeka maitiro eidzo sarudzo uye zvakare zvirinani zvezviviri
Ndakava nokunzwa kumwe pakuverenga kwangu kuchinyorwa ichi: Ndinonzwa kuvhunduka uye kudzedzereka kuverenga pfungwa dzakadai dzinofanirwa kunge dzakabva pashari'ah. Makazvinzwa kupi panguva yaProphet SAAWS, vakadzi VOSE vakasara pamba? Vaimbodzidza, kubatsira muhondo, kubatsira savanamukoti uye vanachiremba, Umu Salama aive nemukurumbira neruzivo rwake rweKorani, Khadija bintu khouwailid ainyanya kuzivikanwa nehunyanzvi hwake hwebhizinesi,AIcha umu al mu'minin akadzidzisa hadith kune vese shamwari uye akatungamira hondo. Wataura pakupera kwechinyorwa kuti,Ehe, mukadzi anofanira kuva chiremba, Mudzidzisi, musoni asi zviri nani kuti agare pamba…kupokana uku???Angadzidzire sei basa asingaende kunodzidza nekusvika kuyunivhesiti??uye kana apedza zvidzidzo zvake, angabatsira sei hanzvadzi dzake kana asingadzidzire muchipatara, muchikoro, mune imwe kambani,mubhanga???Muporofita SAAWS HAANA KURAMBISA kuchinjana kunoremekedzwa uye hukama pakati pevarume nevakadzi uye izvi zvinogona kuwedzerwa kumarudzi ese ehukama.:mumhuri uyewo munzvimbo dzebasa. Makagadzirawo nyaya sekuti varume vese vaive nehanya uye vane chekuita nehanzvadzi dzavo,vanamai nemadzimai?? Uri kurarama munyika imwe chete yatiri kurarama mairi??Haunzwe here kuti varume vanorova vakadzi nevanasikana vavo?kuvadzivisa pakodzero dzavo vasati vakumbira mabasa avo??Hongu Islam yakauya ALHAMDULILAH kuzopedzisa nguva yejahiliya apo vanhukadzi vaigara vachidzikisirwa uye vachionekwa sevashandikadzi uye zvinhu zvepabonde.. WL, CHIISLAM chakauya kuzoisa kuenzana uye kuenzana kwemurume nemukadzi pazviso zvakawanda zvehupenyu hwezuva nezuva uye mabasa nekodzero kune mumwe nemumwe wavo tichitarisa kwavakasiyana.. “Wa laqad Karamna bani adam wa hamalnahoum fi al biri wa al bahr..”Surat Al Israa. ALLAH vakataura “Vana vaAdhamu” kwete “Varume chete”. Sei muri kushandisa pfungwa iyi yakaoma uye yakakasharara yekuti varume nevakadzi vanokwikwidzana kwete kubatira pamwe?Chokwadi chiripo ndechekuti vakadzi vazhinji vane tarenda uye iyi inini yakaropafadzwa uye yehumwari,Ndiani mumwe kunze kwaAllah vakatipa pfungwa nenjere nehungwaru nehungwaru? Vese varume nevakadzi vakakomborerwa netarenda, njere, hutano hwakanaka uye chero imwe ni'mah inofanirwa kushandisa izvi kubatsira vanhu uye kuendesa musimboti weshoko reIslam.: “Musiki wako ndiAllah,Mucherechedze muchinhu chose chaunoita uye umushumire sekuudzwa kwawakaitwa”. Maererano nemuporofita SAAWS: Allah vanoda kuona kushanda uye kubatsira kwemaropafadzo avo pavaranda vavo, uye kushandisa chikomborero ichi chinangwa chinorumbidzwa uye chinorumbidzwa ndiyo nzira yekutenda nemoyo wese Allah SWT nazvo.. Dai Allah Varopafadze Ummah iyi uye vamutsidzire mweya yedu nekunzwisisa kwechokwadi uye kwakaringana kwedeen yedu, ya rab,ameni.
wow. Paiva nezvakawanda…. pfungwa dzinokatyamadza munyaya ino. Asi chinhu chimwe chete chandakatadza kumira nacho ndechekuti mukadzi ari kuenda kumwedzi anofananidzwa sei naye kunge akaremara mupfungwa.. Kana iri pamuviri mundima dzakawanda dzinoremekedzwa dzebasa kune chinhu chakadai semashizha aamai nebaba.
