Fakalaka hake ai lines: Houʻeiki Fafiné, "Kau ʻiloa" Shaykhs, mo e Ngaohikovia Fakalaumālié

Ko e Palōfita ko Muhammad , ʻOfa ke tāpuakiʻi mo foaki ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻene melin, naʻe pehe ʻe, "Ko e tui fakalotú ko ha faleʻi lelei ia. ʻOku tau [Sahapi] ko e fehuʻi ange ia, ʻKo hai?’ Naʻa, ke ʻiate ia ʻa e melinó, naʻe tali mai, ʻ Ki Allah mo ʻene tohi, mo ʻEne talafekaú, pea ki he kau taki ʻo e kau Mosilemi mo e kakai.ʻ" (Mosilemi)

" ʻOku pehē naʻe maʻu ʻe ha tangata mei he Fānau ʻa ʻIsilelí ha ʻilo lahi mei ha ngaahi tohi te ne fakafonu ha ngaahi fonualoto ʻe valungofulu. Ka naʻe ʻikai ʻaonga kiate ia ʻa e ʻilo ko iá. Allah, ʻa e Hakeakiʻí, fakahā ki he palōfita ʻo e taimi ko iá ke fakahā ki he tokotaha ko iá, ʻNeongo kapau naʻá ke ako ha ngaahi tohi lahi ange ke paotoloaki hoʻo ʻilo he ʻikai pē hano ʻaonga kiate koe ʻi he ʻikai ke ke ngāueʻi ha meʻa ʻe tolu: (1) ʻoua naʻá ke feʻofaʻaki ʻi he māmani ko ʻení ki he māmani ko ʻení, ʻoku ʻikai ko ha nofoʻanga tuʻuloa ia ki he kakai tui faivelengá (tutu. minin ʻa muʻa), (2) ʻoua ʻe fakakaungāmeʻa kia Sētane he ʻoku ʻikai ko ha kaungāmeʻa ia ʻo e kakai tui faivelengá, pea mo (3) ʻoua naʻa ke fakahohaʻasi ha taha ʻo e fakatupu ʻa Allah koeʻuhi he ʻoku ʻikai ko e natula ia ʻo ha taha tui faivelenga.ʻ" [1]

Fakamahino: ʻOku fakafofongaʻi ʻe he fakamatala ko ʻení ʻeku ngaahi fakakaukaú mo ʻeku ngaahi fakakaukaú ʻataʻatā pē. ʻOku ʻikai totonu ke pehē ko ha lau ia ʻa ha taha ʻo e ngaahi meʻa ko ʻení ki he kakai pe ngaahi kautaha ʻoku ou lolotonga ngāue mo iá pe ko kinautolu ne u ngāue mo ia ʻi he kuohilí. Neongo kuo tuku atu ʻa e ngaahi hingoá mo e ʻiloʻi ʻo e fakamatalá, ʻoku makatuʻunga ʻa e ngaahi fakamatala ko ʻení ʻi he ngaahi meʻa ʻoku lava ke fakapapauʻí.

Neongo ʻoku ou talitali lelei ha ngaahi fakamatala mo ha ngaahi fehuʻi fekauʻaki mo e kaveinga ni, He ʻikai ke u tali ha fakamahamahalo fekauʻaki mo e niʻihi fakafoʻituitui ʻoku kau ʻi he ngaahi tukunga ko ʻeni. ʻOku ʻikai foki fekauʻaki ʻa e ʻesei ko ʻeni mo ha faʻahinga founga pau ki ʻIsilami fokotuʻu, akoʻanga ʻo e fakakaukaú, pe miniaj. ʻOku fekauʻaki ia mo e ʻulungāanga ʻo e tangatá.

ʻI he Huafa ʻo e ʻOtuá, ko e ʻEiki ʻo e ʻAloʻofá, ko e Tokotaha naʻá Ne Foaki ʻa e ʻAloʻofá[2]

