Kungani Ufuna Ukushada?

Wonke umuntu ufuna ukushada… kodwa kungani?

Cabanga ngempela ngalokho okwesikhashana. Uma ufuna ukushada, zibuze ukuthi uyifunelani ngempela…

Ingabe kungenxa:

1. Yisinyathelo esilandelayo esinengqondo empilweni yakho
2. Abazali bakho bayakufuna
3. Usukulungele ukwamukela isibopho
4. Ufuna ukugwema haram
5. Konke okungenhla
6. Angazi

Indlela yakho emshadweni nokuthi umshado wakho uzophumelela kangakanani kuzoncika kakhulu empendulweni yakho yombuzo obalulekile othi KUNGANI ufuna ukushada..

Uma ushada

• ngoba usufeze izinto eziningi empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu futhi manje ufuna ukwengeza umshado ohlwini lwakho, ngeke utshalwe ngokomzwelo ekwakheni umshado oqinile.
• KUbazali bakho noma ngoba bekucindezela, khona-ke ungase futhi ulahle kakade ngoba ushada ngokuphelele ngezizathu ezingalungile.
• Ukuze ugweme haram, kumele uqonde ukubaluleka kokugcwalisa amalungelo omlingani wakho ngendlela efanayo abezofeza ngayo awakho.

Kodwa uma ubheka ukushada ngoba usukulungele ukwamukela umthwalo wemfanelo wokugcwalisa ingxenye ye-deen yakho, khona-ke maningi amathuba okuthi wenze isinqumo esifanele lapho ukhetha umngane womshado.

Khumbula ukuthi ukuba umngane womshado omuhle kudinga ukuba ube nesibopho esigcwele ngendima yakho emshadweni – futhi lokhu kusho ukwazi ngenkuthalo ukusiza nokusekela oshade naye ngokomoya, ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo nangokwezimali (uma ungumzalwane).

Akuwona umsebenzi womunye umuntu ukwenza lokho – ingeyakho! Ngakho-ke uma usukulungele ukukhuphukela enseleleni futhi wamukele ngenhliziyo yonke imithwalo yemfanelo yokuba umngane womshado, bese siyakuhalalisela – usukulungele ukushada!

Umm Jamal

Umshado Omsulwa – Ukusiza AmaSulumane Azijwayeza Ukuhlangana Futhi Ahlale Ndawonye!