Fakaʻehiʻehi mei he Feohi ʻa e Kaumeʻa Fefine mo e Kaumeʻa Tangata

Sina (feʻauakí) kuo hoko ia ko ha meʻa angamaheni ʻi he kolo Mosilemi ʻo e toʻu tupu, pea ko e fanau fefine mo e fanau tangata Mosilemi kuo nau moʻulaloa ki he ngaahi tauhele ʻa e sosaieti ʻo e Hihifo. Mahalo te ke fifili pe ʻe lava fefe ke hoko ha faʻahinga tukunga pehe ʻi he taimi ʻoku faʻo ai ʻe he matuʻa Mosilemi tokolahi ʻenau fanau ʻi he ʻ lokaʻi mo e kii ʻ. Ko e tali ki aí, neongo ko e tokolahi taha ʻo e mātuʻá ʻoku pau ʻi he feituʻu ʻoku tokanga ki ai ʻenau fānaú, ʻoku ʻikai ke nau tuku ha taimi ke talanoa mo fakamatalaʻi kiate kinautolu ʻa e mamafa ʻo Sina. Ka, ʻoku nau foaki ha Kasa ʻo e “ʻikai ha kaumeʻa tangata” ʻi he taimi ʻoku aʻu ai ʻenau fānau fefiné ki he taʻu hongofulu tupú. ʻOku hangē ʻa e faʻahinga ngāue ko iá ko hano ʻota ha tamasiʻi taʻu ua ke ʻoua ʻe ala ki he meʻa ʻoku ongo mālohí. ʻOkú ke pehē ko e hā e meʻa ʻe fai ʻe he tamasiʻí?

ʻOku fakaʻilongaʻi ʻe he fakamatala ko ʻení ʻa e ngaahi founga ʻe lava ke tau akoʻi ai ʻetau fānaú ke nau fakamamaʻo mei he ngāue kovi ko ʻení.

ʻI ʻIsilami fokotuʻu, ʻoku ʻikai ha meʻa ia ko ha va fetuʻutaki kaumeʻa kaumeʻa. Kuó ke ʻosi mali pe ʻoku ʻikai te ke. Ko e meʻa ʻeni kuo pau ke tau tohitongi ʻi heʻetau fānaú ʻi he kamataʻangá. ʻOku ʻikai totonu ke tau tatali ke nau haʻu kiate kitautolu ʻi heʻenau kei taʻu hongofulu tupú ke fehuʻi fekauʻaki mo e vā fetuʻutaki ʻo e kaumeʻa fefiné. ʻI he konga kimui ʻo e siteisi ko ʻeni, neongo kapau te tau taʻofi kinautolu ke nau maʻu ha faʻahinga fetuʻutaki pehē, hono ʻikai ke tau fakapapauʻi te nau talangofua mai kiate kitautolu ʻo kapau ʻe taaʻi kinautolu ʻe ha taha? Ko ia, ʻoku mahuʻinga ke tau akoʻi ki heʻetau fānaú ko e taimi pē ʻe taha ʻe lava ke feohi ai ha taʻahine pe tamasiʻi mo ha taʻahine ʻoku ʻikai ko e Mahatma (ʻikai ko e Mahatma ko ha taha ʻe lava ke na mali mo ia) ko e taimi naʻá na mali aí! ʻIkai ngata aí, kapau ʻoku hu ha taʻahine pe tamasiʻi ki ha va fetuʻutaki kaumeʻa kaumeʻa pea ʻoku ne toki hu ki ha va fetuʻutaki kimuʻa he mali.

