Imuphi umbuzo osheshayo ngemva komshado?

Ngemva komshado, wonke umbhangqwana ubhekana nalesi simo. Imibuzo yokuqala ithi “any happy news”. Actually it’s very much phoney to get involved in someone personal life. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, who are we to ask such questions to them. Ngamanye amazwi, we did not ask those couples to get married. Neither we have rights to fix what they want to do. We are not planners for them. The best of planners is God.

Generation is rapidly changing. So we should allow couples to have their own planning. All my siblings and cousins got married and I am very much younger to them. But elders don’t have commonsense what to ask. Although I was in my teenage still these people would ask me about my sibling. I felt very much abashed in that situation

Common fellas, don’t be so backwards and interested in others life. My friend was in her uncles funeral but one of her cousins has asked her “ your sister was married a couple of years ago” so when is he gonna conceive. A place where she was mourning for her uncle’s death and look at the lighting question.

If a woman does not conceive then people will start their gossip. What’s wrong with them? She is very stubborn, she is educated, she looks masculine, she is weak, belongs to high class, moreover we showed courtesy towards her. Though she belonged to low class, with little dowry look at her attitude. The typical conversations of relations.

Empeleni, parents are again blamed for the misfortune. The bitch parents cheated us, they wanted their daughter to get married and my poor son he looks pale and shattered. Ngezinye izikhathi, they don’t allow to get their daughters-in-law to involve in any happy moments especially during marriage and baby shower.

Infertility

Today more than 70 % of woman face these consequences and go to an artificial method. Ngaphezu kwalokho, it’s very damn expensive. Ngaphandle kwalokho, all do not end up in success. Ngaphezu kwalokho, orthodox will not encourage these methods. It’s not women who should be blamed every time.

According to science, infertility is not because of women every time. Even male have this problem. Madoda who don’t have sperm in their semen have a condition called azoospermia. It happens to about 1% of all amadoda futhi 15% of infertile amadoda. There aren’t really any symptoms that you’d notice, but if you’ve been trying to get your partner pregnant without success, this condition could be the cause.

Various health conditions can cause retrograde ejaculation, including diabetes, spinal injuries, medications, and surgery of the bladder, prostate or urethra. -Nye amadoda with spinal cord injuries or certain diseases can’t ejaculate semen, even though they still produce sperm.

One-third of infertility cases are caused by male reproductive issues, one-third by female reproductive issues, and one-third by both male and female reproductive issues or by unknown factors. So stop blaming women every time. Ekuphetheni, don’t beat, abuse, and divorce women.

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