Kubatata banamhlanje: Nguwuphi Umzekelo Owulandelayo?

“Oodade, ningabalusi babantwana benu! Oodade, bakhulise kakuhle abantwana bakho, kuba ikamva leUmmah lisezandleni zenu! Oodade, indima yakho njengoomama yeyona ibalulekileyo ehlabathini!”

Injalo i-mantra ephindaphindiweyo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kubaphulaphuli babasetyhini abasele benawo lo myalezo umiliselwe kubo ukususela kulutsha. Kodwa ziphi na izikhumbuzo kootata Muslim?

Sekungumgangatho oqhelekileyo wenkcubeko ukuba abafazi bacingelwa ukuba banoxanduva lokukhulisa nokufundisa abantwana., ukususela ebusaneni ukusa ebuntwini obukhulu. Indima yobutata, kwelinye icala, kubonakala ngathi ithotyelwe kwenye yezibophelelo zemali, kunye nokunye okuncinci.

Xa sijonga kwixesha loMprofeti uMuhammad (uxolo neentsikelelo zibe phezu kwakhe), nangona kunjalo, sibona imodeli eyahluke kakhulu yobutata.

UMprofeti uMuhammad, uBawo

UAli ibn Abi Talib wakhuliswa endlwini yomprofeti (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko) umprofeti lowo ke ebenguyise. Xa uAli wamkela iSilamsi kwiminyaka yobudala 12, akazange akwenze oko ngenxa yokungakhathali okanye kuba nje ‘wayenako’ ukuya.

Wayekhuliswe ukuze akwazi ukucamngca ngentsingiselo yokholo, zithini iziphumo zokwamkela oko, kunye nobunzulu bokuphila ngokweSilamsi. Ngaloo ndlela, xa wamkela iSilamsi, kwakungenxa yobukrelekrele nokuqonda okwahlakulelwa ngokungqalileyo ngumprofeti (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko).

Ngokufanayo, UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko), UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti, UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti. UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti. UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti (wanga uAllâh angakholiswa nguye) UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti. UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti, UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti, UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko) UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti.

UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti, UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti, UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti (UMuhammad) UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti (UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti, UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti, UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti).

UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti, UZayd ibn Harithah naye owakhuliswa nguMprofeti (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko) wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa..

wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa.. wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa., wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa..

wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa., wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa. (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko) wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa., wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa..

wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa. (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko) wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa.. wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa..

wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa. (wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa.) wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa.; akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.. Kunoko, akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe., akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.:

akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.:

UMprofeti (akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.) watsho, “akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe., akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.” akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe., “akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.; akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.”

akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe., akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe. (akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.).

akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe., “akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.” akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe., “akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe. (akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.), ngubani owathi, akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe., akazange alindele ukuba 'umama ka-Abdullah abe noxanduva lwemfundo ka-Abdullah kuphela okanye ukucocwa kwesimilo sakhe.!” (Uzakuphosa isiqingatha sokuncoma kwicala lakho ngayo nayiphi na into entle omxelela yona kodwa ivakala ngathi sisithuko okanye ubungayenza njani ngcono.)

U-Abdullah ibn 'Umar ukhule eyaziwa ngokuba 'nguJurist' - kodwa ngaba wayenokuba yindoda enkulu kangaka ukuba yayingekho indlela uyise ayenze ngayo ingongoma yokumbandakanya kwiindibano zemihla ngemihla zomdala uSahabah kunye umprofeti (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko))?

U-Abdullah ibn 'Umar ukhule eyaziwa ngokuba 'nguJurist' - kodwa ngaba wayenokuba yindoda enkulu kangaka ukuba yayingekho indlela uyise ayenze ngayo ingongoma yokumbandakanya kwiindibano zemihla ngemihla zomdala uSahabah kunye umprofeti, U-Abdullah ibn 'Umar ukhule eyaziwa ngokuba 'nguJurist' - kodwa ngaba wayenokuba yindoda enkulu kangaka ukuba yayingekho indlela uyise ayenze ngayo ingongoma yokumbandakanya kwiindibano zemihla ngemihla zomdala uSahabah kunye umprofeti, U-Abdullah ibn 'Umar ukhule eyaziwa ngokuba 'nguJurist' - kodwa ngaba wayenokuba yindoda enkulu kangaka ukuba yayingekho indlela uyise ayenze ngayo ingongoma yokumbandakanya kwiindibano zemihla ngemihla zomdala uSahabah kunye umprofeti, U-Abdullah ibn 'Umar ukhule eyaziwa ngokuba 'nguJurist' - kodwa ngaba wayenokuba yindoda enkulu kangaka ukuba yayingekho indlela uyise ayenze ngayo ingongoma yokumbandakanya kwiindibano zemihla ngemihla zomdala uSahabah kunye umprofeti.

