Fakatōkakano ʻo e Teunga Tāú ʻi he Fānaú

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Ko e akenga ʻa e fanau ko ha maketi paʻanga ʻe piliona mo e ngaahi fetuʻu ʻo e heleʻuhila mo e ngaahi fakatata kehe ʻo e mitia endorsing ʻa e akenga fakamuimui taha mo hippest. ʻOku ʻikai ngata pe ʻi he lahi ange ʻa e fakamamafa ʻi he hingoa motolo kautaha fotunga ʻi he taimi ʻoku aʻu mai ai ki he vala ʻo e fanau, ka kuo holoki lahi ʻa e tuʻunga ʻo e vala mo e ʻulungaanga ʻoku tali lelei. ʻOku disheartening ke sio neongo ʻIsilami fokotuʻu ko e tokotaha poupou maʻongoʻonga taha ia ʻo e teunga tau, ngaahi mātuʻa Mosilemi tokolahi pe ʻikai ke nau akoʻi ʻetau fānaú ko e teunga tāú ko ha konga mahuʻinga ia ʻo e ʻulungāanga ʻo ha taha.

Ko Hono Fokotuʻu ʻa e Meʻa ʻOku Taau mo e Teunga Tāú

ʻOku mahuʻinga ke fakatokangaʻi ʻoku ʻikai fakafuofuaʻi pē ʻa e teunga tāú ʻo makatuʻunga ʻi he lōloa ʻo e sote ʻo ha taha pe ko e vete honau valá. ʻI he ngaahi lea faingofua mo fakapotopoto taha, ʻulungaanga ʻo ha taha, lea, fakafiefia, pea ko e valá ko e ngaahi konga kotoa pē ia ʻo e teunga tāú. ʻOku maʻu ha mātuʻa tokolahi ʻi ha tau loto mo ʻenau fānaú ʻo makatuʻunga pē ʻi he valá pe fōtunga ki tuʻá. Neongo ia, ʻoku fekauʻaki hangatonu ʻa e teunga tāú mo e ongoʻi ʻe he tokotaha fakafoʻituituí ʻoku ʻi ai hono mahuʻingá. Fakato ki he fanau ʻa e fakakaukau ko ia ʻoku nau ʻi ʻolunga ʻi hono mamataʻi ha ngaahi polokalama pau, fanongo ki he mūsiká, tui ha vala ʻoku mahaʻihaʻi mo fakahaha, pea ko hono fakaʻaongaʻi ʻo e lea koví ko e ʻelito moʻoni ia hono akoʻi kinautolu ki he teunga tāú mo e fakaʻapaʻapaʻi pē kinautolú.

Ko Hono Tali ʻo e Teunga Tāú ʻi he Kei Siʻí

ʻOku ʻikai ha tui fakalotu, moʻui angamaʻá, pe fakatonuhiaʻi ʻe he tangata hono fakatui ha kiʻi tamasiʻi kei siʻi ʻi he vala fotunga mo e vala ʻoku fakahaha ʻaki e kili. ʻOku akoʻi mai ʻe heʻema fānaú ʻa e meʻa naʻe ʻikai ke tau akoʻi kiate kinautolú. Te tau akoʻi fēfē ʻetau fānaú ʻoku tali lelei pē ke tui e talausese mutu mo e vala kaveá kae ʻoua kuo aʻu ki ha taʻu pau, pea ʻamanaki te nau tali ʻa e tuʻunga moʻui ʻo Hijab ʻi he taimi te nau taʻu? Neongo ʻoku kehekehe e ngaahi tuʻunga moʻui ʻa e fanau iki, ko ha lao fakalūkufua ʻo e motuʻa tuhú ke manatuʻi: kapau ʻoku ʻikai totonu ke tui ia ʻe he fānaú ʻi heʻene kei taʻu hongofulu tupú, (s)ʻoku ʻikai totonu ke ne tui ia ko ha kalasi ua pe tolu.

Lea fakalakalaka, ʻoku ako ʻe he fānaú ʻa e ngaahi ʻulungāanga lahi tahá ʻi he taimi ʻoku nau hū ai ki he ako lautohi siʻí. ʻOku matuʻaki mahuʻinga foki ʻa e ngaahi taʻu ni ki he fanau, koeʻuhí he ʻoku kamata ke nau falala pē kiate kinautolu. Ko ha kiʻi tamasiʻi ʻoku teunga taʻetaau mo tokanga ki hono tui ʻo e ngaahi hingoa motolo kautaha fotunga mei ha senolo Disney ʻe faingataʻa ke maʻu ʻa e mahuʻinga ʻo e intrinsically.

