Gawani Izi
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Funso: Ndine tsopano 29, ndipo akhala akuyesera kukwatiwa kwa nthawi yayitali osapambana. Ndikutaya chiyembekezo komanso ndimaganiza zokwatiwa ndi munthu yemwe si Msilamu koma ndikudziwa kuti izi zitha kukhala tsoka paubwenzi wanga ndi Allah..
Yankhani: Timaphunzira kuchokera ku chitsogozo cha Wokondedwa wa Allah kufunafuna njira zamphamvu komanso zogwira mtima zomwe zilipo, pamene ukudalira Mulungu.
Sayyiduna Umar (Mulungu akondwere naye) adatero, “Ndinamumva Mtumiki wa Allah (Allah amudalitse & mupatseni mtendere) kunena, “Ngati mudadalira Allah monga momwe Iye amayenera kutsamira, Akadakupatsani monga momwe amachitira mbalame. Iwo amatuluka ndi njala m’bandakucha, ndipo bwerani madzulo wodzala.” [Tirmidhi] Akatswiri amanena kuti mbalame sizimangodalira Allah: amatuluka molawirira, ndi kutenga njira zonse kukwaniritsa cholinga chawo.
Ukwati: Njira Zamagulu
M'dera lililonse, pali anthu omwe amakhazikitsa maukwati, amene akudziwa oyenera kukhala okwatirana, ndi amene ayenera kufunidwa ngati wina akufuna kukwatira. Ngati sichigwira ntchito ndi banja lanu, yesani kudutsa kwa akulu ena ammudzi (monga abwenzi’ makolo, atsogoleri ammudzi, maimamu a misikiti, mautumiki aukwati, ndi zina.)
Pangani Pemphero Lofunika (Salat al-Haja): pangani wudhu ndikuchita 2 rakat pambuyo pake mupempha mochokera pansi pamtima, kupempha wokwatirana naye woyenera.
tsimikizani kuti Mulungu ayankha mapemphero anu, m'njira zabwino kwambiri:
“Nenani (kwa iwo, O Muhammad): Yemwe akukupatsani zokupatsani kuchokera Kumwamba ndi pansi, kapena Yemwe ali mwini makutu ndi kupenya; ndi Yemwe amatulutsa chamoyo m’chakufa, ndi kutulutsa chakufa m’chamoyo; ndi Yemwe amatsogolera njira? Iwo adzanena: Mulungu. Kenako nenani: Kodi simudzasunga udindo wanu? (kwa Iye) ?” [Qur'an, 10.31]
Allah akutikumbutsa:
“Ndipo Kumwamba kuli chiongoko chanu ndi zimene mukulonjezedwa;
Ndipo ndi Mbuye wakumwamba ndi pansi, ndi choonadi, ngakhale ngati (ndizowona) kuti mumayankhula.” [51.22-23]
Choncho pitirizani kugwiritsa ntchito njira zabwino kwambiri, ndi kudalira kotheratu kwa Mulungu, ndi kutsimikiza kuti ngati muchita zimene wakupemphani, Ndithu, akupatsani Zonse zomwe zili zabwino kwa inu, m’moyo uno ndi wotsatira.
Allah akutiuza:
“Satana akukulonjezani umphawi ndipo akukulamulani zauve. Koma Mulungu akukulonjezani chikhululuko chochokera kwa Iye mwaufulu. Allah Ngolandira chilichonse, Wodziwa zonse.” [Qur'an, 2.268]
Ndipo:
“Ndi okhulupirira, amuna ndi akazi, akutetezana mabwenzi; Amalamula zabwino ndi kuletsa zoipa, Ndipo amapemphera Swala, ndipo amapereka Zakazaka, Ndipo amamvera Mulungu ndi Mtumiki Wake. Koma izi, Mulungu adzawachitira Chifundo. Iwo! Mulungu Ngopambana, Wanzeru.
Mulungu akulonjeza kwa okhulupirira, amuna ndi akazi, Minda momwe mitsinje ikuyenda Pansi pake, M’menemo adzakhala muyaya – nyumba zodalitsika m'minda ya Edeni. Ndipo – chachikulu (kutali)! – kuvomerezedwa ndi Mulungu. Kumeneko ndiko kupambana kwakukulu.” [Qur'an, 9.71]
Ndipo pirirani. Wokondedwa wa Allah (Allah amudalitse & mupatseni mtendere) anatikumbutsa ife zimenezo:
“Palibe kutopa, kudwala, zovuta, chisoni, zoipa kapena chisoni chimamukhudza Msilamu, ngakhale kumulasa munga, popanda Mulungu kuwafafanizira m’menemo zolakwa zake.” [Adalembedwa ndi Bukhari ndi Muslim, kuchokera kwa Abu Sa’id ndi Abu Huraira (Mulungu asangalale nawo)]
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Mulungu asangalale nawo …Mulungu asangalale nawo ….Inenso ndine Msilamu wosakwatiwa 26 zaka, osudzulidwa ndi kufunafuna bwenzi loyenera. Sindinapeze chilichonse mpaka pano 3 zaka. Inshallah ..nditero posachedwa ….
Mwachokera kuti?
Osadandaula, Ndithu, Mulungu ali ndi chikonzero pa inu.
Allah akufewetsereni mabvuto ndi kukuthandizani kupeza bwenzi labwino kwambiri lomwe lidzakhale bwenzi lanu pa moyo uno ndi tsiku lomaliza..
Zikomo kwambiri
Ndakatulo iyi ndi yokhumudwitsa kwambiri. Ndikudziwa ndekha za alongo ambiri opembedza omwe anakwatiwa ali ndi zaka za 18-25 ndipo si ZOWOLA. Ndipo khalani ndi amuna opembedza odabwitsa. Inenso ndine m'modzi mwa alongo amwayi.
Nthawi zambiri ndiye ayi, mlongo/m'baleyo ndi wovuta kwambiri komanso wokonda kapena amaika maphunziro ndi ntchito asanamalize theka la deen wawo. Choncho musamanene zoneneza ndi ziwerengero ndi ndakatulo zonena kuti amene amakwatira ali aang’ono ndi maapulo owola. Zoona zake n’zakuti amasankhidwa poyamba ndipo zotsalazo ndi zowola.
