Talateu:

ʻOku ʻikai ha meʻa ʻe toe lelei ange ka ko ha husepāniti ʻokú ne poupouʻi hono uaifí ke muimui ʻi ha misi. ʻI he taimi ʻoku tau fehuʻi ai ki he tangatá pe ko e hā ʻokú ke fie mali aí, ko ʻenau ngaahi talí ko e,

Ko e tufakanga ia ke mali ʻa e tangata mo e fefine kotoa pē,
Ki he fiefiá…
ʻOku ʻikai ke tau loto ke tautaha,
hoko ko ha moʻoni ki homa uaifí,
Vahevahe fakataha ʻetau moʻuí,
Fie maʻu ha fānau,
ko e fetuʻutaki lelei taha ʻi he māmaní,
fakamālohiʻi ʻo e m, etc…

Founga ke hoko ai ko e husepāniti lelei tahá?

ʻOku tangilaulau ha kakai fefine tokolahi ʻi he taʻeʻilo ʻa honau tangatá, ongongataʻa, veiveiua, animalistic behaviour, taha fefeka, etc.

ʻOku fie maʻu ʻe he ngaahi uaifí ke fiefia mo ha honau husepānití. Ka, tokolahi e kakai fefine ʻoku ngutu laú mo tangi ki he kau mēmipa honau fāmilí mo e kaungāmeʻá fekauʻaki mo e husepānití.

ʻOua naʻa ke loi pe fakaʻitaʻi ʻaki e ngaahi ʻulungaanga lelei ʻoku maʻu ʻe homou uaifi. Kapau ʻoku ke fehiʻa heʻene palasitaa pe feimeʻatokoni, angavaivai mo faitotonu feʻunga. Hangē ko e, ʻofaʻanga… feituʻu naʻá ke fiemālie ai he ʻahó ni, ko hoʻo ngaue femoʻuekina… ʻOku ou lava ʻo sio ʻoku ʻi ai ha meʻa ʻoku fehalaaki ʻi hoku ʻofaʻanga… ʻoku ne feimeʻatokoni lelei maʻu pe… ka ʻi he ʻaho ni ʻoku ou tui kuo ke tanaki atu ha masima lahi ange ki he salati. ʻOua ʻe fehuʻi pe kaikaila ʻo hange ko ʻikai te ke lava ʻo ngaohi ha meʻakai totonu… ko e ha hoʻo meʻa ʻoku fai ʻi ʻapi he ʻaho kakato… ko e taimi kotoa pe ʻoku ke tangutu ai mo e telefoni pe talanoa pe laptop… sio mai kiate au kuo u holoki hoku mamafa koeʻuhi ko koe… Vale! Oʻi e ngaahi ʻulungāanga ho uaifí ʻi he founga lelei tahá, lea ʻaki ʻa e moʻoní koeʻuhí ke ne fakatupu ha mahino lahi ʻi ho vā mo koé.

ʻOku fonu e moʻui ʻi he ngaahi fehalaaki, ʻoku fakaehaua. ʻOku taʻeʻamanekina mo taʻepau ʻa e moʻui malí. ʻI he taimi ʻoku falala atu ai ha taʻahine kiate koe mo hoʻo ʻofa, ʻoua naʻá ke tukuange ia ke ʻalu. Tokoniʻi ia ʻi he tūkunga kotoa pē neongo ʻe faingofua. Hangē ko e, ngaohi ha huhuʻaʻi meʻa ʻoku ʻikai ke fuʻu lelei mo foʻou… fo ho vala… ʻave ia ki falemahaki kapau ʻoku puke… tokoni ʻi hono fatongiá, etc. Kae ʻoua naʻá ke taʻeʻilo pea liʻaki ia.

Ko e va fetuʻutaki ko ha hoa ngaue ka ʻoku ʻikai ko ha pule fakamalohi. Ko ia, ʻoua naʻá ke fakamālohiʻi hoʻo ngaahi filí ki ho uaifí. Tuku ke ne tui/lea, fakafanongo foki ki heʻene ngaahi fakakaukaú. Fakahaaʻi ia ki he māmaní ke ne ʻai ke mālohi ange ʻene ngaahi pōtoʻi ngāué, ʻai ke ne muimui ʻi heʻene ngaahi holí.

Kapau ʻoku langaʻi ʻofa mo vaivai ʻo ʻikai teitei pehe pehe, Naʻa ku ʻiloʻi ʻe ala hoko ʻeni ka naʻa ke fie maʻu lahi ia ko e ʻuhinga ia ne u tapuniʻi ai hoku ngutu… pea sio pe ko hai ʻoku tangí… taimi ʻe niʻihi ʻokú ke loto fefeka… ka ke fakaʻaongaʻi ʻa e ngaahi kupuʻi lea ko ʻeni ʻoku sai ʻofaʻanga… ko koe ʻoku lelei tahá… Naʻá ku ʻiloʻi hoʻo ngāue mālohí… ʻoku hoko… maʻaku; ko koe ʻoku lelei tahá mo e ʻuluakí… mahalo ʻoku ʻikai finangalo e ʻOtuá ke foaki atu… te u tokoni atu… ta o ʻo ʻaʻahi loloa.