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Ndanga ndichishanda muunivhesiti semudzidzi uye mudzidzisi kwekupedzisira 7 makore. Ndakaona tsika dzekumadokero nedzekumabvazuva. Ini ndinofunga kuti kuenda kubasa harisi iro dambudziko rakakura nekuti zvave kunetsa kudzosera nzanga yese kumashure asi chinhu chakakosha ndechekuti unoenda sei kubasa kana uchidikanwa uye mabatiro evana vako nemhuri yako. Ndinobvuma iwe kuti nguva irikushanduka uye muviri wese unoda kufambira mberi asi rega ndikuudze kuti zvauri kuona ndezvekunyepa.. Zvakanaka kuva nedzidzo uye kana uchida kuenda kubasa asi izvozvi nyika zhinji dzemuslim dziri munyika dzekuchinja pakati penyika ine runyararo yechiIslam kupfuura iyo yekumavirira.. Saka zvinoita sezvinobatsira kuti vanoshaya vave nerutsigiro nebasa uye vasikana vasingaroorwe kuti vashande pane kungopedza nguva neinternet yeterevhizheni nezvimwe uye zvinogona kubatsira zvakanyanya kune vari mudambudziko nekuda kwematambudziko emhuri.. ASI matambudziko atinosangana nawo nhasi akareruka pane atichange tinawo munyika inotevera. Pakafa HAZART UMer mumwe wehama akati kwaari urikuenda 12 vanakomana vane madhinari mashoma saka regai tikupei mari. Akapindura kuti ini handingave nemari kubva kune zvisiri pamutemo uye ini handigone kupiswa nekuda kwezvishuwo izvi saka ndakaita zvandaikwanisa uye handidi mari yako yakawanikwa kubva nenzira dzakarambidzwa uye akasiya vanakomana vake vane hunhu uye nyika yaona kuti vanakomana vake. vaipa mabhiza akawanda ezvipo uye mamwe acho achipemha mari pamberi pemusikiti mumwe chete. Asi ikozvino mazuva nekuda kwekusavimbika kwehama vakuru kana baba kana mhuri uye nekuda kwekuwedzera zvinodiwa munharaunda mamwe maitiro aunofanirwa kubuda SAKA ndapota Usazvitambisire nenguva yakaoma.. Ita chero zvawaigona kuita. Tora dzidzo uye kana wakaomerwa ita basa asi usingakusiye rukudzo sezvarikuita vasikana vazhinji. Iva nechikafu chako ne hijab uye udada nazvo pane kudada nekugerwa uye kupfeka. Uye wobva wabuda nechivimbo wodzikisa maziso ako uye woita kuti inzwi rako risanyanya kunaka paunenge uchitaura nevamwe. Uye Allah vachakuchengetedza iwe neruzhinji INshAllah
Yakaipisisa nonsense yandati ndamboverenga, Ndokumbira usatumire zvinhu zvese izvi zvakapusa kupomera islam
Wow mushure mekuverenga chinyorwa icho chapa pfungwa yekuti munhu ari kuyedza kudzidzisa vamwe nzira dzechiIslam asi anoda kudzidziswa ega.. Pane zvimwe zvinhu zvine musoro zvakaita sekuti A madzimai anofanirwa kuchengeta vana vake nekuvadzidzisa kuti vave neruzivo uye vave vanachiremba., maschools etc saka sei zvisingaite kwavari kana vachigona kudzidzisa kune vana vanogona kuzviita vega. Mazuvano murume haakwanisi kuriritira mhuri ari ega nyangwe ari pamari yakanaka sezvo kugara munharaunda yekumadokero kunonetsa panyaya yekufambisa imba.. Murume nomudzimai vanofanira kushanda sezvavanogona kudzidzisa vana ikoko zivo pamwe chete nokuvapa