Wedding Da'wah Ideas

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Ibhalwe ngu-Aysha Sezer

Egameni likaAllah, Onomusa Kakhulu, Onesihawu

Ngibe nomcimbi womshado ngoJuni 2008. Inkumbulo yami yosuku lomshado ngokwalo, njengabamakoti abaningi bengingacabanga, ukuthi yaphela ngokushesha okukhulu. Ukubingelela izihambeli, ngilalele khutbah, ukukhama izipuni ezimbalwa zokudla, futhi lokho kuhle kakhulu! Ukwakhiwa kuze kube 'osukwini olukhulu' nokho, igcinwe enkumbulweni yami, kwakuhlanganisa ukuhlela, ukuhlela, nokuhlela okwengeziwe, kuhambisana nokukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka kanye nengcindezi yokujabulisa wonke umuntu. Ngenkathi wonke umuntu enethemba, futhi uhlela okungenani umshado owodwa ezimpilweni zabo, bangaki kithi abafuna ngempela ukujabulisa uMdali wethu, UNkulunkulu, futhi ngempela sisebenzise leli thuba ukumema endleleni yokuzithoba kanye nokuzinikela eNkosini yethu?

Umprofethi Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wassallam uthe : “Abakhona kufanele badlulise (umlayezo wami) kulabo abangekho”. [Al-Bukhaariy]

Khumbula! I-Da’wah inemivuzo emikhulu. Umprofethi u-sallallahu alaihi wassallam wathi: “Whoever guided someone towards good, bayothola umvuzo walowo owenza okuthile ngakho.” [Muslim]

Kungenzeka ukuthi akuzange kungene ezingqondweni zethu, kodwa umshado empeleni uyithuba elihle kakhulu le-da'wah. Akukhona nje ukuthi uhlu lwezimenywa emakhulwini, kodwa ngokuvamile yakhiwa abantu abahlukahlukene okuhlanganisa izigaba zabangewona amaSulumane kanye namaSulumane angaqaphile.. Ngenkathi sihlela ukusebenzisa lo mkhuba obaluleke kakhulu woMprofethi uMuhammad (ukuthula kube kuye) yokushada, singashaya izinyoni ezimbili ngetshe elilodwa futhi sisakaze izimfundiso zamaSulumane ngesibonelo nangamazwi ethu, futhi ngalokho zuza injabulo kanye nomvuzo kaAllah (swt). Okulandelayo iqoqo lemibono embalwa yokuthi le nhloso enhle ingaqalwa kanjani; uma usushadile, Ngincoma ukuthi ufunde futhi wabelane ngale mibono nanoma yimuphi umkhwenyana ozoba umakoti noma umkhwenyana ojwayelene naye, noma ukucosha nokuxuba emibonweni efanele ukuze usebenze cishe kunoma yimuphi umcimbi!

1. Hlela ngokweQur'an kanye neSunnah

Lokhu cishe kuyisici esisodwa esibaluleke kakhulu ekunqumeni, hhayi kuphela izibusiso zomshado ngokwawo, kodwa amandla ayo e-da'wah. Lapho izimfundiso zamaSulumane zilandelwa kakhulu ephathini yomshado, ukugwema ukuthanda ukusebenzisa imali ngokweqile, ukukhonza utshwala, kanye nokuxutshwa kobulili ngokukhululeka, kulapho injabulo kaAllah izotholwa kuAllah, futhi okubusiswa kakhulu kuyoqala ukuhlangana kwendoda nomfazi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngenxa yokubonakala kwehle imishado ehlelelwe ngokuphelele ngokweshare’ah nezimfundiso zoMprofethi uMuhammad (wabona), lapho iqembu lakho lingase libe elingavamile, ukunaka okwengeziwe kanye nozungu okukhiqizwa ohlangothini lwezivakashi, kanye neminye imibuzo eyaphakanyiswayo. Ubulula nobuhle be-Islam buhlale budonsela abantu enkolweni; kuyangidabukisa ukuthi abaningi bethu, nami ngifakiwe, silahlekelwe ukuxhumana nalo qobo lwenkolo yethu.