U-Abdullah ibn 'Umar ukhule eyaziwa ngokuba 'nguJurist' - kodwa ngaba wayenokuba yindoda enkulu kangaka ukuba yayingekho indlela uyise ayenze ngayo ingongoma yokumbandakanya kwiindibano zemihla ngemihla zomdala uSahabah kunye umprofeti, inyaniso, U-Abdullah ibn 'Umar ukhule eyaziwa ngokuba 'nguJurist' - kodwa ngaba wayenokuba yindoda enkulu kangaka ukuba yayingekho indlela uyise ayenze ngayo ingongoma yokumbandakanya kwiindibano zemihla ngemihla zomdala uSahabah kunye umprofeti (wamkelwa ngokusesikweni uZayd owathi waziwa ngokuba ngu ‘Zayd ibn Muhammad’ de kwatyhilwa ivesi yeQur’an elwalela olu hlobo lokwamkelwa.), U-Abdullah ibn 'Umar ukhule eyaziwa ngokuba 'nguJurist' - kodwa ngaba wayenokuba yindoda enkulu kangaka ukuba yayingekho indlela uyise ayenze ngayo ingongoma yokumbandakanya kwiindibano zemihla ngemihla zomdala uSahabah kunye umprofeti:

Kunxulumene nokuba indoda yakha yafika ku-'Umar ibn Al-Khattaab, ekhalazela ukungamthobeli koonyana bakhe. ‘U-Umar wayibiza inkwenkwe waza wathetha ngokungathobeli kwakhe uyise nokutyeshela kwakhe amalungelo akhe..

Yaphendula le nkwenkwe: “Owu Ameer al-Mu’mineen! (INkosana yamakholwa)

Ngaba umntwana akanalo ilungelo kuyise?” “Ngokuqinisekileyo,” waphendula wathi ‘Umar. "Bazintoni, Ameer al-Mu'mineen?” “Ukuba makakhethe umama wakhe, mnike igama elihle kwaye umfundise iNcwadi (iKurani)."" Owu Ameer al-Mu'mineen! Utata akenzanga nto ngale nto. Umama wayeyiMagi (umnquli womlilo). Wandinika igama elithi Julalaan (intsingiselo yebhungane lobulongwe okanye iscarab) kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata, kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata: kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata. kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata; kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata

kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata, kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata, kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata, kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata.

kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata (wanga uAllâh angakholiswa nguye) kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko) kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata:

kwaye akazange andifundise nonobumba omnye weQuran.” Ejikela kutata (UmSilamsi)

Ukuqonda okuzenzekelayo yayikukuba umlingiswa wakhe wayeyimbonakaliso ye iimfundiso kwiKur’an.

‘Ukukhalimela kuka-Umar kuyise okhalazayo yayingekuko ukuba yayilityala likamama ngokungafundisi unyana wakhe ukuba abe ngumSilamsi olungileyo. (okanye umntu olungileyo) – uxanduva lwaluphezu kwe utata ukukhulisa umntwana wakhe ngokweKur’an.

Ngokusilela ukuphumeza uxanduva lwakhe kunyana wakhe, uyise wayebekek’ ityala ngokungathobeli konyana wakhe.

Namhlanje, zininzi iincwadi kunye neemfundiso ezijoliswe koomama ngokubaluleka kwendima yabo - kodwa zimbalwa, ukuba kukhona enye, igxile koobawo abangamaSilamsi. Nje ngeziphumo, Ummah wethu ujongene nengxaki yobutata: apho amadoda angamaSilamsi aye anciphisa indima yawo njengentloko yekhaya kwaye azinikezele ekuboneleleni ngenkxaso yemali kuphela., kunokuba abekho, abazali ngezandla.

Emva koko, sinesizukulwana sonke solutsha lwamaSilamsi olukhula lungazi ukuba kunjani ukuba yindoda enoxanduva lokwenene lamaSilamsi.

Lixesha lokuba sibuqonde ubunzulu bale meko, kwaye sitshintshe ukuqonda kwethu indima yamadoda angamaSilamsi njengootata - ngokubuyela kunye nokuvuselela iSunnah yoMprofeti. (Ukuphulula amalungu esini yeyona nto ilula kangangokuba uninzi lwethu lukhetha oko) kunye nabaQaphi bakhe. Yayingamadoda abonisa ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngamadoda okwenene angamaSilamsi ... iinkokeli zemizi yabo yomibini, kunye ne-Ummah yabo.

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