Isondlo Somshado

Kwesinye isikhathi ngizizwa ngikhungathekile ngenxa yezidingo zokuphila kwansuku zonke. Ukuqedela imisebenzi yasendlini, Ukunakekela indodana yami, Ukunakekela abazali bami emthethweni, abafowethu emthethweni nomyeni wami - konke kukhulu kakhulu. Ngakho, Uyithola kanjani lelo bhalansi? Uzifeza kanjani izidingo zezingane zakho ngaphandle kokunganaki izidingo zomyeni wakho? Ngabe ugcina kanjani wonke umuntu ejabule?

I-Islam yenze umfazi abe ngumthombo wokuthula, Kalula nenduduzo yendoda yakhe.

“Futhi phakathi kwezibonakaliso zaKhe yilokhu, ukuthi Wanidalela omakoti phakathi kwenu, ukuze uhlale nabo ngokuthula, futhi Ubeke uthando nomusa phakathi kwenu [Ukusa Kwasekuseni Nibusisiwe]... " (Quran 30:21)

Kwesinye isikhathi ngizizwa ngikhungathekile ngenxa yezidingo zokuphila kwansuku zonke. Ukuqedela imisebenzi yasendlini, Ukunakekela indodana yami, Ukunakekela abazali bami emthethweni, abafowethu emthethweni nomyeni wami - konke kukhulu kakhulu. Ngakho, Uyithola kanjani lelo bhalansi? Uzifeza kanjani izidingo zezingane zakho ngaphandle kokunganaki izidingo zomyeni wakho? Ngabe ugcina kanjani wonke umuntu ejabule?

Ukwakheka

Ungahle ube nesigidi futhi izinto esisodwa okufanele usenze nsuku zonke. Umthwalo wakho womsebenzi ubonakala ukhula futhi mkhulu futhi akekho umuntu ongakusiza. Ukumamatheka, yenza du'a futhi uqhubeke nakho. Indlela engcono yokwenza konke kwenziwe ukuhlela usuku lwakho ngemikhuleko emihlanu. Kungcono ukuqala usuku lwakho e-Fajr bese uqedela imisebenzi yakho kahle nge-DHUHR. Awukho umyeni uthanda ikhaya elingcolile nesiqalo esingenalutho.

Umporofethi oNgcwele uMuhammad (ukuthula nezibusiso makube kuye) kusho: ‘Ngamunye kini ungumalusi, futhi ngamunye kini unesibopho salabo abasekunakekeke kwakhe. Umbusi ungumalusi; Indoda ngumalusi womndeni wakhe; Owesifazane ungumalusi wendlu yendoda yakhe nezingane zakhe. Ngoba yilowo nalowo kini ungumalusi futhi ngamunye kini unesibopho salabo abangaphansi kwakhe. '

Yiba nethemba

Cabanga ukufika ekhaya, phela kanzima, Ukuthola umkakho esimweni esibi. Uthole ukufunwa ebusweni bakhe, futhi kubukeka sengathi kuyathuthumela ngentukuthelo. Ngokushesha, Ukuhlala emsebenzini kubonakala kukhangeka kakhulu kunokufika ekhaya kuye emkhathini omubi.

Bingelela umyeni wakho ngokumamatheka, futhi bathambekele kuye ngothando. Kulula ukunganakwa ngokuzikhandla kwabayeni bethu abakwenzayo. Umsebenzi wabo ubonakala uyinto yokugcina ezingqondweni zethu ngoba sigxile kakhulu nezinye izinto. Naphezu kosuku lwakho kungenzeka ukuthi lubi khona, Unkosikazi omuhle uzohlala enesimo esihle. Umporofethi oNgcwele uMuhammad (ukuthula nezibusiso makube kuye) kusho: `Umuntu wamaSulumane angathola inzuzo ngemuva kwe-Islam enkulu kunomfazi wamaSulumane omjabulisayo lapho embuka, uyamlalela lapho emyala, futhi imvikele lapho esekude naye empahleni yakhe.

Isikhathi sindawonye

'Njengoba ingane izalwe, Awukaze ukhulume nami. Kufana nokuthi angikho '.

Omama abasha abasha banecala kwalokhu. Lapho unengane yakho yokuqala, Ujabule kakhulu futhi unovalo futhi umatasatasa, ukuthi ukhohlwe ukuthi unendoda. Ukuba ngumama kuvame ukuthatha ngaphezu kobunye ubuhlobo, Futhi lokho kungaba yingozi emshadweni wakho. Qiniseka ukuthi unika umyeni wakho uthando nothando futhi.

Hamba ngezinyawo noma ufunde incwadi ndawonye. Yenza isikhathi osichitha sodwa nomyeni wakho okhethekile. Indoda yakho ifanelwe ukunakwa nakho.

Umporofethi oNgcwele uMuhammad (ukuthula nezibusiso makube kuye) kusho: 'Noma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane, ofayo, umyeni wakhe ujabule naye, uzongena ePharadesi. '

Ekugcineni ...

Iba nesineke.

"Futhi Prakthiza SABR, Impela u-Allaah akavumeli umvuzo we-muhsineen alahlekelwe. " (I-Qur'an 11:115)

Kubalulekile ukwenza i-SAbr njengoba u-Allaah uzovuza abantu ababekezele ngePharadesi:"Ukuthula makube phezu kwakho nge-sabr. Kuhle impela ikhaya lokugcina. " (I-Qur'an 13:24)

Hlela usuku lwakho, Yiba nethemba, Chitha isikhathi nomyeni wakho futhi ubekezele. Uzophumelela insaa'allaah.

Umshado Omsulwa

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