Mole ʻa e ʻAmanaki Lelei ʻi hono Kumi ʻo ha Mali

Assalamualikum wrb ki hoku ngaahi tokoua mo e tuofafine kotoa.
Ko ha taʻahine Mosilemi au 24 taʻu, pea toki ʻosi pe ʻeku ako. Untill ne u ako kuo teʻeki ai ke u fakakaukau ki he mali mo e meʻa kotoa pe. Ka naʻe hohaʻa maʻu pe ʻeku ongomatuʻa. Hili ʻeku ako…Naʻe kamata ke u hohaʻa. Hange ko e loloa ʻo e taimi ke maʻu ai ʻa e hoa totonu mo e ala meʻa pehe. Pea ʻi ha ʻaho ʻe taha ne u maʻu ai ha propsal.. Naʻe ngali sai pe ʻa e meʻa kotoa ka ʻi he ngataʻanga naʻe kovi ʻa e reuslt ʻo Istikhara. Naʻe ʻai ʻe he meʻa ni ke u mamahi lahi…pea naʻá ku ongoʻi ʻo hangē ʻoku ʻikai ha ʻamanaki lelei he taimí ni. Kimuʻa pea u fuʻu bussy ʻi he ako ke fakamoleki ha kiʻi taimi ke fakaloloto ʻeku knowlegde faka-ʻIsilami. Ka ʻi he hili ʻeku lavea.. ʻOku maʻu ʻe hoku loto ha malolo ʻi he rememrence ʻo Allah. Naʻá ku lotu ʻ i he ʻ aho taki taha ki Allah.. ʻaki ʻa e loto fakamātoato, ʻi he taimi ʻe niʻihi naʻa ku tangi, ʻi he taimi ʻe niʻihi naʻa ku malimali. Pea naʻa mo 2 ʻosi atu ha ngaahi mahina pea u toe maʻu ha fokotuʻu ʻe taha. Pea ʻoku vave pe ʻa e mali ʻa Inshallah! Naʻa ku tui moʻoni ki Allah, pea ʻoku ou falala moʻoni ki Allah. Naʻe hange ʻeku ongoʻi…ko e ha e meʻa ʻoku hoko…Kapau ʻoku ʻiate au ʻa Allah te u lava ʻo fehangahangai mo ia kotoa. Pea vakai ki he taimi ni. Naʻe fanongo ʻ a Allah ki heʻeku ngaahi lotú pea tāpuakiʻi au ʻ aki ha hoa lelei. Ko e meʻa pe te u lava ʻo lea ʻaki ko hoʻo falala ki Allah…kole tokoni ki he Allah…pea te ke sio ki ai Inshallah.

Walaikum ko salaam wrb

Salaam ki he ngaahi tokoua mo e tuofafine kotoa pe. Alhamdulilah…ʻo hange ko ʻeku tohi kimuʻa…ʻOku ou fakamalo lahi Allah ʻi hono tapuakiʻi au ʻaki ha mali fakaʻofoʻofa. Te u lotua hoku ngaahi tokoua mo e tuofafine Mosilemi kotoa pe ke maʻu ʻa e tapuaki maʻongoʻonga ko ʻeni. Inshallah, ʻoku mou maʻu kotoa ho ngaahi mali maʻoniʻoni…maʻu pe ʻa e faʻa kataki mo e falala ki Allah…pea te ke experince ia ʻe koe. ʻOku ou ʻilo ʻoku faingataʻa he taimi ʻe niʻihi. koeʻuhi he ʻoku lotu ha ngaahi tokoua mo e tuofafine ʻe niʻihi ʻi ha ngaahi taʻu…ka ʻoku kei Sio pe Allah ki he loto…pea kapau ʻoku maʻa ʻa ho lotó, pea ʻoku ke falala ki Allah.. pea ʻe fanongo leva ʻa Allah ki hoʻo ngaahi lotu Inshallah. Ko Allah ʻa e maʻongoʻonga taha pea ʻoku ʻikai ha meʻa Allah ʻe lava ke fai…ko ia, faʻa kātaki.. ʻE fakaava ʻe Allah ha ngaahi founga maʻau. Te ke lava ʻo fai ho lelei tahá ʻi hoʻo tafaʻaki pē ʻaʻaú ke fakahā ki ha taha.,.. ʻi he kolo. mosqs.. mo e ala meʻa pehē., pea tuku leva ʻa e toenga ki Allah..

Kuo u vete mali, ʻOku ʻi ai hoku ʻofefine pea kuo u fekumi ki ha spouce talu mei 7 ngaahi taʻu, ka wothout ngaahi ola. ʻikai ha ʻamanaki ʻe helaʻia ʻi he taʻelatá. ʻOku ou fie mate ʻi he po kotoa pe mei he taʻelata, Naʻa ku feinga ke fakafiemalieʻi au, lotu Allah, ka ʻoku ʻikai ke u ʻiloʻi e meʻa ke fai ke maʻu ai haku malí ʻo aʻu ki he taimí ni.

