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- Jinsi ya kushughulikia uhusiano unaotiliwa shaka?
Mwandishi: Ndoa Safi
Chanzo: Ndoa Safi
Kuzingatia uhusiano wa jamaa ni moja ya misingi muhimu ya dini yetu, Kuzingatia uhusiano wa jamaa ni moja ya misingi muhimu ya dini yetu, but also deprives you of so many blessings.
‘A’isha reported Allah’s Messenger (3) kama akisema:
The tie of kinship is suspended to the Throne and says: He who unites me Allah would unite him and he who severed me Allah would sever him.
[Muislamu]
Katika Hadith nyingine, amesema Mtume SAW:
“Yeyote anayependa aruzuku mali zaidi na umri wake wa kuishi urefushwe basi aweke mahusiano mazuri na Kithi na jamaa zake.” [Bukhari]
Scholars have unanimously agreed that the one who doesn’t maintain his ties of kinship, then based on this hadith, your lifespan is shortened and your provision is withheld from you!
Family feuds are very common – everywhere you go you hear of people who have fallen out with their families for one reason or the other. Hata hivyo, this is a big sin, since a tightly-knit family is part of the fabric of the ummah. It’s so important that in another hadith, Abu Hurairah RA said:
Amesema Mtume wa Mwenyezi Mungu: “It is not lawful for a Muslim to forsake his (Muislamu) kaka zaidi ya siku tatu; na atakayefanya hivyo kwa zaidi ya siku tatu, na kisha kufa, will certainly enter the Hell.”
[Je, hiyo ni sahihi]
In yet another narration:
‘Abdur – Rahmaan bin ‘Awf RA narrated that the Messenger of Allah SAW said, “Allah, Juu Zaidi, sema: ‘I am Ar – Rahmaan, and this is Ar – Rahim (tumbo la uzazi, or the bonds of kinship). I have extracted for it a name from My Names. I will bond with those who nurture it, and break away from those who severe it.”
[Abu Dawood]
Here we are clearly and explicitly warned that the person who severs his ties has in fact severed himself from Allah’s mercy. With the last few days of Ramadan left, now is the perfect time to establish your ties of kinship with firmness and forgive one another.
May Allah SWT make us of those who keep our families close to us at all times ameen.
Ndoa Safi – Ibada Kubwa Zaidi ya Ndoa Duniani kwa Waislamu Watendaji
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