Ngaba ungatshata nomntu ‘owahlukileyo’?

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Nanku umbuzo wakho – Ngaba ungawuqwalasela umntu ongafanelanga ukuba ulungele 'imilinganiselo’ yenkcubeko okanye uluntu lwakho?

Ukutshata kumntu olungileyo onoloyikayo u-Allah uyintsikelelo enkulu

Kuba ayikokuthi ugcina ulonwabo lwakho kobu bomi.

Kodwa usebenzela ukwakha iAkerah yakho kwaye ikhusele ikamva le-Um 27.

Ngqo, Ngaba ungawuthathela ingqalelo oku kulandelayo?

  1. Uqhawulo-mtshato
  2. Umzali ongenaqabane
  3. Umntu ongumhlolokazi
  4. Umntu mdala kakhulu kunawe
  5. Buyisela
  6. Umntu ongakwaziyo ukuba nabantwana
  7. Umntu onesiphene

Inyani yile, Ukutshata nayiphi na kwezi zinto zingasentla kwi-sunnah yomprofeti.

Kwaye kwabo bangaphambili.

I-Khadija R yayingelilo kuphela 15 Iminyaka emininzi kunomprofeti, Kodwa wayeqhawulelwe ukwahlukana nabantwana bomtshato wangaphambili.

Umprofeti wabona 25 iminyaka ubudala, mncinci, Mhle uAman Allah, yomelele kwaye ininzi ukubonelela.

Kwinyani, Wayenokutshata nawuphi na umfazi ongatshatanga kunaye

Kodwa wanyula umama ongatshatanga ongatshatanga naye obenzekile ukuba abe ngomnye wabafazi abazizityebi kwiArabhia ngelo xesha.

Into enomdla yokuqaphela kukuba kulo lonke umtshato wakhe noKhadija Ra, Lo mprofeti wahlala ethembekile kuye.

Wamthanda njengoko wayengayithandiyo enye kwaye inkumbulo yanele ukwenza uAisha wayenomona kuye!

Emva kokusweleka kwakhe, Lo mprofeti wabona abafazi abaninzi – Uninzi lwayo namhlanje luya kuqwalaselwa ngaphandle kwesiqhelo ngamadoda amaninzi.

Imbali yethu ihlelwe ngemizekelo yemitshato engakhange ilungele 'iqhelekileyo’ kwaye namEsi sisifundo esikhulu samakholwa – Nokuba ungayindoda okanye ungumfazi.

Inyaniso yile, Ulonwabo luyekwe kwi-motor hayi imeko – Kwaye le yinto eboniswe ngumprofeti ebhetele kunaye nabani na.

Ngamanye amaxesha ukulunga kugqibelele ngaphakathi kokufikelela kwakho ukuba uvula nje ingqondo yakho.

Inokuba i-allah ikuthanda kakhulu ukuba inyuke ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela ayiyoyikelela ngovuyo onokuthi ungaze ube nokufumana enye indlela.

Ke kwixesha elizayo xa uza kwazi umntu onokuthi udlulise. Nquma.

Thatha ixesha lokufumana kancinci malunga nabo – isenokuba yeyokuba ibe yeyoku kuba yeyakho!

Esona sixhobo sibalaseleyo somfazi kumyeni wakhe luthando nenkathalo yakhe ngendlela efanelekileyo Umtshato osulungekileyo – Eyona nkonzo inkulu yehlabathi yomtshato yaMaSilamsi

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