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Vakadzi vaMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) zvinowanzonzwisiswa semienzaniso yevakadzi vechiMuslim yekutevera. Apo vakadzi vechiMuslim vanopiwa mienzaniso yekushanda vanotendeukira kuvakadzi ava kuratidza huMwari, kusimba, kuvimbika uye kuteerera. Zvakadaro chinoratidzika kuva chakakanganikwa pakati pevazhinji ndechekuti Vanaamai vazhinji vevatendi vaizotsanangurwa sevasina mbereko nhasi. Pakati pemadzimai aya pane vaviri vanenge vachinzi vane mbereko yechipiri, vese vaine vana vasati varoora Muhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam). Vamwe vese vasina vana zvachose. Ngatitarisei vakadzi ava.
Sawadaa': Akanga akaroorwa naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) nguva pfupi mushure mekufa kwaKhadijah, makore matatu hijrah isati yasvika (kutama). Akanga ari chirikadzi yakanga yamboroorwa. Pane mishumo inopesana maererano nekuve kwake nevana. Avo vanoti ane mwana vanoti mwana mumwe chete kwaari. Haana kubereka vana paakaroorwa naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam).
‘Aaishah: Akanga akaroorwa naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) mugore rimwechete saSawdaa', kunyangwe muchato wake hauna kupera kusvika mushure mekutamira kuMadinah. Akanga ari mudzimai wegotwe waMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) nemhandara yoga. Haana kubereka mwana muwanano yake.
Hafsah: Akanga akaroorwa naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) mushure mekuva chirikadzi panguva yehondo yeBadr. Anonzi anga aine makore gumi nemapfumbamwe panguva iyi. Akanga asina mwana muwanano yake yekutanga naKhumays b. Hudhafah uye haana kubereka mwana muwanano yake naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam).
"Ndeipi yaive nguva pakati pekuvakwa kweKaaba nekuvaka Masjid Al Aqsa: Akaroora Muhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) mugore 4 AH. Aimbove akaroora 'Abdullah ibn Abdul Asad uye vaive nevana vana pamwechete, Zaynab, Mhoro, Umar uye Durra. Akaroora Muhammad mushure mekuve chirikadzi uye aive achiri mukoti Zaynab. Haana kubereka vana naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam).
Zainab bint Jahsh: Aive hama yaMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) uye akamboroora mwanakomana wake wekurera Zayd bin Thabit. Mushure mekunge Zayd amuramba muna 5AH akaroorwa naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) nechirevo chaAllah. Haana kuzvara mwana muwanano yese iyi.
Juwayriyyah: Akanga akaroorwa naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) mushure meHondo yeDitch in 5 A.H. Akabatwa ndokubva asunungurwa naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam); akabva atendeukira kuIslaam uye akaroorwa neMuporofita (rugare nemaropafadzo aAllah, waMasimbaose, uve pamusoro pake). Akange akaroorwa asati ave muMuslim kuna Musafi’ ibn Safwan. Haana kuzvara mwana muwanano yese iyi.
Umm Habibah: Akaroora Muhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) mugore 7 A.H. Aimbove akaroora 'Ubaydullah ibn Jahsh uyo akatsauka mushure mekutamira kuAbyssinia.. Akabereka mwanasikana mumwe chete, Habibah mushure mekutamira kuAbyssinia. Haana kubereka mwana muwanano yake naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam).
Safiyyah: Aive muJudha uye akabatwa panguva yekurwiswa kweKhaybar mu 7 A.H. Akasunungurwa uye akatendeukira kuIslaam ndokubva aroorwa naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam). Akaroorwa kaviri asati atendeuka haana mwana muwanano ipi zvayo.
Maymoonah: Akaroora Muhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) mu7ah. Akanga ari wekupedzisira kuroorwa naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam). Akamboroorwa naMa'sood ibn 'Amr ath-Thaqafi naAbu Ruhm ibn 'Abdul Uzza.. Haana kubereka mwana chero muwanano ipi zvayo.
