10 Madadin Nasihu Don Farin Ciki Daga Sheikh Waleed Basyouni

Naji dadin sauraren lacca na Sheikh Waleed Basyouni – malami mai ban mamaki wanda nake matukar jin dadin koyi da alhamdulilah. A ƙasa shine taƙaitawar da ya ceta lakabin da ya ceta da ake kira farin ciki 'wanda nake rabawa da izininsa:

Idan muka yi magana game da farin ciki, Yana da mahimmanci a fahimci cewa mutane sun bambanta da abin da ya sa su 'farin ciki'. Ta fuskar Musulunci, Kada mu manta cewa an aiko Annabi sawa a matsayin rahama ga ɗan adam don haka zamu iya amfana da kowane fannin rayuwarmu – Ciki har da yadda muke ji. Daya daga cikin manyan manufofin musulinci shine don taimakawa wajen lalata zaman lafiya da farin ciki ta hanyar kawar da abubuwa daga rayuwarmu cewa SAP US zuwa Farin Ciki. Wannan yana da mahimmanci fahimta saboda mutane da yawa suna daidaita suna yin ƙoƙari su kasance 'maras kyau, m 'kuma babu nishadi. Kuma wannan ba gaskiya bane.

Annabi ya san da murmushi fiye da kowa, kuma sau da yawa zai yi abubuwa don taimaka wa kowa a kusa da shi ya yi farin ciki. Zai yi dariya, barkwanci da wasa tare da danginsa da abokansa – kuma sun ƙaunace shi duka a gare ta. Daya daga cikin manufofinsa na farko shine gabatar da farin ciki a cikin kowa da kowa, kuma subhanallah, 1400 bayan shekaru, Annabi ya ga gado na zaman lafiya da farin ciki ya ragu.

Yawancin tukwici don farin ciki kusan koyaushe sun mai da hankali kan abin da ya kamata ku yi, maimakon abin da ya kamata ka kawar da rayuwarka. Don haka waɗannan 10 Nasihu kadan ne daban da abin da zaku jira, Amma idan ka ga hikimar bayan su, za ku fahimci dalilin da yasa suke da ƙarfi sosai wajen taimaka muku don samun wannan farin ciki duka.

1.Kiyaye daga zunubi – Wannan shine lamba guda abokin farin ciki da kuma yanayinku na yau da kullun. Sins eventually become regret and regret can make you very miserable and ruin your life. Repentance from your sin is key and you need to remember that your sinfulness can never be greater than Allah’s Forgiveness.

2. Hassad (Hassada) – Envy is worse than jealousy because not only do you wish you have what someone else does, you also wish that they don’t have it. A person who does hassad doesn’t look at what he or she has, rather they continually focus on what they don’t have. Hassad was the first sin in the heavens because Iblees was envious of Adam – and look where that got him! The true ending of hassad is in the fact that it only destroys and hurts the one who actually does it more than it hurts anyone else. Saboda haka, a person who does hassad, can never truly be happy.

3. Hadama – Hadama, like hassad, shine mai da hankali kan abin da ba ku samu ba. Wani mutum mai son kai baya gamsuwa da abin da suke da shi, kuma a karshen, Su ne suka yi rashin nasara a kan kowane alheri da farin ciki a rayuwa. Ba zai yiwu a ci gaba da samun haɗama a zuciyarku don komai kuma ku yi farin ciki saboda mutum mai haɗama ko da yaushe ya zaci cikin yanayin abin da ba shi da.

4. Rashin aikin yau da kullun – A waje yana da taimako don samar da tsari da daidaituwa zuwa lokacinku da rayuwar ku. Waɗanda ba su da aikin yau da kullun suna gundura da sauri kuma suna tsammanin sababbin abubuwa koyaushe. Kuma babu makawa, Lokacin da ba su ko ba za su iya samun sabon abu ba, Suna jin komai da farin ciki.

5. Iri ɗaya, iri ɗaya – Being stuck in a rut and having nothing new to look forward to can really eat away at your happiness as boredom and a lack of motivation and desire to want better for yourself sets in. Some people mistaken ‘same old’ for a routine – but that’s not true! Routine provides structure to WHAT it is you do. And if you don’t have something new to challenge you and help you create a new routine, it can really sap your internal energy.

6. Fear & The Victim Mentality – Living in fear keeps you frozen and stuck and prevents you moving on with your life. But this is not the way of a Muslim! Allah SWT wants you to be confident! Fear breeds worry and worry eats up your days and your nights, preventing you from growing and expanding and reaching your true potential.

Allah ya yi ya halicce mu da kallo kuma kada ka duba baya. I mana, Muna ɗaukar darussan daga abubuwan da muka gabata – Amma wannan duk abin da muke ɗauka. Darussan zasu taimaka mana yin yanke shawara mai wayo a rayuwa – kar a hana mu baya. Kyakkyawan misalin don tsoro ya kasance kamar na abu tare da inuwa. Shawar wani abu koyaushe yana girma fiye da abin da kanta – Sabili da haka yana da tsoro.

