Темпераменти: Упознајте себе, Упознајте свог супружника 1

In a two part series, Wise Wives Orange County was lucky to have Sr. Hosai Mojaddidi lead us in a discussion about temperaments and their effect on our relationships. Her talk was titled“Personality Differences: Упознајте себе, know your spouse.” She started by talking to us about the историје of the idea of temperaments. It was created by Hippocrates in 450 BC. He determined that people’s behaviors were related to the presence of four humors, or liquids, in the body. From Hippocrates onward, the humoral theory was adopted by Greek, Roman and Islamic physicians, and became the most commonly held view of the human body among European physicians until the advent of modern medical research in the nineteenth century. The famous Muslim scientist, Ibn Sina also further developed this theory. The four humors are: black bile, yellow bile, phlegm, and blood and each corresponds to one of the traditional four temperaments: melancholic, choleric, phlegmatic and sanguine. This theory was closely related to the theory of the four elements: earth, fire, water and air; earth predominantly present in the black bile, fire in the yellow bile, water in the phlegm, and all four elements present in the blood. Hosai says that, “it is your reaction to stimulus and the duration of the impression that determine your temperament. Its not ones actions, it is your reactions…you look at how a person reacts to an emergency or when you receive pleasant news etc.” Wikipedia explains these four temperaments as the follows: Sanguine The sanguine temperament is fundamentally impulsive and pleasure-seeking; sanguine people are sociable and charismatic. They tend to enjoy social gatherings, making new friends and tend to be boisterous. They are usually quite creative and often daydream. Међутим, some alone time is crucial for those of this temperament. Sanguine can also mean sensitive, compassionate and romantic. Sanguine personalities generally struggle with following tasks all the way through, are chronically late, and tend to be forgetful and sometimes a little sarcastic. Often, when they pursue a new hobby, they lose interest as soon as it ceases to be engaging or fun. Они су у великој мери људи. Причљиви су и нису стидљиви. Они углавном имају готово бесрамну природу, сигурни да је оно што раде исправно. Самопоуздања им не недостаје. Сангвиници су срдачни, пријатно, живахан и оптимистичан. Колерик Колерични темперамент је суштински амбициозни и лидерски. Имају доста агресије, енергије, и/или страст, и покушај да то усадиш другима. Они су људи оријентисани на задатке и фокусирани су на ефикасно обављање посла; њихов мото је обично “урадите то сада.” Они могу својом снажном вољом да доминирају људима другог темперамента, посебно флегматични типови, и може постати диктаторски или тирански. Многе велике харизматичне војне и политичке личности биле су колерици. Воле да буду задужени за све и добри су у планирању, јер често могу одмах да виде практично решење проблема. Међутим, могу брзо пасти у дубоку депресију или нерасположење када их задесе неуспеси или неуспеси. Меланхолиц Меланхолични темперамент је суштински интровертна и предана је размишљању. Меланхолични људи се често доживљавају као веома (или претерано) размишљају и оба су обазриви и веома опрезни. Они су организовани и оријентисани према распореду, често опсежно планирање. Меланхолици могу бити веома креативни у активностима као што је поезија, уметност, и проналазак – и осетљиви су на друге. Због ове осетљивости и своје промишљености могу постати заокупљени трагедијом и окрутношћу у свету и подложни су депресији и ћудљивости.. Често су перфекционисти. Their desire for perfection often results in a high degree of personal excellence but also causes them to be highly conscientious and difficult to relate to because others often cannot please them. They are self-reliant and independent, preferring to do things themselves in order to meet their standards. One negative part of being a melancholic is that they can get so involved in what they are doing they forget to think of other issues. Their caution enables them to prevent problems that the more impulsive sanguine runs into, but can also cause them to procrastinate and remain in the planning stage of a project for very long periods. Melancholics prefer to avoid much attention and prefer to remain in the background; they do, Међутим, desire recognition for their many works of creativity. Phlegmatic The phlegmatic temperament is fundamentally relaxed and quiet, ranging from warmly attentive to lazily sluggish. Phlegmatics tend to be content with themselves and are kind. Phlegmatics are consistent, they can be relied upon to be steady and faithful friends. They are accepting and affectionate, making friends easily. They tend to be good diplomats because their tendency not to judge and affable nature makes reconciling differing groups easy for them. Phlegmatics prefer to observe and to think on the world around them while not getting involved. They may try to inspire others to do the things which they themselves think about doing. They may be shy and often prefer stability to uncertainty and change. Their fear of change (and of work) can make them susceptible to stagnation or laziness, или чак тврдоглавост. Они су доследни, опуштено, мирно, рационално, радознао, и посматрач, квалитете који их чине добрим администраторима. Могу бити и пасивно-агресивни. У сваком од нас постоји превласт, али ви бисте могли бити мешавина ова четири темперамента. Урадите овај тест са својим супружником да бисте утврдили који сте: http://personality-testing.info/tests/4T.php Останите са нама за део 2 док дубље залазимо у ове темпераменте. 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