When people are faced with any issues, wants or needs, the first thing they do is look to others to find a solution. When things go wrong, this is when they turn to Allah for help.
Међутим, one of the qualities of piety and righteousness is that the believers ask Allah FIRST and foremost for whatever their needs are, rather than leave their reliance upon Allah as an afterthought.
Аллахов Посланик salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam рекао: ”Who will guarantee me that he will not ask mankind for anything, and I will guarantee for him Paradise (in return)? So Thawban said, “I”, and he added, “And I would never ask anyone for anything.” [Абу Давоод]
Заиста, for those who place their full trust in their Lord, seeking ALL good from Him, Allah will send for him help from different sources – be it from people or a change in circumstances.
Најбоље од адхкара да се каже у овом погледу је:
Зато реци: „Аллах ми је довољан, нема бога осим Њега, у Њега се уздам, и Он је Господар Великог Арша.”
Хасби-аллаху ла илахе илла Хува алејхи таваккалту
ва Хува Раб-бал 'арсхил' атхеем
Реци: Алах ми је довољан. Нико нема право да буде обожаван осим Он, у Њега се уздам и Он је Господар моћног престола [Кур'ан, 9:129].
Пророк salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam говорио је то седам пута ујутру и увече – па запамти ово и осигурај да од сада, тражиш СВЕ од Алаха, ма колико била велика или мала. Награда за ово није мања од раја!
A young lady was in this country illegally, I fell in love with her, paid the dowry and all the legal expenses, and married her. После 13 years and giving birth to two male children, she has become totally disrespectful, disobedient, and a scourge to live with. If you knew everything that I have sacrificed to make this woman happy and how deeply it hurts me the way she treats me, you would understand how hurt I am.
I have consulted with our Imam because she has refused to have sexual intercourse with me in over a year and he has sided with her! Као резултат, it appears that my wife has fallen in love him and it does not appear that he is ” casting his vision down” in his relationship with my wife. This is just another hurt that I’m forced to endure.
I’m certainly not perfect, but I’m so hurt about how this marriage is turning out after all the sacrifices I made to support this family. Please understand that I’m over 20 years older than my wife and I’m sure she wants a younger man. I’ve prayed to Allah (СВТ) and I can never forgive this woman in the way that she used me and how badly she has treated me after all I’ve done for her. Even my children want me to “stand up for myself and be the man of the house”. If I strike this woman, I know I’ll end up really hurting her and I know I will end up in jail!
Please Help and offer dome good advice!