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Allah ﷻ akufotokoza mu Qur’an yopatulika: Chokongoletsedwa kwa anthu ndi chikondi cha zilakolako za akazi ndi ana, a milu yagolidi ndi siliva yowunjika, a akavalo odziwika bwino, ng'ombe ndi minda. [3:14]

Ngakhale zinthu zotere zina zikunenedwa bwino mu Qur’an, monga madalitso amene anthu ayenera kuyamika, apa akulankhulidwa monyengerera ponena za zinthu zomwe anthu amazilakalaka, khumba ndi kusilira.

Mosadabwitsa, akazi pamwamba pamndandanda. Izi zikumveka bwino mu Hadith yomwe Mtumiki (ﷺ) adadziwitsa: ‘Sindinasiye pambuyo panga miseche zovulaza kwambiri amuna kuposa akazi.’1 Ndi chenjezo loti chitsiru chokha kapena a fasiq angakonde kunyalanyaza kapena kupeputsa. Hadith ina ikunena: ‘Dziko ndi lobiriŵira ndi lokoma ndipo Allah adakuikani m’menemo monga alonda kuti muwone momwe mukuchitira. Choncho samalani za dziko, ndipo opani akazi; choyamba miseche wa ana a Israyeli anali kuchita ndi akazi.’ 2

Ngati mowa ukusokoneza zoletsa kotero kuti anthu azichita zogonana m'njira zomwe nthawi zambiri sangachite akakhala osaledzeretsa., ndiye mdierekezi ndi wamphamvu kwambiri pochotsa kudzichepetsa, malire ndi zoletsa pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Mtumiki (ﷺ) adati: ‘Ndi mkazi ' uwu;nthawi iliyonse akatuluka, mdierekezi amamukongoletsa.’ 3

Mawu ' uwu, Nthawi zambiri amamasuliridwa m'Chingerezi kuti 'nakedness', angatanthauzenso kufooka, kusatetezeka kapena chinthu chosayenera ndi chosayenera.4 Amayi amaonedwa kuti ndi otere ' uwu chifukwa cha zofuna zawo. Mu Islam, mawonekedwe achikazi - ofunikira, zokopa ndi zokhutiritsa mseri mnyumba yaukwati - siziyenera kuwoneka choncho pagulu. Sikuti maonekedwe a amuna odzionetsera okha ndi amene amanyoza kapena kuopseza akazi; nthawi zina amayi ena amafunikira kupulumutsidwa ku moyo wawo wosadziletsa.

Kumene, m'dziko lathu la e-dziko ladzala ndi uchimo, zolaula ndi kugonana ngakhale ana, Nzeru zovumbulidwa zoterozo n’zokayikitsa kuti sizingalandiridwe momasuka zimene zikanachita m’zaka zaposachedwapa. Malingaliro odzichepetsa, ulemu kapena kulemekeza momwe amuna kapena akazi ayenera kukhalira ndi zachilendo kwa makasitomala athu., chikhalidwe chogonana. Kuti ngakhale kupereka, monga Chisilamu chimachitira, kuti pangakhale njira yodzichepetsa kapena yolemekezeka yokhala ‘dona’ (ndi, kumene, a 'gentleman') ndiko kunyoza kapena kunyoza anthu omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala osatsutsika: ena anganene kuti akunyoza akazi. Ndinalembapo kale zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwamasiku ano Ndevu, Hijabu & Thupi Language: Ubale pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, kotero ine ndidzitsekereza ndekha ku ndemanga zochepa izi:

Mfundo za kudzichepetsa, kudziletsa ndi kulemekeza zalembedwa kalekale kuchokera mu chikhalidwe chathu chikhalidwe ndi zina, ndipo izi zidakhudzanso machitidwe achisilamu. Hadith imodzi imati: ‘Kudzichepetsa ndi chikhulupiriro ndi mabwenzi aŵiri apamtima; ngati mmodzi wa iwo achotsedwa, wina amatsatira.’ 5 Ndithudi, pamene Asilamu nawonso amayamba kumasula mfundozi, kapena kuwanyengerera poyembekezera kulandiridwa pagome la malingaliro aufulu, mwina tingaone kumene yatsogolera ena, kumene ifenso tingakhale tikulowera?

Si hijab kapena niqab yokha yomwe tikukamba. Imapita mozama kwambiri kuposa pamenepo. Ndi zambiri kuposa zakunja chabe. Zimakhudza momwe munthu amachitira; ndi mmene munthu amanyamulira; za momwe munthu amaperekera moyo wawo kwa wina ndi mnzake. Pomaliza, Ndi za kuyera kwa mtima ndi kumangika kwake kwa Mbuye wake.