ʻI he tuʻunga ʻo e taʻu hongofulu tupú, ʻoku ʻikai totonu ke tau mā ke akoʻi kiate kinautolu ʻa e mafatukituki ʻo e fetuʻutaki kimuʻa he nofo-malí. ʻOku fie maʻu ke mahino kiate kinautolu ʻoku tatau ʻa e ngaahi fetuʻutaki kimuʻa he nofo-malí mo e ngaahi fetuʻutaki ʻoku ʻikai fai ʻi he nofo-malí, pe ko e meʻa ʻoku faʻa ʻiloa ko e tono pe ʻko ha meʻaʻ. ʻOku ne maumauʻi e kolo ʻaki corrupting e kakai. ʻOku ne tukuange ʻa e ngaahi holi ʻo e fakavaʻe ʻoku, naʻe tuʻo taha hono fakangofua ke pule taʻetotongi, fakaʻauha e ngaahi fāmilí. Te tau lava ʻo lau kiate kinautolu ʻa e ngaahi sipinga ʻa e fanau fakalao mo liʻekina, ngaahi ʻapi kuo maumau, fakatotama, mo e ngaahi mahaki fakasekisualé – ʻoku hoko atu e lisí. ʻOku totonu foki ke tau fakamahinoʻi kiate kinautolu ʻa e tautea ki he ngaahi fetuʻutaki fakasekisuale ʻi tuʻa ʻi he malí: Ibn Masoud (r.a.a) fekauʻaki mo e Palōfita ko Muhammad (s.a.w) naʻe pehe ʻe, “Mahalo he ʻikai fakalao ʻa e toto ʻo ha kau Mosilemi kae ʻikai ko e taha ʻo e ngaahi meʻa ʻe tolu: ko e tokotaha mali ʻoku tono, ko ha moʻui ki ha moʻui, pea ko e taha ʻoku ne liʻaki ʻene tui fakalotu kae liʻaki ʻa e kolo.” [Bukhari mo e Mosilemi]. ʻI hono fakalea ʻe niʻihi, ko e tokotaha mali ʻoku tono kuo pau ke tamateʻi ia ʻaki haʻane fakalelei ke mate [Mosilemi]. Kae fēfē ʻa e tokotaha taʻe malí ʻoku ʻi ai ʻene ngaahi fetuʻutaki fakasekisualé? Fakapapauʻi he ʻikai taʻe tauteaʻi ʻa e tokotaha ko ʻení – ʻe lava ke tā tuʻo teau pe tā tuʻo teau ia [Mosilemi]. Naʻa mo ia ʻi he hili ʻa e moʻui ní, ʻoku mamafa ʻa e tauteá: ko e Palōfitá (s.a.w) mamata ki he kau tono tangatá, kakai tangata mo fafine, ʻi ha ʻovani taʻo ʻi he afi [Bukhari].

ʻE lava ke pehe ʻe hoʻo kiʻi tamasiʻi taʻu hongofulu tupu ʻi he tuʻunga ko ʻeni ʻoku ʻikai fie maʻu ke ʻalu ʻa e ngaahi va fetuʻutaki kaumeʻa fefine ʻo fakatatau mo e ngaue fakasekisuale; te nau lava ʻo mapuleʻi kinautolu pea fiefia ʻi he feohi ʻa e niʻihi kehé. Ke fakafepakiʻi ʻeni, ʻoku ke pehe ko ha foʻi moʻoni ia ʻoku nofo toko taha ai ha taʻahine mo ha kiʻi tamasiʻi, ʻoku fakaake ʻenau ngaahi holi fakasekisualé pea kimuʻa ke nau ʻiloʻi iá, te nau fai ʻa e ngaahi meʻa ʻoku ʻikai ngofua ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo e kakai ʻoku ʻikai malí. Ko e ʻuhinga ʻo e meʻa ni he ʻe hoko ʻa Shaytaan ko e tokotaha hono tolu mo kinautolu [Ahmad] pea te ne fanafana mo ʻahiʻahiʻi ʻa kinautolu ʻaki ʻa e tapu. Ko e ʻuhinga ʻeni ʻOku shuns ai ʻe ʻIsilami fokotuʻu ʻa e ngaahi hala kotoa pe ʻoku fakatau ki he ʻauʻauha ʻo e ʻatamai, sinó mo e laumālié.