kutsiga. Zvinosuwisa kuti kazhinji vakadzi havagone kushanda asi ndosaka ivo mhuri dziine dambudziko rakawanda. Uye varume vavo vari kuedza kuriritira mhuri vodzoka kumba uye kuneta kukurukura nomudzimai kana vana ndizvo zvakanga zvakaita rudo uye kubatana kwemhuri.. MuIslam varume nevakadzi vakaenzana saka kana murume achigona kushanda saka mukadzi anogona kubvunza sezvo ane vavariro dzakanaka uye achizviita nezvikonzero zvakanaka.. Achiri kukwanisa kufambisa basa repamba paanenge achishanda. Uye pakupedzisira tose tichaenda kumakuva edu uye Allah swt vachatitonga. Saka kana vakadzi vakaita chitadzo chekushanda vachawana chirango asi hazvisi zvedu kuti titi Allah chete ndivo vakagara
Ndinokutendai mose nekutaura mashoko aya! Ndinofunga kuti chinyorwa ichi chiri kurerutsa nyaya ine zvinhu zvakawanda. Kushanda nekurera vana haisi sarudzo yakasarudzika uye ndinoziva vakadzi vazhinji vakasimba (MashAllah) avo vakaita basa rinoshamisa mumativi ose ari maviri. Kana mukadzi achiziva miganhu yake seMuslimah uye ari kucherechedza maitiro / mapfekero chaiwo, zvino (uye ndinotaura izvi mushure mekutarisa hadith yese yataurwa pamusoro uye hadith dzeUmm-ul-Mu'mineen.) Islam haimuganhuriri panyaya iyi nekuti mukadzi kwete murume.
Ndinogara kuSingapore, uye kuva munzanga inokurumidza kukurumidza vabereki vose vari vaviri vanofanira kushanda. Chandinonzwisisa kubva muchinyorwa chino ndechekuti wOmen vanopihwa sarudzo yekushanda kana kusashanda. Kana akasarudza kushanda, ive nechokwadi chekuti kuseta kuri mune halal iyo isingazviisi panjodzi yeIslam kana neimwe nzira.
Ndapedza vana,ndinoda kusiya basa ndinovachengeta, sezvandinoziva ndinogona kusakwanisa kuvachengeta zvakakwana kana ndaishanda. Semunhukadzi, ndinodada kugara pamba ndichichengeta mhuri yangu. Insyallah, Allah vachatichengeta uye murume wangu achakwanisa kutiriritira.
Sisters, usatore chinyorwa zvakanyanya. Wese munhu anoziva kana mukadzi ari PMSing isu tinonzwa zvakanyanya. Asi chokwadi hative takaremara mupfungwa. Uyezve, hakusi kuti Islam inotirambidza isu vakadzi kushanda, Islam inotaura kuti varume ndivo vane mhosva yeizvi uye vakadzi vane basa rekurera vana nenzira CHETE naamai. Varume havagone kuvasimudza sezvatinoita. Zvakadaro, kana taida kushanda.. Zvadaro nepazvose, shanda, uye edza kugovera mutoro wekurera mhuri pakati pevaviri.
Isarudzo yenyu hanzvadzi.
Chaizvo Sisi 🙂
verenga chinyorwa. Nyatsotenda basa ramuri kuita vanhu pano. Ndinoshuva kuwedzera kune chinyorwa mamwe mazano.
#. Islam inopa kukosha kukuru kuvakadzi. Vakadzi vakakosha chaizvo kunzanga yese pakuru.
Kukosha kwavo kunoratidzwa nechokwadi chokuti murume anosungirwa kuita zvose zvinodiwa nomudzimai wake. Ivo havafanirwe kubuda kuti vatore zvinhu ivo pachavo.
#. Vakadzi vakakosha. Ivo havafanirwe kusiya nzvimbo yedzimba dzavo. Kuchengetedzeka kwavo kunoenderana nazvo.
#. Vakadzi vanofanira kuchengetwa. Ndiro basa revarume. Ndicho chokwadi.