@Maysoon! Ndipo mwangosonyeza kudzikuza kwanu ponena kuti otsalawo ndi ovunda infact ndikudzitcha nokha. “mwayi” ngati kuti ena onse amene sali pabanja ndi anthu amwayi ndipo amafunikira chifundo?. Ndemanga yanu yodzaza ndi mwano! Subhan Allah! Mwina ndinu odzaza nokha kapena ndinu okhwima kwambiri!. Allah ali ndi zolinga zosiyana pa aliyense, ena amakwatiwa msanga ndipo ena amakwatiwa pomwe ena samakwatira! Zonse zimachokera ku chigamulo ndi chifuniro cha Allah ndipo pamapeto pake Ukwati si mphoto ina ya Chipambano cha Moyo., zomwe anthu amakonda malingaliro anu amapanga, ngati cholinga chokhacho mu Life! Zomwe sizoona!.
Ine, nawonso, ndine Muslimah mmodzi, zaka 25. Sindinakhalepo ndi chibwenzi ndipo ndimakhala wosungulumwa nthawi zonse. Ndikufuna kumanga banja koma ndikuganiza kuti sinakwane nthawi yanga. Ndine wachisoni komanso wosungulumwa komanso, kunena zowona, Ine sindine kwenikweni Muslimah opembedza kwambiri. Sindimavala hijab ndipo sindimapemphera pafupipafupi momwe ndiyenera kukhalira. Mwina ndichifukwa chake Allah sanakwaniritse zofuna zanga. Zonse zili mmanja mwake. Ndikuyesera kusintha njira zanga, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti ndidzalumikizana ndi munthu woyenera.
Zikomo kwambiri.
kupita gawo lomwelo ndipo ndidamva bwino nditawerenga izi ndi yankho lomwe latchulidwa pamwambapa.
Ndinawerenga zambiri mwa mayankho a akatswiriwa ndipo ndi ofanana mobwerezabwereza – pezani thandizo kwa anthu ammudzi. Nthawi zonse ndikapempha aliyense kuti andidziwitse wina wake, Ndimamva kuti ndine wamng'ono kwambiri kuti ndiyenere udindo wa banja. Ndakhala ndikufuna kukwatiwa 2 ku 3 zaka tsopano ndipo palibe amene amandithandiza. Ndayesa malo okwatirana – 6 za izo kuti zikhale zenizeni – ndipo tangovulazidwa kumene. Sindikukhulupirira chisokonezo chomwe Asilamu alimo panthawiyi. Ndikamapemphera kwambiri, m'pamene ndimafuna kukwatiwa komanso ndimaika pama post awa osapeza chithandizo. Sindikudziwa kuti ndichite chiyani.
Allah akuthandizeni m'bale….. Amene Ameen
Khalani ndi chikhulupiriro m'bale wanga chifukwa chilichonse chomwe chidzakumane nacho sichidzakudutsani. Mukangokhulupirira, Ndithu chimene chidzakhala chidzakhala. Allah akuchitireni zabwino zonse ndi kukonza zinthu zanu, amene.
Faisal, muli ndi zaka zingati bro n fuko lako ndi liti?
Assalamualikum wrb kwa abale anga nonse.
Ndine mtsikana wachisilamu 24 zaka zakubadwa, ndipo nditangomaliza maphunziro anga. Mpaka ndimaphunzira sindinaganizepo za ukwati ndi zonse. Koma makolo anga ankada nkhawa nthawi zonse. Nditamaliza maphunziro…ndinayambanso kukhala ndi nkhawa. Monga zitenga nthawi yayitali bwanji kuti mupeze bwenzi loyenera etc. Kenako tsiku lina ndidalandira propsal..zonse zidawoneka bwino koma pamapeto pake kubweza kwa Istikhara kunali koyipa.. Zimenezi zinandipweteka kwambiri…ndipo ndinamva ngati palibe chiyembekezo tsopano. Ndisanakhale otanganidwa kwambiri ndi maphunziro kuti ndikhale ndi nthawi yochepa kuti ndikulitse chidziwitso changa chachisilamu. Koma nditavulazidwa..mtima wanga udapeza mpumulo pokumbukira Allah. Tsiku lililonse ndinkapemphera kwa Allah..ndi mtima woona, nthawi zina ndinali ndi misozi, nthawi zina ndinkamwetulira. Ndipo ngakhale 2 miyezi inadutsa ndinapezanso lingaliro lina. Ndipo Inshallah ndikukwatiwa posachedwa! Ndidakhulupiriradi mwa Mulungu, Ndipo ndithu, ine ndikudalira Mulungu. Kumverera kwanga kunali ngati…zomwe zimachitika…Ngati Allah ali ndi ine ndikhoza kukumana nazo zonse. Ndipo taonani tsopano..Allah anamva mapemphero anga ndipo adandidalitsa ndi mkazi wabwino. Choncho chimene ndinganene ndikudalira Allah…pemphani chithandizo kwa Mulungu…ndipo uziona wekha Inshallah.
Walaikum as salaam wrb
Mash ALLAH <3 ndinasangalala kwambiri kumva kuti mwapeza mkazi wabwino. Ndikukhulupirira kuti muli ndi moyo wabwino m'tsogolo …. amene amene… mutikumbukire m’mapemphero anu..
SUBHANAALLAH….. Ndinapemphera kwa ALLAH 6 zaka m'moyo wanga kwa munthu yemwe ndimamukonda kwambiri…….koma pamapeto …. sitinapangidwe kwa wina ndi mzake…. kokha kukhumudwa kwa 2 miyezi ndikupeza yankho kuchokera kwa ALLAH….. SUBHANAALLAH…. koma kumbukirani kuti alipo ambiri omwe amapemphera koma osayankha kuyambira zaka….. zinthu sizili zofanana kwa aliyense……..
pitilizani kupemphera..insyaAllah Allah akupatseni chimwemwe.. mwina osati pano..koma tsiku lina…ndikudziwa kuti ndizowawa kudziwa kuti iwe ndi munthu ameneyo simunapangire chikhulupiliro mwa Allah..chabwino nkhani yako ndi imodzi mwa bestfriend wanga.. amakonda wina ndipo adachita istikharah. kenako adalandira yankho kwa Allah kuti munthuyo si womuyenera. koma kumbukani Allah amatikonda..mnzanga panopa ali pabanja mosangalala ndi munthu yemwe amamukonda kwambiri..Alhamdulillah..i hope u'll found someone soon..insyaAllah..amin
mwaononga kale 7 zaka zamtengo wapatali za unyamata, mlongo, Mulungu akuthandizeni, chabwino mukukwatiwa masha Allaah
ndipo makolo athu akuyenera kukwapulidwa, pakuti sanayese kukuuzani ndikuyesera kuti akukwatitseni mutatembenuka 17.
