Ko e tangilaulau ʻa ha uaifi Mosilemi

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Naʻe pehe ʻe Allah Subhana wa Taʻala, "… Mali mo e kakai fefine ʻoku fakahōifua kiate koé; ua, tolu pe fa, ka ʻo kapau ʻoku ke manavasiʻi he ʻikai te ke lava ʻo faitotonu, pea taha pē…" (Kueraaní 4:3). Kuo tuʻo lahi ʻeku sio ki he lea ko ʻeni. ʻOku fakamahino mai ʻe ha kakai ʻe niʻihi kiate au ʻa e konga ʻoku fakamatala ki he fekuki mo e faitotonu, pea ʻoku nau fakatauhoa ia mo e, "Pea ʻoku ʻikai te mou maʻu ia ʻi homou mālohí ke fai ʻa e fakamaau totonú ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo e ngaahi uaifí, neongo te ke fakaʻamu (ʻoku), kae ʻoua naʻá ke loto-foʻi (mei he taha) mo e fekeʻikeʻi fakakātoá, koeʻuhí ke ke tuku ia ʻo hangē ko ʻene nofo tailiili; pea kapau te ke fakaleleiʻi mo maluʻi (ki he koví), pea ko e moʻoni Allah fakamolemole, Manavaʻofá.” (Kueraaní 4:129).

Ko ʻeni, ʻoku nau pehe, ʻoku faingataʻa ki ha taha ke angalelei, ko ia ʻoku ʻikai ngofua ai ke mali ʻo lahi hake ʻi he tahá. ʻOku ʻikai tatau ʻeni mo e meʻa kuo tohí. ʻOku pehē ʻe he vēsí ke ʻoua naʻa nau liʻaki ʻa kinautolu. ʻE lava fēfē ke hoko ʻeni ko ha fekau ke ʻoua ʻe mali ʻo lahi ange ʻi he tahá? ʻIkai ngata ai, ʻOku faingataʻa ke u tali ʻa e fakakaukau ko ʻení talu mei heʻeku ʻiloʻi ko e palōfitá, ʻa e ngaahi hoá, ko e toʻu tangata hono uá, ko e toʻu tangata hono tolú mo e alā meʻa pehē, ko e kau ngāue kotoa pē naʻe faʻu ʻaki e polygyny. Kapau naʻe hala, pe makru – ʻi heʻene hoko ko ha faʻahinga tuʻ – pea he ʻikai leva ke tau ʻiloʻi ko e tokolahi ʻi hotau ngaahi toʻu tangata lelei tahá ʻoku nau fakahoko iá.

Pea, ʻoku ʻi ai mo ha niʻihi kehe ʻoku nau pehe ko Polygyny pe ʻi he ngaahi meʻa kuo toʻo ai ʻe he tau ʻa e tokolahi ʻo e kau tangata, pe ʻi ha ngaahi tūkunga makehe – hangē ko e taimi ʻoku ʻikai faʻeleʻi ai ʻe he fefiné ha fānaú pe taimi ʻoku puke ai e fefiné. Neongo ia, toe, ʻOku ʻikai ke u maʻu ʻeni ʻi he taimi ʻoku ou vakai ai ki he hisitolia ʻo ʻIsilami fokotuʻu. Naʻe ʻikai ke siʻisiʻi ange hono fakahoko ia ʻe he kakai poto ʻi he hisitolia faka-ʻIsilami ʻi he taimi ʻo e melino, pe naʻe fakangatangata ki ha ngaahi tuʻunga pau. Ko hono moʻoní, ʻoku ʻikai ke tau kamata sio ki ha faʻahinga palopalema fekauʻaki mo polygyny ko ha founga ngaue kae ʻoua kuo kamata ke ngaue ʻaki ʻe he Hihifo ʻa e ivi takiekina ki he kau Mosilemi.

