Tuʻunga fakaetamai ʻi ʻIsilami fokotuʻu

ʻOku mahuʻinga ke fai ʻe he kau Mosilemi ha fealeaʻaki fekauʻaki mo e tuʻunga fakaetamai lolotonga ʻenau manatuʻi ʻa e tuʻunga pelepelengesi ʻo e ngaahi famili Mosilemi.

ʻOku fie maʻu ke tau toe fakafuofuaʻi ʻa e lea ʻoku tau fakaʻaongaʻi pea mo e ngaahi fakaʻuhinga ʻoku tau fai ʻi he taimi ʻoku tau lea ai fekauʻaki mo e fatongia ʻo e Tamai koeʻuhi he ʻoku faʻa, ʻOku ʻikai ke loi pe ʻa e palopalema ʻi he faingataʻa ka ko e founga ʻoku tau fehangahangai ai mo ia.

ʻOku fakanatula pe ʻa e ongoʻi fakahehema ʻa e kau Mosilemi ke fokotuʻu ʻa e faʻee ʻi he Senita ʻo e founga hono ohi hake ʻo e fanau, taʻe tokanga ki he fatongia ʻo e Tamai. ʻOku fakamamafaʻi ʻe he tukufakaholo faka-ʻIsilami ʻa e fatongia ʻo e faʻee. Hangē ko ʻení, ʻi hono ʻeke ange pe ko hai ʻoku totonu ke ʻofa lahi taha ai ʻa e Kau Mosilemi, Naʻe pehe ʻe he Palofita ko Muhammad:

"Ko hoʻo faʻee, hoʻo faʻee, hoʻo faʻee pea mo hoʻo tamai." (Al-Bukhari, Mosilemi)

ʻOku toe pehe foki ʻoku ʻi he vaʻe ʻo e faʻee ʻa palataisi. Ko hono ola, ʻoku tau fakahehema ke tokanga taha ki he Tamai fakafoʻituitui, ʻikai ko ha taha ʻoku totonu pea lava ke ne fakahoko ha tefitoʻi fatongia ʻi hono famili.

ʻI he taimi ʻoku tau fakafuofuaʻi ai e ngaahi palopalema mei ha fakakaukau faka-ʻIsilami, ʻoku tau fakafaʻahinga e meʻa kotoa pē ʻo fakatatau ki he "ngaahi totonú" mo e "ngaahi fatongiá". ʻOku tau lea ki he ngaahi totonu ʻa e tangata, ʻa e ngaahi totonu ʻa e fefine, ko e ngaahi fatongia ʻo e tangatá, ko e ngaahi fatongia ʻo e fefiné. ʻOku fakatuʻutamaki ʻa e fakakaukau ko ʻeni. ʻOku ne fakasiʻisiʻi ʻa e ngaahi palopalema ki he ʻuliʻuli mo e hinehina, moʻoni ʻa e totonú mo e halá. ʻOku lahi ange ʻa e founga ko ʻení ʻi he meʻa ʻoku tau fakatokangaʻí. Kuo pau ke tau toʻo mei he saienisi kotoa ʻo e faʻahinga ʻo e tangatá ʻa ia ʻe lava ke fehangahangai mo e ngaahi palopalema fakafāmilí.

Ko e palopalema ʻe taha ʻi heʻetau founga ko e idealism. ʻOku tau talanoa ki ha ngaahi famili idealized he kuohili mo idealized ʻoku ʻikai haʻanau kaunga ki he moʻoni, tatau ai pe pe ko e taimi ni pe ko e hisitolia ʻo ʻetau ngaahi kui. Kuo pau ke ʻiloʻi ʻe he kau Mosilemi ko e kau Mosilemi kitautolu ka ʻoku tau nofo ʻi he ngaahi sosaieti ʻo e Hihifo pea ko ia ai, fehangahangai mo e ngaahi palopalema tatau mo e ngaahi fāmili kehé.

Ngaahi ʻUhinga ki he Faingataʻaʻia Fakafāmilí & Ngaahi Fakaleleiʻiʻangá

ʻOku ʻi ai ha ngaahi ʻuhinga kehekehe ʻoku tau fehangahangai ai mo e faingataʻa ko ʻeni ʻo e fāmilí.

Ko ha founga faingataʻa ʻaupito ʻa e fefolauʻaki koeʻuhi he ʻoku kau ai uprooting kita mei ha ʻatakai fakafonua angamaheni pea mo e hiki ʻi ha fonua muli. ʻOku manavasiʻi ha kau hikifonua tokolahi kapau te nau liliu ki honau anga fakafonua, ʻe mole meiate kinautolu ʻenau. ʻOku tatataha ke tolonga ʻeni koeʻuhi he ʻoku ʻi ai ha ola ʻo e malohi fakatoʻu mo e toutou ʻohofi ʻo e anga fakafonua ʻi he fanau. Kuo pau ke tau kumi ha ngaahi founga lelei mo fakafiemalie ange ke fengaueʻaki lelei ai mo e anga fakafonua tuʻukimuʻa.

ʻOku tokolahi ha ngaahi tamai Mosilemi ʻoku ʻikai ngaue. ʻOku hanga ʻe he taʻe-malava ko ia ke fakahoko ʻa e fatongia tukufakaholo ʻo e maa mo e maluʻi ʻo fakaʻauha ʻa e falala pe kiate kita ʻa ha Tamai ʻi ha founga matuʻaki loloto. ʻOku ʻikai ko ha palopalema Mosilemi pe ʻeni. Ko hono moʻoni, ngaahi palopalema lahi ʻoku fehangahangai mo e ngaahi famili Mosilemi ʻi ʻIulope ʻoku ʻikai haʻanau kaunga ki ʻIsilami fokotuʻu koeʻuhi ko e ha ʻoku tau kei manavasiʻi ai ke fekumi ki ha ngaahi founga ke fakaleleiʻi ʻaki ʻetau tui?

