Menene manufar Aure a Musulunci?
A lokacin bukukuwan aure, ta duk launuka masu haske da walƙiya na kyamarori, shin ka taba tsayawa kana tunanin menene manufar aure a musulunci?
"Kuma akwai daga ayoyinSa, Kuma Ya halitta muku mãtan aure daga kanku, Dõmin ku zauna da su da natsuwa, Kuma Ya sanya soyayya da rahama a tsakãninku (zukata): Lalle a cikin wancan akwai ãyõyi ga mãsu yin tunãni.(Qur'ani 30:21).
A cikin wannan ayar Allah SWT yana gaya mana cewa ya halicce mu bibbiyu ne domin mu zama mabubbugar soyayya da natsuwa ga juna.. A wata ayar kuma Allah SWT ya gaya mana, "Matan ku tufa ne a gare ku, Kuma kai tufa ce gare su.” (Qur'ani 2:187) Wannan yana nuna cewa Allah SWT ya sanya mu kiyaye juna kamar yadda tufafi ke kare jikinmu. Tufafi suna ɓoye kuskurenmu, suna ƙawata kamanninmu kuma suna kusa da mu idan an sawa. Haka ma miji da mata suke. Suna nan don boye laifin juna, ku kasance da kusanci da juna da soyayya da taimakon juna.
Aure a Musulunci ya ba mu damar biyan bukata ta zahiri wacce ita ce dabi'ar dan Adam. Yana ba mu damar hayayyafa da samun namu iyalan. Allah swt ya bamu labari, “Kuma Allah Ya sanya muku ma'aurata daga dabi'ar ku, kuma sanya muku, daga cikinsu, 'ya'ya maza da mata da jikoki, kuma Ya azurta ku da mafi kyaun arziki.” (Alqur'ani 16:72) Yin haka za mu ƙara gamsuwa da rayuwa yayin da muke samun ƙauna da farin ciki tare da danginmu.
Al-Bayhaqi ya ruwaito cikin Shu’ab al-Eemaan daga al-Raqaashi: “Idan mutum ya yi aure ya gama rabin addininsa, To, ya ji tsoron Allah a cikin sauran rabinsa”. Albaniy ya ce dangane da wadannan hadisai guda biyu a cikin Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l Tarheeb. (1916): (Su ne) hasan li ghayrihi." Yayin da muke girma zuwa matasa kuma muna ɗaukar rayuwa fiye da kai, dabi'a ce a gare mu mu so mu bincika da kuma dandana sababbin abubuwa. Wannan motsi da kuzari na matasa na iya zama hanyar da ta dace ko kuma mara kyau. Annabi SAW ya gaya mana, “Ya ku samari! Duk wanda zai iya aure sai ya aura, domin hakan zai taimaka masa wajen runtse idonsa da tsare mutuncinsa.” [Bukhari] Aure a Musulunci yana kare mu daga aikata wasu zunubai kamar runtse ido wanda ya sa wani bangare na addininmu ya cika da kariya daga haramun da Ubangijinmu bai yarda da su ba..
Muhimmanci da yawa akan aure Allah SWT da Annabi SAW. Akwai fa'idodi da yawa gare mu a cikin aure, yana hana mu aikata abin da Allah SWT bai yarda da shi ba kuma aure yana taimaka mana wajen biyan bukatu da dama. Ina rokon Allah SWT ya albarkaci dukkan ma'aurata, kuma ya cika su da mutuntawa, soyayya da jinkai, Ameen.
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