Naʻa mo ia ne toki hoko kimui ni mai ko e fuofua Tau Lahi ʻa Mamani, ʻoku tau vakai ki he laukau ʻaki ʻe he kau ʻAlepea bedouin ʻa e foʻi moʻoni ko ia ʻoku nau maʻu ʻa e founga ko ʻeni ko ha konga ʻo ʻenau tui fakalotu. Ko e ha ha ngaahi palopalema siʻisiʻi kuo tau mamata ai ʻi he apologists ne nau feinga ke fakahoifua ki he Hihifo ʻaki hono fakamolu e ʻimisi ʻo ʻIsilami fokotuʻu. Naʻe aʻu ʻo kole fakamolemole ʻa e kakai ko ʻeni ʻi hono fakahoko ʻo e vete mali ʻa ia naʻe fakangofua ʻe ʻIsilami fokotuʻu ʻi ha ngaahi senituli, kae taʻofi ia ʻe he tui faka-Kalisitiané. ʻI he Taimi ni, Pehe ange mai ne u lava ʻo sio ki he fofonga ʻo e apologists tatau ko ʻeni kapau te nau lava ʻo sio ki he vave ʻo e vete mali ʻo e Hihifo. Te nau taʻofi nai ʻenau kole fakamolemole koeʻuhi he taimi ni kuo ʻikai ngata pe ʻi hono tali ʻe he Hihifo ʻa e founga ngaue, ka naʻá ne tali kakato ia ʻaki hono kotoa?

ʻI ha faʻahinga vave pe, ʻi heʻeku vakai ki he veesi ko ʻení, ʻOku ou sio lelei ki he kapau – pea toki fakamatalaʻi. ʻI heʻeku hoko ko ha pea komipiuta, ʻoku ongo ʻeni kiate au he taimi pē ko iá. Kapau – pea. Ko ha palopalema fakaʻuhinga mahinongofua ʻeni. Fai ha A. Kapau ʻoku ʻikai lava ha, pea ʻai leva ʻa e B ke muʻomuʻa ʻi he A pea fakaʻaongaʻi ʻa e B ko ha fakaʻata makehe mei he tuʻutuʻuni. Ko ia ai, ko e taimi ʻoku tau fakaʻaongaʻi ai iá, ʻoku tau vakai ʻoku fekauʻi ʻa e tangatá ke mali mo ha toko ua pe toko tolu pe fā, ka ʻo kapau he ʻikai ke ne lava ʻo angatonu, pea naʻá ne mali pē mo e toko taha. Ko e tokotaha, ko ia ʻoku hoko leva ia ko ha fakaʻatā makehe mei he tuʻutuʻuní. ʻI he Taimi ni, kapau ʻoku moʻoni ʻeni, pea ko e hā leva hono ʻuhinga ʻoku hoko ai ia he ʻahó ni, ʻoku ʻikai ngata pe ʻi he polygyny ʻikai ko e tuʻutuʻuni, ko e fakaʻata makehe ia, pea ko kinautolu ʻoku nau fakahoko iá ʻoku faʻa fakaangaʻi? ʻE lava nai ke tokolahi ha kakai tangata ʻoku nau pehē ʻoku nau taʻetotonu? ʻoku ou taʻetui ki ai. ʻOku ou tui ʻoku maʻu ia ʻi he ʻulungāanga ʻo hotau houʻeiki fafiné, ʻofa ke tataki kitautolu ʻe Allah. Kuo ʻatamai kovi kitautolu ʻe he sipinga fakahihifo ʻo ha uaifi ʻe taha. ʻOku fie maʻu ke tau fakafanongo ki heʻetau kau mataotao fakaʻatamai; kuo fakatokanga mai hanau tokolahi ke tau sio loto pē kiate kitautolu he mahalo ko e makasini ko ʻení ʻokú ne ngaohi kitautolu ke tau Kafir. ʻOfa allah taʻofi ʻeni mei heʻene hoko.

Ko e taimi kotoa pē ʻoku ou aleaʻi ai ʻa e kaveingá ni mo e houʻeiki fafiné, ko e ʻuluaki meʻa ʻoku ou faʻa fanongo ki aí, ko ha fakamatala ʻokú ne ʻai au ke u momou, ʻoku, "Ka ʻoku ʻikai ke totonu…" Allah fakamolemoleʻi ʻa e tokotaha ʻoku ne fai ha lea pehe, he ko ha lea ia ʻo e fakaʻehiʻehi. Naʻe ʻikai ngata pe ʻi hono fokotuʻu mai ʻe he tokotaha naʻa ne polygyny ʻa e halal ka naʻe toe fokotuʻu mai foki ko Allah, Ia. Ko ia ai, ha meʻa pe ʻoku Ne, ʻi Heʻene Faitatau Mo Fakapotopoto Lahí, kuo fakangofua mo poupouʻi ke fakaʻuhingaʻi. Pea ke pehē ʻoku taʻetotonu ke tau pehē ʻokú Ne, Subhana hayat Allah Taʻala, ʻoku taʻetotonu. ʻOfa ke Allah maluʻi hotau ʻelelo mei he faʻahinga fie-ʻOtua pehee.