Oh uwu! Kunyoza abambo amunthu?. Kodi ili ndi Lamulo lina latsopano kapena machitidwe okondedwa kwambiri a Chisilamu?
Assalaam Alaikum
Chilichonse chimachitika pazifukwa ingoika chidaliro chako mwa Allah yekhayo sitikudziwa chomwe chili chabwino kwa ife koma amadziwa kuti chilichonse chili ndi nthawi yake amadziwa nthawi yomwe ili yoyenera kwa ife koma chachikulu ndichakuti kusataya chiyembekezo kuchokera kwa Allah. mtengo Inshaa Allah Allah alipiretu chipiriro
ndi 33 ndipo sanakwatirebe, koma sinditaya chiyembekezo mwa Mulungu
musataye mtima kwambiri za msinkhu wanu ndipo osapezabe mwamuna kapena mkazi
Allah ndi wolinganiza bwino
Amadziwa nthawi yabwino kwambiri, ingoikani chidaliro mwa Iye
mwina mwaikidwiratu kupeza mwamuna kapena mkazi mtsogolo muno, Ndi Mulungu yekha akudziwa
kukhala wosakwatiwa sikutanthauza kuti simungakhale muslimah wabwino
Pambuyo pa Mulungu ukwati ndi njira, osati mapeto
malekezero athu monga Asilamu ndi kupeza chiyanjo cha Allah
yang'anani pa izo, pali mayendedwe odabwitsa opitako
Allah akudalitseni tonse
Salaam zonse, chonde musataye mtima, esp. alongo ndikudziwa momwe mumamvera nonse. ife ndife 3 alongo, chaka chonse mosiyana, single parent mayi (anatilera tokha kuchokera kwa ana aang'ono pamene abambo amachoka) adagwira ntchito yabwino! kumukondanso pang'ono.
alongo anga ndi ine, adachita zonse moyenera, tinaphunzira mwakhama, anakhala wodzichepetsa, anapewa maubwenzi asanalowe m’banja ndi kucheza ndi anyamata, anaphunzira abt Islam, ankavala hijab/kupemphera, ndapeza ntchito zabwino kwambiri, magalimoto anu, maholide abwino, ubale wolimba wapachibale, palibe ngongole….koma palibe chikondi.
ppl thot amayi anga ayenera kuthokoza aliyense kutenga ana awo aakazi, kaya anali ndi zaka 20 zakubadwa, anakwatiwa kale, ana angapo, wosudzulidwa, kuchokera ‘kunyumba’ ofunafuna mapasipoti ofiira ndi zina zilibe kanthu koma amayi anga adati ana anga aakazi sali tchipisi kapenanso ndi katundu. koma amayi anga (ndipo tinali okhumudwa penapake) bwanji palibe malingaliro abwino omwe adabwera…ongotuluka mosaloledwa ndi zina ndiye mlongo wanga wamkulu panthawiyo anali wokalamba, 29 adagwirizana ndi ukwati ndi mnyamata wochokera 'kunyumba’ momwe adadikirira nthawi yayitali, komabe ankamuganizira ngati ng'ombe yake ya ndalama, adamunyoza mseri, adanyoza amayi kwa ena ndipo ngakhale atafunsidwa kuti alankhule ndi murubi wathu za uphungu usanakwatire…. adanyoza imam wosaukayo! so my sister adamuyitana walima off a week b4. zitatha izi mayi anga adakhumudwa kwambiri, ndi kukhumudwa, mkulu wanga anataya mtima…koma Alhamdullilah mkati mwa chaka mng'ono wanga ku 28 anakwatira, ndi i ku 29 anakwatira 6 miyezi pambuyo pake. ndipo tonse tili ndi ana! mlongo wanga wamkulu tsopano 32 ndipo adakumana ndi mchimwene wake wokondeka yemwe ndi wocheperako zaka 6 kuposa iye, bwererani bwino m'bale komanso InshaAllah tikuyembekeza kuti zinthu ziyenda bwino. wadziwitsidwa kwa banja lonse, ndipo ndi zodabwitsa. mng'ono wanga ndi ine tinakumana ndi mwamuna wathu kudzera m'malo okwatirana achisilamu, zinatenga nthawi yaitali (zaka)! koma palibe esp amene amati mudziwu angatichitire kalikonse ndiye tinapanga tokha. tinakumana ndi odd odd ppl tisanakumane ndi amuna athu….ndipo pamene chidachitika chidachitika mwachangu monga momwe Allah adachifewetsera. (inde istikhara ndi pemphero lofunika kwambiri, chitani nthawi zonse!) mchimwene wanga mlongo wanga wazaka 31 adakumana naye anali katswiri wamasewera. InshaAllah musataye chiyembekezo, ku dua, koma sungani zenizeni, ppl nthawi zonse musabwere kudzagogoda pakhomo panu…nthawi zina umayenera kugogoda pazawo. ndikadali ndi anzanga 28-38 amene sali pa banja koma ndikupempha kuti Allah swt awapezere okwatirana nawo. msuweni wanga anakwatiwa 1st nthawi pa 41 ndipo anakhala ndi mwana wamwamuna patatha chaka chimodzi! zikhoza kuchitika. sunga chiyembekezo. chikhulupiriro mwa Allah ndi sabr abale ndi alongo okondedwa. Masalama
p.s'chofunikira chanu’ list idzachepa, Mulungu amatidziwa bwino, amuna athu kuphatikizapo. future bro mlamu ndi olimbikira kwambiri, osaphunzira, amuna abwino, pls musayang'ane abale omwe amangogwira ntchito zaukadaulo, uni wophunzira, makolo osasudzulana etc even if ur more chipembedzo ophunzitsidwa ndiye iwo, mukhoza kuwaphunzitsa ndipo adzakuphunzitsani zinthu zomwe simukuzidziwa. pepani chifukwa chankhani yayikulu. ndikungofuna kukupatsani chiyembekezo!
