Yintoni eyona nto iphosakeleyo yokuba ngumfazi?

Ingxaki yomfazi yinkangeleko yakhe. Injalo?. I-drawback ephambili yowesifazane [akanalo inkululeko njengabantu]. Nokuba yeyiphi na ididi, unqulo, ilizwe, umbala, njl abasetyhini bajongana nengxaki efanayo. Ngaphezu koko kukhuseleko lwakhe, ebesisifunxi-gazi emadodeni. Ngokufanayo, ukuba ngumfazi asikokoyika kwakhe yedwa kodwa kukoyika amalungu osapho naye. Ngokusisiseko abazali bayoyika ukuba iintombi zabo azibuyeli ekhaya kwangethuba.

Kwisandle esinye, sifumana umfazi wodlulwa ngamadoda nakweyiphi na indawo yobomi. Ngamaxesha athile, uphathwa njengesicakakazi. Mhlawumbi, ngendlela enye umama afundisa ngayo intombi yakhe ukuba ibe kunye nabasetyhini abapheleleyo bajongane nomjikelo.

Kwenzeka ntoni kumfazi ongena mahram?

Umfazi ongena mahram, akanalo ukhuseleko lobomi bakhe. Okanye, ngokwemali okanye ngokuziphatha. Unokukhohliswa ngaphandle komzamo bubudlelwane bakhe okanye abantu abamngqongileyo. Ukuba umama wentombazana uyagula okanye udibana nayo nayiphi na imeko ezinzulwini zobusuku kunzima ukuba intombazana ikwazi ukujongana nale meko.. Owasetyhini ukufikelela kwisikhundla esiphezulu akakwazi ukusebenza imini yonke kwaye abuyele ekhaya emva kwexesha njengamadoda.

Nangona, nayo yonke ingxaki yakhe ukuba uthe waphuma, uya kuziva elilolo. Ukuba uphumelele kubomi bakhe beshishini kodwa ubomi bakhe bobuqu buya kuba lusizi. Oku kuqhelekile phakathi kwezini zombini. Kodwa indoda inokuba lula kunomfazi.

Ngoobani 4 abantu abakhulu kumfazi?

Ngokwesizukulwana sanamhlanje, amantombazana aziva ngathi afuna ulonwabo lwawo eyedwa. Abasafuni kuba sisifunxi-gazi somntu kwakhona. Bakholelwa ukuba ulonwabo lumele lwamkeleke ngokwabo kuba bubomi babo. Ngaphezu koko, banawo onke amalungelo okuzimela njengoko amadoda enawo.

Akunjalo kuba ihlabathi kunye neendawo ezizungezile zinjalo. Ukuba umntu obhinqileyo ufuna into eyenzelwa ubomi bakhe myeke ayenze. Kuba bakholelwa kwinkululeko. Umfazi womelele kunendoda emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Ngenkxaso nje, akuthethi ukuba ungamongamela kangangoko ufuna kwaye ekugqibeleni uthethe njengenkxalabo.

Indima kaBawo

Umfazi onotata omkhulu ufaniswa nokuba kunjalo wazalwa enecephe lesilivere. Utata omkhulu onobubele, ukuqonda kunye uthando. Ngaphandle koku ukuba unika intlonipho kwaye unika isikhundla esiphezulu kubafazi bendlu. Ingakumbi akafanele aphakamise ilizwi lakhe okanye isandla phambi kobudlelwane okanye kwindlu, Ulwimi oluhlekisayo. Kuya kufuneka asebenze nzima kuphela ngenxa yosapho lwakhe. Igcina into yabantwana bayo, fundisa, Theleza izipho kunye nantoni na kubo kwaye ekugqibeleni batshata.

Indima yomzalwana

Umfazi onomzalwana olungileyo kuthiwa unobomi obuLavish. Umzalwana unokuma njengentsika yakhe. Nangona umntu obhinqileyo akanaye utata. Igazi lakhe[ ubhuti] iya kuhlonitshwa ibe mkhulu njengotata. Ukuba umzalwana mdala ukuya kwintombazana okwangoku Akanalo ilungelo lokuphakamisa isandla okanye ulwimi oluhlukumezayo.