Kuo pau ke toʻo ʻe he kau fafine Mosilemi honau ʻatamai mei he ngaahi fakatafenga vai ʻo e Hihifo, pea ʻohake kinautolu ki he poto mo e haohaoa ʻo e tuʻunga maʻolunga ʻo ʻIsilami fokotuʻu. ʻOku ʻikai ko ha fakatupu houʻeiki fafine ʻa e Polygyny; ko ha fakaʻilonga ia ʻo e fakaʻapaʻapa. Ko e kakai fefine ʻe toko fiha ʻe kei husbandless kapau naʻe haram? Houʻeiki Fafiné, ʻoku ou kole atu. Vakai ki hoʻo kau fafine ʻi he ngaahi fonua Mosilemi. Kuo kaka e tokolahi ʻo e kau fafine tautaha ʻi ha tuʻunga maʻolunga pea ʻoku faʻu ai ha ngaahi lao makehe ke feinga ke fakaleleiʻi e tukunga (Neongo ʻoku ou ʻiloʻi ʻoku takihalaʻi ha konga lahi ʻo e ngaahi fono ko ʻení pea makatuʻunga ʻi he manavasiʻi ki he fengāueʻaki fakataha ʻa e ngaahi anga fakafonuá, ko e foʻi moʻoni ko ia kuo aʻu e palopalema ki he ngaahi kongokonga ʻo e mofi ʻoku ʻikai toe veiveiua kiate kinautolu). ʻI ha ngaahi fonua ʻe niʻihi, ʻoku fie maʻu ke fakahoko ʻe hoʻomou houʻeiki fafiné ʻa e faʻahinga tōʻonga takihala ko ʻení ko ha nofomali fakataimi, koeʻuhi he ʻoku fuʻu sio hifo ʻa e polygyny ki he. ʻOfa ke Allah fakamolemoleʻi kitautolu ʻi heʻetau fai ʻeni.

Naʻa mo, ʻi he taimi ʻoku fili ai ha fefine ke ʻalu ki polygyny, ʻoku lau ia ʻe hono kaungā-tuofāfiné ko ha lavaki, pea faʻa fai kovi ange kiate ia ʻi ha kakai lalahi. ʻOku nau tatau mo ia ke kaihaʻa mei ha husepāniti ʻo ha taha. ʻOku tukuange ha tokolahi ʻo hotau houʻeiki fafiné pea aʻu ʻo nau fakamaaʻi, pe kovi ange hono fakamalaʻiaʻi kitautolu ʻi heʻetau fakahoko ha ngaue naʻe fokotuʻu mai ʻe hotau ʻEiki ʻOfa kiate kitautolu. ʻOfa ke tataki kitautolu ʻe Allah. Wallahi, ʻokú ne fakamamahiʻi au ke u sio ki he faitoʻo ʻoku fai ki he fika uá, uaifi hono tolú mo e faá. Houʻeiki Fafiné, ʻoku tau fihia ʻi he fakakaukau ko ʻení ʻo tau maʻu ai ʻetau kau tangatá, naʻa mo e uaifi hono uá pe uaifi hono tolú ʻokú ne ongoʻi ʻoku ʻi ai ʻene totonu ke taʻofi hano fakakau mai ʻo ha taha ki he vā fetuʻutaki naʻe ʻaonga kiate iá. Ko e fē ʻa e feituʻu ʻoku ʻi ai hotau ʻ? Ko e fe ʻetau tui ki he poto ʻo Allah? Ko e fe feituʻu ʻoku tau tukulolo ai ki he finangalo ʻo Allah? Ko e fē feituʻu ʻoku tau feʻofaʻaki aí? Ko e fē ʻa e fie maʻu ki hotau houʻeiki fafiné ʻa e meʻa ʻoku tau fie maʻu maʻatautolú, ko e fāmilí, ʻofa mo e fiefia?