Allah ﷻ amalamula: Auze Asilamu achimuna kuti atsitse maso awo, ndipo asunge umaliseche wawo. Zidzakhala choncho oyera kwa iwo. Pakuti Mulungu Ngodziwa zonse zimene akuchita.[24:30]. Potchula ndime iyi, Ibn al-Qayyim adanena:

‘Allah adaika chiyeretso pambuyo potsitsa maso ndi kuteteza maliseche. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kuletsa kuyang'ana koletsedwa kumafunikira mapindu atatu amtengo wapatali komanso kufunikira kopambana.. Choyamba, [zokumana nazo] kukoma ndi chisangalalo cha chikhulupiriro chomwe chiri chokoma kwambiri, zokondweretsa kapena zokondweretsa kuposa zomwe maso adatsalira, kapena kupewedwa, chifukwa cha Allah. Poyeneradi, amene wasiya chinthu chifukwa cha Mulungu, M’malo mwake adzaika zabwino kuposa izo. Diso ndi loyang'anira mtima, ndipo amatumiza wofufuza kuti awone zomwe zili pamenepo. Ngati diso likudziwitsani za chinachake limawoneka lokongola komanso lokongola, zimasonkhezereka kuzikhumbira… Aliyense amene alola kuti kuyang’ana kwawo kuyendere momasuka adzakhala ndi chisoni nthawi zonse. Pakuti kuyang'ana kumabweretsa chikondi, zomwe zimayamba ndi mtima kukhala ndi cholumikizira ('Alaqah) ku zomwe zimawonedwanso. Pamene kumalimbitsa, chimakhala chikhumbo champhamvu (sababa); mtima tsopano unasokonekera nazo mopanda chiyembekezo. Kukula kwambiri, kumakhala kutengeka mtima (gharam); chimamamatira kumtima ngati wongongole (gharim) amamatira kwa wamangawa wake (gharimah) kwa amene sasiyana naye. Kukula mwamphamvu, pa, chimasanduka chikondi champhamvu (izi); chikondi chopambanitsa. Kenako chimasanduka chikondi choyaka moto (shaghaf); chikondi chimene chimafika pa chigawo chenicheni cha mtima ndi kulowamo. Kuwonjezeka pang'ono, chimasanduka chikondi chopembedza (tatayum) … mtima kukhala kapolo [wopembedza] za zomwe siziyenera kukhala akapolo. Ndipo zonsezi n’chifukwa cha kuyang’ana kovulaza.’ 7

Siyani pambali mkangano woti udindo waukulu ndi woti amayi azivala mwaulemu, kapena amuna akugwetsa maso. Palibe kukaikira kuti mu chikhalidwe chamasiku ano zimagwera pa amuna kutsitsa maso awo ndikupewa zonyansa., mawonekedwe olakwika komanso owopsa.

Shaykh Jaleel Akhoon posachedwapa ananena kuti machimo nthawi zambiri amasiya banga lakuda pamtima, zomwe zingathe kuyeretsedwa kudzera mu kulapa ndi kulapa. Koma ngati mtima uli wogwidwa ku chinthu chimene amachikonda; akapolo ake ndi izo 'izi, ndiye ichi ndi choipa kuposa tchimo ‘lanthawi zonse’. Pakuti mtima sumangodetsedwa kapena kuda, anatsindika; imatembenuzidwa. Izi zili ndi mawu ena a Ibn al-Qayyim pamene adanena: ‘Okondedwa ambiri amavomereza kuti alibe malo m’pang’ono pomwe mu mtima mwawo kaamba ka chikondi chawo champhamvu.. M'malo mwake, amalola chikondi chawo champhamvu chigonjetse mtima wawo kotheratu, potero n’kukhala woilambira mwakhama… Palibe kuyerekezera kuvulaza kwa nkhani yoopsayi ndi kuipa kobwera chifukwa cha chiwerewere. (faishah). Pakuti uchimo ndi waukulu kwa amene wauchita, koma kuipa kwake 'izi ndiko kupembedza mafano (shirk).

Mankhwala, Akutero Shaykh Jaleel, ndiko kuti mtima ukangoyesedwa ndi zimene suyenera kuyang’ana, wina amawongolera kuyang'ana ndikupatutsa ku haram kapena zovulaza. Palibe zoyesayesa zomwe zingalepheretse kuchita zimenezo, kuopera kuti kuyang'ana koletsedwa kumatulutsa poizoni wake mu mtima, kuzipangitsa kuvulaza kosatheka, zowawa ndi mazunzo.

Tikupempha chitetezo kwa Allah, nzeru ndi kupambana.

1. Al-Bukhari, n.5096; Muslim, nambala.3740-41.

2. Muslim, n.2742.

3. Al-Bazzar, nambala 2061; ndi-Tirmidhi, nambala.1173, amene anati izo hasan gharib.

4. cf. Lane, Arabic-English Lexicon (Cambridge: Islamic Texts Society, 2003), 2:2193-4.

5. Al-Bukhari, al-Adab al-Mufrad, nambala 1313; al-Hakim, Mustadrak, 1:22, amene adalengeza: ‘Ndiye zowona malinga ndi zomwe ma sheikh awiriwo adachita.’

6. Mwinanso kumasulira mpakath: 'Poyeneradi, Simusiya chilichonse chifukwa cha Mulungu, Kupatulapo kuti Mulungu adzasintha ndi chinthu chabwino.” Ahmad, nambala 22565, ndi unyolo wake zowona. Mwaona: al-Albani, Silsilat al-Ahadith al-Da‘ifah (Riyadh: Maktabah al-Ma'arif, 1992), 1:62; no.5

7. Ighathat al-Lahfan fi Masayid al-Shaytan (Makka: Dar ‘Alam al-Fawa’id, 2011), 75. Mapindu ena awiri amene akukambirana ndi awa: Kachiwiri, mtima ukuunikiridwa ndi kupatsidwa kuwona momveka bwino ndi kuzindikira kwauzimu; chachitatu, mtima umapatsidwa mphamvu, kulimba mtima, kulimba ndi ulemu.

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