Pakupedzisira, usatya kutaura chokwadi. Ava vanhu vasina simba havagoni kukuvadza iwe kana isu nenzira ipi zvayo. Hapana anogona kutitadzisa kuparadzira Shoko raAllah
nokuti kutaura chokwadi wemasimbaose ari kurutivi rwedu muhondo iyi. Smile zvino. Uri kuita basa guru.
Anyways ndinogara ndiripo kune chero rubatsiro rwaungade, ingobvunza uye ini ndichafara kusungirira.
Assalam Walekum,
Ndinodawo kutaura pamusoro pechinyorwa ichi.
Ndinobva mumhuri ine urombo. Ndakaona zvikamu zvakawanda muhupenyu hwangu apo vanhu vanomanikidza chishuwo chavo uye kusasimba kwavo muzita raAllah. Ini handidi kunyora nyaya yangu pano ndirikuda kuburitsa zvinhu zvishoma.
1. Ngatitii kana mukomana kana musikana achida kuita chidzidzo asi mhuri kunyanya baba vasingabvumidze vana vavo nekuti vanofunga kuti Vanhu vanofanirwa kudzidza chiArabic neQuraan kwete sainzi kwete masvomhu nekuti tinofa uye anongotaura nezve zuva rapfuura hupenyu.. Uye amai vanotsamira chose chose pana baba vamwe vanoedza sei kupa dzidzo yakanakisisa kumwana wavo . anowana mari kuburikidza nesmall home made work. anorera mwana wake saka chii ? Mudzimai wemba kana kuti ari kunetseka nekuti mumwe munhu ainzwisisa Islam zvisizvo?
Ndinogona kukuratidzai maMuslim mazhinji vachiri kumanikidza mwana wavo kuti adzidze Quraan neUrdu. Haisi muIndia chete mamiriro epasirese.
2. Munyika yose maMuslim akawanda haana kuverenga. havana zvokudya . Mwana wavo haana hutano , Havagoni kuwana dzidzo yakanaka, Ivo havazive wats kunze kweIslam kunyangwe ivo havazive chinonzi Islam.
Ndapota Please Ndapota musave fungidziro. Kana usingakwanise kuchinja nenguva. kana usingakwanise kunyora practical fact dont misguide people. usavapa chikonzero chisina musoro.
Une data here? Vangani vaMuslim munyika ino vari kuwana chikafu chakanaka, zvipfeko nemba.
Ndakaona mavhidhiyo akawanda aMaulana zvavanotaura zvavanoita ini ndinoziva.
Kana iwe ukati kana Vasikana vakashanda havagone kugadzira chiyero saka unofanirwa kuunganidza chokwadi. Ndinoziva vanachiremba uye mainjiniya vasikana vane basa nehunyanzvi. Vanopa Namaz kashanu uye vanoenda kuhofisi zvakare.. Vanodzidzisa mwana wavo.
Uye nei vanhu vasingaite zvidzidzo zvekuenzanisa? Nei tichingotaura nezve maMuslim chete ? Unganidza data kubva kune zvimwe zvitendero iwe uchawana zvakawanda zvekushanda uye kufara vaviri vaviri.
Uye ini handidi kutaura zvimwe zvinhu Ingoona pamusoro marefu akareba makomendi. Ndivanaani vari kunyora apa? Havasi maMuslim here? Aiwa maMuslim anonzwisisa kukosha kwechokwadi. Vanonzwisisa kuti sei maMuslim vakarasikirwa nemufananidzo wavo chaiwo. Vanogona kuenzanisa apo vanhu vechitendero chedu vanotitsausa.
Chikumbiro changu ndechekuti Ndapota nguva inoda shanduko. Shandura kana kusandura vamwe.
Heino muenzaniso wepamhepo "fatwa's" inounzwa nenhengo dzisina kukodzera dzenharaunda yeMuslim. Mubvunzo wangu wekutanga kumunyori ndewekuti; chii chinokupa kodzero yekutaura pamusoro peIslam? Kuva muMuslim? Kwete…kuve muMuslim ibasa rako rekutanga kutevedzera misimboti yese yeIslam kusvika yakwana., usati waedza kutungamira chero mumwe mweya-sekutevedzera kweMuporofita.