ʻOku faʻa fie ʻilo ʻa e kakai ki hoku fatongia ko ha faiako mo ha tokotaha lea fefine ʻi he malaʻe ʻo e "ʻIsilami fokotuʻu tukufakaholo." [3] "Ko e hā e meʻa ʻoku fai ʻe ha fefine poto ʻi he nofoʻangá?" ʻOku faʻa fehuʻi mai kiate au. Ki he questioner ʻoku ʻikai mosilemi, ʻoku lau hoku fatongia ko ha kiʻi fieʻilo, tautautefito ki hono foaki ʻo e stock, ʻimisi ʻo e mitia angamaheni ʻo e fefine Mosilemi kuo ngaohikovia. Ki he questioner Mosilemi, ʻoku loloto ange ʻa e fehuʻí. Ki ha kakai fefine ʻe niʻihi, Ko ha tokotaha faʻifaʻitakiʻanga lelei au ki honau ngaahi ʻofefiné mo ha tokotaha faifakahinohino kiate kinautolu. Ki ha kau tangata ʻe niʻihi, ʻOku ou fakafofongaʻi ʻa e fefine hahamolofia ʻi he ngaahi siakale ʻoku fekauʻaki mo e ʻIsilami fokotuʻu tukufakaholo ʻoku loto fiemalie ke lea ʻi he kakai. ʻOku ui au he taimi tatau pē ke u lea maʻá e houʻeiki fafine ʻi he haʻofangá, lolotonga hono maluʻi e Sharʻi (Fakalao faka-ʻIsilami) makatuʻunga ki heʻeku ʻi he funga siteisí. Kau fokotuʻutuʻu ʻo e ngaahi meʻa na, meimei angaʻofa ʻaupito, tui ʻoku ou tokoni ki he ngaahi fakakaukau kehekehe ʻoku nau ʻamanaki ke ʻoatu ki he kau mēmipa ʻo e fakatahaʻangá. ʻOku faʻa hoko ko e fefine pe ʻe taha ʻi ha lineup ʻoku ʻikai ko ha tangata pe, ʻoku ou fakafofongaʻi, ʻo pehē, ko ha hoko atu ʻo e tukufakaholo ʻo e fefine Mosilemi mataotao.

ʻI heʻeku ʻuluaki hila atú, ʻe hange ʻoku ou lava lelei ʻo aleaʻi ʻa e ngaahi meʻa fakapolitikale fakahomosekisuale ʻo e konifelenisi Mosilemi ʻa ʻAmelika. ʻOku ʻikai ke fuʻu faiva, neongo ia, ʻoku collide ʻa e fekeʻikeʻi ʻi hoku fatongia fakapuleʻanga mo e moʻoni fakatautaha. Neongo ʻoku ou fiefia he ako mei he kau faiakó mo feohi mo e kau faiakó, callers, pea mo Shuyukh kau mai ki he ngaahi konifelenisí, ngaahi meʻa naʻe ho, mo e ngaahi hufanga ʻoku kau ai ʻa e socio faka-ʻIsilami ʻo ʻAmelika, Kuó u aʻusia ha ngaahi momeniti kuó ne ʻomi ke u kiʻi mālōlō. Ko e ngaahi momeniti ʻeni ʻoku hanga ai ʻe he ngaahi laine ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo e mamani ʻo e "kau ʻiloa" Shaykh mo ʻene moʻui fakatautaha ʻo fakalaka hake ai, pea ʻoku tokoniʻi au ʻe he kau fafine ʻoku nau nofoʻi ʻa e ongo māmaní fakatouʻosi ke mahino.

ʻI heʻeku fuofua kamata tohí Ngaahi kolomu faleʻi faka-ʻIsilami, Naʻe ʻikai ke u fuʻu mateuteu au ki he lahi ʻo e ngaahi fehuʻi te u maʻu mei he kakai tangata mo fafine ʻi he funga ʻo e māmaní. Naʻe talamai ʻe ha kaunga ngaue kimuʻa he ʻikai faingataʻa e ngaue. "Te ke hoko pe ko e polokalama Mosilemi ʻo siʻi ʻEpi," naʻá ne kata. Tuku kehe kapau kuo kamata ʻe ʻEpi ha ngaahi fehuʻi Filitingi ʻi he fono Shariʻah, neongo ia, Kuo u taʻefelotoi ʻi heʻene sivi. ʻI he fakalau atu ʻa e ngaahi taʻú, kuo lingi ha ngaahi fehuʻi ʻe lauiafe ʻi he tefito kotoa pe ʻoku lava: teolosia, Qurʻanic exegesis, ako ki he ngaahi feʻauhí, ngaahi totonu ʻa e tangatá, environmentalism, faingataʻaʻia fakaesinó, malímo e fono ʻo e fāmilí, toʻonga fakasekisuale, fetuʻutaki fakahomosekisí, Lao ʻo e ouau faka-ʻIsilami, hisitōliá, politiki ... ʻoku hoko atu e lisí. Naʻe vave ʻeku fakatokangaʻi ko e kau Mosilemi (ʻinitanetí) naʻe lōmekina ʻe he kakaí mo fie maʻu ha ngaahi tali ʻo vave ange ʻi he meʻa te u lava pe ko ha toe taha faʻu tohi kehe ʻo ʻomí. Mahalo ʻoku taʻefiemalie ki he ngaahi fakangatangata ʻo e ngaahi tali faka-ʻIsilami mo e quasi ʻi he ʻInitaneti-fatawa, kamata fakamoʻoni ʻa e kau teuteu ako ʻo e ʻilo—ʻa ia naʻe kau ai ʻa e kakai fefine ʻi he peseti lahi—ki he ngaahi kalasi mo ʻenau kau faiako mo e kau mataotao fakaʻatamai ʻoku nau saiʻia taha ai. Naʻa nau fakatahataha atu foki ki ha ngaahi hufanga, intensives, mo e ngaahi konifelenisí, kumi ʻa e fehokotaki fakatautaha naʻe pulia mei he ngaahi fakataha ʻi he ʻInitaneti.