Jazakhallahukhair kwa nkhani yayitali…ndithudi zimapatsa munthu chiyembekezo!
Nkhani yokongola yotere. Allah ali ndi mapulani osiyanasiyana pa ife. Khulupirirani Allah Pirizani.
Nkhani yanu imanditonthoza kuposa momwe simungaganizire. Zikomo kwambiri. ndi 28 ndi kuyandikira 29 posachedwa. Alhamdulillah Ndine wokondwa ndi maphunziro anga ndi ntchito yanga mpaka pano, zonse zikomo kwa Allah, Ndinapatsidwa chifuno cha kuphunzira mwakhama. Tsoka ilo, Ndanamizidwa 2 amuna okwatira. Yoyamba sinandikhudze ngati yachiwiri monga momwe ndimachitira 23 pa nthawiyo ndipo ndinkaona kuti ndinali wamng’ono. Komanso ndinali nditaphunzira za masters kotero ndimangodzitenga mwachangu ndikungoyang'ana maphunziro. Yachiwiri inali yovuta kwambiri chifukwa sindimakhulupirira kuti zikuchitikanso chifukwa ndinali wosamala kwambiri panthawiyi popeza ndinali ndisanamedwe kale.. Sindinapange chibwenzi pomwe ndimayesa kupewa ubale wa haram koma ndidadziwana kudzera pa imelo komanso kutumizirana mameseji. Nditangomaliza kuphunzira, Ndinakumana ndi amayi ake ndipo anakumana ndi banja langa, zinthu zinkawoneka bwino kwambiri, mpaka mayi anga atadziwa kuti ali pabanja. Sindikudziwa kuti ndimva bwanji kukhala ndi izi kachiwiri komwe ndimaganiza kuti izi ndizomwe zandikonzera ndipo ndakonzeka kukhala mkazi wachiwiri makamaka mkazi woyamba uja adavomera.. Komanso ndine mkazi wodziimira payekha komanso ntchito yokhazikika. Koma zinthu sizinali bwino popeza banja langa linamukana iye ndi mkazi. Mkaziyo anakwiyira banja langa ndipo zinthu zinafika poipa.
Kwakhala 3 zaka zanga ndikupemphera ndikupemphera ndikulira kupempha thandizo la Allah pa chilichonse chomwe angandipangire. Koma alhamdulillah pamodzi ndi izi 3 zaka ndapeza zinthu zambiri zomwe ndakhala ndikufuna kukwaniritsa. Ndili wokondwa kwambiri kukhala ndi nthawi yochepa pazifukwa zachifundo zomwe ndikudziwa kuti ndikanakhala wotanganidwa kwambiri kuti ndichite ngati ndakwatiwa. Alhamdulillah bungweli lapindula kwambiri. Koma ndithudi zimandipweteka kuganiza kuti sindingapezebe mwamuna kapena mkazi. Ndimakhala wokondwa masiku ambiri koma ndi Allah yekha amene amadziwa misozi yanga mu pemphero langa lililonse. Ndapereka chidaliro changa chonse kwa Iye yekha ndikuyesera kukhala Msilamu wabwinoko tsiku lililonse osasunga chakukhosi.. Anthu ena kuno ananena kuti anadikira kwa miyezi ingapo, Ndinadikira 3 zaka ndikuwerengerabe. Ndipo Mulungu yekha ndi amene akudziwa momwe ndikudalira thandizo Lake.
Pepani chifukwa cha post yayitali.
Salaam kwa abale ndi alongo nonse. WL…monga ndinalembera kale…Ndikuthokoza kwambiri Allah pondidalitsa ndi mkazi wabwino kwambiri. Ndipempherera abale ndi alongo anga achisilamu dalitso lalikululi. Inshallah, nonse mudzapeza abwenzi anu opembedza…Ingopirirani ndi kudalira Mulungu…ndipo mudzadzimva nokha. Ndikudziwa kuti nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta ..chifukwa abale ndi alongo ena akupemphera kwa zaka zambiri…Koma Mulungu amayang'ana pamtima…ndipo ngati mtima wako uli woyera, ndipo yadzamira kwa Allah.. Kenako Allah adzamva mapemphero anu Inshallah. Allah ndi wamkulu ndipo palibe chimene Allah sangachite…choncho pirira.Allah akutsegulireni njira. Kumbali yanu inu mutha kuchita zomwe mungathe kuti mudziwitse wina.,..mdera lanu..mosqs..etc., Kenako asiye kwa Mulungu..
Ndinayiwala kutchula 1 chinthu…muyenera kupemphera tsiku lililonse.. pambuyo namaaz aliwonse. Mpempheni Allah akupatseni mkazi wolungama. Ndipo nthawi zina ukakonda sombody usapemphere kwa Allah..kulakalaka kuti Allah akupatseni munthu wina wake. Koma nthawi zonse pemphani Allah kuti akudalitseni ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu, amene Allah adakupangirani inu, Ndipo ndipempheni kwa Mulungu kuti andipatse mkazi wabwino woopa Mulungu. Muyenera kumupempha Allah kuchokera pansi pa mtima wanu, ziyenera kumva ngati Allah akukumverani ndipo Allah akudalitseni nazo. Inshallah muona. Ndipo pali waeefah yabwino.. yomwe ndidachita…ndipo zinathandizadi:
pambuyo pa Ishah namaazi, pempherani 500 nthawi za Aleemo Download mochedwa (pamodzi..ndiye izi zitha kukhala ngati 1)..ndipo izi zisanachitike ndi zitatha izi akulufa amawerenga 3 nthawi iliyonse durood (ikhoza kukhala yayifupi). Chitani izi pambuyo pa Isha namaazi…ndi kupitiriza izo nthawizonse…Inshallah nonse mudzawona mphamvu izi.
