Mataʻitofe ʻo e Potó: Faleʻi maʻá e Taʻahine Malí

ʻ Abdul-Malik (radiyallaahu ʻanhaa) naʻe pehe ʻe, “ʻI he taimi ʻ Awf ibn Muhallim Al-Shaybani, ko e taha ʻo e kau taki fakaʻapaʻapaʻi lahi taha ʻo e fakaʻeiʻeiki ʻo ʻAlepea lolotonga e jaahiliyyah (taimi ʻo e taʻeʻiló) ko e mali mo hono ʻofefiné, Um Iyas kia Al-Harith ibn ʻ Amr Al-Kindi pea ʻi hono teuteuʻi ia ke ʻave ki he tamasiʻi mali, ʻene faʻee, Naʻe hu mai ʻa Umaamah ki hono loki ke faleʻi ia pea ne pehe ange,

'”ʻE hoku ʻofefine, kapau naʻe pehe ʻoku ʻikai fie maʻu ke fai atu ʻa e faleʻi ko ʻeni koeʻuhi ko e ngaahi ʻulungaanga lelei mo e hakoʻi fakaʻeiʻeiki, pea naʻe mei ʻikai fie maʻu ia kiate koe, koeʻuhí he ʻokú ke maʻu ʻa e ngaahi ʻulungāanga lelei ko. Ka ʻoku (ʻa e faleʻi ko ʻeni) ʻe hoko ko ha fakamanatu kiate kinautolu ʻoku fakangaloʻí, pea te ne tokoniʻi ʻa kinautolu ʻoku potó.

ʻE hoku ʻofefine, kapau naʻe lava ʻe ha fefine ʻo fakahoko ha husepāniti ʻi he tuʻunga māʻolunga ʻo ʻene tamaí pea mo ʻene fie maʻu ʻene tamaí, ʻe toki lava ʻe kimoutolu ʻo e kakai kotoa pē ʻo fai taʻe ʻi ai ha husepāniti, ka naʻe fakatupu ʻa e houʻeiki fafiné maʻá e houʻeiki tangatá ʻo hangē pē ko hono fakatupu ʻo e tangatá maʻanautolu.

ʻE hoku ʻofefine, ʻoku ʻamanaki ke ke mavahe mei he ʻapi naʻa ke tupu hake ai, feituʻu naʻá ke fuofua ako ai ke ʻeveʻeva aí, ke ʻalu ki ha feituʻu ʻoku ʻikai te ke ʻiloʻi, ki ha hoa ʻoku ʻikai ke ke maheni mo ia. ʻI hoʻo mali mo koé, kuó ne hoko ko ha pule kiate koe, ke pehē ʻo hangē ha tamaioʻeiki kiate iá, pea te ne hoko ʻo hangē ko ha tamaioʻeiki kiate koé. Toʻo meiate au ʻa e ngaahi ʻulungaanga lelei ʻe hongofulu, ʻa ia ʻe hoko ko ha meʻakai mo ha fakamanatu kiate koe:

* Ko e ʻuluaki mo e ua ʻo kinautolu ko e: Fiemālie ʻi heʻene kulupú, pea fakafanongo mo talangofua kiate ia, he ʻoku ʻomi ʻe he fiemālié ʻa e nongá ki he ʻatamaí, pea fakafanongo mo talangofua ki he husepāniti ʻo ha taha fakahōifua Allah (ko e Nāunauʻia mo māfimafí).

* Ko hono tolú mo hono faá ko e: Fakapapauʻi ʻokú ke namu lelei mo ʻasi lelei; ʻoku ʻikai totonu ke ne sio ki ha faʻahinga meʻa palaku ʻiate koe, pea ʻoku ʻikai totonu ke ne namuʻi ha meʻa ka ko ha nanamu lelei pē meiate koe. Ko Kohl ko e faʻahinga beautification lelei taha ia ke maʻu, pea ʻoku lelei ange ʻa e vaí ʻi he kaloni ʻoku hāhāmolofiá.

* Ko hono hiva mo hono hongofulu ʻo kinautolú ko e: ʻOua naʻá ke teitei fakahā ha taha ʻo ʻene ngaahi fakapulipulí, pea ʻoua naʻa talangataʻa ki ha taha ʻo ʻene ngaahi tuʻutuʻuní, he kapau te ke fakaha ha taha ʻo ʻene ngaahi fakapulipuli he ʻikai te ke teitei ongoʻi malu mei hono lavakiʻi mo ʻene mistrust koe, pea kapau te ke talangataʻa kiate ia, ʻe fonu hono lotó ʻi he tāufehiʻa kiate koe.

* Tokanga, ʻE hoku ʻofefine, ʻo e fakahā ʻa e fiefiá ʻi muʻa ʻiate iá ʻi he taimi ʻokú ne loto mamahi aí, pea ʻoua ʻe fakahā ha mamahi ʻi muʻa ʻiate ia ʻi he taimi ʻokú ne fiefia aí, koeʻuhi he ʻoku fakahaaʻi ʻe he tokotaha kimuʻa ʻa e siʻisiʻi ʻa e fakamau lolotonga ia ʻe hanga ʻe he ngaahi meʻa kimui ni ʻo ʻai ke ne mamahi.

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