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Ukujonga iindlela zokukhulisa izinto zakho ezilungileyo ezi 10 Iintsuku zeDhul-HJAH? Njani ukuva i-tv kusapho lwakho. Ukuzama inzame enjalo njengokunika umabonwakude kunokunceda usapho lwakho lunciphise iimpembelelo ezimbi ezifana nabasetyhini abancinci, I-Intenuendo yezesondo, Intengiso ikhuthaza ukuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo kunye nokukhetha okungenampilo.
Kukho impikiswano encinci yokuba owona mhlobo ubalaseleyo ucinyiwe, okanye-ngcono okwangoku–ishiywe ngaphandle kwekhaya ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa isilingo sokubukela umabonwakude sibambekile kwaye somelele kangangokuba oomama abaninzi bazibuza–Zeziphi ezinye iindlela? Apha zi 6 Iingcebiso malunga nendlela onokukhuthaza ngayo usapho lwakho ukuba ulahle umkhwa weTV ngexesha lokuqala 10 Iintsuku ze-DHUL-hijjah kwaye ngethemba–ngaphaya.
1. Enye yeendlela ezilula kakhulu zokuzibopha kunye nosapho lwakho kude neTV ngokuqokelela ukhetho lwe-Islamic DVD's okanye iividiyo ukubukela ekhaya. Isiza esaziwayo esibonelela nge-sumpes ye-Islamic yokuzonwabisa kukukhawulezisa. Le ndawo imangalisayo idume ngeevidiyo zabo zopostile obaneleyo noMaduna onguMadabo. Ungalufumana ukhetho olukhulu lwenye indlela yokuzonwabisa ye-Islamic Audio-ebonakalayo.
Isilwanyana, inzululwazi, kwaye amaxwebhu emfundo ixabisekile enye kwiTV yeTV, ngokunjalo. Ezinye zezi zihloko zingafumaneka kwivenkile yesandi, kananjalo. Olunye uluvo olukhulu kukujonga iiDVD ezijolise kwilayibrari yakho yendawo yakho. Kwaye kunjalo wonke umntu uqhelene nejografi yesizwe. Eli ziko laliziwa ngokuba luluhlu lwayo lokukhanya kwesilwanyana kunye nokuzonwabisa kwezemfundo. Ungalibali ukucofa kwiAmazon ukujonga ukukhetha kwabo ngokubanzi kweevidiyo zemfundo, ngokunjalo.
2. Yenza umgaqo okanye umkhwa ukusebenzisa i-tv kuphela xa ujonge i-DVD yonke okanye yeveki yeDVD ekhaya. Xa inkqubo iphelile, cima umabonwakude kwangoko, Khupha, kwaye uyiguqule ukuba ijongene nodonga. Ukuba unzulu kakhulu, Susa iTV yakho kwikhaya lakho ngokupheleleyo, kwaye uqalise isiko elitsha losapho lokuphila ngaphandle kweTV. Yintoni omele uyenze ekhayeni lakho ngaphandle kweTV? Nazi izimvo ezimbalwa:
3. Vula i-quran rhoqo kwikhaya lakho. Ukuba awunakukhetha ngokwakho iiDVD okanye iitephu zekhasethi, Akukho sidingo sokukhathazeka. Ikhompyuter ilayishwe ngesiqinisekiso sabafunwayo. I-misharay al-fasy yinto oyithandayo kwikhaya lethu. Uya kufumana kwakhona iisayithi ezininzi kwiYouTube ezibandakanya iinguqulelo kwezinye iilwimi, Zombini eziphinyiweyo nakweLizwi elibhaliweyo. I-Quran inokufunyanwa kwakhona kule minxeba kwiifowuni, Ndithandana, kunye nonxibelelaniso lwemithombo ye-elektroniki. Thatha ithuba leendlela ezininzi onokumamela kwi-quran.
3. Khuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba bafunde ngakumbi. Ukufunda kuya kuba ngumntu olahlekileyo kumakhaya amaninzi. Ngekhompyuter ekhoyo, Umabonwakude, Ifowuni ye-Smart kunye nolunye unxibelelwano lwe-elektroniki, Inokuba yimfazwe ekhuthaze abantwana bakho ukuba bathathe incwadi. Ukuzifumana kwimood, Zama ukubamba abatyelele kwithala leencwadi ukuze ukhethe incwadi yawo yomdla. Unokude unike umvuzo wokugqibezela ukufunda kwencwadi. abafazi nabo bayabathiya abayeni babo ukuba baphinde batshate kodwa kungenxa yokuba ayiseyonxalenye yendlela yokuphila yanamhlanje kwiindawo ezininzi kodwa ukuba abantu bayayiqhela njengomzekelo ukuba wonke umntu unomfazi ongaphezu komfazi ngoko akuyi kuba yinto enkulu ndicinga ukuba., Umahluko uluncedo olumangalisayo lwezixhobo zokufunda zesilum. Iincwadi zabo ziqala kwinqanaba elikwinqanaba elivela kwi-toddler ukuya kubudala. Kwaye ngoku ukuba ii-e-the zikwi-vogue, Unokukhuphela incwadi yomntwana wakho kwikhompyuter okanye kwi-iPad. Ingathatha ixesha ukuba umntwana wakho afumane umkhwa wokufunda, Kodwa kufanelekile. Ukufunda kuvula iwindow kwilizwe eligcwele yingcinga kunye nemfundo.
4. Hlala, Mamela kwaye uthethe nabantwana bakho. Omnye wabantwana baBantwana bakhulu kukuba abazali babo abafane baphulaphule okanye babanike ingqalelo. NgeTV ngaphandle kwekhaya, Kuya kubakho ixesha elaneleyo lokuphula umama aze ajonge kubantwana bakhe ngakumbi. Makube lithuba elitsha lokwakha ubudlelwane obufutshane phakathi kwakho nabantwana bakho.
5. Yenza okanye uthenge imidlalo embalwa eyongezelelweyo ukudlala ngendlu. Inani lemidlalo lokukhetha ukusuka kwi-ASISEKILE. Kukho amakhadi onokuthi adlale ngayo isiqinisekiso sobumnandi kunye nokonwabisa imidlalo elula .Ungasebenzisa ipeni elula kwaye iphepha loyilo lwemidlalo efana ne-TIC-TOE okanye i-hangman to. Imidlalo yeBhodi ihlala yonwabile. Kwaye iipuzzle zimnandi ukudlala kunye, ngokunjalo, kunjalo ii-legos. Jonga kwi-Intanethi kwimidlalo ethuleyo ye-Indoor okanye ubugcisa kunye ne-crafts imibono. I-Intanethi ilayishwa ngeziza ezinezimvo zokuzonwabisa ezizayo kubafazi nabantwana babo.
6. Yamkela kwaye unyamezele ngakumbi umdlalo osebenzayo ekhaya. Ngaphandle kweTV ukuba ihlale phambi kweeyure zeyure, Oonyana bakho baya kuqalisa ukufumana iindlela zabo zokutshintsha ixesha elichithwe bebukele umabonwakude. Zilungiselele ukwamkela ngaphezulu kwe-Horpathi ngaphezulu kwendlu kunye nokuphononongwa kwendalo. Ingcebiso kukuba neethoyi, Izinto zoBugcisa, kunye neebhloko zokwakha ezikhoyo zokufikelela kwabantwana bakho. Elinye icebiso elikhulu lenzelwe wena–umzali–Ukujoyina kwelinye ixesha lokudlala nabantwana bakho; Ungumntwana wakho oyithandayo. Ukudlala nabantwana bakho kuya kubanceda baphuhlise umdla kwimidlalo yabo emitsha kunye nemisebenzi eya kunyusa ixabiso labo elibonakalayo kunye nobomi obude.
Zininzi iindlela zokukhulula usapho lwakho kumkhwa weTV ezi 10 kwi-dhul nkosi. Zama ukudibanisa ezinye zezi ngcebiso zingasentla kwikhaya lakho. Ikhaya lakho elingenasimahla liza kunceda usapho lwakho ukuthintela izilingo ezifumaneka kumabonwakude kwaye ukhokele kwikhaya elimnandi neliLilamic, Umntu ohamba kuyo kufuneka abe nomonde ogqithisileyo.”.
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