Walaikum as Salaam WRB
Ndine wosiyidwa, Ndili ndi mwana wamkazi ndipo ndakhala ndikufunafuna wokwatirana naye kuyambira pamenepo 7 zaka, koma popanda zotsatira. palibe chiyembekezo chotopa ndi kusungulumwa. usiku uliwonse ndimafuna kufa chifukwa cha kusungulumwa, Ndinayesetsa kudzitonthoza, pempherani Allah, koma kutaya chiyembekezo ngakhale pano sindikudziwa kuti nditani kuti ndipeze mwamuna kapena mkazi.
Assalaamu Alaikum .
pepani kukusokonezani .
koma ndingadziwe dziko lomwe mukuchokera …
Wokondedwa mlongo, Allah akudalitseni ndi mwamuna wabwino kwambiri mmoyo uno ndi mawa inshallah. Mukayamba kutaya chiyembekezo ndikuyamba kudabwa kuti Allah ali kuti, kumbukirani kuti mphunzitsi nthawi zonse amakhala chete pa mayeso <3 Malingaliro anga ndi mapemphero ali ndi inu mlongo wokondedwa <3 <3
Moni, Ndinapunthwa pa tsamba ili m'mawa nditatha kulira kwabwino. Ndidakumana ndi munthu yemwe ndayamba kukambirana za ukwati mwadzidzidzi, zinthu zimangowoneka ngati zatsika. Inenso 30 gng pa 31. Ndine wofunitsitsa kukhazikika. Nthawi zina zimakhala zosavuta kutaya chiyembekezo, koma ndizowopsa. Alongo anga okondedwa, ngakhale zinthu zitavuta bwanji, Nthawi zonse pamakhala kuwala kumapeto kwa ngalandeyo. Mulungu amamva, malinga ngati u bliv mwa Iye ndi kupitiriza kupemphera kwa Iye. Mapemphero athu opeza mwamuna ryt mayb ayankhidwa pano kapena mtsogolo. Chofunikira ndikupitilizabe kumupeza. M'malo mwake, dzikonzekeretseni. Pitani ku phunziro la kuphika uv lomwe nthawi zonse limafuna, Lowani nawo magulu a Qur'an kuti muphunzire za udindo wanu monga mkazi ndi mayi. Chitanipo kanthu, n adzakhalapo bfr u knw it Mulungu akalola .
Salaam si. try to inform ur brothers or someone ur close with that ur looking for omanga naye banja…gwiritsani ntchito malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. (komanso m'mudzi, mosq, kapena akulu, banja, ndi zina.) Kenako pitirizani kupemphera kwa Allah…Ndipo Mulungu adzakukonzerani njira yotulukira. Ngati muyesa izi, Allah adzakuthandizani ndikukutsogolerani kwa amene adakufunirani. Inshallah 🙂
Kumbukirani pamene muli nokha…Allah is alwayz with u..so dont feel sad and depressed.. put ur trust in Allah and siirani zonse kwa Allah 😉
Ndipo pukutani misozi yanu ndikukumbukira kupitiliza kumwetulira..im sure muli kumwetulira kokongola 🙂
Musataye mtima…. Pitirizani kuyang'ana, pitirizani kupemphera. Ndinapeza mnzanga wapamtima pausinkhu 36. Ndipo 3 zaka zikupitabe ndimathokoza Allah tsiku ndi tsiku pondipatsa mwamuna wabwino kwambiri. Zinali zoyenerera kudikira.
Funso langa likukhudzana ndi kupemphera kwa Allah pachosowa. Ndikudziwa kuti amatchedwa satatul hajah. Kodi munthu ayenera kupemphera kangati ndipo ayenera kupemphereredwa liti. Ndikoyenera kuipemphera nthawi yomwe duaa imayankhidwa
Kuyamikidwa nkwa Allah.
Kwalamulidwa kwa Msilamu kuti apembedze Allah m’njira imene adaika m’Buku Lake, ndi njira zomwe zatsimikizika kuchokera kwa Mneneri (mtendere ndi madalitso a Allah zikhale pa iye). Mfundo yokhuza kupembedza ndi tawqeef [i.e., kutsatira zomwe zili mu Qur-aan ndi Sunnah Swahiyh; wopanda malo amalingaliro amunthu payekha]. Ndipo sitinganene kuti kulambira kulikonse kwalamulidwa pokhapokha pali umboni wa Swahiyh.
Zomwe zimatchedwa Salaat al-Haajah zidanenedwa mu da'eef (ofooka) kapena munkar (kudzudzulidwa) Ahaadeeth - monga momwe tikudziwira - zomwe sizingagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati umboni komanso zomwe siziyenera kukhazikitsira mapemphero..
Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa'imah, 8/162
Hadeeth yomwe yanenedwa pa Swalaat al-Haajah imati:
Kuchokera kwa ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Abi Awfa al-Aslami, amene adati: Mtumiki wa Allah (mtendere ndi madalitso a Allah zikhale pa iye) anatuluka kwa ife nati: ‘Amene angafunike kwa Allah kapena chilichonse mwa zolengedwa Zake, achite wudhu ndi kupemphera rakaa ziwiri, ndiye anene, “Palibe wopembedzedwa mwachoonadi koma Allah, Woleza, Wowolowa manja kwambiri. Ulemerero ukhale wa Allah, Mbuye wa Mpando Waukulu. Kuyamikidwa nkwa Mulungu, Mbuye wazolengedwa. O, Allaah, Ndikukupemphani chifundo Chanu ndi chikhululuko Chanu ndipo ndikukupemphani zabwino zonse ndi chitetezo kumachimo onse. Ndikukupemphani kuti musasiye tchimo lililonse popanda kulikhululukira, kapena vuto lililonse popanda kuchithetsa, kapena chosowa chilichonse chimene mwafuna kuchikwaniritsa popanda kundikwaniritsa.” Kenako apemphe kwa Mulungu chilichonse chimene wafuna chapadziko lapansi kapena Tsiku Lomaliza, pakuti chidzakwaniritsidwa.
(Adanenedwa ndi Ibn Maajah, Iqaamat al-Swalaah wal-Sunnah, 1374)
Al-Tirmdihi adatero: izi ndi gwero [zachilendo] Hadith, ndipo Kudanenedwa za isnaad yake: Faa'id ibn 'Abd al-Rahmaan ndi wofooka mu Hadith.