2. Mema izihambeli ezingewona amaMuslim futhi uhlele kusengaphambili izihlalo

Noma ngabe ozakwenu basemsebenzini, omakhelwane noma omunye umuntu engimaziyo, zama ukufaka nabangewona amaSulumane ohlwini lwakho lwezivakashi. Kungase futhi kube umqondo omuhle ukunquma kusengaphambili indawo yokuhlala emcimbini wakho, ukuze abangewona amaSulumane bangahlukanisiwe futhi benziwe bazizwe beyingxenye yomkhosi. Uma behlezi eduze kwamaSulumane anolwazi, khona-ke lokhu kuzobanikeza ithuba elengeziwe lokubuza imibuzo futhi bazibandakanye nemikhuba abangayijwayele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma la maSulumane ayetshelwe ngaphambi komcimbi ukuthi azohlala eduze kwabantu abangewona amaSulumane futhi kwenziwa isicelo sokuba akhulume nabavakashi., khona-ke lokhu kungase kusebenze nakakhulu. Empeleni ngakho, kuye ngokujula kwakho kokuhlela, abangewona amaSulumane kungenziwa bazizwe bengamukelekile nje, kodwa angashiya iphathi yomshado enokuqonda okusha ngenkolelo nemikhuba yamaSulumane.

3. Ukuhlobisa kwetafula lamaSulumane

Ngenkathi ukuhlobisa kwetafula lomshado kufeza inhloso yokuhlobisa indawo, singakwazi futhi ukulungisa izingcezu ezithile noma sihlanganise lokho okuzuzisa kakhulu izivakashi. Ngokwesibonelo, okwedili lami lomshado, Ngalungisa amakhadi amancane endawo yetafula, ebhalwe ngesandla ngemigqa ekhethiwe ye-hadith kanye, uma inkumbulo yami ingikhonza, ngisho namavesi athile eKur’an eNgcwele. Abambalwa babekwe kuwo wonke amatafula futhi izivakashi azizange zithole ithuba lokufunda lokhu ngesikhathi somshado ngokwawo, kodwa babebasusa. Lena indlela elula yokwenza, engabizi futhi ngethemba ukuthi ishiya umbono ohlala njalo – lapho izihambeli zithathe khona futhi zabonisa amakhadi ekhaya.

Ukusebenzisa umcabango wakho, Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ungaqhamuka nezinye izindlela eziningi zokusebenzisa ukuhlobisa kwetafula njengethuluzi le-da'wah!

4. Intshumayelo yamaSulumane

Kafushane, kodwa isikhumbuzi se-Islamic esihlelwe kahle nesilethiwe sisebenza njengendlela eqondile ye-da'wah eqondile. Nginomuzwa wokuthi kubalulekile ukukhetha isikhulumi esihle futhi uhlele kusengaphambili izihloko okuzoxoxwa ngazo, njengoba lokhu kuzovumela ukuqondisa okuqondile okwengeziwe komlayezo futhi kusebenze ukuthwebula izethameli. Ngeshwa, isikhathi esiningi bengiphoxeka ngezinga lenkulumo nesikhulumi, ngakho-ke ukugcizelela kwami ​​​​leliphuzu.

Izihloko okuzoxoxwa ngazo zingasukela ezinjongweni ezivamile zomshado, ngezizathu zenkolo ngemuva kwesakhiwo sephathi yomshado i.e. ukwehlukana kobulili, ukungabi khona kotshwala njll. ngomzamo wokuphendula eminye yemibuzo ngokungangabazeki ephakanyiswe ezingqondweni zezivakashi. Ngokufanelekile umlayezo ovelayo ohlanganisa inkulumo kuyoba ukukholelwa kwethu kokuthi One, UNkulunkulu owazi konke nohlakaniphe kakhulu, ngoba Sibuthene injabulo kabani ukwenza umcimbi womshado, futhi ekulaleleni Kwakhe sigwema okungemthetho isib. ubuhlobo obuseduze ngaphandle komshado, ukuxutshwa kobulili mahhala, ukuphuza utshwala njll. Kufanele kwenziwe umehluko ocacile phakathi kwemikhuba yamasiko nenkolo, ukuze kufezeke ngempumelelo inhloso ye-da’wah.

5. Umkhuleko

Umthandazo ubalulekile empilweni yeMuslim, futhi njengazo zonke izinsuku zethu, kufanele sizame ukuhlela iphathi yethu yomshado ngezikhathi zomkhuleko, ukuqaphela ukuthi ungabi budedengu kulokhu. InsAllah ukubaluleka esinakho emthandazweni ngosuku lomshado ngokwalo kuzovuzwa ngokufanelekile ngezibusiso ezengeziwe empilweni yethu yomshado sindawonye..