ʻI he taimi ʻoku tau fakakaukau ai ki he foʻi lea ko e teunga tāú, haʻu ki heʻeku fakakaukaú ha ngaahi foʻi lea kehe, hangē ko e anga māʻoniʻoní, talifaki ʻi he lea, ʻulungāangá, mo e vala, mo e loto fakatōkilaló. Ko e ngaahi ʻulungāanga mahuʻinga kotoa ʻeni ʻoku totonu ke akoʻi ki he fānaú ʻi heʻenau kei īkí, ko ia ʻoku nau tupu hake ai ʻo hoko ko ha kakai lalahi mo ha kau Mosilemi kuo fakatonutonu lelei.

Ko e Ngaahi Nunuʻa Kovi ʻo e Teunga Taʻetāú

ʻOku ʻi ai ha tuʻuaki ʻoku ʻikai fuʻu olopoto ʻoku fakataumuʻa ke teuteu nounou ʻa e tamaiki fefine kei talavou, vala naʻe fakaha mai. Ko hono moʻoni, ʻe vave hano fakamanatu mai ʻe ha folau ki ha falekoloa ʻo e potungāué ʻoku ʻikai ko e teunga tāú ʻa e meʻa mahuʻinga ʻe tahá ʻi hono faʻufaʻu e vala ʻo e fānaú. Neongo ia, ko e teunga tāú ko ha fakavaʻe mahuʻinga ia ʻi he taimi ʻoku ʻohake ai e fānaú ke tui ki he kau Mosilemi. Maʻá e fānau fefiné, ko e liliu ki he ngaahi ʻamanaki ʻo Hijab ko ha liliu ʻoku hamolemole ange kapau kuo nau teunga taau talu mei heʻenau kei siʻi. Kuo mau mamata ki he ngaahi faingataʻaʻia ʻoku maʻu ʻe ha tamaiki fefine tokolahi ʻi he taimi ʻoku nau o ai mei hono tui e falani mo e talausese mutu ki he nima loloa mo e talausese, pea ʻe faingofua pē hono fakaʻehiʻehi mei aí ʻaki hano fakaʻaiʻai e vala ʻoku tāú mei heʻene kei siʻí.

ʻOku fie maʻu foki ke akoʻi ʻa e fānau tangata kei talavoú mo nau mamata ʻi hono fakatātaaʻi e mahuʻinga ʻo e teunga tāú. Kuo tokolahi ha kakai kuo nau tokanga ki he foʻi moʻoni ko ia ʻoku hijab mo e fanau tangata ʻoku ʻikai ke nau. Ko ʻeni, neongo ia, ʻoku ʻikai ke moʻoni. ʻOku tufakanga ʻa Hijab ʻi he fefine fakatouʻosi ʻi ʻIsilami fokotuʻu; neongo ia, ʻoku fie maʻu ki ai ha ngaahi founga kehekehe maʻanautolu. ʻOku ʻikai fakafuofuaʻi ʻe he sosaieti ʻa e mahuʻinga ʻo ha tangata ʻi hono waistline pe fakaʻofoʻofa ʻo hange ko ia ʻoku hoko ki ha fefine. ʻOku mahuʻinga ke fakatokakano ki he fanau iiki ʻo e tuʻunga tangata pe fefine fakatouʻosi ʻa hotau mahuʻinga ʻi heʻetau hoko ko e faʻahinga ʻo e tangata, ʻo mahulu hake ia ʻi hotau fotunga.

Mo e fānau tangata īkí, ʻoku mahuʻinga ke akoʻi kinautolu ʻi heʻenau kei siʻí ʻoku fie maʻu foki ke totonu honau sinó, pea ʻoku ʻikai fakaʻapaʻapaʻi ke tui ha vala ʻoku mahaʻihaʻi hono kilí pe toʻo honau soté ʻi muʻa ʻi he niʻihi kehé pe ʻi he ngaahi feituʻu fakapuleʻangá. ʻOku tokolahi ha fānau iiki ʻoku nau foua ha konga lolotonga e akó mo e kinitakātení ʻa ia ʻoku nau saiʻia ai ke ʻahiʻahiʻi e valá. ʻOku mahuʻinga ke mahino ki he kakai lalahí ka ʻoku nau tuʻu maʻu ʻi he konga ko ʻení.