Kuo iku hono fakatahaʻi ko ʻeni ʻo e ngaahi meʻa fakaʻilekitulonika ʻo e ngaahi meʻa faka-ʻIsilami mo e fengaueʻaki fakatautaha mo e kau mataotao fakaʻatamai mo e kau faiako ʻi onsite ngaahi feituʻu ki ha angatuʻu ʻi he "Classical" ako faka-ʻIsilami. [4] Fakafokifā pē, naʻe ʻikai fie maʻu ke fakamoleki ʻe he fānau akó ha paʻanga ʻe lauiafe mo aʻusia e ʻohovale ʻa e anga fakafonuá ʻi he moʻui ʻi muli. Te nau lava ʻo maʻu ha ngaahi tohi toputapu mei he fakafiemālie ʻo ʻenau ngaahi komipiuta fakaʻapí—mo e, fakautuutu e, ʻenau ngaahi smartphones—pea aʻu ʻo nau fetuʻutaki mo e faiako ʻi he taimi totonu ʻo fakaʻaongaʻi ʻa e Skype, fetalanoaʻaki, mo e ngaahi polokalama popoaki kehe he taimi pe ko ia. ʻI he taimi pē ko iá, ʻa e vamamaʻo ʻo e fanau ako mo e faiako mamae pea mo e ngaahi ngataʻanga ʻo e decorum naʻa nau kamu ʻa e ngaahi fengaueʻaki ʻa e kakai tangata mo e kakai fefine ʻo liliu mo fiemalie. Kuo tupu ʻa e fakalaka hake ai ʻo e ngaahi laine naʻe fakatupulaki ʻe he angatuʻu fakatekinolosia ko ʻeni ʻi hono faʻu ʻo ha ngaahi peesi ʻi he ʻ ulama, "kaungameʻa" kau tangata mo fafine ʻoku ʻikai fekauʻaki mo e Facebook, muimui ʻi he ngaahi fakamatala fakafoʻituitui ʻa e faiako ʻoku saiʻia taha aí ʻi he mītia faka, mo e popoaki noaʻia pe ki he kakai ʻi he taimi kotoa pe ʻo e ʻaho mo e po.

ʻAdab ʻi he ʻInitanetí

Mei he tafaʻaki ʻo e democratization ʻo e ʻilo faka-ʻIsilami, ʻe ha ngali palomesi mai ʻa e ngaahi fakalakalaka ʻi ʻolunga. Neongo ia, mei he tafaʻaki ʻa ʻĀppí (ʻulungāanga totonú), ko e "feʻunga ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo e kakai tangatá mo e kakai fefiné" naʻe fakamatalaʻi lelei ia ʻe ha fefine poto ʻiloa; ʻa e angatonu ʻo e ʻilo mo hono kau tufaki; mo e malu ʻo e faʻunga ʻo e fāmilí; ʻoku fakatupu hohaʻa ʻa e ngaahi fakalakalaka ʻi ʻolungá.[5] Kimuʻa pea u aleaʻi e ʻuhinga ʻoku ou maʻu ai ʻa e fakahohaʻa ko ʻeni, tuku ke u lea ʻaki ha foʻi lea fekauʻaki mo e "taha ʻiloa" Shaykh. Telia naʻa fakakaukau ha taha ʻoku ou ʻikai ke u tokanga ki heʻetau ʻ ulama, ʻoku ʻikai ke u. ʻoku ʻikai ke u tui ki he kau faiakó, kau mataotao fakaʻatamai, pea kamata ke ʻiloa e kau leá. ʻOku ou lotua ke tau lau mo toe lau kotoa imam Al-Ghazali (ʻOku mālōlō ʻe he ʻOtuá hono laumālié pea fakamāʻoniʻoniʻi ʻa ʻene me) fakatokanga ki he kau faiako ʻo e ʻilo toputapú, tautautefito ki heʻenau moʻulaloa ki he fielahi, fakaʻasi, mo tokotaha angakovi kau muimui. ʻOku ou tui ko e tokotaha ʻiloa Shaykh ko ha taha ʻoku ne moʻua ʻi heʻene lavameʻa, ko ha ola ʻo e anga fakafonua techno ʻoku ne tala ko e ʻ ʻalimi kotoa pe, akoʻangá, mo e maketi ʻa e kautaha ʻoku "faitotonu,"Classical" mo e "tukufakaholo" faka-ʻIsilami "ngaahi naunau mo e ngaahi ngaue" pe mate. ʻIkai ngata ai, kuo fakaʻau ke enthroned ʻa e kau ʻiloa Shaykh ʻi ha kasa, ko e ʻulungaanga lelei ʻo e moʻui angamaʻa mo e ʻulungaanga, ko e fakaʻofoʻofa ʻo e "ʻoua ʻe sio ki ha fehalaaki, ʻoua naʻá ke fai hala," ʻa ia ʻoku tau, ko e fānau ako heʻenau ʻofá, kuó ne liʻaki ʻa e faʻahinga ʻo e tangatá ni ʻoku lahi ange ʻi he moʻuí.