Salaam sis. try to inform ur relatives or someone ur close with that ur looking for a partner to marry…use ur social network. (also in community, mosqs, or elders, fāmilí, etcs.) Then also continue to pray to Allah…and Allah will make a way out for u. If ur try this, Allah will help u and lead u towards ur destined partner. Inshallah 🙂
Remember when ur alone…Allah is alwayz with u..so dont feel sad and depressed..put ur trust in Allah and leave everything to Allah 😉
And wipe ur tears and remember to keep smiling..im sure u have a beautiful smile 🙂

Ko ʻeku fehuʻi ʻoku fekauʻaki ia mo e lotu ki allah ki ha fie maʻu. ʻOku ou ʻilo ʻoku ui ia ko satatul hajah. Ko e hā hono tuʻo lahi ʻo e lotu ʻa ha taha pea mo e taimi ʻoku totonu ke lotu aí. ʻOku totonu nai ke lotua ia ʻi he ngaahi taimi ʻoku ngalingali ʻe tali ai ʻa e duaas

Fakafetaʻi ki ʻAllaah.

ʻOku tuʻutuʻuni ke hu ʻa e kau Mosilemi kia ʻAlaia ʻi he ngaahi founga kuo Ne tuku mai ʻi Heʻene Tohi, pea ʻi he ngaahi founga kuo fakamoʻoniʻi mei he Palōfitá (ke ʻiate ia ʻa e melinó mo e ngaahi tāpuaki ʻa ʻIsaahá). Ko e tefitoʻi moʻoni fekauʻaki mo e ngaahi meʻa fekauʻaki mo e lotu ko e tawqeef [i.e., muimui ki he meʻa ʻoku ʻi he Qurʻaan mo e saheeh Sunnah; ʻikai ha feituʻu ki he fakakaukau fakafoʻituituí]. Pea he ʻikai ke tau lava ʻo pehe ʻoku ʻi ai ha faʻahinga ngaue ʻo e lotu ʻoku fai kae ʻoua kuo ʻi ai ha fakamoʻoni.

The so-called Salaat al-Haajah was narrated in da’eef (weak) or munkar (denounced) ahaadeeth – as far as we know – which cannot be used as proof and which are not fit to base acts of worship on.

Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah, 8/162

The hadeeth narrated concerning Salaat al-Haajah says:

“From ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Abi Awfa al-Aslami, ʻa ia naʻa ne pehe: Ko e Talafekau ʻa ʻAliaá (ke ʻiate ia ʻa e melinó mo e ngaahi tāpuaki ʻa ʻIsaahá) came out to us and said: ‘Whoever has need of something from Allaah or any one of His creation, let him do wudoo’ and pray two rak’ahs, then let him say, “There is no god but Allaah, the Forbearing, the Most Generous. Glory be to Allaah, Lord of the mighty Throne. Praise be to Allaah the Lord of the Worlds. ʻE Allaah, I ask You for Your mercy and forgiveness and I ask You for all good things and for safety from all sins. ʻOku ou kole atu ke ʻoua naʻá ke tuku ha angahala taʻe fakamolemoleʻi, pe ha faʻahinga faingataʻaʻia taʻe te ne fakafiemālieʻi ia, pe ha faʻahinga fie maʻu ʻoku fakahōifua kiate Koe ke ke fakahoko kae ʻikai fakahoko ia maʻaku." Pea tuku ke ne kole kia ʻAlaia ʻi ha faʻahinga meʻa pē ʻo e māmaní pe ko e hili ʻa e moʻui ní ʻa ia ʻokú ne fakaʻamu ki aí, he ʻe fakahoko ia."

(Fakamatalaʻi ʻe Ibn Maajah, Iqaamat Al-Salaah waʻl-Sunnah, 1374)

Naʻe pehe ʻe ʻAlo-Tirmdihi: ko ha ghareeb ʻeni [ngali kehe] Maʻuʻanga Fakamatala, pea ko e meʻa ki hono isnaad naʻe pehe: Faaʻid ibn ʻ ʻoku vaivai ʻa ʻApikale d Al-Rahmaan ʻi he hadeeth.

Naʻe pehe ʻe ʻAlo-Albaani: ka ko daʻeef jiddan (fuʻu vaivai ʻaupito). Naʻe pehe ʻe ʻAlo-Haakim: mawdoo ʻ (Maʻuʻanga Fakamatala) Naʻe fakamatalaʻi ʻa e ahaadeeth meia ʻApa Awfa.

Mishkaat Al-Masaabeeh, vol. 1, p. 417

Naʻe pehe ʻe he tokotaha naʻa ne faʻu ʻa ʻAlo-Sunan waʻl-Mubtadaʻaat, Hili hono talaatu e meʻa naʻe lea ʻaki ʻe ʻAlo-Tirmidhi fekauʻaki mo Faaʻid ibn ʻ Abd Al-Rahmaan: Ahmad said he is matrook (left, i.e., his hadeeth is not to be accepted), and Ibn al-‘Arabi described him as da’eef (weak).