Naʻe ʻikai tuku kitautolu ʻi he māmaní ke fai ha meʻa ka ke tau hū allah, pea kuo pau ke tau fai ʻeni ʻo hangē ko ʻEne fekaú, ʻikai hange ko hono tataki kitautolu ʻe heʻetau ngaahi holi mo e meheka. ʻOku fakangofua kitautolu ke tau meheka. Ko ʻIlaisa mo e Ngaahi Faʻē kehe ʻa e Kakai Tuí, ʻofa ke Allah ʻaloʻofa kiate kinautolu, meheka, ka naʻe ʻikai te nau tuku ke hanga ʻe heʻenau meheká ʻo fakaʻauha ʻenau ngāué, pea ʻoku ou fakatukupaaʻi ha taha ke ne fakahaaʻi mai ha sīpinga ʻoku ʻi ai ha taha ʻiate kinautolu, pe taha ʻo e ngaahi hoa fefiné, pe ko e taha ʻo e toʻu tangata hono uá pe tolú kuo faifaiangé peá ne fakamalaʻiaʻi ha fefine ʻi heʻene hoko ko e fika uá, uaifi hono tolú pe faá. Naʻe tali ia ko ha konga ʻo e deen. Fakapapauʻi, feinga e kakai fefiné ke taʻofi honau husepānití mei hono toʻo e fika uá, uaifi hono tolú pe faá. Fakapapauʻi naʻa nau meheka ʻiate kinautolu. Fakapapauʻi, naʻe aʻu ʻo nau feinga (kae ʻoua ke taʻofi ia ʻe he palōfitá) ke kole ʻa e vete mali ʻa e tokotaha ko eé. Ka ʻi heʻenau ʻiloʻi pe honau ngaahi fakangatangata, naʻa na fakahu ki he finangalo ʻo Allah. Ko e hā leva ʻoku fuʻu faingataʻa ai kiate kitautolú? Ko e hā ʻoku ʻikai ke tau lava ai ʻo muimui ʻi he ngaahi sīpinga maʻongoʻonga ko ʻení kae ʻikai ko e ngaahi sīpinga ʻa e fefine Hihifó ʻa ia ʻoku ʻikai ke ne fakaʻapaʻapaʻi iá, siʻisiʻi ange hono toʻú?

Houʻeiki Fafiné, ʻOku ʻikai ko ʻeku kole atú ke ke ʻalu ʻo kole ki ho husepānití ke ʻave mo ha uaifi ʻe taha, ka ʻoku ou kole atu ke mou tali ʻeni ko ha meʻa fakanatula pē, tali lelei, naʻa mo e founga lelei taha ʻo e ʻIsilami fokotuʻu. Kapau ʻokú ke mālohi ange ʻi hoʻo tuí, ʻOku ou sio pē ki he ngaahi tāpuaki ʻi he kole ki ho husepānití ke tokoniʻi ha fefine faingataʻaʻia ʻaki ʻene mali mo iá. Fakakaukau ko ha faʻē tāutaha koe, ko ha fefine taʻe mali ʻo fakalaka atu ʻi heʻene palemia, pe ko ha uitou, tuenoa taʻe ʻi ai ha poupou.

Houʻeiki Fafiné, ko ho ngaahi tokoua ʻeni, mo Allah taʻofi, ʻe lava pe ke ke hoko ʻi ha ʻaho. ʻAloʻofa ki he kau fafine ko ʻení. Pea kapau te nau mali mo ho husepānití pe husepāniti ho kaungāmeʻá, ʻoua naʻa fakahalaiaʻi kinautolu, fakamalaʻiaʻi ʻa kinautolu, fakamavae kinautolu, boycott kinautolu pe fakahohaʻasi kinautolu. Kuo nau fai ʻa e lelei tahá. Kuo nau mali kae ʻikai ko e tukupa haram. Kuo nau muimui ki he fekau ʻa Allah ʻi he mali. Kuo nau fakakakato ʻenau tui fakalotú, pea mo e tokotaha ʻoku fakataumuʻa ki ai, naʻa mo e fakalongolongo ʻi hono lotó, kuo pau ke toe vakavakaiʻi ʻene tui ki Allah. Kuo pau ke ne tali ʻeni ko e tui fakalotu ʻa Allah pea ko e founga maʻolunga ange ia, koeʻuhi pea — koeʻuhí pē ko e — Naʻe pehe ʻe Allah ʻoku pehe.

ʻOfa ke tataki kitautolu kotoa ʻe Allah ke tau tali ʻEne tuʻutuʻuni. ʻOfa ke ʻai ʻe Allah ke tau malohi kotoa ʻi he muimui, ʻo akoako mo tali kakato ʻa e fuʻu ngāue maʻongoʻongá ni, pea ʻofa ke ʻomi ʻe Allah ha malohi kiate kitautolu ʻa e tui mo e poupou ke fakafepakiʻi ʻetau ngaahi holi. Ameen.
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