ʻOku tau fai ha mamau lahi mo ʻetau kau faiakó ʻi he taimi ʻoku tau hikiʻi hake ai kinautolu ʻo fakalaka atu ʻi he ngaahi vaivai fakaetangatá. Naʻe hanga ʻe heʻ ʻ Ulama, kau faiakó, pea mo Mashayikhʻikai haohaoa. ʻOku nau kakai ʻoku tōnounou, mo e ngaahi vaivai tatau pē, ngaahi tōnounoú, mo e ngaahi faingataʻa ʻoku tau fefaʻuhi mo iá. Ko e tangata haohaoa pe ʻe taha ko e Palofita ko Muhammad, ʻOfa ke tāpuakiʻi ia ʻe he ʻOtuá mo ʻoange kiate ia ʻa. Pea kapau te tau lau hono piokālafí, ʻoku tau ʻiloʻi naʻa mo ia, ke ʻiate ia ʻa e melinó, hono ngaahi uaifí, ngaahi hoá, pea naʻe pau ke fehangahangai ʻa e kaungā ngāué mo e ngaahi palopalema moʻoni ʻa e tangatá. Ko e hā leva ʻoku tau feinga ai ke hoko ko ha tangata tohi ʻoku haohaoa ki heʻetau kau faiakó mo e kau mataotao fakaʻatamai ʻo e ʻaho ní? ʻOku fakanatula pē ke ongoʻi ʻofa ki he tokotaha ʻokú ne tataki mo fakahinohinoʻi kitautolú, ka ʻoku tau tokoni nai ki hotau kau taki fakalotú ʻi he taimi ʻoku ʻikai ke tau fakaangaʻi ai kinautolú?

ʻOku ou fakakikihi kuo tau fakatupu ha ʻātakai ʻuli maʻa hotau kau taki fakalotú: ko ha ʻātakai ʻoku fakalaka hake ai ʻa e ngaahi ngataʻanga totonu ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo e fānau akó mo e faiakó, ko ha ʻātakai ʻoku ngangaʻehu ai hono ngāue hala ʻaki e mālohí, mo ha ʻātakai ʻoku ʻi ai e houʻeiki fafiné, kae tautautefito ki he, moʻulaloa ki he kākaá mo e ngaohikovia fakalaumālié. ʻOku ou hiki hake ʻa e makasini ko ʻeni, ke ʻoua naʻa fakatupu ʻa e fekeʻikeʻí (fitna) ʻi he kulupu ʻo e kau Mosilemi, ka ke fakatokanga ki hotau kau takí, ʻetau kaumātuʻá, pea ko hotau kakai kuo pau ke tau lea ki he puke fakasosiale ko ʻeni kimuʻa pea mole kotoa ʻetau falalaʻanga ʻi he taimi ʻoku haʻu ai ki he fekau Qurʻanic ki he

"[Kakai Tuí], ko koe ʻa e kolo lelei taha naʻe tuhuʻi pau mai maʻá e kakaí: ʻoku ke ʻota e meʻa ʻoku totonu, taʻofi ʻa e meʻa ʻoku halá, pea tui ki he ʻOtuá." (Ko e Qurʻan, 3:110).

