Konke Odinga Ukukwazi Ngokuba No-‘Wali’ Emshadweni

I-Wali yigama lesi-Arabhu elinezincazelo ezimbili eziyinhloko, oyedwa “umqaphi” kanti owesibili “ungcwele wama-Islam”. Umnakekeli nokho ubizwa njengomuntu obhekele izinto ezehlukene ezithinta owesifazane ohlobene naye ngokwegazi. Enye yezinto eziningi umshado wakhe.

Owesifazane kumele abe ne-wali emshadweni wakhe ngokwe-Islam. Kodwa ezinye izimo kufanele zibe khona kumuntu okubhekiselwa kuye ngokuthi i-wali (umnakekeli) kowesifazane.

1. I-wali kumele ibe yindoda. Owesifazane akakwazi ukuganisa omunye wesifazane.
2. Kumele abe ‘nguMukallaf’ okusho ukuthi kumele ngabe usefinyelele iminyaka yokuthomba.
3. I-wali kumele ibe ‘Aakil’ okusho ukuthi kumele ihlakaniphe.
4. Akakwazi ukuba yisilonda (ngaphansi kwegunya lothile) kanye wali ngesikhathi esifanayo
5. Kufanele abe ngowenkolo efanayo (inkolo).
6. U-wali akakwazi ukunikeza indodakazi yakhe esimweni sika-'Ahram'
7. Kumele abe nesimilo esihle okusho ukuthi akumele abe nomhobholo ngenkathi eshada futhi akumele abe nenhliziyo embi ngawo.. Uma enza kanjalo, akasafaneleki ukuba yi-wali.

Ingabe owesifazane ongumSulumane angaba nobaba ongeyena umSulumane njengo-wali wakhe?

Umqaphi ongeyena umSulumane akafaneleki ukuba yi-wali yowesifazane ongumSulumane. Iphuzu lokuba i-wali wukuba ngumenzi wezinqumo ngendlela efanele kowesifazane. Kumelwe kuhilele umbono olinganiselayo ngenkolo. Ngokwesibonelo, uma umuntu ongeyena umSulumane eshada nowesifazane oyiSulumane kodwa uyise engeyena umSulumane, umshado awusebenzi nje kuphela ngenxa yenkolo ehlukene yabo bobabili abazobhapathizwa kodwa nenkolo ehlukene yama-wali ngaphandle kokuthi wawungaziwa ngesikhathi somshado..

Ingabe u-Wali ungumqaphi ohlobene negazi?

I-wali ingaba uyise kamakoti, uyisemkhulu, umfowethu, umalume kababa, noma umzala ohlangothini lukababa. Umngane noma omunye umuntu akakwazi ukuba yi-wali yowesifazane ukuthi anikeze isandla sakhe emshadweni.
Ngokufanayo, uma engasenayise noma umfowabo ophilayo futhi akekho umalume wakhe oseceleni kukayise ozimisele ukuba umlindi wakhe., angase athathe i-imam yomphakathi njengo-wali wakhe.

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