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Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 1
Khetha imasjid ebhekelela izingane. Ama-masjid amaningi anikeza izinkonzo zokunakekela izingane kwabakhulekeli, okwenza kube lula ngabazali ukuba bajabulele ukudla futhi banake ngokuphelele phakathi nezikhathi ezinde zomthandazo weTaraweeh. Kunjalo, akuwona wonke amamasji analobu bukhazikhazi. Noma kunjalo, ezinye ngokuqinisekile zilungele izingane kunabanye. Bheka imasjid wena nengane yakho nobabili enizizwa ninethezeke kuyo.
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 2
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi izile ukudla ngesikhathi seRamadan. Abangcwele ababendulela uMprofethi (SAW) bakhuthaza izingane zabo ukuthi zizile ukudla. Kunokwehluka kwemibono mayelana nokuthi izingane kufanele zikhuthazwe ukuthi zizile neminyaka emingaki. Noma kunjalo, usengenza imizamo emnene yokwenza ingane yakho iyeke ukudla ngokuyiphazamisa ngamathoyizi, njengoba kwenza ababengaphambi kwethu abangcwele. Ungakwazi ngisho nokunikeza umklomelo okhethekile uma ezila usuku lonke noma ingxenye enkulu yosuku. Sebenzisa ukuncenga ngothando, kodwa ungaphoqi ukudla kuye. Ukuzila ukudla kungasiza kanjani ukulawula ingane yakho ngesikhathi uvakashele masjid? Cabanga ngakho . . . uzizwa unjani ngemva kokuzila usuku lonke bese ekugcineni uhlezi ukuze ujabulele ukudla okungenamsoco? Ushukela wakho wegazi uyehla futhi usulungele ukozela ukuze ulale. Izingane zakho azihlukile. Ukulala ingane yakho ngesikhathi somthandazo weTaraweeh kungaba impumuzo oyidingayo ukuze ugxile emithandazweni yakho futhi ugweme ukuyilungisa ukuze ithule noma ithule..
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 3
Thanda ingane yakho ukuthi imele umthandazo weTaraweeh kanye nawe. Akuvamile ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka eyisishiyagalombili ziwumele wonke umthandazo weTaraweeh! Ungaphoqi enganeni yakho, nokho. Zonke izingane zihlukile. Mnikeze okuthile okukhethekile uma emi nawe phakathi nesikhathi esiningi somthandazo. Uzomthola ezama ngakho konke okusemandleni akhe ukuthi ahlale ezinyaweni zakhe, ukulwa nesifiso sokuzamazama emuva naphambili bese unqekuzisa ikhanda.
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 4
Khuluma nengane yakho ngaphambi kokuphuma ekhaya. Mchazele ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi kungaba nzima kangakanani ukuhlala unganyakazi isikhathi eside kangaka. Chaza ngokuqondile ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lokuziphatha olulindele kuye, ngaphakathi kwesizathu. Mtshele ukuthi ufuna ahlale phansi ngenkathi uthandaza. Kwazise uma efisa ukukhuluma, kufanele asebenzise ithoni ethule. Uma ehlezi ngokuthula kuwo wonke umthandazo, uzomnika isipho esivela "kwisikhwama sakho se-Ramadan" lapho usendleleni eya ekhaya. Isipho sakho akufanele sibize. Kungaba ngisho nophudingi olukhethekile olufana nekhoni lika-ayisikhilimu noma idonadi lapho usendleleni ebuya e-masjid.. Noma, ngisho nobumnandi obukhethekile obupheka ekhaya.
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 5
Phatha “isikhwama somsebenzi we-Taraweeh” esinezinhlobonhlobo zamathoyizi njengezincwadi zokufaka imibala namakhrayoni, ipensela nephepha, puzzle, izincwadi zokunamathisela, amathoyizi aphethwe ngesandla nanoma yimaphi amanye amathoyizi ajabulisayo (ngaphandle kwezithombe)ucabanga ukuthi uzogcina izandla zengane yakho zimatasa nengqondo ngenkathi uthandaza. Kungani ungavakashele isitolo samadola sendawo futhi wenze ingane yakho ikhethe amathoyizi angase ajabulele ukudlala ngawo. Ngemva kokufika ekhaya, faka yonke into ephaketheni elingemuva ukuze ingane yakho ihambe nayo uma iya emasjid.
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 6
Letha isikhwama sokudla okulula. Iyiphi indlela engcono yokugcina umlomo wengane yakho uvaliwe nezandla zimatasa kunezikhwama ezigcwele ukudla okulula okumnandi. Uphatha ngezicucu ezincane njengezikhwama zamantongomane, ama-popcorn noma ama-snacks ezithelo alungile. Benza kube okusebenzayo ukuthi ingane yakho ihlanganyele nabangane bayo futhi ayishiyi imvuthu ngemuva. Qiniseka ukuthi uyamkhumbuza ukuthi athathe noma yiziphi izikhwama noma ama-wrapers okungenzeka ukuthi uwasebenzisile.
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 7
Thatha ikhefu langaphandle. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuba ngaphakathi isikhathi eside kungaba yinto enzima enganeni yakho. Lapho ingane yakho iba ne-cranky futhi iphazamisa abanye, mnike ikhefu. Mvumele (kanye nawe) ukudonsa umoya ngaphandle bese uphefumula umoya omusha wasebusuku. Ngemva kokuthulisa ingane yakho nokuqoqa isinqumo sakho, buyela ngaphakathi uqhubeke nomkhuleko wakho.
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 8
Khumbula ukuthi wena ukuqeqeshwa ingane yakho. Ungalindeli isosha eliphelele. Uyohluleka ngezinye izikhathi ngeziyalezo zakho. Lokho kungalindelwa. Ingane yakho ayiyena umuntu omdala. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho . . . ngisho nabadala banokulinganiselwa ngesikhathi sabo sokunaka. Ingane yakho yileyo kanye—ingane.
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 9
Yehlisa okulindele ekutholeni umkhuleko ophelele weTaraweeh. Izikhathi azifani nangesikhathi ungabatholi abantwana. Ingane yakho nakanjani izothatha isikhathi kude nokuzinikela kwakho. Futhi lokho Kulungile. Manje usuphethe ingane onikezwe yona njenge trust. Umsebenzi wakho uwukumfundisa injongo yakhe ekuphileni—ukukhulekela iNkosi yakhe. Ngokubekezela kwakho, isiqondiso nesibonelo uzofunda isici esibalulekile Ramadan-ukuma eqini- sekile ebusuku futhi ekhuthazelela amandla okukhuleka eNkosini yaKhe.
Amathiphu Okusebenzisa Isikhathi Esikhiqizayo Nezingane Zakho 10
Kwezinye izingane indawo ehlelekile ye-masjid isikhathi eside kangaka nayo, ngenkani. Ezimweni ezinjalo kuyakhuthaza ukwazi lokho kodade, ukukhuleka ekhaya kuzuza imivuzo eminingi kunokukhuleka emasjid . . . khuluma ngokukhululeka. Ngakho-ke usengathola imivuzo emikhulu evela eNkosini yakho khona kanye emzini wakho ngenkathi uthandaza i-Taraweeh. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo vumela ingane yakho ukuthi ithole izibusiso eziningi zale nyanga engcwele yeRamadan.
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