Ko hono tanaki atu ʻo e ʻIsilami fokotuʻu ʻi he kakai mo e fakafoʻituitui

Ko hotau kau takí, tautautefito kiate kinautolu ʻoku nau pehē ko e kau fai fakahinohino fakalaumālié, kuo pau ke nau fakahoko ʻa e meʻa ʻoku nau malanga ʻakí. ʻOku ʻikai ko ha kau politikale ʻa ʻetau ʻ ulama, ʻa ia ʻoku ʻi ai ha tokehekehe lahi ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo e ʻimisi ʻo e kakai mo e ʻulungaanga fakatautaha ʻoku fie maʻu. ʻIo ʻoku fallible ʻetau ʻ ulama, ka ʻoku ʻi ai hona fatongia ke fakatokangaʻi e natula ʻo e fekeʻikeʻí ʻi honau ngaahi fatongiá, ʻa e ngaahi tauhele ʻo e ʻulungaanga fakafonua Shaykh, pea mo e angatonu ʻo e ngaahi tuʻunga ʻoku nau maʻú. ʻE lava fefe ke lau maʻuloto ʻe hotau kau taki ʻa e taukave fekauʻaki mo e fakaivia mo e tuʻunga ʻo e kakai fefine ʻi ʻIsilami fokotuʻu kakai, lolotonga ʻenau fakavaivaiʻi fakatāutaha ʻa e ngaahi totonu ko ia ʻoku nau pehē ʻoku nau fakamahuʻingaʻí? ʻOku tali fefe ʻe he kakai ʻa e fakaʻapaʻapa ki he houʻeiki fafine, lolotonga deeming kinautolu ʻo siʻisiʻi ange ia ʻi he conquests fakasekisuale?

Ne u toki fakatokangaʻi kimui ni mai ʻoku ʻi ai ha niʻihi fakafoʻituitui ʻiloa ʻoku nau fakaʻaongaʻi ʻenau platforms ʻo lahi ange ia ʻi hono fakamafola ʻo e ngaahi akonaki faka-ʻIsilami. ʻOku ʻi ai ha fakamoʻoni ʻokú ne fakahaaʻi ʻoku fakaʻaongaʻi ʻe he niʻihi fakafoʻituitui ko ʻení honau tuʻungá ʻi he siakale ʻo e ako toputapú ki he tangata malí, uki ʻa e, pea fakataueleʻi e kau muimui fefiné ʻaki e ngaahi talaʻofa ʻo e malí, lava ʻo hū ki he Shuyukh, ako ʻi muli ʻa e ngaahi faingamālié, pea kolea ke fakangatangata pē ʻa e ngaahi netiueka faka-socio fakalaumālié. ʻI he malumalu ʻo e guise ʻo e faifaleʻi, ko e niʻihi fakafoʻituitui ko ʻení ko e femoʻuekina fakafoʻituitui, ngaahi fepōtalanoaʻaki ʻoku ʻikai tokangaʻí mo e kau mēmipa mali ʻo e tangata pe fefine ʻoku ʻikai malí. Ngaahi fepōtalanoaʻaki ko ʻení, fakahoko ia ʻi he kāinga ʻoku ʻikai ke ʻi ai ha ʻinitanetí, hange ʻoku ne fakalele ʻa e gamut mei he ngaahi fakafetongi siʻisiʻi ʻo e fakamatala fakapiokalafi (à la Peni fakakaungameʻa ʻi he kuonga kimuʻa he komipiuta) ki he nāunau ʻoku fakatupu fakakaukau ʻataʻatā pē ki he ngaahi fakakaukau mo e fakakaukau ʻoku ʻikai feʻunga. Kiate kinautolu ʻoku nau fie ʻuhinga ko e fepōtalanoaʻakí ko ha talateu ia ki he nofo-malí, Te u fakamanatu ange pe kiate kinautolu ko e niʻihi fakafoʻituitui ʻoku kau ʻi he fokotuʻutuʻu ko ʻeni ko ha kau faiako kinautolu ʻo e lao faka-ʻIsilami mo e, ko ia, ʻiloʻi lelei ʻoku ʻi ai ha ngaahi lao fekauʻaki mo e faikaumeʻa ʻi ʻIsilami fokotuʻu. Te u fakamahinoʻi ange foki ko e taimi ko ia ʻoku pehe ai ʻoku kau ʻa e faiako ʻi ha ngaahi fepotalanoaʻaki mo ha kakai fefine tokolahi ʻi he taimi tatau pe, ʻoku ʻi ai foki mo ʻemau palopalema fika. ʻOku fakaʻata pe ʻe he lao faka-ʻIsilami ha tangata ke mali mo ha uaifi ʻe toko fa, ko ia kapau ʻoku "faikaumeʻa" ha kau fafine tokolahi ʻi he taimi pē ʻe taha kapau ʻoku "faikaumeʻa" ʻa e faiako kuo ʻosi malí, ko e peseti pē ʻe niʻihi ʻe lava ke nau ʻamanaki atu ki ha vā fetuʻutaki ke lau maʻuloto. Ko e hā leva e toenga ʻo e peseti? Toe, ko ha palopalema he fiká.

