Yabelana Lokhu
Umbhali: Charity Rohail
Wake wathula isikhashana ukuze ucabange ukuthi kungani abambalwa kuphela kubantu abaningi abanobudlelwane obumangalisayo? Ungase uwuthande umbono wokucabanga ukuthi "baba nenhlanhla". Kodwa ake ngikukhiphele lelo bhamuza futhi ngikuvumele ukuthi uvume ukuthi ukusebenza kahle emshadweni kudinga umsebenzi othile ukuze ube nomshado omangalisayo.. Kodwa, ngeshwa, kaningi asinawo umqondo wokuthi sisebenzeleni.
Izithandani ezihlala ndawonye zihlukana ngezinga loku 60-70% inombolo enkulu ongazindla ngayo. Futhi hhayi kuphela ngephesenti kodwa ngezizathu zokuthi kungani.
Yiba Nelukuluku, Akubalulekile
Kukusiza ukuthi udlule etsheni lokuvinjwa lokukhungatheka lokungabi nalwazi noma ukuntula ucezu lolwazi olubalulekile. Ngakho-ke tshala isikhathi sakho ukuze uqonde umehluko wemimoya esikhundleni sokugxeka ngokusobala kuyo.
Qaphela, Hhayi Ukuchoboza
Imayelana nempumelelo yokuxazulula izingxabano kanye nendlela ebalulekile yokuzuza isimo esinesizotha sokuxazulula izinkinga. Kungase kukubuyisele emuva ezikhathini lapho wenza khona ukuthi “ugxile kimina” kunokuthi “ugxile kithina”. Ukucabangela ukucophelela kukwenza ukwazi ukufunda ukusebenzisana, phikisana ndawonye, nezinye izinto ezidinga ukuhlangana.
Buza, Ungacabangi
Ukugwema ukungathembani nokungahloniphi – lokho kuvame ukungena ebuhlotsheni – akufanele uthuthukise isimo engqondweni yakho ngokwesinqumo sakho kodwa kufanele usibone njengoba sinjalo ngokubuza ngaso kumlingani wakho.
Xhuma, ngaphambi kokuthi ulungise
Ukukhulumisana kuyisihluthulelo sayo yonke imishado ephumelelayo eMhlabeni – sisantula ulwazi mayelana namanye amaplanethi – okungenza ukuphila kokubili kube isihogo esiphilayo noma izulu. Udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungasigodla kanjani leso sidingo esinganeliseki sokunikeza lokho okuthiwa impendulo eyakhayo edala ukungahloniphi njengomphumela wokugcina.. Abantu baya lapho bezizwa bemukelekile kodwa bahlala lapho bezizwa bebalulekile. Ngakho, ukuze uqhubeke uqonde ingqikithi.
Uzwa izinhlekelele ezibuhlungu njalo nje. Kodwa ongakuboni wukuntula ukuzimisela “ukusebenza”. Kungase kube namazinga ahlukahlukene wamaqiniso ngaphansi kodwa okudingekayo nje isiqalo esihle esisodwa kanye nesifiso sokunamathela kulobo buhle kulo lonke..
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