ʻOku fie maʻu ke tau hu ki he ngaahi tuʻunga ʻulungaanga mahuʻinga faka-ʻIsilami ki ha ngaahi founga ke fakaleleiʻi ʻaki koeʻuhi he ko e meʻa ia ʻoku ngalingali ʻe tali ʻe he ngaahi famili Mosilemi. ʻOku mahulu hake ʻa e tamaí ʻi he fakafoʻituituí pē. Te ne lava ʻo fakahoko ha fatongia mahuʻinga, mahulu atu ia ʻi he maluʻi fakapaʻanga pe.

Palōfita ko Muhammad, ke ʻiate ia ʻa e melinó, naʻa ne hoko ko ha faʻifaʻitakiʻanga lelei ʻi heʻene hoko ko ha Tamai. ʻI he taimi ʻe haʻu ai hono ʻofefine kiate ia, te ne tuʻu hake ʻi he fakaʻapaʻapa kiate ia, ʻo hange ko ia ʻoku faʻa fai ʻe he kakai ʻi he ngaahi sosaieti tukufakaholo. Kuo ngalo ʻiate kitautolu ʻa e ngaahi tafaʻaki ko ʻeni ʻo e sīpinga Fakaepalōfitá. ʻOku tau fetongi ʻa e ngaahi tuʻunga ʻulungaanga mahuʻinga ko ʻeni ʻaki ha ngaahi meʻa ʻoku manako ai ʻa e ngaahi totonu mo e ngaahi fatongia. Ko e meʻa ia ʻokú ne fakaʻauha e laumālie ʻo e fāmilí.

Ka ko e ha e ʻuhinga ʻo e mafai fakatamaiʻeiki ʻi he tukufakaholo faka-ʻIsilami? ʻOku fekauʻaki nai ia mo e tali ʻio pe ʻikai ki he ngaahi toʻonga ʻa hoʻo fanau?

ʻOku mole mei he ngaahi tamai tokolahi ʻa e faingamālie ke akoʻi ʻenau fānaú pea ō fakataha mo kinautolu ʻi he moʻuí. ʻOku fakamoleki ʻe ha Tamai ʻa ha ngaahi houa lahi ke ngaue pe kau ʻi he ngaue tokoni fakakolo, ʻi he fakamole ki he taimi mo hono famili. ʻOku kei pehe pe ʻe he kau Mosilemi ʻoku tokanga ʻa e tukufakaholo faka-ʻIsilami ki he moʻui fakafamili lelei ka ʻoku faingataʻaʻia ʻa e kau Mosilemi ʻi hono pukepuke ʻo e ngaahi tuʻunga ʻulungaanga mahuʻinga ko ʻeni koeʻuhi he kuo mole meiate kitautolu ʻa e ʻuhinga ʻo e hoko ko ha Mosilemi lelei mo ha matuʻa lelei.

ʻOku ʻi ai ha vā fetuʻutaki kovi ʻo e ngaahi tamaí mo ʻenau fānaú. ʻOku siʻisiʻi ʻa e fetalanoaʻaki, manavaʻofá mo e ʻofá. ʻIkai ngata ai, ʻe lava ke tanaki atu ʻa e ongoʻi taʻe fiemalie ʻi hono ngaahi ʻatakai fakasosiale ki he mavahe ʻi ʻapi ʻi heʻene feinga ke grapple mo ʻene tailiili. ʻOku tau fie maʻu ha ngaahi tuʻutuʻuni fakasosiale fakalotofonua mo longomoʻui ʻa ia te ne fakafepakiʻi ʻa e palopalema ko ʻeni. Hangē ko ʻení, ʻi he ʻOtu Motu Lipeí, ʻOku fakahoko ha fokotuʻutuʻu ʻa ia ʻoku fakaha ai ki he ngaahi tamai ʻe tokangaʻi ʻenau fanau kapau ʻe ʻalu tuʻo lahi ʻa e ngaahi tamai ki he ngaahi ako ako tuʻo lahi ʻi he taʻu.

ʻOku fie maʻu ke vahevahe ʻe he ngaahi famili Mosilemi ʻa e ngaahi aʻusia mo kinautolu ʻoku nau vahevahe ʻa e ngaahi palopalema tatau. ʻOku fie maʻu ke tau fakaava mo ako mei he ngaahi maʻuʻanga tokoni kehekehe, kau ai ʻa e niʻihi ʻoku ʻikai Mosilemi. ʻOku fie maʻu ke tau toʻo ʻa e lelei taha mei he ngaahi maʻuʻanga ʻo e saienisi mo e ngaahi ako fakasosiale pea fakaʻaongaʻi ʻeni ki ha ngaahi founga ke fakaleleiʻi ʻaki ke tokoni ki he ngaahi famili Mosilemi. ʻOku ʻikai fie maʻu ia ke tau fakatahaʻi ki he sosaieti ʻaki hono liʻaki hotau tukufakaholo ka, fakatahaʻi e ngaahi meʻa lelei ʻoku tau ako mei he sosaieti ki heʻetau moʻui.

Ko e meʻa ʻoku fie maʻu ke tau fai ʻoku ʻikai ko e fakahingoa mo e fakamaaʻi temipale pe ngaahi famili. ʻOua te ke kumi ʻa e kakai halaia – kumi ha ngaahi founga ke fakaleleiʻi ʻaki. ʻOku tau fie maʻu grassroots kau ngaue ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo e ngaahi famili mo e temipale, kakai ʻoku fakatefito ʻi ʻIsilami fokotuʻu pea fehokotaki mo e moʻoni.

Mali Haohaoa

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