ʻE lava ʻe ha taha ʻo fai ha ʻuhinga ko ʻetau ʻ ulama ʻoku ʻikai mathematicians. Moʻoni, ka ko e moʻoni ʻoku nau maʻu ha ʻilo ki he fīsiki ʻa Newtonian, "ki he tali kotoa pe, ʻoku ʻi ai ha tali tatau mo fehangahangai." Hili hono ʻai e kalakulasi momoko ʻo e fili mo e toʻo ʻa e tokotaha ke mali mo ia mei heʻenau fanau ako heʻene ʻofa, mahalo ʻe lava e kau faiako ko ʻení ʻo hoko atu, tali ʻa e fakamaʻu fakafiefia pe koloaʻia hono hokó. Neongo ia, ʻoku faingataʻa ange ki he kau fafine naʻe talaʻofa ange ke nau mali pea toki hoko ha taimi faingataʻa ange. ʻOku ʻikai ko ha meʻa faingofua ke ta, tautautefito ki he taimi ʻoku saiʻia taha ai ʻa e tokotaha vaʻinga Shaykh. ʻE lava pe ke fakakaukau ha taha ki he meʻa kuo hoko ki he fakakaukau ʻa e kakai fefine ko ʻeni ki ʻIsilami fokotuʻu, tautautefito ki he taimi naʻe hoko ai ʻa e Shaykh ko ʻenau ʻIsilami fokotuʻu.

Ko ha nunuʻa fakahangatonu ʻo e niʻihi fakafoʻituitui ko ʻení’ ngaahi ngāué, kuo kamata ke puputuʻu e houʻeiki fafiné, ʻita, mo e loto mafasia. Ko e taimi kotoa pē ʻoku hiki hake ai ʻe he niʻihi fakafoʻituitui ko ʻení honau leʻó ke fakahā ʻenau ʻofa moʻoni ki he deen, ʻoku to e loto ʻo e kakai fefine ko ʻeni ʻo kiʻi toe lahi ange. ʻOku toe egregious ange ʻa e kovi ʻi he taimi ʻoku hoko ai ʻa e kau fafine ko ʻeni ko e ngaahi uaifi ʻo Shuyukh. ʻI he angamahení, ʻoku kamata ʻa e kau fafine ko ʻeni ko ha fanau ako loto vekeveke ʻoku nau fakahoko ha va fetuʻutaki ʻi he ʻInitaneti mo e Shaykh (pe ko hai ʻoku kamata fetuʻutaki ki ai ʻa e Shaykh), ʻa ia ʻoku hoko leva ko ha meʻa fakaʻofoʻofa mo e fetokangaʻaki, pea talaʻofa mai leva ʻo e tukupaa, talanoa kau ki he malí, etc. ʻI ha ngaahi meʻa ʻe niʻihi, ʻoku fokotuʻu ʻe he Shaykh ʻa e mali, ʻi ha ngaahi meʻa kehe, ko e houʻeiki fafiné ia. Ko e tenominato faitatau neongo, ʻi he tūkunga kotoa pē, ko e ʻi ai ʻa e ʻuluaki uaifí. ʻOku faʻa felaveʻi maʻu pe ʻene ʻi ai ʻi he ngaahi fepotalanoaʻaki ʻi he ʻInitaneti, ka ʻoku tātātaha ke fekumi ki heʻene fakangofua ʻa e vā fetuʻutakí. ʻOku pehe ʻoku ne "sai pe ai," pe tui te ne lava ʻo "fehangahangai mo ia." ʻI he ngaahi meʻa lahi, ʻoku ʻikai sai ki ai ʻa e ʻuluaki uaifi, pe te ne lava ʻo matuʻuaki ia. Ko hono moʻoni, ʻi he ngaahi meʻa lahi, ʻoku ʻikai ha ʻilo ʻa e fefine masiva ia ki he fefine ʻe taha ʻoku ʻi ai, kae ʻoua kuo tōmui.