Tinogona kuita fungidziro yekuti dambudziko rekubereka harina kurara muna Muhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam). Aive nevana nemukadzi wake wekutanga Khadijah, vasikana vana nevakomana vaviri. Uye aiva nemwana mumwe chete, Abraham, naMaryam muranda weCopt uyo akapihwa kwaari sechipo mushure 7 A.H.
Tikatora vakadzi ava semienzaniso vakadzi vemuenzaniso zvakadaro zvinoshamisa kuti nei vamwe vanhu vachinyanya kusimbisa kugona kwemukadzi kubereka uye kutoita kuti anzwe sekunge akundikana kana asina.!! Pano tine hupenyu hwaMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) ndiani muenzaniso wakanaka, uye zvakadaro tine chishuwo chekuyera kukosha kwevakadzi vechiMuslim nekugona kwake kubereka vana. Ehe, iyi mienzaniso yevakadzi vechiMuslim haina kubereka vana muwanano yavo naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam). Ivo (dai Allah vafadzwa navo) inogona kutsanangurwa sekushaya mbereko maererano netsanangudzo yezuva rinozivikanwa yekushaya mbereko. kunze kwekunge munhu akasimba zvekuda nekuremekedza nekuda kwaAllah chete, Muhammad (Rugare nemakomborero aAllah ngaave paari) haana kuvaramba, uyewo haana kuvazvidza nokuda kwokusava navana. Chimiro chavo sevakadzi vechiMuslim hachina kutsanangurwa nekugona kwavo kana kusakwanisa kuita vana. Hatina nhoroondo yekuti izvi zviri kunetsa pakati pevakadzi ava, asi isu tinozviita nyaya pakati pevaviri vese kunyangwe isu tisingavazivi.
Ishuviro yangu kuti hama dzangu dzese dzechiMuslim dzisina mbereko dziwane simba mundangariro dzevakadzi ava. Kunyange zvazvo vasina kubereka vana naMuhammad (sallallahu ‘alyhi wa sallam) aivada nekuvaremekedza uye vanopihwa chinzvimbo chakasiyana nemamwe madzimai muUmmah yedu (Nyika yechiMuslim).
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Source :http://idealmuslimah.com/family/infertility-miscarriages-birth-control/206-infertility-pakati-ivo-amai-ve-vatendi-
Thanksgiving! Ini ndaida chaizvo kuverenga izvi sezvo ndakanga ndakaora mwoyo pamusoro penyaya iyi parizvino! Ichi chinyorwa chakaunza misodzi yomufaro kubva mumisodzi yokusuwa nokuda kwangu! Ndiri kufara zvakanyanya uye ndinotenda nekuti ndinogona kunzwa marwadzo achitanga kundisiya. Jazakallah!
Dai Allah vakuropafadzei nevana Vavo vakanaka kwazvo. Mudiwa hanzvadzi, mushure mekuverenga mhinduro yako, Kungofunga kurwadziwa kwaunoita kwakaunza kusuwa mumwoyo mangu. Ndinofara kuti chinyorwa ichi chakarerutsa kurwadziwa kwako zvishoma. Ndanga ndichida kuti usarase tariro yako. Allah vanogara vachitinzwa uye vanesu nguva dzese. Chatinofanira kuita kuenda kwaAri tomukumbira. Kana akatipa zvatinoda, chikomborero Chake uye kana akasatipa zvatinoda zvinoreva kuti ane chirongwa chiri nani kwatiri. Pane imwe nguva ndakanzwa kumwe kuti Ali R.A. akamboti, ” kana dua yangu yanzwika, Ndinowana mufaro, nekuti ndaida izvozvo. Uye kana dua yangu isinganzwiki, ndinobva ndawedzera kufara, nokuti izvi ndizvo zvaidiwa naMwari wangu.” Dai Allah vandiregerera, kana ndakanganisa. Handina mazwi chaiwo echirungu, asi izvi ndizvo zvandakashandura kubva kuurdu kunyora. Ndakafarira kutaura uku, uye zvinoita kuti ndigutsikane zvikuru. Dai Allah vakuchengeta uchifara, kugutsikana, kubudirira uye rugare nguva dzose! Muno munyika ino uye ita zvakakunakira iwe muAakhira. Iva nekutenda kwakasimba muna Allah! Ndine chokwadi kuti unodaro. Ndiko kusaka mwoyo wako wakanyunguduka pachinyorwa ichi. Mwari vakukomborere.
