Imicabango Yami Ngokuba Umama...

Lapho ngiseyintombazanyana, enye yezinto engangizibhala ohlwini lwami “lwezinto engifuna ukuzenza ngaphambi kokuba ngife” kwakuwukuba ngumama womuntu. Khona-ke iminyaka yami yobusha (kanye ne-Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (I-PCOS)) kwavela kimi, futhi umqondo kancane kancane waba ukubhala ephepheni. Ngaphambi nje kokuba ngishade, ukuvakashela udokotela kwaqinisekisa ukwesaba kwami ​​okukhulu: “amathuba akho okukhulelwa mancane kakhulu”. Ngikhumbula ngikhala ngize ngilale ngalobo busuku kodwa ngemva kokucabanga okuningi ngabona ukuthi ukuthi ngizoba nezingane noma cha kwakusezandleni zoMdali uSomandla kuphela..

Isonto ngalinye phakathi nokukhulelwa kwami, Ngokwenkolo bengihlela ukukhula kwengane yami engakazalwa futhi lo mbuzo uyangihlaba: ingqondo yomuntu ingakwazi ngisho nokubona izimangaliso nobukhulu bendalo kaAllah? Ngicabanga ukuthi kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi, lokho akudalayo esibelethweni kufihlakele emehlweni abantu ngoba ngabe siyahlanya ukube besikwazi ukubona ukuthi umntwana ukhula kanjani.. Okunye okungimangazayo ukuthi iKur’aan ichaza, Ngaphezu kwe 1400 iminyaka edlule, ngokuningiliziwe indlela ukuphila komuntu okwakheka nokulolongwa ngayo ngaphakathi esibelethweni sikamama:

“…Sikudalile (i.e. kwafika abakhongi kwenye indlu bacela ukudla) othulini, bese kusuka eNutfah (amaconsi axubile okuphuma kocansi kwabesilisa nabesifazane i.e. inzalo ka-Adamu), bese kusuka ehlule (ucezu lwegazi elijiyile elijiyile) bese kuvela esigaxeni esincane senyama, ezinye zakhiwe kanti ezinye azikashintshi (ukuphuphuma kwesisu), ukuze Sikwenze (yona) kucace kuwe (i.e. ukuze sikubonise Amandla Ethu kanye Namandla Okwenza Esikuthandayo). Futhi Simenza ahlale esizalweni isikhathi esimisiwe, bese Sinikhipha niyizinsana, bese (ikunike ukukhula) ukuze ufinyelele eminyakeni yakho yamandla aphelele…” [Surat al-Hajj, ivesi 5]

Manje amazwi kamama ankeneneza ekhanda lami: "Awusoze wakwazisa ngokugcwele umama wakho uze ube munye". Ngakho-ke nakhu ngimi manje - esicongweni sokuba ngumama, imizwa yenjabulo engachazeki, ukukhathazeka kanye nenqwaba yeminye imizwa kuyangifikela. Ngiyaphupha noma ngempela ngithwele ingane yomuntu ngaphakathi kimi? Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ngizwa ukukhahlelwa kanye nama-jabs okuvela kumuntu wami omncane, Ngifikelwa wumzwelo obuhlungu kangangokuthi ngivame ukukhala. Isimangaliso mntanami! Kunjengokungathi konke engikwenzayo noma engikushoyo, nayo yonke imicabango enginayo, zungeza ingane yami. Ayikho neyodwa iDuaa eyenziwayo, ukuthi angimncengi uAllah (I-SWT) ukunginika impilo, ingane evamile Insha'Allah. Ngisho nohambo oluvamile lokuya endlini yokugezela, ukulala okuphazamisekile kanye nokungakhululeki konke kuwufanele!

Uthando olumangalisayo enginalo kakade ngengane yami engakazalwa ludlula kude lokho amazwi ami angaqala ukukuchaza. Ngibonga u-Allah nsuku zonke ngalesi sibusiso esincane esikhula ngaphakathi kimi, futhi ngiqinisekile ukuthi okuvelele empilweni yami kuzoba ngokokuqala ngqa ngiphethe ingane yami ezingalweni zami. Lesi sidalwa esincane sizoncika kimi kuzo zonke izidingo zayo eziyisisekelo, futhi kunzima njengoba lokho kubonakala, Ngibheke phambili ekubeni umnakekeli oyinhloko wenkokhelo yami eyigugu. Angikahlangani nengane yami okwamanje kodwa nginesiqiniseko sokuthi yilokhu okushiwo uthando olungenamibandela.

Ngiyazi ukuthi uma ingane yami ingena emhlabeni wami, impilo yami njengoba ngiyazi ngeke iphinde ifane. Ngizoba ngumama futhi ngokubona kwami, lokhu ukuhlonishwa okukhulu nesihloko esikhulu kunazo zonke engake ngisiphathe.

Umshado Omsulwa

….Lapho Ukuzijwayeza Kwenza Kuphelele

Isihloko esivela-Aila- The Muslim Family Magazine – elethwe kuwe yi-Pure Matrimony- www.purematrimony.com - Inkonzo Yomshado Enkulu Kunayo Yonke Emhlabeni Yokwenza AmaSulumane.

Thanda lesi sihloko? Funda kabanzi ngokubhalisela izibuyekezo zethu lapha:http://purematrimony.com/blog

Noma bhalisa nathi ukuze uthole ingxenye yedeen yakho Insha’Allah ngokuya ku:www.PureMatrimony.com