Yabelana Le
Umthombo : jamit.org.za
NguMoulana Abdul Hameed Ihaq, Azaadville
1. Khumbula ukuba umolokazana wakho ngumntu ongumntu oneminqweno kunye neemvakalelo. Uye wenza umbingelelo omkhulu ukuba eze kwaye akhonze unyana wakho ubomi bakhe bonke. Mphathe njengentombi yakho. Khumbula xa wayengumkhwekazi wentombazana. Njengoko ufuna ukuphathwa, Mphathe. Susa ikhwele ngokubanzi lingena entliziyweni yokuba umntu omtsha uye wafika wathabatha unyana wam endandikhulisa ngentlungu enkulu.
2. Nika izipho. Oku kuyakwenza uthando phakathi kwakho.
3. Sukunyanzela ulawulo lwemali yonyana wakho. Yenzelwe ukuba isebenzise ngendlela efanelekileyo.
4. Ungaze uthelekise umolokazana womntu omnye komnye, okanye neentombi zakho. Wonke umntu wahlukile kwaye unezakhono ezahlukeneyo. Jonga okuhle kubo bonke.
5. Jonga iimpazamo kunye neempazamo. Umkhami wakho-umolokazi. Ngawo onke amathuba, wenze iimpazamo ezifanayo xa wawusemncinci.
6. Ukuba uhlala nawe, Ungalindeli ukuba enze yonke into endlwini. Nangona kunjalo, Ukuba ikhitshi inye, Ke ezinye 'u-uema, ichaze ukuba kuya kuba ngcono ukuba i-oni-i-in-oni-ngaphakathi iyaphepheleka ngokupheleleyo kumkhwenyana wakhe, Ukuba uyakuvuyela ukwamkela uxanduva. Ukuba akukho njalo, emva koko ujike ekhitshini, kuba iingxaki ngokubanzi ziqala ekhitshini. Iindlela zonke kunye neendlela zahlukile.
7. Cinga ngaphambi kokuba uthethe. Into oyithethayo kwintombazana yakho, Awunakutsho kumton wakho, Kuba intombi yakho inothando lwendalo ngenxa yakho ngelixa intombi yakho-inholow yakho kuwe kuya kufuneka ihlatywe kancinci kancinci. Nokuba uyaphikisana, Lumka malunga nendlela omlungisa ngayo. Ngamaxesha athile, nelizwi elingalunganga, Nangona kunjalo ingaba inokwenzeka, inokubangela iingxaki. Yimeko enobungozi.
8. Ungaze uxubushe umntu othandana nomntu othile okanye uxubushe kunye nabo noodadewenu, Iintombi okanye abahlobo abalungileyo. Ukuba imfihlo ayinakuhlala emlonyeni wakho, Ulindele ukuba ihlale njani komnye umntu? Ukuxoxa nabanye kukukhangela kwiingxaki. Ukuba unengxaki, Thetha ngqo kulowo uchaphazelekayo.
9. Funda kwiimpazamo zakho. Ukuba ukhe wathetha into edale ingxaki, qinisekisa ukuba awusoze uphinde.
10. Zilula. Akukho mntu ugqibelele. Sukungabi lula i-fussy malunga nezinto ezingezizo ziyimeko yokufa ubomi okanye yokufa.
11. Yiba nesisa ekudumiseni ukupheka kwabo, ukubhaka, njl. Nokuba ayipheli-kwimigangatho yakho.
12. Ungaze utsala umolokazana wakho kuyo nayiphi na ukungavisisani phakathi kwakho nonyana wakho. Ukuba uyacaphuka nonyana wakho ngalo nasiphi na isizathu, Akukho sidingo sokuphumelela umyalezo ngentombazana yakho okanye umsindo kunye naye. Thetha ngqo nonyana wakho.
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