Marwadzo andinonzwa kana vanhu vachindibvunza kuti sei ndisina vana, kutukwa kwandinoitwa nemurume wangu, uye nyadzi dzakabva mukati mangu….. Jazakallah yechinyorwa ichi. Uye sezvakaita sisi vari pamusoro, zvakaunza misodzi mumaziso angu uye kuwedzera kuda islam uye rasool yedu inodiwa (akaona)
Subhan Allah…nyaya iyi yauya panguva chaiyo ndakatarisanawo nedambudziko rakafanana neremadzimai epano..Vanhu vanoramba vachindibvunza kuti ndichazvara vana rinhi asi mhinduro yangu ndinogara ndichiti ‘Zviri mumaoko aMwari kwete kuti isu tosarudza rinhi’. Ndinotenda Allah swt kuti ndine murume anonzwisisa uye nhengo dzemhuri dzinondipa rutsigiro rwekuti ndichiri hv nzvimbo yandinogona kuzembera uye kutaura zvakavanzika.. dai Allah swt atipa simba rekutarisana nematambudziko anoraramira Allah swt vanoziva zvakanyanya..
Alhumdulillah uye Ameen!
Khadeeza naRashal, Dai Allah vakuropafadzei vakomana neRehmat Yavo! Ameen! Dai mese muwane vana vakanyanya kuchena uye vakarurama, Ameen. Ndiri kunzwa zvakashata nekungoverenga macomments enyu, uye imi varume munofanira kurarama nazvo. Gara uchichengeta kutenda kwakakwirira muna Allah. Usarega mumwe munhu achiita kuti unzwe kunyara. Allah anoita zvese nechikonzero. Ndiani wakashata muromo imi varume, havazive zvavanoti zvakanyorwa nengirozi dzavo uye zviri kutaurwa kuna Allah uye chakanyanya kuipa ndechekuti vari kukukuvadza.. Ndiri kufungidzira munyaya iri pamusoro hama nehanzvadzi vakasvika pakuziva nezvemumwe nemumwe kuburikidza neshamwari yepedyo kana chimwe chinhu, Ameen! Dai Allah vazarura mwoyo yavo uye vaite kuti vaone kukanganisa kwavo uye dai vanzwa kukuda, pachinzvimbo chokuvengwa. Ameen! Ndichakunamatirai mose zvakare, ndaimbofunga kuti munamato unogona kungoitwa tisati tarara husiku. Ndinovimba imi vakomana hamundinetse nekupindura macomments enyu.
WL……Kurumbidza kwese kuna Allah SWT, akandiropafadza nerudo & kutsigira murume nemhuri. Zvanga zvave kuda 11 makore ikozvino kubva ndakatarisana nemibvunzo kubva kune vanhu vakatenderedza, nekuda kwekusava nevana………..zvisinei ndinofara nekugutsikana kuti Allah SWT akandikomborera nemukana wekudzidza bhuku rake uye kumuziva zviri nani.. Kana ndine vana, chokwadi ndingadai ndisiri pandiri nhasi, kuita zvandiri 🙂
Chinyorwa ichi chandipazve simba uye kundikurudzira kuti ndipfuurire ndisinganzwe ndaora mwoyo, coz zvechokwadi Allah SWT vanoziva zvakatinakira.
