“Ko e malí ko ha Akoʻanga” Maau

Ko ha foʻi maau fakaʻofoʻofa fekauʻaki mo e mali naʻe vahevahe ʻeHi Ismail Menk.

“Ko e malí ko ha ʻapiako ia ʻokú ke maʻu ai ʻa e tohi fakamoʻoní kimuʻa peá ke kamatá.
Ko ha ʻapiako he ʻikai te ke ʻosi mei ai.
Ko ha ʻapiako ʻoku ʻikai malolo pe ko ha vahaʻataimi taʻetotongi.
Ko ha ʻapiako ʻoku ʻikai ngofua ke mavahe ai ha taha mei ai.
Ko ha ʻapiako kuo pau ke ke ʻalu ki ai ʻi ha ʻaho ʻe taha ʻo hoʻo moʻuí.
Ko ha ʻapiako ʻoku ʻikai ke toe ʻi ai ha mahaki pe ngaahi ʻaho mālōlō.

Ko ha akoʻanga naʻe fokotuʻu ʻe he ʻOtua Māfimafí:
1.ʻI he fakavaʻe ʻo e ʻofá,
2.Ko e ngaahi holisi naʻe faʻu ʻaki ʻa e falala,
3.Naʻe tali ʻa e matapaá,
4.Naʻe fakatupu ʻe he ngaahi matapā sioʻatá ʻa e mahin.
5.Ko e nāunau fale naʻe ngaohi ʻaki e ngaahi tāpuakí.
6.Ko e ʻato naʻe ngaohi ʻaki ʻa e tuí.

Kimuʻa pea ngalo ʻiate koé, ʻoku ʻikai ko ha tokotaha ako pē koe ia ka ʻoku ʻikai ko e puleakó. Ko e Fungani Mafimafi ʻa e puleako.
Naʻa mo e ngaahi taimi ʻo e faingataʻá, ʻoua ʻe taʻefakapotopoto pea lele ki tuʻa.
Manatuʻi ko e ʻapiako ni ko e feituʻu malu taha ia ke ʻi ai.

ʻOua naʻá ke teitei mohe kimuʻa pea toki fakakakato hoʻo ngaahi ngāue ki he ʻahó.
ʻOua naʻa teitei ngalo ʻa e C-Word, fetuʻutaki, fetuʻutaki, fetuʻutaki mo ho kaungā akó pea mo e Puleakó.

Kapau te ke maʻu ha meʻa ʻi ho kaungaako (malí) ʻoku ʻikai hounga kiate koe, manatuʻi ko ho kaungāakó ko ha tokotaha ako pē ʻoku ʻikai ʻosi mei he akó. ʻOku teʻeki ai ke ʻosi ʻa e ʻOtua Māfimafí fakataha mo ia/ʻoku teʻeki ai ke ʻosi, ko ia, ʻai ke hoko ia ko ha meʻa faingataʻa pea ngaueʻi fakataha ia.

ʻOua naʻa ngalo ke ako, ako, ako ʻa e Tohi Fakaʻeiʻeikí (ko e tefitoʻi tohi hisitolia ʻi he ʻapiako ni).
Kamata ʻi he ʻaho takitaha ʻaki ha fakatahaʻanga toputapu pea fakaʻosi ia ʻi he founga tatau.
Te ke ongoʻi he taimi ʻe niʻihi ʻoku ʻikai te ke ʻalu ki he kalasí, ka kuo pau ke ke.
ʻI he taimi ʻoku ʻahiʻahiʻi ai ke tuku hoʻo maʻu ʻa e loto-toʻá pea hokohoko atu.
Mahalo ʻe faingataʻa ha ngaahi sivi mo ha ngaahi sivi ʻe niʻihi ka ke manatuʻi ʻoku ʻiloʻi ʻe he puleako ʻa e lahi ʻo e meʻa te ke lava ʻo katakiʻi.

Kei, ko e taha ia ʻo e ngaahi akoʻanga lelei taha ʻi he māmaní; fiefia, ʻoku ʻalu fakataha ʻa e melinó mo e fiefiá mo e lēsoni takitaha ʻo e ʻahó.
Ngaahi kaveinga kehekehe ʻoku ʻoatu ʻi he ʻapiako ko ʻení, ka ko e ʻofá ʻa e tefitoʻi kaveingá.
Hili e ngaahi taʻu kotoa ʻo e fakakaukau ki ai, ʻoku ke maʻu he taimi ni ha faingamalie ke akoako ai.
Ko ha meʻa lelei ke ʻofaʻi, ka ko e ʻofá ʻa e faingamālie maʻongoʻonga taha kiate kinautolú kotoa.

Ko e malí ko ha feituʻu ia ʻo e ʻofa, ʻofa pehē ʻi ho malí kae manatuʻi: “ʻOku ʻikai fakakau ʻe he kalasi ko ʻeni ha taha ʻoku ʻikai ngofua ke kau ki ai”! Kapau te ke fakaafeʻi hoʻo faʻeé pe tamaí pe kaungāmeʻá ki he kalasi ko ʻení, pe ha taha pē ʻoku ʻikai ngofua ke ʻi ai, ʻe ʻikai te ke lava ʻo sivi.
Ko kimoutolu ʻoku totonu ke kau maí pea ko kimoutolu te mou fakalaka atú.

......Ko e Feituʻu ʻOku Fakahaohaoa Ai ʻa e AkoAko

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