Al-Albaaniy adati: koma ndi da'eef jiddan (ofooka kwambiri). Al-Haakim adati: mawdoo' (zopangidwa) Ahaadeeth adachokera kwa Abu Awfa.
Mishkaat al-Masaabeeh, vol. 1, p. 417
Mlembi wa al-Sunan wa'l-Mubtada'aat adatero, pambuyo potchula zomwe al-Tirmidhi ananena zokhudza Faa’id ibn ‘Abd al-Rahmaan.: Ahmad anati ndi matrook (kumanzere, i.e., Hadith yake siyenera kuvomerezedwa), ndipo Ibn al-‘Arabi adamufotokoza ngati da’eef (ofooka).
Ndipo adati: Inu mukudziwa zimene zikunenedwa pa Hadith iyi. Ndikwabwino ndi kwangwiro ndi kotetezeka kwa inu kumupempha Allah mu kuya kwa usiku ndi pakati pa adhaan ndi iqaamah ndi kumapeto kwa Swalaat iliyonse isanakwane tasleem.; ndi Lachisanu, pakuti ndiye pali nthawi yomwe du’aa imayankhidwa; ndi pamene kuswa munthu mofulumira. Pakuti Mbuye wako anena (kutanthauzira matanthauzo):
‘Ndipemphe Ine [i.e. khulupirirani Umodzi Wanga (Islamic Monotheism) ndipo Ndipempheni chilichonse] Ndikuyankhani (kupempha)'[Fussilat 40:60]
‘Ndipo akakufunsa akapolo Anga (O Muhammad) za Ine, ndiye (ayankheni), Ine ndilidi pafupi (kwa iwo mwa Kudziwa Kwanga). Ndiyankha mapemphero a wondipempha akamandipempha (wopanda mkhalapakati aliyense kapena wopembedzera)'[al-Baqarah 2:186]
‘Ndipo (zonse) Mayina abwino kwambiri ndi a Allah, choncho mpempheni kudzera mwa iwo”[al-A’raaf 7:180].” al-Sunan wa’l-Mubtada’aat wolemba al-Shuqayri, p. 124
Chisilamu Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
Ndili wokhumudwa kuti sindinapezebe munthu yemwe ndimayembekeza kuti ndimupeze , Ndine wotsimikiza kukwatiwa ndi munthu wabwino… plz nonse mundipempherere popeza ALLAH swt amandithandiza kupeza msungwana wabwino ngati mkazi wanga komanso nzanga wapamtima….
Mmodzi…Ndikungofuna kukukumbutsani kuti Allah akudziwa bwino, ndipo mwina mukudzifunira nokha china koma sizabwino tsopano ndipo zikhala bwino pambuyo pake. Ndinawerenga masiku ena nkhani yokongola yomwe ndikuuzani tsopano, kuti musangalatse: 2 opempha anadza pa nyumba ina napempha chakudya. wina anapatsidwa buledi ndi kutumizidwa. winayo anasungidwa pakhomo kwa nthawi yaitali, choncho anayamba kudabwa kuti ‘chavuta ndi chiyani kuti asandipatsenso kanthu, pamene mchimwene wanga adalandirapo kanthu?’ Anali kumva chisoni, koma sanadziwe kuti m’nyumbamo munamuphikira mkate watsopano.
Kotero inu mukuwona, m'bale, musataye chikhulupiriro, m'malo mwake, dziwani kuti kuleza mtima ndi chikhulupiriro zidzakubweretserani mphatso zabwino kwambiri 🙂 Tsopano kumwetulira, Chonde, ndipo musamve chisoni kapena kukhumudwa. Alles akudalitseni inu ndi banja lanu.
Salamu
Khalani pamenepo ndikudziwa momwe nonse mukumvera 21 ndinafuna kukwatiwa kwa zaka zingapo tsopano Alhumdulilah makolo anga avomereza im ready ndikulimbana ndi atsikana amakonda kukwatiwa akakula ndipo akangoona zaka zanga zimanditengera kuti ndili wamng'ono kwambiri m'maganizo mwawo. :L
ummah uwu ukufunika kuyeretsedwa kwakukulu. nthawi.
zinyalala zambiri.
makamaka m'badwo umene makolo awo ankatumikira mzungu, i.e atsamunda ma imperialists. tanthauzo, “makolo athu m'badwo”
nawonso, coconut chokoleti asilamu, amene akufuna Izzah kuchokera ku Kuffaar, polankhula zomwe zimakondweretsa makafiri.
olambira a whitehouse (saudis), omwe akuthandiza makafiri kumenyana ndi Asilamu ndi anthu ngati iwo kwina.
mu Quran anati Allah swt, kutanthauza, ngati inu “ally” wekha ndi kuffaar, inu mumakhala mmodzi wa iwo.
eya, zonyansa zonse pamapeto pake zidzatha, ndipo Mahdi ali pafupi ndi insha Allaah, pamene chiwonongeko chapita, Islam emirate adzaonetsetsa kuti palibe mlongo amene watsala wosakwatiwa insha Allaah
ziribe kanthu zomwe mungachite , o Asilamu ambiri, ziribe kanthu zomwe mukuganiza, zinyalala za Ummah uwu siziyenera kutsogolera Ummah.
Ndimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndikugwira ntchito
Mchimwene wanga., ingotenga zitini mophweka wit ur self n kupemphera, ndinakumana ndi izi m'moyo wanga ndipo Allah anandilipira ndi munthu wina yemwe sindinamuphunzitse, munthuyo ndi wotumidwa ndi Mulungu, ingoyembekezerani kwa Allah basi zonse zikhala bwino
Zimenezo ndizosafunikira. Makolo ali ndi udindo wolangiza, koma kwa mkazi kukwatiwa pamene kuyenera kwa iye. Pitani mukawerenge ma Hadith ena pankhaniyi.
uwu. Ndinali kudalira abdillah
Abdillah, pali chinachake cholakwika ndi maganizo anu. Adamu, Ndimagawana nawo ululu wanu – momwemonso ndi kwa ine – Ndine 24 mwezi wamawa ndipo akhala ndi chokumana nacho chomwecho. Theka la Deen wathu – http://www.halfourdeen.com zili ngati malo ena achisilamu okwatirana – sagwira ntchito – nthawi. Ndagwiritsa ntchito webusaitiyi ndipo 5 ena koma alibe aliyense.
faisal am here for you insha Allah, mwachokera kuti?