Tsoron shi ma ne abin da ya kasance mai hankali ', inda mutum ya kasance yana jin wuya. Amma wannan ba shine abin da Allah ke son mu ji ba! Mutumin da yake da tunanin wanda ya azabtar yana da wahala a dogara ga mutane – Kuma idan baku dogara ba, Kuna tsoro, Kuma tsoro shi ne abin da ya ci gaba da makale!

Mai lura da wanda aka azabtar yana nufin ka dogara da tausayawa don yin abubuwa, Maimakon sanya ƙoƙarin a kanka… but what you should do instead is focus on earning respect and doing things for yourself. This will give you greater confidence in yourself and will insha’Allah help you to be much happier.

7. Pessimism and Negativity – These two traits kill happiness, because you never focus on the good in a situation, you only focus on the bad. A person who is negative about everything drains energy from everyone else around them. No one likes being around negative people, which means that you feel lonely and this can fuel your unhappiness. If this is you, stop focusing on the downside of everything, and instead look for the good in everything. Try and be optimistic and have hope in the goodness from Allah.

8. Lack of Accomplishments – Rashin samun nasarori a rayuwa na iya barin ku jin wofi da rashin aiki da farin ciki. Kafa maƙasudi don kai, Komai girman kai da himma da aiki ba kawai yana ba ku ƙarfin gwiwa ba, Amma kuma yana ba ku kwanciyar hankali na ciki da kwanciyar hankali lokacin da kuka cika su. Asirin shine a kafa 3-5 akayi wa kanka kuma a fili ayyana su… sannan ka biyo baya tare da ayyuka da yawa. Zama mai da hankali kuma kuyi daidai da insha'allahi za ku girbe lada.

9. Girman kai – Girman kai hanya ce mai ban tsoro ga kowa, Kuma fewan abubuwa SAP SAP ku Farinku da sauri fiye da girman kai game da wani abu, wanda idan kun yi tunani da gaske, abu koyaushe sakamakon albarka ga ku. Mu kadai ba za mu iya yin komai ba tare da izinin Allah, Don haka ba shi da ma'ana ga girman kai game da abubuwan da muke tunanin mun cimma. Saboda ba za mu sami waɗannan abubuwan idan Allah ba zai so ba. Gaskiya farin ciki ya zo daga yin godiya ga Allah don duk abin da kuke da shi. Wannan yana ba ku zamantakewa da kwanciyar hankali – Tunda kun yarda komai daga Allah.

Allah yana cewa a cikin Alqur'ani:

Kuma [tuna] NAGODE DA WANNAN LABARI MAI TABAWA RAYUWA, ‘Idan kun gode, Lalle zan ƙara muku [a yarda]; Amma idan kun karyata, hakika, AzabaTa mai tsanani ce.’ ” (Alqur'ani 14:7)

Girman kai na iya haifar maka don samun fushin Allah, Kuma wannan na iya kwace muku farin cikin ku. Saboda haka, kasance mai tawali'u da godiya, kuma koyaushe yana tunatar da kanka cewa Allah yana iko.

10. Kasance mai hankali game da farin cikin ku – Lokacin da kuka zaɓi zama kusa da mutane waɗanda suke da kyau, kula, Abun ciki kuma gaba daya yana farin ciki, Sannan wannan zai sami sakamako mai kyau a rayuwar ku da rayuwar wasu. Wani abu kuma da yin tunani game da shine halinka na gaba daya.

Gaskiyar ita ce, ilimin kimiyyar kimiyyar lissafi yana haifar da ilimin halin dan Adam – Don haka murmushi kuma zaku ji lafiya nan take. Shima ka tuna cewa babu wanda zai iya cin nasara da kai sai dai kanka. Ƙari, Bayan Allah SWT, Tabbas babu wanda zai iya sa ka yi farin ciki da kai. Ta hanyar kiyaye hankalinka ga Allah SWT, yi masa biyayya, yana sauri ga umarninsa da sauran tabbatacce a cikin dukkan yanayi, Yana da sauki a yi farin ciki. Wannan gaskiya ne musamman lokacin da kuka fahimci cewa a matsayin mai imani, Gwaje-gwaje zasu tsarkake ku kuma ya ɗaukaka ku muddin kun yi haƙuri, Duk da yake duk kyakkyawa wanda ya faru shine albarka daga Allah don abin da ya kamata ku yi godiya. A cikin al'amuran biyu, Ka ci nasara muddin ka ci gaba da mai da hankali kan ingantacce.

Daga karshe, Ka tuna cewa akwai mutane iri uku a rayuwa:

• Waɗanda suke yin abubuwa suna faruwa
• Wadanda suka tambaya me ya faru
• Wadanda ke kallon abubuwa suka faru

Mai imani shine wanda ya sa abubuwa su faru kuma yana da alhakin nasu farin ciki, saboda sun fahimci hakan a rayuwa, abubuwa koyaushe zasu faru koyaushe waɗanda suke wajen ikon ku. Ba za ku iya sarrafa komai ba ko kowa, Amma zaka iya sarrafa kanka da yadda ka zabi ka kasance.

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