Ukuba lo mzalwana unika inkululeko yakhe kwaye akayiguquli indima yakhe nasemva komtshato. Mhle. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuba udade uqhawulo mtshato okanye ungumhlolokazi uguqukela kumntakwabo kwaye umzalwana kufuneka akhathalele kakhulu. Ngokucacileyo akakwazi ukulawula usapho kunye nosapho lwakhe kodwa ukuba uyakhathala ngenxa yothando. Inene uyavuzwa. Ukungaqondi kunye nenkosikazi yakhe kunye namancinci amancinci kwaye ahlanjululwe kodwa abantakwabo bafanele bakhathalele udade wabo.

Indima yendoda

Amadoda adlala eyona nto ibalulekileyo, kubalulekile, ukufikelela, inentsingiselo, yimfuneko, njl. Kuba ushiya usapho lwakhe apho wazalwa khona kwaye wakhuliswa. Ngamanye amaxesha umfazi utshintsha izitrato, iindawo, urhulumente, Ilizwe kunye neelizwekazi nazo emva komtshato. Ufanele aziqhelanise nobunye ubomi obutsha nabantu abatsha ukucinga. Ubomi bomtshato bokuba isimo sengqondo esahlukileyo, ukuthanda kunye nobomi obulumkileyo.

Amagama kunye nesimo sengqondo sikaYe kufuneka alumkele kakhulu. Kuba uthembele kuye ngokupheleleyo. Uya kukhetha ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kwaye agcine umyeni wakhe onwabile. Ngamnye kwaye yonke into ayenzayo ebomini bakhe uya kuziva efuna ukufumana ixesha kumyeni wakhe. Kufuneka axhase kakhulu kuyo nantoni na ayenzayo kwaye akhuthaze izakhono zakhe ngakumbi ukuba uqhuba isidanga sakhe.

Eyona nto iphambili aya kuyamkela kumyeni wakhe kukuxabisa izinto ezisileyo. Ubomi apho uya kwamkela isidima kuphela, inkululeko, uthando, ixesha lokuchitha. Akukho kuthelekiswa kunye nokuxhatshazwa. Ngaphaya koko, Umyeni akafanele asebenzise intetho etshabhisayo okanye abethe. Ukwengeza, indoda ayifanele iphulaphule intlebendwane kamama okanye ukutyhola ngokungeyomfuneko okanye enye ingcamango embi. Ngaphandle komyeni akufuneki abe namathandabuzo okanye abe negunya kakhulu kumfazi wakhe. Ayifanele imnyanzele umfazi wayo… nakubantwana ngokunjalo.

Indima yonyana

Emva kokufa komyeni, umfazi ongumhlolokazi uxhomekeke kunyana wakhe ngokwasezimalini nangokomzimba. Njengonyana, kufuneka alumke kakhulu ekukhetheni amagama kunye nesenzo kwaye angabi ngqwabalala. Ngaphezu koko, emva komtshato, ukuba zininzi iingxabano phakathi kukanina nomolokazana njengendoda, makazisombulule, mhlawumbi kufuneka uzame ukulinganisa. Kodwa akufanele ugxeke okanye ungxolise umama okanye umfazi.

Inkxaso yomntu ongatshatanga isoloko imbi. Okanye ufanele avale umlomo wakhe aze abacele ukuba bacombulule iingxaki ezingaphakathi kubo. Ngaphandle koku ukuba uzama usapho lwenyukliya kufuneka agcine umama wakhe kwindawo ekufutshane kwaye rhoqo amtyelele. Ayipheleli nje ngokundwendwela kodwa kufuneka imenze onwabe ngokuphiwa, iyagquma, njl.

Ukuba la madoda mane omelele kubomi babasetyhini ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba kwilifu lesithoba kwaye afezekise zonke iinjongo zakhe. Ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwayo nayiphi na indoda, umntu obhinqileyo akasoze abunandiphe ubomi bakhe. Isenokuba kukukhula kwakhe kwasebuntwaneni okanye emva komtshato okanye ukufikisa kwakhe, njl.

Hadith

UMthunywa ka-Allah (s.a.w), ethetha namaSilamsi kumsitho woHambo Lokuhamba ngezonqulo, wabalumkisa ngexabiso awayesoyika ukuba lingahoywa emva kwakhe, kwaye wabhekisela kumfazi njengomnye wemibandela ebalulekileyo awathi ngayo:

“Gcinani uxanduva lwenu kuAllh malunga nabafazi, kwaye ubaphathe kakuhle”.

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