Ko e meʻa kehe kuo pau ke tau akoʻi kiate kinautolú ke taʻofi ʻenau ngaahi holí. Te tau lava ʻo fai ia ʻaki haʻatau ʻoange kiate kinautolu ha ngaahi sīpinga ʻo e ngaahi pale ʻo hono fai iá, hangē ko e tokotaha ʻokú ne puleʻi ʻene holi kovíʻe ʻi he lotolotonga ʻo e kakai ʻoku foaki ʻe Allah ʻa e ʻaloʻofá kiate:

ʻApa Hurala (r.a.a) fakamatalaʻi ʻa e Palōfita ko Muhammad (s.a.w) naʻe pehe ʻe he niʻihi ʻe toko fitu te Allah malumalu ʻi hono malumalu ʻi he ʻaho (ʻo e Fakamau) ʻi he taimi ʻoku ʻikai ke ʻi ai ha meʻa fakamalumalu ai tuku kehe pe Hono Malumalu, ko ha tangata ʻoku ʻahiʻahiʻi ʻe ha fefine fakaʻofoʻofa pea ʻoku ʻikai ke ne fie tali ʻa e manavasiʻi ki Allah. [Bukhari mo e Mosilemi].

ʻOku ʻoatu ʻi lalo ha ngaahi meʻa lahi ange ki he founga ke tokoniʻi ai hoʻo fānaú, ʻi heʻene kei siʻí, ke angamaʻa koeʻuhí ko e taimi ʻokú ne lahi aí, te ne lava ʻo fakaʻehiʻehi mei he maʻu ha va fetuʻutaki kaumeʻa fefine. ʻUluaki, kuo pau ke ke talanoa mo fakamatalaʻi kiate kinautolu ʻa e ngaahi meʻá ni ʻi heʻenau kei īkí, pea ʻi heʻenau lalahi angé, ʻokú ke fakapapauʻi ʻoku fakahoko ia.

Kuo pau ke ke akoʻi ia ke:

1. Ke ʻoua naʻa tuifio tauʻataina mo e tangata pe fefine.

2. Ke ʻoua naʻa sio ki he tangata pe fefine. ʻOku fai ʻeni ʻaki hono holoki pe averting honau mata ʻo hange ko hono talamai ʻe Allah: “Talaange ki he kau tangata tui ke tuku hifo ʻenau sio pea maluʻi ʻenau ngaahi konga fakatautaha. ʻOku haohaoa ange ia kiate kinautolu. Ko e moʻoni Allah ʻoku ʻiloʻi kotoa e meʻa ʻoku nau fai. Pea talaange ki he kau fafine tui ke tuku hifo ʻenau sio pea maluʻi ʻenau ngaahi konga fakatautaha…” [24:30-31] ʻIkai ngata aí, Palōfita ko Muhammad (s.a.w) naʻe pehe ʻe, “…ʻoua naʻa tuku ha sio hono uá ke muimui ʻi he ʻuluakí. ʻOku fakangofua atu ʻa e ʻuluaki fotunga kiate koe ka ʻoku ʻikai ko hono ua.” [Ahmad, ʻApa Dawood, ʻi-Tirmidhi]. Ko e ha hono ʻuhinga ʻo e meʻa ni ko e ʻuluaki fotunga ko e fakatuʻutamaki. Kapau ʻe hoko ʻeni, ʻoua naʻa ke sio tuʻo ua. Palōfita ko Muhammad (s.a.w) naʻá ne toe pehē foki ʻoku tono foki ʻa e matá ʻi haʻane sio ki ha taha ʻoku holi kovi. [Bukhari]

3. Maʻá e fānau fefiné, akoʻi kinautolu ke ʻoua naʻa nau ʻai honau leʻó ke olopoto pe melie ʻi muʻa ʻi he ngaahi meʻa ʻoku ʻikai ko e ma-mahram. ʻOku fakahoko ʻeni ʻaki hono holoki ʻo e leʻo kae ʻikai flirting. Hange ko hono fakaha ʻe Allah ki he ngaahi uaifi ʻo e Palofita ko Muhammad (s.a.w) “…ʻoua ʻe fuʻu fakafiemālie e leá, telia naʻa ʻi ai ha taha ʻi hono lotó ʻoku ʻi ai ha mahaki ʻoku totonu ke ne ongoʻi ha holi maʻau…” [33:32]