Kuhanzvadzi dzangu dzese dziripano ndinoda kutaura…….regai kurasa tariro, enderana mu duas yako, kumbira Allah SWT kuti vakuitire zvakakunakira & zvakanakisisa zvaizouya….INSHA ALLAH.
kubva munyaya ino tinonyatsoziva kuti kusava nemwana hakusi kuguma kwenyika ino, pane zvakawanda zvekuita kunze kweizvozvo.
Dai Allah SWT atikomborere isu tese nemwana / vana vakarurama kana izvo zvingabatsira DUNYA yedu & YEKUPEDZISIRA…..AMEN 🙂
Hanzvadzi dzeAsalamualaikam neniwo ndakaroorwa kwenguva pfupi 9 makore uye handisati ndave amai zvinosuruvarisa asi ndinonakidzwa nekupedza nguva nevanin'ina vangu zvinondipa runyararo mumoyo mangu sezvo ndinoda kuva amai. Ndoda kuitisa mwana asi murume wangu anoda kumirira tiwane zvedu 🙁 . Ndinongoita dua yekuti rimwe zuva ndichave amai ndizvo zvese zvandinoda nyangwe ndikatorwa ndokumbira undiitire Dua ndinonzwa ndega dzimwe nguva asi ndinoziva im not Allah kareem aneni. Ndinovimba mose munonzwa zviri nani munguva pfupi iri kutevera chinyorwa ichi chakandibatsira zvikuru.
Mwari vakuropafadzei
Asslam u alaikum wr wb
Dai ALLAH vakuropafadzei nekuda kwemaonero enyu akanaka uye Ngaakusimudzirei. ameni. Jazakillah bvudzi- kunyangwe ndakakomborerwa 2 vana, zvinoshamisa kuona kuti ipfungwa dzipi dzisiridzo dzatinadzo maererano nekukosha kwedu. Kana kukosha kwakafanana nemuranda waALLAH zvakare uye kwete zvishoma- kana tikatadza kurarama zvinoenderana nechikamu ichocho, ndiro dambudziko,
Kwaziwai, ndaingoda kusimudza kukanganisa muchinyorwa. Kutadza kuperetera rimwe remazita emumul mu'mineen- Mariyah Qibtiyyah (Mary muCopt) kwete Maryam.
As Salam Alai kum,
Ndiri mu 36 makore ezera.
I'm not even married, kutsvaka mazano ewanano, Uye kuyeuchidzwa nemikana yeKusabereka naAmai vangu, uye anondikumbira kuti ndiroore munhu akatoroora uye ane vana.
Iyo ingave solution…
JazakAllah Khairan.
Handina kumboziva izvi , kuwedzera kwayo kutsva uye kunokurudzira kweruzivo,,,zvirikuitika kwandiri kunyangwe ndine gore ndaroorwa asi ndinogara ndichizvipa mhosva nekuda kwekushaya mwana,kunyange iye zvino handigoni kumira ndakatarisa mwana naamai pamwe chete,,ndinonzwa kuti handikodzeri mukadzi asi iye zvino kuverenga mashoko matsva aya ndinoziva kuti handisi ini ndega,,,ndinonamatira Allah mazuva ese kuti andipe sabr uye expecally murume wangu uyo kunyangwe achitya kurwadzisa manzwiro angu ndichiri kunzwa ,ari kusunungura rudo rwaanarwo kwandiri. Ndinonamatira kuna Allah kuti dzimwe hanzvadzi dziwane vana.
JazakAllahkhair yeichi chinyorwa chinoshamisa sisi! Huwandu hwenyaya dzeinfertilile dzawedzera zvakanyanya nekuda kwemararamiro edu nemaitiro ekudya..As for me,ndanga ndichiedza kwenguva refu 4 makore izvozvi uye ndave kutambura nekushushikana kwepfungwa uye kuora mwoyo.. kurapwa kune zvimwe zvinokonzeresa pfungwa nemuviri,mushure mezvose mahomoni ayo..
