Kumama Ozizwa Engathi Uyisehluleki

YOU’RE not.

I know you’ve heard it before. You’ve read the articles, blog posts, tweets, and Facebook statuses…You know you’re not supposed to compare yourself to other moms.

You know you are supposed to cut out the negative self-talk.

But today…it just got to be too much.

Namuhla, you heard that voice in the back of your head that said, “I’m a failure.”

Maybe you went to a friend’s house and saw that it was spotless ma sha Allah.

Or maybe you saw your other friend really making an impact in others’ lives and wondered what stops you from doing big things.

Or maybe you just looked around your home and couldn’t find a space to sit and think.

Futhi konke kwavele kwanzima...

Amabala kagrisi odongeni lwasekhishini. Inkomishi engcolile ngaphansi kwetafula. Amathoyizi, izinsalela zamaphepha, namasokisi anesizungu ngaphandle komentshisi.

Kade ngikhona.

Ngiyazi kwesinye isikhathi uyakwazi ukuzikhulumela ngaphandle kokuxega. Ngezinye izinsuku uzinika umusa. Uzikhumbuza ukuthi naye lowo mngane unekhaya elingcolile ngezinye izikhathi. Ukuthi omunye umngane owenza “izinto ezinkulu” usendaweni ehlukile empilweni yakhe njengamanje kunawe. Futhi ukuthi ikhishi elingcolile akuyona into enkulu kangako; ungayinakekela kusasa.

Kodwa namuhla…kubuhlungu kakhulu kunokujwayelekile.

Namuhla, udinga ukukholisa kancane.

Namuhla, udinga umuntu ozokukhumbuza ukuthi kulungile ungenayo i-live in maid njengaloya sisi, noma umyeni noma umama ukuthi abuke izingane zakho njengaloya omunye dade…Futhi awufanele. Akumele uphile ngokuvumelana neqiniso labo. Uphila impilo YAKHO futhi Awulona Isehluleki.

Awuzona izindonga zakho ezinamafutha, izinkomishi zakho ezilahlekile noma ilondolo yakho elahlekile.

Awuzona izinsuku "ze-dinner-gone-wrong-let-order-kabsa"..

Awuchazwa izikhathi zakho eziphansi.

Ungalisusa uthuli ibhulukwe lakho bese uvuka futhi.

Ungakwenza lokhu.

Ngiyazi ungakwazi. Futhi uAllah Uyazi ukuthi ungakwazi.

Udinga nje ukwazi ukuthi ungakwazi.

Ngifuna uzenzele okuthile.

Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi uma bengikutshela ukuthi ubhale phansi zonke izinto ongazange uzenze/ongenazo/okumele uzenze ukuze ufane nodade othi-thile, ukuthi ungagcwalisa ikhasi ngokushesha okukhulu.

Kodwa akusikho lokho engifuna ukwenze.

Ngifuna ubhale uhlu lwazo zonke izinto OWENZA. Zonke izinto uzenze izingane zakho. Ngaso sonke isikhathi wenze kahle.

Kungase kuthathe isikhashana, kodwa lokho kulungile. Awukho umkhawulo wesikhathi.

Bhala phansi ezinye bese ubuyela kukho uma kufanele.

Futhi khumbula -

Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye abangani bakho bomama.

Yeka ukuzikhulumela okubi.

Inshallah, ungazama futhi kusasa, Futhi

Awuwedwa.

Umshado Omsulwa

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