4. Fakaʻosí kae ʻikai siʻi hifo, akoʻi kinautolu ke nau tui ʻa e vala ʻoku tāú koeʻuhí ke ʻoua naʻa nau tohoakiʻi e tokangá kiate kinautolu. ʻOku, ʻoku totonu ke tui ʻe he fanau fefine ʻa e Vala ʻo e ʻEiki (Hijabs) mo e vala ʻoku homohomo lolotonga ia ʻoku totonu ke tui foki ʻe he fanau tangata ʻa e vala ʻoku homohomo, ʻikai ko e talausese malu pe talausese mo e falani ʻoku fufuuʻi ʻi he. ʻOku fakamamahi he, faʻa, ʻoku fakangofua ʻe he mātuʻá ke tui ʻe heʻenau fānaú ʻa e vala ʻoku ui ko e ākenga ʻo e valá ʻa, ʻi he ngaahi meʻa lahi, ʻoua naʻa feau e fie maʻu ʻo e kouti faka-ʻIsilami ʻoku tali lelei. Ko e meʻa ʻoku toe fakamamahi ange ko e sio ki he ngaahi faʻe Mosilemi ʻoku nau ʻufiʻufi lelei kinautolu ʻaki ʻenau ngaahi ʻofefine mo e ngaahi foha taʻu hongofulu tupu.

5. ʻOku mahuʻinga ke tau kamata akoʻi ki heʻetau fānaú ʻa e fie maʻu ke nau ongoʻi teunga tāú, tautautefito ʻi he tafaʻaki ʻe taha ʻo e tangata pe fefine. Fekauʻaki mo e maa, ʻoku totonu ke tau fakaʻaongaʻi ʻa e Palōfitá (s.a.w) ko ha faʻifaʻitakiʻanga: Naʻe pehe ʻe ʻApa Khudri (r.a.a) naʻe lipooti ʻe he Palōfitá (s.a.w) naʻe mā ange ia ʻi ha tāupoʻou ʻi hono loki ʻoʻoná. [Bukhari] Kapau te tau fakatokakano ʻeni kiate kinautolu ʻi heʻetau kei siʻi he taimi ko ia, ʻInita’ Allah, ko e taimi pē ʻoku nau ofi ai ki he tuʻunga ʻo e tangata pe fefine ʻoku fehangahangai mo iá, te nau ongoʻi mā pea, ko ia, ʻe ʻikai ke ngāue taʻetotonu. ʻOku mahuʻinga foki ke tau fakaava ʻa e ngaahi founga fetuʻutakí mo ʻetau fānaú koeʻuhí ke tau lava ʻo talanoa mo fakamatalaʻi kiate kinautolu ha ngaahi meʻa, pea te nau lava ʻo fai mai ha ngaahi fehuʻi, ʻikai ha faʻahinga faʻahi ʻe ongoʻi mā. Pea, ʻi heʻenau matuʻotuʻa angé, pea ʻi he tokoni meiate kitautolu, ʻe kamata ke mahino kiate kinautolu ʻa e ʻuhinga ʻoku ʻikai lava ai ke ʻi ai ha meʻa ʻoku ui ko e ʻ va fetuʻutaki kaumeʻa kaumeʻa ʻ.

Ko e hā e meʻa naʻe iku ki he meʻ?

ʻOku lahi e ngaahi ʻuhinga ʻoku fekumi ai e tamaiki fefiné ki he fānau tangatá. Ko e ʻuluaki culprit ʻoku tuhu ʻa e matuʻa ki he foʻi tuhu ʻoku tukuakiʻi ʻi he homouni ʻa e taʻahine. Mahalo ʻe moʻoni ʻeni ʻi ha fanau fefine ʻe niʻihi ka ʻoku ʻikai ko hono kotoa. ʻOku ʻi ai ha fanau fefine ʻoku ʻi ai honau homouni ka te nau lava ʻo mapuleʻi kinautolu, pea ʻoku ʻi ai ha fanau fefine ʻoku ʻikai ke nau maʻu ha homouni tauhaʻa ka ʻoku nau kei tulifua pe ki he tuʻunga tangata pe fefine.