And he said: You know what is said concerning this hadeeth. It is better and more perfect and safer for you to make du’aa’ to Allaah in the depths of the night and between the adhaan and iqaamah and at the end of every prayer before the tasleem; and on Fridays, for then there are times when du’aa’ is answered; and when breaking one’s fast. For your Lord says (interpretation of the meanings):

‘Invoke Me [i.e. believe in My Oneness (Islamic Monotheism) and ask Me for anything] I will respond to your (invocation)'[Fussilat 40:60]

‘And when My slaves ask you (O Muhammad) ʻo kau kiate Au, pea (answer them), I am indeed near (to them by My Knowledge). ʻOku ou tali ki he ngaahi lotu ʻa e supplicant ʻi he taimi ʻoku ne ui mai ai kiate au (ʻikai ha fakalaloa pe taukapo)'[Al-Baqarah 2:186]

ʻPea (kotoa) Ko e ngaahi hingoa fakaʻofoʻofa taha ʻoku kau ki Allaah, ko ia, ui kiate Ia ʻ[Al-Aʻraaf 7:180]."Al-Sunan waʻl-Mubtadaʻaat ʻe Al-Shuqayri, p. 124

ʻIsilami fokotuʻu Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid

Um…i just want to remind you that Allah knows best, and maybe you want a thing for yourself but it isn’t good now and will be good later. I read the other days a beautiful story which i will tell you now, to chear you up: 2 Naʻe haʻu ʻa e kau kole ki ha fale ʻe taha ʻo kole ha meʻakai. Naʻe foaki ki ha taha ha foʻi ma pea fekauʻi atu. Naʻe kep ʻa e taha ʻi he matapaa ʻi ha taimi loloa, ko ia naʻe kamata ke ne fifili ʻ ko e ha e meʻa ʻoku fehalaaki ʻiate au he ʻikai ke nau ʻomi ha meʻa kiate au, lolotonga hono toe ʻilo ʻe hoku tuongaʻane ha meʻa?’ Naʻá ne ongoʻi loto mamahi, ka naʻe ʻikai ke ne ʻiloʻi naʻe ʻi ai ha foʻi ma foʻou ʻi he loto fale naʻe taʻo maʻana.
Ko ia ʻoku ke sio, tuongaʻane, ʻoua naʻa tuku hoʻo tuí, ʻi he tafaʻaki ʻe tahá, ʻiloʻi ʻe ʻomi ʻe he faʻa kataki mo e tui ʻa e ngaahi meʻaʻofa 🙂 lelei taha kiate koe, kataki, pea ʻoua naʻa ke ongoʻi loto mamahi pe dissapoited. ʻOfa ke tāpuakiʻi koe mo ho fāmilí ʻe ʻĀlesi.

this ummah needs a major cleanup. period.

too much scum.

especially the generation whose parents served the white man, i.e colonial imperialists. ʻuhinga, “our parents generation”

also, coconut chocolate muslims, who seek izzah from kuffaar, by speaking what pleases the kuffaar.

worshippers of the whitehouse (the saudis), who are helping kuffaar wage war on muslims and people like them elsewhere.

in Quran Allaah swt said, which means, if you “ally” yourself with kuffaar, you become one of them.

yeh anyways, all the scum will eventually die out, and mahdi is near insha Allaah, ʻi he taimi ʻoku mole ai ʻa e scum, ʻe fakapapauʻi ʻe he emirate faka-ʻIsilami ʻoku ʻikai ke toe ʻi ai ha fefine ʻoku teʻeki mali Tasa Allaah

tatau ai pe pe ko e ha hoʻo meʻa ʻoku fai , ʻe he kakai Mosilemi, tatau ai pe pe ko e ha hoʻo fakakaukau, ʻOku ʻikai feʻunga ʻa e scum ʻo e ummah ko ʻeni ke taki ʻa e ummah.

Ko hoku Misa Sateki., toʻo tins faingofua pe hoʻo lotu, NAʻE aʻusia ʻe av ha meʻa pehe ʻi heʻeku moʻui n Allah totongi au ki ha taha naʻa ku akoʻi, ʻOku fekauʻi mai ʻa e tangata Allah, ʻamanaki lelei pe ʻi Allah n ʻe lelei ʻa e meʻa kotoa pe

oops. Naʻa ku fakafalala ki abdillah

faisal am here for u insha Allah, where are u from?

.I am as well a single Muslim of 29 ngaahi taʻu, divorced and searching for suitable partner. Couldn’t find any so far since 10 ngaahi taʻu. Inshallah ..I will soon ….

May ALLAAH make our affairs easy and forgive all the Muslims. Aameen. We Muslims should go back to the foundation of the DEEN. The salafs used to help themselves in all aspects of the DEEN. Hangē ko ʻení, Abu Bakr married Aisha to Prophet MUHAMMAD [MAMATA]. The prophet marries her daughter to Alli and so on. ʻI he ʻAho ni, we no longer help ourselves in getting married. Even some of our parents dont help matters. They believe woman cannot combined education with marriage, Some dont want their daughters to marry another man from another tribes, Some dont believe in polygamy marriage and so on. ʻUhinga? Because they lack the foundation of the DEEN and the understanding of the DEEN. Islam gives solutions to all human problems. I advised those who are concerned to make Dua to ALLAAH, be sincere in there Worship and make their affairs none to the trustworthy imaams in there community. And ALLAAH knows best.