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Koeʻuhi ko e taumuʻa ʻo e ʻesei ko ʻeni ke tohoakiʻi e tokanga ki he tukunga ʻo e "fefine ʻe taha," ʻE ʻikai te u faingataʻaʻia ʻi he meʻa fekauʻaki mo e ʻuluaki uaifí, tuku kehe pe ke pehe ko e taimi ʻoku fakaha ai ʻa e toe fakaʻuhingaʻi mo e nofo-mali ʻa hono husepaniti, ʻoku irreparably maumauʻi ʻa e falala ʻi hona vahaʻa. Kapau kuo ʻosi mali fakalao (ki he ngaahi lao ʻo e ʻIunaiteti Siteití, hangē ko ʻení), ʻe lava ke ne maʻu ha founga ke fakatonutonu ʻaki. Neongo ia, ʻoku ʻikai ha faʻahinga founga pehē ʻa e fefine ʻe tahá. ʻI he clandestine ua (pe tolú pe faá) uaifi ʻo e Shaykh, ʻoku ʻikai haʻane ngaahi hala fakalao ke tulifua ai ki heʻene ngaahi totonu. Ko ʻene lea faka-ʻIsilami nika (aleapau ʻo e malí) ʻoku ʻikai fakamalohiʻi, fokotuʻu ia ʻi ha tuʻunga mātuʻaki tuʻu laveangofua ʻaupito. Ko ha tuʻunga ia ʻoku ʻikai totonu ke ʻi ai ha ʻofefine pe tuofefine ʻo ha taha ʻi he, ka ʻoku hoko ia ki he kakai fefine lelei mei he ngaahi fāmili leleí. Ko e uaifi fakapulipuli hono ua ʻo e Shaykh, ʻoku ʻikai maʻu ʻe he fefine masiva ha fakalangilangi pe fakaʻapaʻapa ki he kakai. He ʻikai ke ne lava ʻo hā mo ia ʻi ha ngaahi fakatahaʻanga. He ʻikai ke ne lava ʻo fanongonongo ia ki he kolo. Pea ʻoua naʻa ne loto lahi ke fetuʻutaki ki hono ʻuluaki uaifi ʻo lea telia naʻa tukuakiʻi ia ki hono fakatupu fitna. Ke tanaki atu ha fakaʻitaʻi ki he lavea, ko e Shaykh, ʻa ia he ʻikai ke ne fakaʻilongaʻi ʻa e fefiné ʻi he kakaí, kei tauhi pē ʻa e conjugal access, fiefia ʻi he ngaahi fiefia kotoa ʻo e nofo-malí ʻo ʻikai ha fatongia, ki he, ʻi he ngaahi meʻa lahi, kuo teʻeki ai ke ne foaki ha tokoni fakapaʻanga ki he uaifi fika uá ʻi he nofo-malí pe ko ha tokoni fakapaʻanga ki he uaifi fakapulipulí. Ke tata kotoa, ʻi he taimi ʻoku ʻosi ai mo e uaifi hono uá, ʻoku ngata ʻa e malí taʻe ʻi ai ha kātoanga lahi, tuku kehe kapau ʻe ʻikai fakakaukauʻi ʻe ha taha talaq fakaʻaongaʻi e pōpoaki telefoní ʻi he telefoní. Predictably, ʻi he taimi ʻoku fai kovi ai e ngāue ʻa e fefiné, ʻo hange ko ia ʻe fai ʻe ha taha ʻi he ngaahi tukunga, naʻe tohi ia ʻe he Shaykh mo hono kau muimui ʻo pehe ʻoku "taʻemaau." [6]

