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‘Kodwa mhlawumbe uyayizonda into ethile futhi ikulungele; futhi mhlawumbe nithanda utho futhi kube kubi kuwe. Futhi uAllah Uyazi, ngenkathi ungazi. ' (2:216)

Wonke umuntu oyedwa esihlangana naye ezimpilweni zethu, ingahlukaniswa ngezigaba njengenye yezinto ezimbili, kungaba yisibusiso, noma isivivinyo. Walaba bantu, ezinye zizoba lula unomphela, futhi uvikele indawo ezimpilweni zethu, kanti abanye bazodlula, Kepha hhayi ngaphandle kokushiya ngemuva kwezinsalela zemizwa nezinkumbulo zihambile. Yilokho abantu abasifundisa ukusishiya, lokho kuzohlanganisa nathi.

Inhliziyo, Ukuba yinhlangano eyinkimbinkimbi futhi enamandla, akuhlali kuhambisana nalokho okulungile, noma okubonwa kwamukelekile. Ngezinye izikhathi, Kuhlale kwakha ukuhambisana nomuntu umane nje akufanele. Iqiniso, ukuthi lesi yisimo esinzima kakhulu ukubhekana naso futhi singadala usizi olubi ngokomzwelo, nesimo esibi kakhulu, ukunqanyulwa kwabahlanzekile.

Ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi abazali bakho bengakuvumeli inyunyana, noma ukuthi into enothando lwakho imane ingafinyeleleki, Kwesinye isikhathi uzithola ugcina imizwa yomuntu ongeke ube nayo, okubangela esinye sezilingo ezivelele kunazo zonke oyoke uzibone empilweni yakho ... isinqumo sokuyeka.

Ungabuza ukuthi kungani uthambekele kumuntu ongatholakali.

Ngeshwa, Inhliziyo ayize nencwajana, futhi akuzenzi nenkinobho yokusetha kabusha. Ngakho-ke uma uzithola uqondisa kulesi simo esinzima ngokomzwelo, Yazi ukuthi kunenhloso ephakeme kumbango wakho. Kufihlwe ngaphakathi kwalesi simo esingafuneki, yithuba lokuthi ubonise ukubaluleka kwakho kuMninimandla onke, Ngokunamathela ezindleleni ezingokwesiprofetho futhi uziphathe ngokuhambisana nemfundiso yamaSulumane. Ngeke uphendule ngemizwa yakho, Kepha nakanjani uphendule ngezenzo zakho nezinhloso zakho.

Ngaphezu kwakho konke kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kunokuhlakanipha ngokuphelele ngendlela u-Allah SWT asebenza ngayo, futhi engaziwa kithina nje ukufa kwabantu, amacebo akhe ngathi angeqi noma yini esingahle azihlelele yona. Yazi ukuthi lokho kungcono kwakho ukuthi uyahlolwa. Phela, Kuvivinyo, wokubekezela kwakho, we-server yakho nokuzibophezela kwakho ekunikezeni indlela yokuphila yamaSulumane.

Ungesabi, okwe "Awusoze wanikela ngento ngenxa ka-Allah (swt), Kepha ukuthi u-Allah uzokubuyisela esikhundleni sakho ngokuthile okungcono kuwe kunalokho. " (U-Ahmad). Thola impumuzo esithembisweni, Ukunikela ngokudela okuthile ngenhloso yokujabulisa uAllah (swt) , Akasoze akushiye ungasebenzi. UNkulunkulu (swt) kuthatha kuphela ukuze unikeze, Ukukhipha izandla zakho ngezibusiso ezisazonikezwa.

Ngiyazi ukuthi yini ongacabanga ngayo, Uma okuthile kuzobuyiselwa ngefomu elilodwa noma kwenye, pho kungani kufanele kuthathwe nhlobo? Kahle impendulo yalokhu ilula. Kusezinhlelweni 'zokukhulula' ukuthi 'sinikezwe'. Kungenzeka ukuthi wawungakulungeli ukwamukela umthwalo wemfanelo wesinye sezibusiso ezinkulu, Noma mhlawumbe wawunesifundo sokufunda ngaphambi kokuthi wamukele ngokuphelele izibusiso ezinikwe nguAllah (swt) . U-Allah uyazi ngenkathi singenzi.

Ngakho, Angikwazi ukukutshela ukuthi ungamthandi umuntu, Futhi ukunganaki ubunzima benhliziyo yakho, Kepha ngingakutshela, ukuthi lo mhlaba uyisivivinyo sekholwa kanye nenkundla yokudlala yalowo ongakholwa. Yazi ukuthi uma unemizwa yomuntu ongafinyeleleki futhi ubona sengathi uhlolelwa ukuboshelwa ngamandla akho, Kungenxa yokuthi uNkulunkulu ukuthanda wena futhi ufuna ukuba ulwele i-akirah engcono ngokufakazela ukubaluleka kwakho. Kungabonakala kunzima ekuqaleni, Kepha noma ngubani oshiya noma yini ngenxa yokuthi uAllah akasoze azisole ngayo

Futhi uyakwazi lokho, Akunandaba noma usayizi weziphambeko zakho, Ukungakholelwa ukucabanga ukuthi izono zakho zinkulu kunomusa ka-Allah (swt). UShaytaan angazama futhi akuqinisekise ngenye indlela, Ukuthi ukude nokuthethelelwa, futhi kufanele iqhubeke endleleni yokuzithoba. Lokhu kumane bekungeke kuphinde kwenziwe ngeqiniso. Ukuphenduka kwangempela okuqotho kungenziwa nganoma yisiphi isikhathi futhi ungaphendukela ku-Allah nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.

UNkulunkulu (swt) uthi: "Thatha isinyathelo esisodwa kimi, I will take ten steps towards you. Walk towards me, I will run towards you.” Hadith Qudsi.

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