Ine – Ndili ku England. Mumachokera kuti?
M'bale Muhammad – ndicho chimodzi mwa 6 masamba omwe ndagwiritsa ntchito – sizikugwira ntchito. Akazi amangofuna ndalama – ndichoncho.
Ndine 21 zaka zaku US. Ndikuyang'ana kukwatiwa koma ndikovuta kupeza munthu. Aliyense akuyesera kupeza wina wabwinoko kuti asatsatire pambuyo potumiza zokonda.
zimakhala zopanikiza kwambiri nthawi zina. Koma inshaAllah chilichose chigwa mmalo mwake. Kuleza mtima n’kofunika komanso kupemphera.
ndi 23 wazaka zakubadwa ndipo adadutsa pakutha koyipa…..Ndinasaina laisensi ya ukwati wanga kwa msuweni wina wa kwathu……ankaganiza kuti iyeyo ndi amene ankangofuna kukhala nzika……Anandisiya chifukwa ndinalibe ndalama zomubweretsera ngakhale tidakambirana tisanasaine chiphaso chaukwati ndipo ndimayenera kupita kudziko la Arabu lomwe amagwirako.……Bambo anga akufuna kuti ndikwatire munthu wakumudzi ndipo sindingathe kuchitanso ubale wautali ndipo sindimakhulupirira mwamuna aliyense wa kumeneko chifukwa ndikuganiza kuti onse akufuna kukhala nzika yanga.…….Ndikufuna kukumana ndi mnyamata wochokera kuno kuti ndisamangoganiza kuti akungofuna kundigwiritsa ntchito komanso chifukwa sindingathe kuthana ndi mtunda……
Ndine omasuka kwambiri ndipo sindisamala komwe mnyamatayo akuchokera ndimangosamala za deen wake ndi kholoq ndipo sindisamala zandalama chifukwa ndalama zimabwera ndikudutsa.…….vuto bambo anga sangaganizirenso ngati mnyamatayo si wochokera kudziko lomwelo zomwe zimandikhumudwitsa kwambiri……ndipangireni duaa chonde
Asalaam Alaykum. Chonde, pangani Dua ndikuyandikira kwa alongo a Al-Sunnah ndikuwerenga mabuku a Al-Sunnah Schoolars kuti akuthandizeni kulimbitsa chikhulupiriro chanu.. Ndiye, za makolo anu, yesani kulankhula nawo mofatsa. Aloleni amvetse chifukwa chomwe Chisilamu chimaloleza ukwati pakati pa mafuko. Awonetsereni umboni wa Qur’an ndi Sunnah. Chonde, khalani oleza mtima m'njira zanu zonse, ngakhale sizophweka koma yesani. ALLAAH akufewetseni zinthu. Amene. Asalaam Alaykum.
.Inenso ndine Msilamu wosakwatiwa wa 29 zaka, osudzulidwa ndi kufunafuna bwenzi loyenera. Sindinapezepo mpaka pano 10 zaka. Inshallah ..ndibwera posachedwa ....
Alaah thandizani Asilamu onse amene akufuna kukwatira ndi kuwapatsa okwatirana oyenera angopitiliza kupanga ma dua alaah ndithu wamva ndipo adzayankha modziteteza ku kuitana kwanu..
ALLAAH atifewetse zinthu zathu ndikuwakhululukira Asilamu onse. Amene. Ife Asilamu tibwerere ku maziko a DEEN. Masalaf ankadzithandiza okha mbali zonse za DEEN. Mwachitsanzo, Abu Bakr adakwatira Aisha kwa Mtumiki MUHAMMAD [SAW]. Mneneriyo amakwatira mwana wake kwa Alli ndi zina zotero. Lero, sitidzithandizanso kukwatira. Ngakhale makolo athu ena sathandiza. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti mkazi sangathe kuphatikiza maphunziro ndi ukwati, Ena safuna kuti ana awo aakazi akwatiwe ndi mwamuna wina wa fuko lina, Ena samakhulupirira za mitala ndi zina zotero. Chifukwa chiyani?? Chifukwa alibe maziko a DEEN komanso kumvetsetsa kwa DEEN. Chisilamu chimapereka njira zothetsera mavuto onse a anthu. Ndidalangiza amene ali okhudzidwa kuti achite Dua kwa ALLAAH, khala woona mtima m’menemo Pembedzani ndipo musachite zinthu zawo kwa ma Imaam odalirika m’menemo. Ndipo ALLAAH akudziwa bwino.
Ndinapeza tsamba ili pamene ndinali “maukwati oyera” fb page ndipo ndizokhumudwitsa kuwona kuti ndi angati ppl akufuna kukwatira, koma izi zakhala zovuta masiku ano.
Ndine 27 zaka zaka, wosudzulidwa, ndipo ndakhala ndikuyesera kukumana ndi munthu m'mbuyomu 10 zaka. Its hard and inde its harder to see other ppl around u omwe ali pabanja kapena mwafikako mosavuta. Nthawi zambiri ppl amayang'ana pansi pa ma grls osudzulidwa makamaka ngati akuchokera ku Southeast Asia background. Ndipo masiku ano, Ndikumva ngati munthu samayang'aniridwa chifukwa cha khalidwe, umunthu, kapena moyo, zimakhala ngati whats ur social status? banja? ndiwe wolemera bwanji? ndi etc… Chisilamu chifewetsa zinthu mwatsoka ake Asilamu kuyambira masiku ano omwe ali ndi zinthu zovuta..