Te u tuku ki he tokotaha kotoa pē ha ngaahi fakakaukau siʻi. Ko e ha e mahuʻinga ʻo e loto mafesifesi ʻo ha fefine? Ko e hā ʻene ʻuhinga kiate kitautolu ʻa e mole ʻa e tui ʻa ha fefine? Ko e hā ʻe fai ʻe he Palōfitá, ʻOfa ke tāpuakiʻi ia ʻe he ʻOtuá mo ʻoange kiate ia ʻa, ʻa ia naʻá ne fakahoko kakato ʻene nofomalí, fakakaukau mai kiate kitautolu? ʻOku taau nai ke fakaʻaongaʻi ha taha ke ne maʻu ʻa e ʻiló mo e kau faiakó ko ha tauhele ki he faingataʻaʻiá, kakai fefine ʻoku tuʻu laveangofua? ʻOku totonu nai ke mali mo ha fefine ʻi he lilo, ʻiloʻi ʻoku ʻikai maʻu ʻe ha taha ha founga ke poupouʻi ai ia? ʻI he taimi ʻoku mali ai ha tangata mei mui ʻi hono uaifí, ʻokú ne mahuʻingaʻia moʻoni nai ʻi he haʻi ʻo e malí? ʻI he taimi ʻoku ngaohikovia ai ʻe he fakafoʻituituí honau mafai fakalotú ʻi he founga ko ʻení, ʻoku nau pukepuke ʻa e angatonu ʻo e tukufakaholo kuo fakafalala kiate kinautolu? ʻOku ʻikai nai ke fenapasi ia mo e malanga ʻa e kakai fekauʻaki mo e teunga tau mo e fakaʻofoʻofa (fehangahangai mo e veilí) maʻá e houʻeiki fafiné, kae tuku ke taʻofi ha taha ʻi he fetuʻutaki fakatāutahá? ʻOku fie maʻu ke tau fakakaukauʻi fakalelei ʻa e founga ʻoku tau hoko ai ko e kau faiakó, kau mataotao fakaʻatamai, Mashayikh, pea tokoni e fānau akó ki he ngaahi laine kuo fakalaka hake aí ʻa ia ne hoko ai e movete ʻa e ngaahi ʻapí, loto mafesifesi, mo e ʻatamai mafesifesi.

"ʻI he ʻaho fakaholomui, ko e tangatá ʻoku [loloto] ʻi he molé, tuku kehe ʻa kinautolu ʻoku tuí, fai e ngaahi ngāue leleí, fetauhiʻaki ki he moʻoní, pea fekaingaʻaki ke mou tuʻu maʻu." (Ko e Qurʻan, 103:1-3).

Ko Shaykha Zaynab Ansari Abdul-Razacq ko ha tokotaha tuʻufonua Southerner mo e ngaahi aka fakatokelau. Naʻa ne fakamoleki ha ngaahi taʻu lahi ke ako ki he tefitoʻi saienisi faka-ʻIsilami, kau ai ʻa e lea faka-ʻAlepea, jurisprudence, Qurʻanic lau maʻuloto & fakamatala, Ngaahi Kautaha Tātā, mo e piokālafi fakaepalōfita ʻi Tāmasikusí, Silia ʻi he polokalama teuteu ʻa e Kolisi ʻa ʻApa Nour masjid. Lolotonga Ngāue ʻAki, ko e tokotaha mataotao ia ʻi he nofoʻanga ʻi he Fakavaʻe Tayseer ʻi Nokisivila, TN.

[1] Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani mo Mawlana Muhammad Abdul, tr. Habib Faka-ʻĒsei, Al-Munabbihat: Ko e Faleʻí (Kuala Lumpur: Falala ki he Tohi Faka-ʻIsilami, 2007), 17.

[2] ʻOku maʻu ʻa e fua lotu mo e ngaahi liliu kotoa pe ʻo e ngaahi veesi Qurʻanic mei he M.A.S. ʻApikale Teli Haleem Talafungani ʻo e mamani ʻOkisifoti Qurʻan. ʻOku ʻaʻaku ʻa e liliu ʻo e ngaahi feʻauhí.

[3] ʻOku ou fakapipiki ʻa e foʻi lea ko ʻeni ʻi he ngaahi fakaʻilonga lea ʻo ʻomi ʻa e foʻi moʻoni ko ia ʻe lau ʻe he kau Mosilemi tokolahi taha ko kinautolu ko e kau toketa ʻo ha ʻIsilami fokotuʻu tukufakaholo v. ko ha ʻIsilami fokotuʻu ʻoku ʻikai tukufakaholo.

[4] Toe, ʻoku ʻoatu ʻa e foʻi lea ko ʻeni ʻi he ngaahi fakaʻilonga lea ʻoku ʻomi ʻoku ʻi ai ha plethora ʻo ha ngaahi kautaha ʻoku nau hasino ha ngaahi founga kehekehe ki ʻIsilami fokotuʻu ʻoku ne tala ʻa e pulupulu ko ʻeni. Toe, ʻoku ʻikai fekauʻaki ʻa e ʻesei ko ʻeni mo ha faʻahinga founga pe kautaha pau.

[5] Vakai, "Formality between men and women" ʻi he http://www.peacespective.org/formality/ (maʻu ʻi Mē 7, 2015).

[6] Ko e ngaahi fepōtalanoaʻaki kotoa pē ʻoku ʻoatu fakataha mo e ngaahi fakaʻilonga leá, ʻoku toe fakaʻuhingaʻi pe fakaʻaongaʻi hangatonu.

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