Ko ia ai, ko e hā ha ngaahi ʻuhinga kehe ki he ʻulungāanga ʻo e taʻahiné?

ʻOku taha pē ʻa e mālohi fakatoʻú. ʻI he taimi ʻoku maʻu kotoa ai ʻe hono ngaahi kaungameʻa mo e Meti ako ha ngaahi kaumeʻa tangata, ʻoku ne ongoʻi kuo kounaʻi ia ke muimui ki he suti. Kapau ʻoku ʻikai ke ʻi ai hano kaumeʻa tangata pea ʻoku ne ongoʻi liʻekina koeʻuhi he ʻikai ke ne lava ʻo hao mo ʻenau ngaahi ʻekitiviti fakaako pea ʻikai lava ke kau ʻi heʻenau ngaahi fepotalanoaʻaki. Ko e meʻa ʻoku ne ʻai ke toe kovi ange ko e vakai ʻa e tokotaha kotoa pe kiate ia ko ha “geek”.

Ko e ʻuhinga ʻe tahá kapau ʻokú ne fakahoko ha feʻauhi manakoa. ʻOku ne competes mo e tamaiki fefine kehe ʻi hono maʻu e tokolahi taha ʻo e ngaahi kaumeʻa tangata te ne lava ke sio pe ko hai ʻe hoko ko e kuini manakoa. ʻOku toe hoko foki ʻa e ngaahi feʻauhi ko ʻeni koeʻuhi he ʻoku fakatokangaʻi ko e fanau fefine manakoa pe ʻoku ʻi ai hanau kaumeʻa tangata. ʻOku faʻa teke ʻe he taʻeoliʻia ha kiʻi taʻahine ki he nima ʻo ha kiʻi tamasiʻi. ʻOku ne lau ʻene moʻui ko ha monotonous mo ha ngaahi fekumi ki he fiefia mo e fiefia mo e kiʻi tamasiʻi. Pe mahalo ʻoku maʻulalo ʻene ongoʻi mahuʻingaʻia ʻiate ia, ko ia ʻokú ne fakafalala kiate ia ke ne ongoʻi fie maʻu mo fie maʻu.

Ka ko e ʻuhinga ʻe taha he ʻoku fie maʻu ke ʻofaʻi ia. ʻOkú ne fekumi ki he ʻofa ʻene ongomātuʻá ka ʻoku ʻikai ke ne lava ʻo maʻu ia, ko ia, ʻokú ne kumi ia ʻi ha feituʻu kehe. Ko e meʻa tatau pe mo ʻeni kapau ʻoku ne fekumi ki he tokanga ʻa ʻene ongomatuʻa. ʻOku ne fakafepaki kiate kinautolu ʻi he fekumi ki ha kaumeʻa tangata koeʻuhi ke ne lava ʻo maʻu ʻenau tokanga. ʻOku lelei ange ha faʻahinga tokanga kiate ia ʻi ha ʻikai ha tokanga. Ko e faikehekehe ʻi he fie maʻu ʻo e ʻofá mo e fie maʻu ke tokangaʻí he ʻoku fai ia ʻe he tokotaha kimuʻá ʻi he nofonoa pē. Kapau he ʻikai ke ne lava ʻo maʻu ia mei heʻene ongomatuʻa pea ne ʻalu ki ha feituʻu kehe. Ka ko e ngaahi fie maʻu kimui ni mei heʻene ongomatuʻa. ʻE lava pē ke ʻi ai ha ngaahi ʻuhinga kehe pe ko e ngaahi ʻuhinga ʻe lava ke fakatahaʻi ai ʻa e ngaahi ʻuhinga ʻi ʻolungá. Neongo ia, ko e hā pē ʻa e ʻuhingá pe ʻuhingá, fie maʻu ke ʻiloʻi pea mahino ia ki he mātuʻá. ʻOku faingofua ange ʻeni ʻi he meʻa ʻoku ongo ʻi he fakahehema ʻa e matuʻa ke clam hake honau ngaahi ʻofefine.

Founga ke fakahoko ʻaki kinautolú?