Kuti iwe uite zviziviso zvakadaro pamusoro pebasa revakadzi pasi peIslam, unofanirwa kunge wapedza kunyatsotsvagisa musoro wenyaya, kubva pakuuya kwechitendero kusvika nhasi uno. Zvezvidzidzo zvakadzama zvakadaro, nyanzvi dzehunyanzvi dzinowana madhigirii avo kuitira kuti * vaedze * kuve shasha yemumunda. Une magwaro akadaro? Chiyero chako chehunyanzvi hwekunyora, kushaikwa kwekutsvaga / zviwanikwa zvakaiswa muchinyorwa, kusavapo kwakakwana kwemareferensi eQur'an, uye kuyerera kusingawirirane kwekupokana zvese zvinoshevedzera kufumura zvikwaniriso zvako zvishoma kune chero.
Nepo isu tichitambura nezviratidzo zvisinganzwisisiki zvakadai semusoro, isu tinokasira kuwana rairo yekurapa yeNeurologist- nei isu tichitora uye tichienda kune chero vashandi vashoma vanopihwa kana zviri maererano neISLAM. Islam haisi shoma pane sainzi uye kunze kwekunge tawana ruzivo rwakakodzera uye takapfeka hupenyu hwese tiri mumunda hatina kodzero yekutaura zvakadaro.! Iwe hausi kuzoedza kuongorora chirwere chako pachako, uchada? Zvino ungada sei kuyedza kunyora pane izvo zvinyorwa zvechiIslam zvechitendero zvinoramba nezvevakadzi!? Zvishoma zvezvikanganiso zvako:
“Zvinorwadza zvikuru kunyora kuti vateveri veIslam ndivo, zuva nezuva, kutsauka kubva pamararamiro echiIslam…”—chaizvo? 2009 poll states dziriko 1.6 mabhiriyoni evaMuslim; wakambosangana neHAFU here kuti utaure kudai?
"Chinyorwa ichi chakakosha kuvakadzi vechiMuslim vanoshanda munzvimbo inorambidzwa muIslam"- Ndapota taura vhesi IMWE kubva muQur’an inotsanangura zvine mutsindo mamiriro ezvakatipoteredza ayo mukadzi anobvumirwa kushanda pasi pawo.?
“Islam inokoshesa zvikuru kuchena nekuchena kwevakadzi, inorambidza kusanganiswa kwemahara uye kusangana kusina kuganhurirwa pakati pevarume nevakadzi”- Ipa vhesi IMWE kubva muQur'an inotsigira zvaunotaura.
Kunyangwe Islam ichipa mukadzi basa remuchengeti wemba, harisiwo zvaro basa romukadzi kuchengeta pfungwa yo“rugare” kana kuti kurerutsira murume wake dzvinyiriro paanosvika achibva pazuva rinonetsa rebasa.. Zvakatosiyana nazvo, Islam ine tsika, tsika, uye pamweya chitendero chakaenzana chinoratidzwa nendima inotevera: “Izvo zvipfeko zvenyu uye imi muri chipfeko chavo” (2:187). Imwe vhesi ine chekuita neukama hwevakaroorana inopa pfungwa yekuzviisa pasi pakati pemurume nemukadzi, “Uye nokuda kwevakadzi zvakafanana nezvavanotarisirwa kwavari, maererano nezvinonzwisisika. Asi varume vane dhigirii pamusoro pavo [mumutoro nechiremera]. Uye Allah vane simba guru uye vakachenjera” (2:228). Kunyangwe varume vachipihwa dhigirii pamusoro pevakadzi, zvinojekeswa kuti zviri maererano nebasa ravo rekudzivirira uye mupi wekupa kuti vane dhigirii repamusoro remutoro.