Uma likhona ithuba lokukhuleka ebandleni elikhulu, lokhu nakho kungaba yinzuzo enkulu, kanye ne-da'wah enhle kakhulu. Uma umcimbi womshado ubanjelwa emasjid, noma kukhona imasjid eduze, ngakho-ke imithandazo yebandla ingenziwa ngendlela engcono kakhulu, ngomvuzo omkhulu (okwamadoda). Esimweni esinjalo, abangewona amaSulumane bangenziwa futhi ukuba bafakaze ebandleni, ngokumenywa ukuzobukela imikhuleko.

Abesifazane nabo bangabamba ibandla phakathi kwabo, ukuze bathole ubuhle nomvuzo wokukhuleka ebandleni. Izinombolo ezinkulu nokubaluleka okuhambisana nomthandazo, isib. ngokuhlinzekwa kwendawo yokukhuleka ethile (ngenxa yazo zonke izihambeli zabesifazane), mkhulu umthelela we-da’wah ku-Allah; sithemba ukuthi lokhu kuzophinde kube isikhuthazo kumaSulumane angaqaphile ukuthi afeze isibopho sawo.

Njengazo zonke izenzo, kumele sikhumbule ukuthi umthandazo wethu ungowokuthokozisa u-Allah (swt), futhi kumelwe kucace ukuhlukanisa enhlosweni yethu noma yiziphi izinzuzo ezitholakala ngokuphathelene ne-da’wah nanoma yini enye njengengesona isizathu somthandazo wethu., kodwa sithemba kuphela ngomusa kaAllah (swt) ukuthi izenzo zethu zizosebenza njengesikhumbuzo nesibonelo esihle kuso sonke isintu.

6. Nciphisa ukumosha ukudla

Ukubaluleka kokumoshwa kokudla ngokwenkolo yamaSulumane kwaziwa kakhulu. bekade ngi, Nokho ngimangele muva nje lapho intokazi eyiMuslim ekhona emshadweni wabafowethu, ephawula ngezinyembezi: “lona umshado wokuqala wamaSulumane engake ngaba kuwo lapho ukudla kungazange kumoshwe khona”. Lokhu kuphawulwe kuqoqwa ukudla okungadliwanga etafuleni elilodwa, njengoba sasizama ukunquma ukuthi senzeni ngakho konke. Kwakungakaze kwenzeke kimi ngaphambi kwalesi sikhathi, ukuthi nalesi sici esibonakala sisincane sephathi yomshado singaba yindlela ye-da’wah, njengoba silwela ukusabalalisa iseluleko esihle ngezenzo zethu.

Ngakho, kungaba wusizo uma labo abazoba umakoti nomkhwenyana bengenza amalungiselelo angaphambili mayelana nokulethwa kokudla okusele emithonjeni efanele yezidingo e.g.. abangani/umndeni, izindawo zokukhosela ezingenamakhaya noma ezinye ngisho nasezindlini zezilwane (izingcezu zokudla ezingadliwa umuntu ngendlela efanele).

7. Izipho/izipho zamaSulumane

Kuyisiko emishadweni eminingi, njengophawu lokubonga, ukunikeza izivakashi umusa omncane noma isipho ekupheleni komkhosi. Lokhu kuvamise ukuba yinto edliwayo, ifakwe emaphaketheni amahle anomlayezo oyisikhumbuzo. Angikaze ngikubone lokhu kusetshenziswa kakhulu kodwa, ngendlela yemiyalezo yamaSulumane noma izipho zamaSulumane. Ngokwesibonelo, kungani ungafaki i-ayat ehunyushiwe evela ku-Qur'an noma amavesi e-hadith (kancane njengamakhadi wendawo yetafula?) izivakashi ezingamuka nazo? Noma ungakwazi ukukukhokhela, Ama-Qur'an ahunyushwe ngosayizi wephakethe noma izincwajana zamaSulumane ezichaza ngomshado wamaSulumane noma esinye isihloko esifanele. Ezinye zalezi zingatholakala ngokushibhile kakhulu, noma ngaphandle kwenkokhiso, ezinhlanganweni ze-da'wah noma ungazama izitolo zezincwadi zamaSulumane.

Ekuphetheni, ngokuhlela okuncane okungeziwe, kungenzeka ukwenza isipiliyoni sakho somshado sibe esihle futhi sifundise izivakashi zakho, kanye nokwandisa kakhulu inzuzo yomuntu siqu kanye nomvuzo otholakala ekubizeni kuAllah (swt). Ngisho noma eyodwa nje, noma imibono embalwa eyandulele isetshenziswe, umthelela, njengoba kuxoxiwe ngakho, kungaba kuhle kakhulu. Ngibheke ngabomvu imibono yenu, kanye nanoma yimiphi eminye imibono ongayicabanga!

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