ʻI he taimi ʻoku talanoa ai e mātuʻ, ʻoku fie maʻu ke fai e tokanga ke ʻoua naʻa angaʻaki (“Naʻa ke fai ʻeni ke…”) mo e fakamaau (“ʻOkú ke pehē…”), ka ʻikai ʻe iku ia ʻo hange ha polisi fakafehuʻia (“Ko e ha naʻa ke…?”). ʻOku tanaki atu pe ʻeni ki he fakafepaki ʻa hona ʻofefine. ʻIkai ngata ai, ke kei tuʻu maʻu pē ʻene ongoʻi mahuʻingaʻia ʻiate iá, fakaʻehiʻehi mei hono fakaʻaongaʻ “totonu ke”, “ʻoua ʻe” mo e ngaahi lea kovi kehe kotoa pē. ʻOku toe ʻuhinga foki ʻa e talanoa leleí ke ʻiloʻi e taimi ke fakafanongo aí. ʻOku ʻikai ngata pē ʻi heʻene kau heni ʻa e fanongó ka ko e mahinó. Ke mahino ʻa e meʻa kuo lea ʻakí, fie maʻu ke fakamahinoʻi ia ʻe he mātuʻá (“Ko hoʻo ʻuhingá…?”), fakahaaʻi ia (“ʻOkú ke ongoʻi… koeʻuhi…”) pea ongoʻi ʻofa ki ai (“ʻOkú ke ongo moʻoni…”). ʻI he taimi ʻoku ongoʻi ai ʻe he tamasiʻi taʻu hongofulu tupú ʻoku mahino ki heʻene ongomātuʻ, ʻe poupouʻi ia ke ne fakahā kiate kinautolu mo fakamatalaʻi ʻa e ʻuhinga ʻokú ne fai ai ha ngaahi meʻá mo e ongo ʻokú ne maʻu ki aí. Pea hangē ko ʻeku lau ki muʻá, ʻi he mahino, ʻe maʻu kakato ʻe he mātuʻá ʻa e fakatātaá pea te na ʻiloʻi leva ʻa e ngāue feʻunga ke faí. ʻIkai ngata ai, kapau ʻoku fie maʻu ʻe he mātuʻá ke fakafanongo ki ai ʻenau fānaú, ʻoku fie maʻu ke nau fakatātā ʻaki e ngaahi taukei ʻo e fakafanongo leleí. ʻOku fakahehema ʻa e fānaú ke fai ʻa e meʻa ʻoku fai ʻe he mātuʻá kae ʻikai hangē ko e lea. Ko ia ko ha taimi lelei maʻu pē ʻeni ke kamata akoako ai e ngaahi pōtoʻi ngāue ko ʻení.

ʻIkai ongoʻi malu

Vakai ofi ange ki he ngaahi ʻuhinga ʻi ʻolunga, ʻe fakatokangaʻi ʻe he mātuʻá ko e tefitoʻi meʻa mahuʻingá ko e ongoʻi tailiili ʻa e kiʻi taʻahiné ʻiate ia pē. ʻOku maʻulalo ʻene ongoʻi mahuʻingaʻia ʻiate ia pea ʻoku ne fakafalala ki he kiʻi tamasiʻi ke ne ongoʻi leleiʻia ʻiate ia pe. Ko e tefito ʻo e to ki he tauhele ʻo e ngaahi malohi fakatoʻu, ngaahi feʻauhi manakoá, fie maʻu ke fie maʻu pea ʻofaʻi, pea ke maʻu e tokangá, ʻoku ʻikai ongoʻi malu. Kapau ko e meʻa ʻeni ʻoku hokó pea ʻoange kiate ia ʻa e ʻofa mo e tokanga ʻokú ne fie maʻú. Fakaʻaliʻali ange pea talaange ʻokú ke ʻofa ʻiate ia neongo ʻene “kovi” ngaahi ʻulungāangá, ka ʻe ʻikai te ke kātakiʻi kinautolu. Akoʻi kiate ia ʻa e founga ke ne ongoʻi fiefia ai mo ʻene tui fakalotú. Fakatupulaki ʻene ongoʻi mahuʻingaʻia ʻiate iá ʻaki hono fakahaaʻi hono ngaahi ʻulungāanga leleí mo e ngaahi lavameʻá pe ko ʻene feinga ke aʻusiá (pea ʻikai tokanga taha ki he taʻelavameʻá). Vahe ki ai ha ngaahi ngāue faingataʻa mo fakaʻaiʻai e ngaahi ʻekitivitií. ʻOku toe ʻaonga foki ʻeni ki he ʻofefine taʻeoliʻia.