Chekutanga, kune “kuenzana kwakakwana mutsika nomudzimu kwavarume navakadzi”:
Kune varume nevakadzi vechiMuslim,
—Kuvarume nevakadzi vanotenda,
Zvevarume nevakadzi vanozvipira,
Chokwadi [varume nevakadzi vechokwadi,
Kune varume nevakadzi varipo
Mwoyo murefu uye nguva dzose, kuvarume
Uye vakadzi vanozvininipisa,
Kune varume nevakadzi vanopa
Murudo, zvevarume nevakadzi
Who fast (uye vachizviramba),
Kune varume nevakadzi avo
Chengetedza kuchena kwavo, uye
Kune varume nevakadzi avo
Ita zvakawanda mukurumbidza Mwari,
—Mwari akavagadzirira
Ruregerero nemubairo mukuru. (Sura 33:35)
Vhesi rechitatu richiteerana iro rinocherechedzwa kana riri maererano nehukadzi mumeso aAllah, ndiro vhesi rinopa kukosha kwakaenzana kubasa revakadzi:
“‘Musachiva zvinhu izvo Mwari akagadza nazvo vamwe venyu kupfuura vamwe; kuvarume kune mugove wezvavakanga vabata, uye kuvakadzi mugove wezvavaibata; uye kumbira chikomborero chaMwari, nokuti Mwari ndiye anoziva zvose’ (4:32). Pakupedzisira, ndima iyi inotsanangura kuenzana kwezveupfumi kwevarume nevakadzi. Nepo Qur'an ichirambidza zvakajeka mamwe zviito, haibatanidzi zviito izvi kune chero rudzi rwebasa rakaitwa nevakadzi. Saka, madingindira anodzokororwa anosanganisira kutenga, kutengesa, kuchinjanisa, kusaina zvibvumirano, kudyara, kukohwa, zvichingodaro uye hapana chinoratidza kuti vakadzi vanogona kuita basa ripi”.
Kunyangwe paine mamwe maHadith anotsanangura kuti ibasa ripi rinorambidzwa kuvakadzi nevarume zvakafanana, asi gadziriro idzodzo dzine chokuita no“kugadza bumbiro remitemo retsika nokuda kwokuwana chouviri sezvo mabasa ose aifanira kuva ane tsika uye anogamuchirika kuna Mwari”.
Shamwari dzangu, maererano neIslam mukadzi haangogumiri pamabasa ake epamba. Pane kusawirirana kukuru pakati pefiqh, inova chokwadi cheIslam chakavakirwa paQur’an uye kechipiri tsika dzeMuporofita uye izvo zvakashandiswa neavo vaitonga nharaunda., sezvazviri muvarume. Hapana humbowo hwechinyorwa chechitendero chechiIslam chinopikisa kana kuderedza kufamba kwevakadzi, asi kodzero yechirume iyo yakabvisa chinyorwa sezvaienderana nezvavanofarira uye zvavanoda. Ndapota verenga nhoroondo yeIslam zvakakwana, yemutemo wechiIslam, yeIslam yechokwadi- chiIslam chakaitwa naMuporofita pachake; usati wataura zvisinganzwisisike nezvechitendero. Tevedzera vane tsitsi, kunzwisisa, uye basa rekusunungura reMuporofita Muhammad.
Sezvakataurwa newe kuti vakadzi havafanire kushanda uye chiIslam kana maMuslim vari kumbundira nzira idzo maJudha kana maKristu anotevera.,well im against ur views of u saying vakadzi vechitendero chemuslim havafanirwe kushanda,kana ukaona mwero weinflation urikukwira nekumhanya kwakanaka kwazvo zvakaoma kuti vanhu vepakati kana Mhuri vararame vachimiririra mari imwe chete yemunhu kusvika pakuzvininipisa uye Nyasha dzevakadzi. vakadzi vari muMuslim vanonyatsoziva kuita basa ravo nenyasha vachichengeta chiremerera chake chero paanenge achishanda .Uye nhasi chinhu chinodiwa kuti mukadzi wese angave muslim kana muhindu kuti adzidziswe uye ashandire kusavimbika kweramangwana.,uye kuva akazvimirira
Ndakawana chinyorwa ichi zvishoma shure zvinosuruvarisa.