Hoko ko ha husepāniti ʻoku tokanga pē kiate kitá. Kapau ʻoku ʻi ai ha husepāniti ʻoku kovi hono ngaahi ʻulungāangá pe ngaahi fakakaukaú, tautautefito ki he veiveiua hono uaifí. ʻOku hanga ʻe he ngaahi ʻulungāanga lelei kotoa ko ʻení ʻo ʻai ke vaivai e vā fetuʻ. ʻE toe ongoʻi faingataʻaʻia foki heni hono uaifí. He ʻikai teitei tali ʻe he husepānití ʻene fehalākí ka ʻokú ne tukuakiʻi hono uaifí.
Hangē ko e naʻa ke ʻi fe ʻaneafi… ʻa ia naʻe fihi hoʻo fakatau naʻa ke ʻalu ki ai… Naʻa ku telefoni atu lolotonga e maʻu meʻatokoni hoʻataa ka naʻe femoʻuekina ʻa e uiuiʻi… ʻoku fakahaaʻi ʻe hoʻo mamata fakaʻosi ʻi WhatsApp 12:30… ko e hā hoʻo lea fufuú… kae ʻoua ʻe veiveiua ki ai ʻoku fie maʻu ke ke langa hake, ka ke fakaʻaongaʻi ʻa e ngaahi kupuʻi lea ko ʻení naʻá ke maʻu ha taimi fakafiefia mo ho ngaahi kaungāmeʻá… naʻe fefe hoʻo fakatau mo e meʻa naʻa ke fakatau mahuʻinga… naʻa ke maʻu ha taimi-tepile femoʻuekina… ʻOku ke hohaʻa nai ki ho pule… ʻofaʻanga te u lava ʻo ʻiloʻi hoʻo lea fufuú ko ha meʻa fakatuʻupakē...

ʻOku totonu ke mamata ha husepāniti ki hono uaifí ʻoku tuʻunga tatau mo ia, ko ha taha ʻokú ne maʻu ha mālohi lahi kuó ne maʻu ʻi hono fakafōtungá. Ka ʻoku ʻikai totonu ke ne fafanga hono loto-hikisia, fakapapauʻí, ʻakau fakaeloto, fakafiemālieʻi ʻene ngaahi fie maʻ.

ʻOku totonu ke fakafehokotaki ʻe he husepānití ʻene ngaahi ngāué. Ngaahi ngāué ʻo ʻikai ʻi he ʻuhinga ʻo e mali ki heʻene ngāué. Ka ʻi heʻena fekuki mo hona vā fetuʻutakí mo hono fakaleleiʻi e ngaahi palopalemá. Mahalo ʻe fakakaukau ha husepāniti ʻe fakaʻapaʻapaʻi au ʻe hoku uaifí kapau te u ngāue mālohi koeʻuhí he ʻokú ne fakakaukau ʻoku ou ngāue mālohi maʻana ke fakaleleiʻi ia mo ʻoange kiate ia ha tōʻonga moʻui fakavalevale. ʻIkai, ʻoku ʻikai fakakaukau tatau ʻa e ngaahi uaifi kotoa. ʻOku nau fie maʻu ke feʻofaʻaki ʻa e husepānití kae ʻikai muʻomuʻa ange mo ʻene pōtoʻi ngāué ʻi heʻene ngāué.

ʻOku ongoʻi ʻe ha uaifi ʻokú ne tauʻatāina mo faitotonu ki he husepānití pea ʻoku ʻikai ke manavahē ki heʻene maumauʻi e falala ko iá pe fakaʻaongaʻi ha faʻahinga meʻa ke fakafepakiʻi ʻaki iá. ʻOku totonu ke ne falala ʻokú ke tokanga moʻoni kiate ia pea he ʻikai ke ne teitei fakamamahiʻi ia. Koeʻuhí ʻoku mahuʻinga ʻa e falalá ʻi he vā fetuʻutakí, ʻikai falala ki ha ʻofa pe taʻe ʻi ai ha ʻofa ʻoku ʻikai ha mahino.

ʻE fehangahangai ʻa e va fetuʻutaki kotoa pe mo hono vahevahe ʻo e ngaahi faingataʻa. ʻE ʻi ai ʻa e fuhu, ngaahi tuʻusi mei he Siasí, ngaahi fakakikihí, pea mo e ngaahi taimi foki ʻoku ʻikai ongoʻi ai ʻe ha hoa ʻe taha ʻoku ʻofaʻi ia. Ko e founga pe ke mavahe ai mei he ngaahi taimi faingataʻa ʻoku lelei mo malohi ange ko e ngaue fakataha ʻiate kinautolu pea ʻoku kamata ʻeni ʻi he fetuʻutaki tauʻataina.

ʻOku totonu ke ke pehe fakataha maʻu pe ki ho uaifi ʻoku ta timi. ʻOku ola lelei ʻa e ngāue fakatahá. Ko e kau taki koe ki hoʻo fānaú, ko hoʻo fānaú ʻa e fānau akó pea ko koe ʻa e pulé. Ko ia ʻoku ʻikai ko ha palopalema ia ʻaʻaku, ʻeku moʻui, ʻeku ngaue, ka ko ʻetau palopalemá ia, ʻetau moʻui, ʻetau ngaue.

ʻI he Mali Haohaoa, ʻOku tau tokoni 80 kakai ʻi ha uike ʻe taha ʻo mali! Te mau lava ʻo tokoni atu ke ke ʻiloʻi foki mo ho hoa angatonú! Lesisita HE TAIMÍ NI