ʻAve ia ki he ngaahi fakatahaʻanga mo e ngaahi ʻapitanga faka-ʻIsilami taʻu hongofulu tupu. Poupouʻi ia ke ne maʻu ha ngaahi kaungāmeʻa Mosilemi foʻou. Ko e taha ʻoku ʻi ai hono homouni tauhaʻa ʻoku ʻikai ke ne lava ʻo mapuleʻi ia, ʻeke ange pe te ne fie mali (kae ʻoua naʻá ne fakamālohiʻi ia).

Ko e moʻoni, fakamanatu ange ki ai ko e va fetuʻutaki kaumeʻa fefine ʻoku ʻikai lava ke fakangofua pea akoʻi ia (toe) fekauʻaki mo e tuʻunga ʻo ʻIsilami fokotuʻu fekauʻaki mo e meʻa ni. Fakaʻosi, ʻoange ha kau faʻifaʻitakiʻanga lelei ki ai. ʻOku fakapaleʻi e ngaahi talanoa kau ki he kau fafine ko ia ʻoku nau maluʻi ʻenau angamaʻá mo e anga-māʻoniʻoní ʻi heʻenau fai iá. Maryam, faʻē ʻa e Palōfita ko ʻEesá (a.s), ko ha sīpinga maʻongoʻonga ia ʻe taha.

ʻOua naʻa ngalo e tamaiki tangatá

Hili hono tokangaʻi e ʻofefiné, Te u tokanga he taimí ni ki he fohá. Ko hono moʻoni ʻoku tali ʻe he matuʻa ʻo hange ʻoku ʻi ai ha mate ʻi he famili ʻi he taimi ʻoku kau ai hona ʻofefine ʻi ha va fetuʻutaki kaumeʻa kaumeʻa. Ka ko e taimi ko e foha ʻoku ʻi ha tuʻunga tatau pe kovi ange, ʻoku fakafiefiemalie pe ʻa e matuʻa tatau,. ongoʻi ʻoku fie maʻu ke aʻusia ʻe he tamasiʻí pea tomuʻa fiefia kimuʻa peá ne toki lava ʻo nofo hifo ʻo mali. ʻOku hangē ia ʻoku fua toko taha pē ʻe he ʻofefiné ʻa e fakalāngilangi ʻo e fāmilí.

ʻOku fie maʻu ke tufaki hangatonu ʻa e lāngilangí ki he fāmilí kapau ʻoku fie maʻu ke tauhi maʻu. ʻOku ʻuhinga ʻeni ki he tamaí, faʻē, kuo pau ke takitaha maluʻi ʻe he fohá mo e ʻofefiné hona lāngilangí. Kapau ʻe mole mei he tamaí pe faʻeé hono lāngilangí pea ʻokú na ʻoange leva ʻa e faʻifaʻitakiʻanga lelei ki heʻena fānaú. Pea kapau ʻe mole mei he foha hono langilangi pea ʻalu taʻe tauteaʻi pea ʻe lau ʻeni ʻe he ʻofefine ko ha ngaue malualoi mo ha kau angatuʻu pehe. Ki ha faʻahinga ngaue mediating pe ke ngaue ki he ʻofefine, kuo pau ke tauhi maʻu pē ʻe he mātuʻá ʻena tamasiʻí. Vakai ki he ngaahi ʻuhinga ʻoku tulifua ai e tamaiki fefiné ki he fānau tangatá pea ʻe fakatokangaʻi ʻe he mātuʻá ko e meʻa tatau pē ia ʻokú ne tekeʻi ʻa e fānau tangatá ki he nima ʻo e tamaiki fefiné.

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