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作者: 阿米娜·埃多塔
来源: 清真爱
”Play is truly the work of childhood”
Three year old Hamza called after his mother, his soft voice filled with excitement. ”Mama, Mama….” he repeated, his voice getting louder. She turned briefly to look back at him even as she prepared to head out of the play area. Their play session, though very fulfilling, had sapped the little energy she had left in her, and she was already thinking about some of the house work that needed to be done before prayer time or before the baby wakes up. She was trying hard to pay attention to him.
”Yes Hamza dear!”, she managed to reply as calmly as possible.
”Let’s play again, Mama! Pleasssssse!”, Hamza said.
That stopped her in her tracks, she slowly turned around smiling and with a heart full of love walked over to where he was standing and gave him a big hug. He hugged her back, as she reflected on the last twenty minutes they had spent together. While Mama was ready to put her feet up, Hamza was only just getting started.
Children are undeniably a source of joy and happiness in every home. They cause chaos, mischief, laughter and bring smiles to faces around them. They can be messy, loud, difficult and very playful; yet open, forgiving and cheerful. We have been commanded to give priority to our families and children. They count as valuable investments for the present as well as the future; and ultimately the hereafter.
One single notable characteristic of all children is that they are quite playful. They love to play, naturally have a lot of energy, and are very physically active. Playing has many benefits in the life of a child, especially active play. While many parents and adults may consider playing to be nothing more than meaningless activities or a waste of time, it is in reality such activities that help children develop their intellectual function and thus making it an important part of the learning process.
Did you know that research shows that the experiences during the first five years of a child’s life have a major influence on his or her future successes and general aspects of a healthy rewarding life?
What then can be more important than investing resources and time into knowing how to effectively utilise the early formative period and even beyond?
Each one of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock. 领袖是牧羊人，对他的羊群负责; 一个男人是他家人的牧羊人，对他的羊群负责; a woman is the shepherd in the house of her husband and is responsible for it. Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock.
(布哈里和穆斯林)
To Play or not to Play
Playing is the means by which children learn – how they experience their world, practice new skills, and internalize new ideas. It is therefore the essential ”work of children”.
We have many examples from the life of our beloved Prophet Salallahu Alayhi Wasallam, who was fond of children and would often be found playing with them. There was time he was seen crawling on his hands and knees while Al-Hasan and Al-Hussein were riding on his back and he used to say:
”The best riders are you and the best camel is yours.” (圣训穆斯林)
在另一个叙述中, it was reported that the Prophet Salallahu Alayhi Wasallam used to line up the sons of Al-Abbas (欢迎您转载此信息，只要包含以下信息, Ubaydullah and Kuthayyir) 并说:
”Whoever reaches me first, I will give him such-and-such.” So they would race towards him and jump on his back and chest, kissing him. (艾哈迈德)
To be continued In Sha Allah……
纯婚
而另一个给我们带来今生和来世的厄运
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