Masiku ano ndimakhala wopanda chiyembekezo, ndipo sindimakonda wen ppl andifunse kuti ndidzakwatiwa bwanji cuz moona mtima nthawi zambiri ndimaona ngati sizingatheke makamaka podziwa kuti ndasudzulana ndikuchokera kubanja lapakati. :-/
Ndiye inde, pano ndili m'ngalawamo monga ambiri a inu ndi kudikira ndi kuyendayenda amene Allah ali ndi ine. Ndili ndi chikhulupiriro koma nthawi zina ndimalakalaka ndisanakhalepo ndisanakhalepo kotero sindiyenera kunyozedwa, ndipo mwina wina angakwatire mwamuna amene anali “wosakwatiwa.”
Allah atifewetse zinthu tonse komanso atipatse zokhumba zathu Ameen.
Wokondedwa mlongo,
Ndikumva kukakamizidwa kuyankha positi yanu, ngati kuti mukumva choncho ndi inu kukhala wosudzulidwa wachikulire 27, chabwino, Ndinenso chisudzulo chakumwera chakum'mawa kwa Asia,
Ndine 34 ndi kuwonjezera, ndi a 6 mwana wazaka, kwenikweni ndine single mother.
Choncho, Ine ndikuyembekeza pokuuzani inu izi, simumadzimvera chisoni,
Ngati inu muyang'ana izo mwanjira imeneyo, ndiye kuti udindo wako ndi wabwino kuposa ine.
Ndikuvomereza kuti nthawi zina ndimakhala wokhumudwa komanso wokayikira za tsogolo langa lokhalanso ndi mwamuna, banja lathunthu kachiwiri..
Ndimasungulumwa kaya ndikakhala ndekha kapena mwana wanga ali ndi ine. Ndikabweretsa mwana wanga wamkazi ku bwalo lamasewera kapena m'malo ogulitsa komwe kuli makolo ena ndi ana awo, Ndikumva ngati ndine 'wodabwitsa'. Amayi ena ndi ana awo, NDIPOnso ndi amuna awo. Ine? Chabwino, kulikonse komwe ndikupita ndi ine ndi mwana wanga wamkazi.. Moona mtima, powaona akazi ali panja ndi ana awo Ndi amuna awo, zinandipangitsa kudzimva kukhala wodabwitsa.
Mwinanso Kukhumudwa pang'ono.haha
Choncho, zonse, mlongo, musamve moyipa kwambiri.. pali alongo kunja uko amene ali ‘m’mikhalidwe yoipitsitsa’ kuposa inu.. monga ine mwachitsanzo. 🙂
P/s: Ndili mumkhalidwe wokondwa kwambiri, choncho ndikhululukireni kumwetulira kwanga’ kumapeto kwa nkhani yanga yayitali.. 🙂
Moni, ndifera mwachisoni, ine nthawi yachiwiri chisudzulo 3 ana, mungandipatseko dua kuti ndipeze mkazi wabwino,
Zachisoni kwambiri kuwerenga mauthengawa.. Ndikudziwa kuti ndizovuta kwambiri. Ndinakumana ngati 3 abale, koma sizinatheke. Ndipo inde, Ndikuwonanso anthu ondizungulira akukwatiwa komanso kukhala ndi pakati ndipo muli ndi ine.. Akadali osakwatiwa.. Ndili ndi chiyembekezo ndi chikhulupiriro mwa Allah, koma nthawi zina ndimavutikanso kwambiri. Ndikupemphera kuti Allah apatse aliyense amene akufuna kukwatira moyipa kwambiri, kuwapatsa mwamuna/mkazi amene amfuna ndi ofcourse munthu woopa Mulungu. Kumbukirani, palibe chosatheka kwa Mulungu.
mansha allah Allah atipatse zofuna zabwino i.a
Inenso ndili mumkhalidwe womwewo. Ndipo ndikudziwa bwino lomwe momwe munthuyu akumvera. Ine ndikupemphera Allah kutifewetsere ife tonse amene tikupeza kuti soo zovuta kufuna ukwati. Koma khulupirirani, pakuti Mulungu adzawalipira opirira. Ma dua anu ayankhidwa posachedwa In Shaa Allah
Inenso ndili pa udindo womwewu, nthawi yomwe ndimaganiza kuti ndikumana ndi munthu yemwe ndikhala naye, pamapeto pake ndikumva kukhumudwa chifukwa sizinaphule kanthu. Ndakhala pa maubwenzi awiri maubwenzi onse sanathe bwino chifukwa sizimatheka. ngakhale maubale awiriwo adakhalapo 3 zaka chilichonse.
ndatopa kwambiri kukhala ndekha, ndatopa kumufunafuna(theka langa labwino) amene ndidzakhala naye moyo wanga. Kupanda pake uku ndimamva dzenje mu mtima mwanga. Ndinamupempha Allah swt m’mapemphero anga pls kuti ndikhale ndi amene ndidzakhala naye moyo wanga wonse., koma nthawi zonse ndimatuluka opanda kanthu.
Nthawi zina ndimadzitonthoza ndekha kuti ndikhale ndekha, izi ndi zomwe Allah wandilembera.
Inde, kusungulumwa kumabweretsa kudzimva wopanda pake ngati dzenje mu mtima mwathu..
Ndipo kusungulumwa kwa nthaŵi yaitali kumatipangitsa kuyesa kudzitonthoza tokha mwa kudziuza tokha, mwina sitinapangidwe kukhala ndi aliyense m’moyo uno..
Chifukwa kukhalabe ndi chiyembekezo ndi kuyembekezera kumafuna mphamvu.. Mphamvu yopirira. Ndipo chipiriro ndiko kupirira zowawa..
Ndikufunanso kupeza mwamuna woti ndikwatirane naye. Ndine 27yrs zakubadwa tsopano ndipo sindinakwatire ndipo zimandidetsa nkhawa. Banja langa ndi anzanga onse coconuts ndichifukwa chake sindingawakhulupirire kuti andifunira mwamuna. Ndine wochokera kummwera chakum'mawanso. Sindikugwira ntchito pano ndipo ndilibe ndalama. Ndimakhala kunyumba pompano chifukwa ndinali ex aser.. Mayi anga samandikonda kunyumba. Ndikufuna kupeza ntchito koma ntchito zonse osati kutsata sharia. Ndikufuna mwamuna yemwe ali ndi aqeeda yoyenera komanso manhaj omwewo ndi ine. Im not good at english but inshaAllah ndikutha kumva bwino.