.Kunyangwe ndisati ndaverenga chinyorwa ichi ndaizvinyaradza ndichifunga nezvevakadzi vakuru muIslam kunyanya Ayesha.. pamwe Iman wangu haana kusimba zvakakwana,ndinongoramba ndichirasa kutenda kasingaperi..Inspite yekuropafadzwa nemurume anerudo nemhuri inonzwisisa ndinopedzisira ndanzwa ndisina maturo semukadzi pakupedzisira..I dont grieve for myself, asi kumurume wangu wandinoda nekuti ane moyo murefu..
ndafunga kuedza muzita raAllah uye ikozvino ndiri kutarisisa pamakirasi echiIslam nekuverenga.. ,asi zvino chimwe chinhu kana chimwe chinoitika kuti chindibatsire kusimudza..
Insha Allah kana zviri museeb mangu ndinonamatira vana vanonamata neSaalih..
Rugare Ngaruve Kwamuri Netsitsi Nemaropafadzo Sister,
Jazaki'Allaahu'Khayr wechinyorwa ichi. Mwedzi mishoma yapfuura ndanga ndichirwisana nemigumisiro yeLeukemia neLukopenia mikana yekuva nepamuviri iri kuramba ichidzikira zvino.. Ndakamboroorwa ndikava nemwanakomana, zvisinei, kurambwa uye kuroorwazve nemurume asina vana,Ndanga ndichinamata zvikuru kuti ndiwane mwana.
Zvinoshamisa, Ini ndini ndiri kuzviomesera nekutadza kuita vana. Murume wangu anobva kumhuri hombe uye vazhinji vevanin'ina vakaroora vane vana vanenge vatatu.
Masha'Allah, Ndinotenda zvikuru kuti murume wangu mutsva akatora mwanakomana wangu uye akasarudza kumurera sewake, zvisinei,Dzimwe nguva ndinoona sendakundikana nokuti handina mwana naye. Akanditsigira zvekuti ini handina kukwanisa, uye anonzwa kuti mwanakomana wangu wekare akamukwanira.
Chinorwadza ndechekuti shamwari dzangu dziri kuita vana nguva dzese uye ndinonzwa kusuwa kuti ndatadza kupa murume wangu mufaro wakareruka weupenyu.. Zvino, ndaverenga chinyorwa ichi ndinonzwa kufemerwa. Allah anotumira zvikomborero zvidiki uye zvakakura mazuva ese. Ndinonzwa marwadzo ekutadza kuita mwana asiya mweya wangu.
Ndine chokwadi chekuti murume wangu achanzwa kurerukirwa nekuti akandiudza rimwe zuva, ‘Ndinovenga kukuona wakasuwa pamusoro peizvi. Kuva nemwana kana kusaita mwana hazvifi zvakakanganisa maonero andinoita imba yedu.’ Ndinonzwa kukomborerwa neimwe nzira kuti ndine murume ane hanya, tenda Mwari. Iye zvino ndinonzwa kukomborerwa zvikuru kuti nemhaka yeichi chiyeuchidzo handifaniri kunzwa sokunge ndakundikana nokuda kwokusava nomwana. Ndinokutendai zvakare. Dai Allah (swt) mubairo nokuda kwezvose zvamunoedza kuita mukugovera ruzivo feesabilAllaah. Ameen!
Akatendeka Allah.
UmmYahya
Jazakhallahu khaira hanzvadzi. Kune hanzvadzi dzese( ndinosanganisira) vachikumbira vana Allah. Dai Allah vatipe vana vakarurama. Ameen.
Murume wangu akandirwadzisa achiti nhasi handikwanise kuita vana nekuda kwemoyo wangu mutema. Aka hakasi kekutanga kutaura zvinhu zvakadai kwandiri. Akakumbira kundiroora mushure mekunge ava nemumwe mukadzi nevana vaviri naye.
Asalamualaikam hanzvadzi dzimwe nguva its pressure kumurume wako futi votaura zvavasingareve