Isingeniso:

Ubudlelwano bungabangela amaphutha amaningi. Ngaphandle kwamaphutha, ubudlelwano abukwazi ukuphumelela. Eminye imibhangqwana ibhekana nakho ngesibindi, lungisa, but few do not control their rage and end up in disaster.

It does not mean that couples should be happy with no fights 24*7. Love and trust are basic for a healthy relationship.

Without love, couples might just lead a robotic life and without trust, couples might be very ‘jealous’ and ‘possessive’.

Trust and love are like a flower. Excessive usage of water will deteriorate off the richness of the soil, and no water will ruin the flower too.

So too much of fights will end up either by ruining, deteriorating your relationship. Ngaphezu kwalokho, it will deteriorate off the love and little affection.

Why is my relationship suspicious?

Today most of the couples do not spend time with each other. They do not express their love or be romantic to their partners.

The first reason is work. Namuhla imibhangqwana ifuna ukuba nokuphila okumangalisayo ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Bafuna noma yini nakho konke abakufunayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bazizwa bengavuleki ukucela imali kumlingani wabo ngakunye konke.

Uma bobabili abalingani besebenza. Kuhle. Ngoba umlingani akafuni ukukhala kumlingani wakhe ngemali.

Kepha uma bobabili umyeni nenkosikazi besebenza. Kunemiphumela eminingi okufanele babhekane nayo. Kungaba ngamashifu abo, isikhathi.

Wonke umlingani ubiza umntwana ngamunye, sithandwa, uju, isithandwa, njll. Kepha bayababiza ngenhliziyo yonke noma bahlangane nalo ngokusebenzisa le migomo?

Ngokolunye uhlangothi, bachitha isikhathi esiningi kwimidiya yokuxhumana nomphakathi noma ezedlule. Indoda ingahle ihlale ekhaya futhi idlale imidlalo, Ngenkathi umfazi uzoshesha ukuyothenga noma ephetheni nabangane bakhe.

Uma imibhangqwana ingachithi isikhathi, Bazobonana kanjani?

Ngakho-ke nansi amabhomu amabili enuzi abhubhisa ubuhlobo.

Unomona nokubukeka- 2 amabhomu enuzi ebudlelwaneni.

Unomona nokuba nentukuzane ngamabhomu amancane enuzi alimaza ubuhlobo. Okwamanje, kubangela imithwalo yempindiselo.

Uma umfana ehlakaniphile kunentombazane evele ibekezeleleke. Angazizwa enamandla kakhulu, Uzobona yonke intshi yomyeni wakhe ahamba. Uma umyeni evuka sekwephuzile ekhaya, Angase abe nomuzwa wokuthi umyeni wakhe unenye ubuhlobo.

Ngokufanayo, Uma intombazane ikhanga kakhulu ngezici ezinhle kakhulu, Indoda ingazizwa inomona. Kungenzeka angavumeli ukuba athandeke kwabanye abantu. Empeleni, Ngeke agxile ekushayeleni, Kepha kuye.

Uma zombili zichitha isikhathi esithe xaxa ocingweni lapho ngephutha ziguqula ukushukuma komzimba kwawo. Kodwa uzozizwa esola. Akuvamile, Uma umlingani esebenzisa ifoni, the other partner will sleep, stand or sit in a way where he/she can see the phone.

Ngenxa yalokhu, few couples might feel why is he/she loiters. If they catch you when you are checking your partner phone in his/her absence. He/she might blast.

Ngenxa yalokho, the biggest flaw in the relationship suspicion emerges.

Suspicious on your partner:

A couple might fight as much as they can. Either with finance or mental stress, njll. But do not let suspicion enter your relationship.

Ngoba, if there is so much suspicion in a relationship. Though how much ever he/she does to make them happy. They will be still suspicious.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, he/she might undergo depression or frustrated.

How to tackle:

Okokuqala, spend time with each other. Be as close as you can.
Do not trust anyone until or unless you have seen with your naked eyes.
Do not talk or chat in the other room where your spouse is absent.
Spend little time on the phone.
Avoid being jealous.
Show your love and concern.
Abandon your stress when you are alone.
Present a gift to anyone, anything in front of your partner.
Though you have planned to go out with your best friend who is the opposite gender, take your partner also with you.
Write your thoughts.
Take a deep breath and relax.
Talk to your partner and clarity.
Ekugcineni, consult a doctor.

Isimiso.

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