Ngaahi Tokoni ʻAonga ki Hono Akoʻi ʻo e Teunga Tāú

Mātuʻá, kau mēmipa ʻo e fāmil, pea ʻe lava ʻe he kakai lalahi kehe ʻi he moʻui ʻa ha kiʻi tamasiʻi ʻo fai ha tokoni lahi ki he anga e fakakaukau ʻa ha kiʻi tamasiʻi ki he teunga tau. Ko e niʻihi ʻo e ngaahi faleʻi ʻaonga ki hono fakafeʻiloaki mo tauhi ʻo e teunga tāú ʻi ha fāmilí ko e:

• Fokotuʻu ha ngaahi tuʻunga moʻui pea pikitai kiate kinautolu. ʻOku tupulaki e fānaú ʻi he taʻefeliliuaki mo angamaheni. Kapau ʻe ʻi ai ha ʻaho ʻoku ʻikai te ke fakangofua ai hoʻo fānaú ke ne tui talausese mutu koeʻuhí he ʻoku fuʻu nounou, pea ʻi he ʻaho hono hokó ʻokú ke, ʻe fakakaukau hoʻo kiʻi tamasiʻí, “ʻOku ʻikai tokanga ʻa e fineʻeiki ia mo e tangataʻeiki, ko e ha ʻoku totonu ai ke u?”
• Lōloa ʻo e Fakakaukaú: hono ʻikai fuʻu nounou? ʻOku tokolahi ha matuʻa ʻoku ʻikai ke nau tui leggings pe mahaʻihaʻi honau ngaahi ʻofefine ʻi he kofu pe piva ʻoku fuʻu nounou. Fokotuʻu mo hoʻo fānau fefiné ʻa e lōloa ʻo e lōloá pea mo e ʻuhinga ʻoku fie maʻu ai ke tights pe leggings.
• Kaukau tahi: ʻe ʻave ʻe ha ngaahi fāmili tokolahi ʻenau fānaú ki he matātahí pe ʻi ai ha vai kaukau ʻi ʻapi. Naʻa mo e kau mēmipa ʻo e fāmilí, ʻoku ʻikai feʻunga ʻa e suti ʻe ua ki he tamaiki fefine kei talavou, pea ʻoku totonu ke kaukau taʻu motuʻa mo e fānau tangatá.
• Lau ʻa e tohí: ʻi he ngaahi ʻaho ni ʻoku ʻi ai ha ngaahi sote ʻoku pehe “ʻafu ʻo e ifi tapaká” pe “fuʻu ʻafu kiate koe” marketed ki he tamaiki fefine kei talavou. ʻOku ʻi ai ha ngaahi naunau tatau maʻa e fanau tangata mo e toʻu tupu kei talavou ʻoku nau poupouʻi ʻa e ngaahi lea faka-ʻIsilami, lea taʻe feʻunga, pe ngaahi ʻulungaanga kehe ʻoku taʻefeʻunga.
• Fokotuʻu ha fakavaʻe ʻo hono fakaʻapaʻapaʻi mo fakatolonga kitá. Ko e teunga tāú ko ha founga fakaʻatā pē ia ki he moʻuí, pea kapau ʻoku ʻi ai ha taha ʻoku taau ʻene leá, ngaahi toʻonga, mo tataki, ʻe ha mei he vala ʻa e meʻa ni.
• ʻE lava pē ke hip ʻa e vala ʻoku tāú, f, pea manakoa! ʻI ha kiʻi ngāue lahi ange, ʻe lava ke maʻu pe fakatahatahaʻi e vala ʻoku tāú. ʻOku lahi ha ngaahi faiʻanga fakamafola ʻoku fakataumuʻa pē ke fakatau atu ho vala ʻoku tāú. ʻOua naʻá ke tuku ha niʻihi ʻo e ngaahi akenga fakamuimui tahá ke fakalotosiʻiʻi ho fāmilí mei hono ohi mai ʻo e teunga tāú maʻa hoʻo fānaú.
• Fakakaukau ki ha fehuʻi faingofua: ʻoku ke fie maʻu hoʻo fanau mo e famili ke nau tali ʻa e ngaahi tuʻunga ʻulungaanga mahuʻinga ʻo e sosaieti pe tali ʻa e ngaahi tuʻunga ʻulungaanga mahuʻinga Allah?

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